I say yes, you say no, OR People are Strange
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Kayfl: We do funny things out of fear. Saw it with my mother when she tried to get my sister to do alternative treatment. My sister had lymphoma, and then a recurrence. On the recurrence, my mother flipped out - tried to get her to do herbs, cottage cheese and flax seed - did not want her doing chemo. She was absolultely hysterical about chemo killing my sister, wouldn't listen to anyone, called everyone in family trying to get support for her position that Jan should go to some alternative clinic in Texas. Fortunately, my sister didn't listen to her. My sister flew to Stanford and got a stem cell transplant and is now 11 or 12 years out, doing reasonably well. (We don't get along, but I'm glad she's doing well.)
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I celebrate today because insured women in the United States as of today no longer pay co-pays for certain routine screening tests -- some of them expensive tests. Mammograms, colonoscopies and pap smears are among the tests for which insured women no longer have to pay co-pays. I am delighted that a benefit like this -- that has been part of plans in the Federal Employees Health Benefits Program for some years now -- has been extended to the general insured population. For years, Members of Congress and their families have enjoyed this benefit -- now all insured people will. I hope we can increase the proportion of insured as well. Not political, just celebrating that now more women will be able to be screened.

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HappyLibby, this is definitely cause for celebration!
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I'll drink (virtually) to THAT Happy Libby!
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Me, too - coffee, though.
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Thanks for the dental well wishes everybody! I do seem to have an amazing new dentist. He called last night, while we were out eating Chinese food : ), to see how I was doing. Even left his cell phone number and told me I could call him if I had any probems! But I'm not. In fact I would never know today that I had a cap put on yesterday! I think this guy is a keeper!
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yorkiemon glad the dental experience went well.
Will agree Happy Libby good reason for a celebration! Lifting my coffee mug.
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Yorkie - that is great news!! Imagine a doctor/dentist giving you his private cell number - doesn't happen very often.
The only private cell phone number I have gotten is from my vet. Normally he calls everyone "blocked" but with me he calls direct. I love this guy!
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I called the anesthesiologist (sp?) about my dental work and told him that I am hard to put under. I had a colonoscopy 2 years ago and was wide awake during the entire procedure. Believe me if I could have sued the guy I would have for putting me through that.
2 years ago I had 5 shots of dilaudid (IM) as they couldn't get a vein at the ER - was stone cold sober - should have been looped out.
So hopefully he will give me some good drugs since I have given him the heads up!
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Last time at the dentist getting crown I had taken some OxyContin because of recent back procedure. She injected the novavcaine. Within minutes I was in a very happy place. High as a kite.
She asked me "Where did you go?". I said I didn't know but I had not a care in the world.
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I, too, am glad that for insured people certain tests have no copays.
It wouldn't have happened under a republican government.
It's the right thing to do, as it will affect us all.
This is both a political and a personal statement and I make no apologies for either.
The problem here was never that we discussed politics - it was that bullies who held different ideological views surreptitiously reported us. Let's not confuse a bad topic/topics with a bad person/people.
We all know who to put on ignore, she now knows that BCO rules ask her to use the ignore button . This thread is easy to miss - people just have to keep it off their favorites.
Lionesses do not react well when they so much as think they smell a whiff of attempts at intimidation, so forgive my note of defiance.
Go Obamacare! My health and life may be positively affected because of it.
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Hear, hear! Roar away, lioness!
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Athena, you go girl!!
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Good Morning Friends!
I've been out mowing and now I'm hot and sweaty ... just taking a little break to cool off.
Chickadee .. I want your experience at the dentist. Being high is the only way to get through it.
Yorkiemom .. Glad all went well for you yesterday ... sure wish I had your dentist. My gum is still giving me trouble and it's been three weeks. Think I need some of Chickadee's Oxy so I can sail away and not feel it!
Athena .. If it wasn't for Bill Clinton signing into law the Breast and Cervical Cancer Screening Program, I'd probably be dead now. We need more programs just like that one. I don't care that he made a mistake ... he's my hero.
I don't think I have anyone on ignore anymore. I usually just stay in this thread these days and don't venture too far from "home." The ignore feature was very helpful a couple of years ago when we had all those political debates.
