I say yes, you say no, OR People are Strange
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Mods , here is my story. I alternate between 2 pc desktops with internet explorer. I see nice calm hues that are easy on the eyes. Text coumn much too short. I like the font.
I have an android smartphone - mobile experience is an improvement, definitely.HOWEVER: One annoying part about ther mobile version is that you have to keep pressing on "Menu" in order to get the drop-down list of topics. Could the menu just stayed dropper down?
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Mods - My work one does seem to be a higher resolution
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But - the only small font is the posting box at the bottom - everything else looks the same as home.
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Ok - this is interesting. I just kept enlarging the font on the site by pressing CTRL + several times. If the font is large enough, the text all of a sudden spreads across the page instead of to just the right side. At least on Windows PC, IExplorer. The menu items on the left disappear, and you just get a "menu" button on the top right-hand side, which you must press in order for expanded options to appear.
Pleas, Mods, don't even give people the option of writing their first and last name in their profile! It's not socially responsible. What if they are naive, fill everything out, don't password-protect their mobile, have chemobrain, lose the phone....then what? What is so absolutely compellingly indispensable about having to have you name and birth date and e-mail addy? A lot of women are very trusting will just fill everything out.....as well as their treatments....ad what if they make a mistake and choose "public"....and then get stalked. Lots of that here, as well as lots of naivete about these things.
Again, this isn't FB. Nor is it an app. I could understand your having these features in a cancer app - but that's a bit different, IMO.
Very concerned....tail is curling inward.
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Thanks, Athena. But it cuts things out when you enlarge the font.
Otter, here are my screen grabs of the navigation tabs and the empty space on the left.


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I ave to say it's better on my iPad.
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Riley, thanks! The trouble I've been having is with Firefox, so earlier this afternoon I logged on with Safari. Voila! Everything looked like it should, with nav bars and the gray column and drop-down menu -- just like your screen shots. Oddly, it's a very old version of Safari that came with this Mac laptop and has never been updated... yet, it works better for the Boards than my more recent version of Firefox.
Athena, after you said you saw the nav bars disappear when you increased the font size with CTRL+, I tried the opposite. I clicked CTRL- a whole bunch of times, thinking maybe I could get the nav bars to appear (much like the Mods said to try resetting or decreasing the zoom). Nada. The print got smaller and smaller and finally reached a maximum smallness, but no nav bars showed up.
I'm getting neutral about it all. I figure if I'd just landed here today, I wouldn't have known there were changes unless I stumbled across the threads in the "Comments" forum. But, as a newbie, it's not likely I would be wandering around in that part of the Boards.
MIL was supposed to be getting out of the hospital and going home today. The plan seems to be to have her home aides stay with her full-time for awhile, until we know how much she can manage on her own. It's looking like she probably won't be able to stay in an independent living facility by herself anymore, but we won't know for sure until she tries (with lots of oversight).
I hope everyone is having a nice evening (or morning).
otter
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OK, I can't remember how to access the archived recommended articles to delete them. Having opted out of receiving them, when I go to My Profile, there is no longer a link to the recommended articles, or the archive. I read somewhere that you could permanently delete everything you archived, but I can't find the archive to delete them!
I know it's not a big thing, but I'd like to clear them out permanently.
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Riley - they've removed that feature but not until after I archived all 44 of them
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Hi Everyone!
Since I don't have my diagnosis set on 'public' I haven't received any articles. Yay! I would hate to have to deal with that.
It's been a cool sunny day here. I don't think the temps even got up to 70 degrees today. Athena must be loving this weather! I wish it would warm up.
I took my mom back to Winston-Salem this morning. She's been visiting for the past 1 1/2 weeks. We've had so much fun, and our trip to the beach was a blast. It's kind've quiet now with all the hoopla gone. Tim is in St. Louis and won't be back until late Sunday.
I wanted to wish Anne a happy birthday! Hope she's having a wonderful day.
hugs,
Bren
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Bren, I think that's why I've not received any articles and am glad of it. I couldn't figure out why everyone but me was getting articles. Not complaining about that though.
What does that red box by Favourites indicate? It's driving me nuts. I've been deleting favourites (a very slow process) and the number hardly goes down.
I do not like all this scrolling. I used to see so many posts on my screen and now........just a few at a time.
Sorry to vent here. Lol, it's the first one that came up in my favourites.

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Somebody on one of the threads (can't recall which one) cleverly pointed out that even if just one posting, maybe an old one, in one of your old favourites hasn't been read, then it counts in the number of favourites that show up in your red number. I had one extra and went through some of my favourites. Lo and behold the offending number disappeared! It's just a tidy up of our favourites that fixes the problem.
I don't have my diagnosis public and never did put my treatment on, and still got articles -- starting with the one about being obese. All article are gone and I set the settings not to send me anymore. If there is something I want to research, that's my job.
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Thanks Lassie, I just spent the last 20 minutes going through my favourites..............reading, deleting and the funny thing is, I had more favourites now since the changeover. SO, I've read and weeded and the number in the red box is finally low. To be honest................it drove me nuts. Or should I say nuttier.
I guess my brain doesn't like to have to work too much.
Hugs all. Oh and sorry if my post raised your number in the red box.

