I say yes, you say no, OR People are Strange
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mmm...
We were just at The Tides Inn Chesapeake, VA and had some "Lancaster Lemonade"...
vodka, limoncello, ginger ale and lemon juice.
YUM!
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Our chaplain/bartender is wise. Good information and tossing around ideas is worthwhile but you cannot make people care. It is what it is and time is best spent elsewhere. This is an excellent elsewhere ... you all restore my faith in humanity. And the drinks are good too

Way past my bedtime but I'll leave the nightlight on in case our west coasters come along.
Edited so the grammar police don't get after me ... you know who you are
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Hi Ang7 ... didn't see you there while I was typing. The drink sounds good.
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Yummmm - Lemoncello! Reminds me of my life in Italy.
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Helps me pretend that I am in Italy...
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Sunflowers, there was an association like that in NYS as well. However, the insurance they had available was only catastrophic.
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YEAH, a thread for pinko-commies like me!!! Blue - thanks for inviting me over. I've so enjoyed so many of you ladies' posts on SCOTUS, but I just can't stand it anymore. One more explanation of why people without insurance don't die for lack of care, and my head was going to explode.
I've only read two pages or so of this thread, but I think I'm home.
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Welcome, welcome! This is our "Hole in the Wall" (Cat Ballou) and safe.
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That is not the only thread that makes my brain hurt. I'd bette go find something else to do and get away from bco, at least for a few hours.
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I'm glad to see you here, Alexandria! There is just no reasoning with heartless, soulless people who say, 'I don't want people to die, BUT ..." There is no "BUT."
You know, ladies, I was watching a news segment about Denise Rich renouncing her U.S. citizenship for tax purposes and something occurred to me -- just how much money can one person spend? I mean -- REALLY? How many houses do you need? How many jets? How much jewelry? What does a CEO who makes $10 million dollars/year actually DO with that? And what does s/he DO that is so special as to be worth $10 million? I'm not against people making a lot of money (I don't make much but we've saved and invested well), but what is the point of having money you cannot possibly spend on another house, car, diamond bracelet, yacht, etc.
And if you have millions and billions of dollars that you can't spend, will you even miss the taxes you pay? We don't have millions and we pay a lot in taxes because we aren't rich enough to have fancy tax lawyers and tax dodges. I don't mind writing the check at the end of the year because I think of all the things I buy with that money -- roads and air traffic controllers (I keep mentioning them because I am afraid to fly!) and clean food, water and medicine and cops and firefighters and street lights and all the other things that make life -- and commerce -- easier and safer.
The fallacies about "Well, if you want to pay more in taxes, just write a check" don't fly either. If you want to use the roads and water and air traffic controllers and all the benefits that they bring (including easier and safer and cheaper commerce), then you should pay for them too -- or you are a freeloader. Seems there are a lot of freeloaders, and they aren't the people who make so little as to pay little or no Federal income tax -- because they pay plenty in state, local, sales and excise taxes, as well as payroll taxes.
Just ruminating.
L
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I agree. What is there that she wants to buy with those extra tax dollars that she doesn't already own? Maybe a soul?
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AHAHAHAHA! Yes, that must be it!
And this just in from the WaPo - http://www.washingtonpost.com/business/economy/in-2009-americans-paid-lowest-tax-rates-in-30-years-to-federal-government/2012/07/10/gJQAWc5bbW_story.html?hpid=z5
So we should be absolutely drowning in jobs, no?
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This is fun, but time to do some work. See everyone later.
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Welcome, Alexandria - and I love your name - very feminine and pretty.
There's no point in having a discussion with people who just don't get it morally. We pinko commies here are values, voters, wouldn't you know? We actually believe healthcare is a human right. So while other so-called values voters seek to insert foreign objects into our vaginas, we seek to tend to the sick. Each to his own.

Oh, forgive me, but I can think of many ways to totally spend $10 million in a heartbeat. Lionesses are not known for their frugality, you know! Seriously - one thing I would purchase would be a group of experts to study lion populations in Africa so that they can be listed under appendix II and receive more protection than they currently do. I'd also fund repatriation efforts to get lions and other big cats out of small zoos and set up settlements for them in Africa. Their offspring could be assisted in forming prides. This has been done before.
Lions should only be visible in the wild and on television.
But I would buy plenty of shoes, too. :-)
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Yes, Athena, you're spending $10 million to do good. Not sure everyone with a spare $10 million does that. Buffett & Gates, yes ... but not sure about others. I can't think of a way to spend $10 million on myself or my family (it's a small family), but I can surely think of multiple ways to spend $10 million on making the world a better place.
I'm kind of over shoes, since I am moving toward retirement. I have a favorite pair of Crocs and some tennis shoes.
Now books ....