Hope everyone is enjoying their day,
Bren
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Scoot...I too appreciate the talent of horse and rider in dressage. Very difficult discipline. Thought you would be interested in watching The Colbert Report this week. He is doing segments about dressage. Last night he came in to meet the US coach dressed like a cowboy. Tonight he actually has a lesson with the horse. Should be fun.
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Dressage is where rider and horse are one? When the horse responds to a small movement by rider ? Let me know if I'm confusing it with another talent.
I think horses and long horned steers are MAGNIFICENT beasts.
I've always been in awe of the youngsters who work so diligently to become one with their horse. It is beautiful to see. -
In what alternate universe is it applauded to refer to fellow members on a breast cancer support site as "a bad person/people"? You don't have to agree with anyone's politics, or viewpoints, but the basic is that this is supposed to be a support site.
It is a public site, not invitation only, and it is tax exempt, which means that the moderators and those who run the site are bound by legal rules.
Speculating about who if anyone is reporting posts is a good way to get yourself banned, especially when you get it wrong. Perhaps that is the poster's intention since there is such blind support for the 'victims of banning' on this thread.
If you need some support and encouragement, say so. Your pals will jump in, I am sure of it, even those who disagree with you wish you well. We may not agree on many topics, but anyone who is on this site deserves all of our full support and encouragement.
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Yes, horse and rider move as one. The rider's cues are hard to see unless you know what to look for. A beautiful balance of horse and rider. Those who think that the rider is not doing any work, has no idea the leg muscles that are needed to control a 1,000 lb animal whose main survival tactic is to flee at the slightest provocation.
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Hi, Pip! Nice to see you here! We don't see you nearly often enough!

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I've seen dressage. It's quite impressive and takes incredible patience and perseverance.
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I never heard of "dressage" before this presidential campaign. When is the contest, or has it already happened? I am so non-sportsy. I actually can't wait until the Olympics are over so I can see my morning MSNBC programs again.
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Patmom, I'm in a bitchy mood today because I'm in a lot of pain, but it seems to me that you have NEVER come to this thread to support anyone but are quite savvy about everything we discuss. I would ask that you keep your opinions to yourself as you seem to be the only one who wants to cause strife here. Why do you care what we talk about? No one else does. AND I don't think Athena referred to anyone specific in her post. Please stop creating conflict. You have a whole website where you can call us anything you want, free of any common decency censoring.
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Sorry gals, I couldn't let that one pass, but let's leave it at that. Let me be the next one banned.
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I'm not certain, but I think women on their employer's insurance plan no longer have to pay co-pays for their birth control as of today. I'm not sure if that's all BC, just generic OCPs, or what. I need to find this out. Too bad it's not that way for ALL insurance plans. The people on high-deductible plans not gotten through work seem to be the folks who may need this benefit the most.
Dressage amazes me. The communication between horse and rider, just a tension in the hands, the knees--it's stunning. Like the horse is reading the rider's mind. Such beautiful creatures...
Now, on to the cycling time trials, and pulling for local Taylor Phinney, whose parents were both Olympians, and whose dad has Parkinson's and is an inspiration to our whole town.
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YAY for PLWP (People Living With Parkinson's)!
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Blue, you said nothing bannable, and I'm sorry you are in pain.
Edited because the mods deleted what I was basing this post on.
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Dressage is incredibly difficult. It depends on subtle movement of your legs, shifting of your weight. When I look lessons, I was taught to look where i wanted to go, and the horse could feel the shift in my postion and would turn in that direction. They are amazing and beautiful creatures. I was never very good at it, but I did love riding and horses. I've kept promising myself that someday I'll have the chance to ride again, but I've become a lot more afraid of injury than I was when I was younger.
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Hi everyone. I was checking in to see if you were behaving yourselves and couldn't resist the 'horsey' talk. The sexiest animal on earth.
As I see, nothing has changed, has it? Not too bad though considering it is an election year.
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When I was a kid, I was bullied pretty mercilessly. I was tall, awkward, and a teacher's pet. The couple of times I struck back at the bullies, guess who got punished.
Bullies and provocateurs want to get a reaction. It's what they live for. The best revenge is to deny them the attention they so desperately crave.
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Blue, sorry you're in pain today.
I have a peace lily that was given to me when my dad died last year. It has been doing really well, but over the last few weeks it seems to be dying. The edges of the leaves brown, and then it moves up the leaves. Any idea whats wrong with it, and what I should to. I would hate to lose this plant because of the memories.
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