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YAY, I have no red box!!!!!!!
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Congrats Marple!!
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The red number indicates a post that you haven't read in your favorites, I believe.
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The articles thing was suspended due to a flood of complaints - yey!
Glad you had a nice visit Bren. -
Does anyone know how Blue is doing?
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Did anyone notice that car wreck of a thread on stage IV? Not posting to men? I've about had it with people coming to support forums announcing to all whom they will NOT support and speak to. That --not some supposed sexual impropriety-- is not just self-centered and rude, it is simply TMI!! "I'm just speaking my mind" excuses are unacceptable in such instances, IMO.
Athena, who is NOT "just saying' "

Otherwise, nice day.

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Athena - I bit my lip so hard that my lip was bleeding. I didn't dare respond in a stage IV area but dang......this issue could have been handled so much better without being so discriminatory in a sense and I am trying to be nice.
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Guess what girls - Busker Tim was finally back today after a long absence - ever since the Occupy people were camped in the square. Boy did I have an enjoyable lunch hour reading and listening to live music. He didn't have his mouth organ with him so he couldn't play my favourite Neil Young songs - he's better have it next week

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Athena - my poor little pooch heard some very bad language after I was on that thread - oh how I hate not to be able to respond - hope it didn't hurt too many people's feelings - it was unnecessary.
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I agree Sandy. Why announce your intention not to respond to a man posting, unless it is to hurt someone. Why just -- NOT RESPOND! Block the posts from men. Don't talk about anything you don't want in public because -- GUESS WHAT?!?!!! -- these are public fora and all kinds of men can come here and read whatever they want. Hugs those who were hurt by that... I value the contributions of the men who post on these boards, and I hope that they find hope and help and comfort from what they read here.
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Sorry for the bold but anything else gives me a headache.
As for that thread, I must have a very nice and secure husband. He trusts me to have sense online.
Today was my friend's funeral. Very sad
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((((((((Rosemary)))))))
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Just had to go BACK to find rosemary's post cuz SO FEW POSTS APPEAR ON EACH PAGE - does anybody else HATE HATE HATE HATE the inconvenience of these NEW BOARDS as much as I do. What a WASTE. Too few posts on a page, have to keep scrolling back = just not worth the effort.
(((Rosemary)))) - so sorry. Hope in time you will be healed by the warm memories of your friendship.
I wanna DO HARM to the local medical labs - all their blood tests were WRONG! DAMN. Had me so f'king scared.
Vitamin D is a VERY VERY good 48. Had the tests done in Baaahstawn yesterday - and somebody has to teach those folks how to drive in the rain! AUughhhhhh...2 1/2 hour drive in took 4 hours. Still, I LOVE LOVE my docs, did blood work and had it within an hour.
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Sun - great news - sounds like some of the tests you had definitely weren't accurate. Bummer you've had to go through all that worry.
I agree - the font is way too big - too much blank space - driving me crazy and making me want to get off after a very short time.
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Spoke to Annie last night, they've got Nicholas out of the UV chamber and they will probably send them home today - she's lucky she got a week in the hospital. Now she's worrying about being home - she asked me what to do - I said feed it, bath it, change it
She still hasn't bathed him as he's been in treatment, so I said she should make sure they show her how before she goes home. She seems to have heaps of milk in contrast to when I had her (none to speak of), so that's good. He's gained weight too so that's even better. Still no more photos - SIL is useless. She did set up an email for him to send but it ain't here. I gave her a lecture about not pandering to him and to make him pull his weight. She's finding it a lot of work caring for the baby - wait until she gets home. -
Hi Everyone!
It was a beautiful day. I mowed a couple of the lower fields and they look so pretty.
Rosemary .. Sending hugs. I am so sorry about your friend.
Sunflowers .. I do not like the format here. Not enough posts per page and it's a pain in the ass doing all this scrolling.
Athena .. I read that Stage IV thread you were talking about. I met a wonderful man on BCO who was Stage IV. Turns out we lived in the same town and got to be long time friends. It was very comforting for his daughters when I attended his funeral. I also had lots of emails we had sent to each other that I forwarded to his girls. They enjoyed reading the words their dad had written.
The thread that's really irritating me is the Insurance thread in the Advocacy Forum. There is one in particular who posts about something she knows nothing about.
I got some really bad news the other day. My best friend who has been Stage IV since October got the results back of her scans. She's been on Faslodex for five months and it didn't work. Her bone mets increased in size and amount. She'll have to start a chemo treatment soon. My heart is breaking.
I hope everyone enjoyed their day,
Bren
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Sunflowers - I'm glad you got that all sorted out. Damned nuisance about the unneeded worry, though!
Bren, I've got just the right people on ignore on that insurance thread. It makes quite a nice read, because I can only see the reasonable posts - yey!
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