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I wouldn't spend 10 mil, but I would invest it for future generations, do philanthropic things etc. No problemo.
By the way, I am not actually a pinko commie, pretty conservative at heart. I just think it is silly to think that we live in some sort of libertarian-anarchistic utopia (and I wouldn't want to anyway) The Greek word for "private" is "idiot." In other words, he who does not participate in securing the common weal.
Also, quite apart from the humanitarian aspect of ensuring health care access for all, there is a purely practical and perfectly capitalistic benefit to many do-gooder initiatives. The current system has become unwieldy for business and for entrepeneurs. The current set-up also puts small business at a serious disadvantage in many ways, not a good thing if you are trying to get the economy humming again. Finally, you lose work hours when people do not have good health care, and the cost of care goes up, because people tend to be sicker once they are forced to seek care. I mean, there is a REASON why the first mandate was put in place by a Republican, you know? -
Unfortunately, I can think of a way to spend a fair amount of that money...with two kids headed to college in 6 and 9 years. But we don't have it. I am Jeffersonian at heart. I believe that you cannot have a democracy without an educated public. I believe that we have to reinvigorate public education...not as a job training endevour, but to create an educated responsible citizenry. We don't even pretend to do that...when was the last time anyone was in a civics class? If we don't, then corporate america can just walk right on through the door with its own oligarchy at hand. But, ever the optimist, I am not willing to say that it is already too late...
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Speaking of civics, our local publically-funded tv station (TVOntario) has a public affairs show every night. Last night's guest was Sandra Day O'Connor, who talked about the program she and others have set up, teaching civics to middle schoolers. I'll see if I can find the transcript.Alexandria -- Welcome to our free-for-all here! I so enjoyed reading your posts "over there". Those of us who live in countries that consider healthcare a right, not a privilege, have as much difficulty understanding the thought processes of the other side as you do.Have just been reading about the forecast for the London Olympics. They've had several weeks of rain, rain, rain, and it's predicted to continue til the middle of August. There go the sailing and equestrian events.....
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Scoot should still be ok to bring home the medal, though...
It's funny because I'm sure everyone on this thread believes in private enterprise and freedom from harassment by government. But some people don't understand that things come with two sides. There must be freedom but with accountability. There can be privilege, but with responsibility. And you don't get something for nothing. In order for everyone to be more or less free, you can't have one or two or a few people running roughshod. In a truly free health insurance market, everyone has to be able to participate participate. When 50 million Americans are priced out of that market, there is not freedom - only oppression, destitution, and a dereliction of responsibility by a society which allows such a thing to happen.
We broke our promise to ourselves when we allowed slavery to continue after the birth of the republic. That promise of life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness continues to be unfulfilled when millions upon millions don't have simple access to a doctor.
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The most emailed article in today's New York Times is:
http://www.nytimes.com/2012/07/10/opinion/brooks-the-opportunity-gap.html?src=me&ref=general
I read so many of you here, and I can hear my own voice. It's comforting, but I really, really worry about the future of the USA.
On a brighter note, Melinda Gates is making wonderful "waves" in London, and they have, with Buffett, created an organization, besides their own foundation, to encourage philanthropy. Can't remember website, will find & post.
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Good article ... but the comments are even better.
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ooohh....thanks..I never think to read the comments - going to do that now! You are all so great!!!!!!!!!
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CLC - I also believe strongly in a well-educated populace. My hubby and I were discussing this very thing yesterday evening. I've come to the conclusion (having been raised by a fundamentalist mother) that the religious right is averse to education of their (and of course by extension, everyone's) children. The better educated you are the more improved your critical thinking skills. Things go rapidly down-hill for fundamentalists with a well educated "congregation".
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Fundamentalism (in any religion) is not conduceive to intellectual curiosity for the most part. There is a reason why civilized religions with long-term success have usually found a way to encourage or at least tolerate solid education.
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Well, I just ran across this and since it comes from FOX news, I'll post it on the other thread as well. (It also appeared in scientific publications.) It explains why the conservatives on the other thread are always posting scary hypotheticals even after being presented with the facts. They can't help it, it is how their brains work. The question before us is are we born with the brains we have or are we trained to think the way we do?
Having studied the ancient neuroscience called Buddhism for many years IMHO, although we are all born with certain mental traits, training has a lot of influence in how the brain works. FOX news and conservative talk radio are training conservative minds with more and more exaggerated fear scenarios thereby reinforcing conservative tendencies. I am surprised that this article actually appeared on FOX. It must have been a slow news day.
http://www.foxnews.com/scitech/2011/04/08/brain-scans-lean-left-right/
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The better educated you are the more improved your critical thinking skills.
Like, like, like CLC's words.
Will add, I think that "critical thinking" is considered dangerous by most with "fundamentalist" positions on all sides of the political spectrum. Really am amazed at how strident the "conversation" is on all sides of this political spectrum. Our whole system of government, as I understood it, was based on constructive compromise. The "labels" that are flying, or used as 'hooks' in the media are stomach churning...really no place to turn, that I know of, for what we used to call "news."
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From the Washington Post, speaking of critical thinking skills (my mind is boggling):Posted at 06:00 AM ET, 07/09/2012Texas GOP rejects ‘critical thinking’ skills. Really.By Valerie StraussIn the you-can’t-make-up-this-stuff department, here’s what the Republican Party of Texas wrote into its 2012 platform as part of the section on education: Knowledge-Based Education – We oppose the teaching of Higher Order Thinking Skills (HOTS) (values clarification), critical thinking skills and similar programs that are simply a relabeling of Outcome-Based Education (OBE) (mastery learning) which focus on behavior modification and have the purpose of challenging the student’s fixed beliefs and undermining parental authority. Yes, you read that right. The party opposes the teaching of “higher order thinking skills” because it believes the purpose is to challenge a student’s “fixed beliefs” and undermine “parental authority.”It opposes, among other things, early childhood education, sex education, and multicultural education, but supports “school subjects with emphasis on the Judeo-Christian principles upon which America was founded.”
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Geez - and I hadn't even read that.
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Sounds like something Dave Barry would write - and he'd have to preface it with: "I am not making this up."
Are we REALLY SCARED yet?????
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There are reasons that right wing conservatives are so strongly fixated on both home schooling and charter schools. I've often considered how different my life would have been if home schooling had been as easily done when I was young. My mother would have been all over it.
Yes, we are REALLY SCARED!!! I hope the pendulum doesn't need to swing too much further in this direction before it reverses it's course. In fact, I'd like to believe that it's already starting it's move in the opposite direction.

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