I say yes, you say no, OR People are Strange
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So sorry Rosemary (((hugs)))
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Rosemary, I'm so sorry!
Susie,conrats. on the new grand baby!
Happy weekend to all! So happy to have 2 days off!
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Rosemary-I'm so sorry to hear about your friend. The closer I get to 59(I'm 52) the younger it seems.
Susie-Congratulations on your new grandbaby.
As 3monstmama said-the full spectrum of life in one day. Pretty amazing.
Mary
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Oh Rosemary, this is so hard. Much love to you and peace to her family.
Susie, congrats on the new baby.
What 3M said ....
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Susie
Congratulations on the new baby.
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No, no, she will be twenty this summer and is in college. I very much doubt she will have any kids anytime soon. It just amused me that the idea doesn't give me a cold sweat anymore. My idea of "big drama" has changed because of cancer.
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Congratuations Susie!!!!
Re: that other thread - I wasn't offended for myself but for the many women who are regular posters on that forum --and I felt angry thinking about the many, many inompetent mental health workers out there who voice opinions with no scientific basis. Armchair diagnoses of any kind will make me crabby - as will medical advice delivered over the internet. I'm an egghead. It offends my sense of intellectual honesty.
Lionesses do not get easily offended because of our own persons - when we do, we simply rub heads with pridemates and cubs.
The conversation luckily proceeded well. The OPer graciously edited her OP.
I have an axis I disorder anyway....we people are supposed to be too crazy to carry on any conversation...
.it's the Axis II people who I think were more at issue.Bartender and Pastor, how about some buskers outside our door to attract more people on this Friday night- maybe a jazz band?
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Rosemary - I'm so sorry - I hope she is at peace. I'm 59 - scary.
No news on the size of the baby yet, no pics or anything - grandma getting p'd off. The SIL is quite hopeless, but you think he could at least send a photo by now. She has her phone off - I tried to call.
Thanks for the congrats girls - I'm getting used to idea now there's 2.
Momine - 20 is too young - hope she has a career first.
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How about a name?
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Nicholas Stephen - 6.99lbs and only about 20 inches long - he is definitely a bit premmie (36 weeks). The paediatrician says he's healthy which is the main thing.
Just got off the phone with her - I resorted to calling the hospital.
It's nice - she's totally in awe of him and can't believe she made him

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Aww Susieq~
That reminds me of when my sister had a baby and she called me and all she kept saying was "I am a mom! Me! Can you believe it?" It was so cute.
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Thinking of you Rosemary. It's so hard to lose a friend.
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Ang - I feel quite excited for her. Sounds like she did a good job through the labour - better than me - I screamed the place down when I was having her. Other mpothers sadi they were glad they had already had their babies because I would have put them off
The second kid was better - epidural - love it. -
Rosemary, so sorry to hear about your friend. May she rest in peace.
Susie, congrats on number 2.
The bar is open to celebrate the l ife of Rosemary's friend and the joy she brought to many and to celebrate the new life down under, Susie's grandson.
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Thankyou girls - you are all so special
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We will await a baby picture.....
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I rushed out bought boy baby clothes - will have to post them on Monday. She has stuff friends have given her but I wanted her to have some new things. We did pay for the modern cloth nappies to the tune of $475 for 24!!! Can't figure out what's wrong with the old fashioned towelling ones.
Just asked SIL for a photo and he's going 'we'll have to post one' and I'm going 'EMAIL!!!' (idiot)
Will post the photo if and when it arrives

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Rosemary, we're so sorry to read about your friend.
Susieq, congratulations on your new grandson - looking forward to those photos!
The Mods
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Thanks Judith and the other girls
No photo yet - cranky grannie here
BTW - he was 7lbs - my bad just used the old 2.2lbs = 1kg. Used an internet calculator and it's 7.01lbs.
Hey girls - wish me luck - going to see the great granny tomorrow - something I avoid mostly, but it's Mother's Day here next weekend and seeing we have a 3 day weekend here and Steve is golfing tomorrow - might as well go and see my mother - long long overdue. It's only a 50 minute drive but I dread it - not so much the road but her negativity.
Markets tomorrow am - seeing Steve is leaving at 5am, I can do my market thing and then drive to the Gold Coast. -
Yeah on the name. That is a nice, normal, respectable name.
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Thank you mods. I will miss her but she will live on in all her friends.
My kids use those fancy new diaoers(nappies) and I can't figure out why they are sooo expensive. They even hand them down to other moms. We just used our old ones for rags but then they did not cost so much or come in different sizes.Edited because they come in different sizes not sixes and yes I know there are more typos but a gal can only do so much.
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Rosemary - deepest sympathy. When my time comes, I hope I have a friend who is as good to me, as you were to your friend.
Susie - such fun! Can't wait to see a picture. $20. a nappy - was that a typo??? Yikes...
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Rosemary I am so very sorry for the loss of your friend. I am praying for her, her family and you.
Susie, how wonderful! Congrats!
Atehna, glad to hear you are getting away from the jerk boss. Best wishes for a great new job.
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I just popped in after a long pause to find the discussion on diapers. I went looking around Google and found this video. http://www.ehow.com/video_4756197_fold-diaper.html
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Some nappies were $35 each!!!! You can still get the old fashioned ones for $20 a dozen and I did send her videos on how to fold them (like the one above) and you can still buy fasteners but I didn't see much in the way of pilchers to cover them but I only went to a Walmart type store. We had to buy them something, so that was an easy one as I paid for them through direct money transfer. Friends gave them lots of baby furniture but they don't have a basinette, they're going to put him in the cot - can't quite believe that one.
Still no pic - SIL is quite hopeless as you already know from last Christmas.
Dreading going to see my mother today - called her last night to tell her I was coming and she is SO difficult I doubt I'll be there long.
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I wish I still had my mother. She would have been sooo excited about my grandchildren.
Suzie, have you looked online yet to see if SIL has posted photos? He may be just a bit busy right now. What is a cot? Is that what we call a crib? or is it a small bed? In either case, I wouldn't worry - my children and grandchildren never had a bassinette and all are fine.
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The diapers come sized and shaped to fit the little one's bum and some of them have snaps to fit them into the diaper cover. My daughters absolutely will not use pins on diapers. The little princess might get poked. Even after I told hem how to put their finger between the pin and the baby, no pins for them.There are very strange looking diaper fasteners now. Boy do I sound old.
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One time when my usually cheerful baby boy was grumpy and crying it took me quite a while to see that there was a pin that sprung open and was poking the poor kid. Now that he is in his 30s, he is still cheerful and seems to have forgiven me. The next kid got disposable diapers (with apologies to the environment),
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Rosemary - they are one size fits all, so that's good and she did get some that snap in. You can get plastic fasteners these days to use instead of pins.
Lassie - it is great that my mother has great grandchildren, but sad she will proably never hold them. It looks like my son will never come back from England - they can't afford to visit on holiday.
SIL said they are NOT facebooking the baby which I totally agree with. I'll call later today to see how they're going and remind him. He probably doesn't know how to attach a jpeg file to an email and he also probably doesn't know my email addy.
Got to the markets nice and early and got some gorgeous bananas and lots of fish and of course my usual choc fudge. The fudge lady sells spices and she had this spice I'd been trying to buy - ras el hanout - need it to try a beef tagine seeing I don't use my expensive tagine dish. Looks like Steve will finally get his wish. I do a fish tagine dish but the fish guy hasn't had the thick fish steaks I need for ages, so the pan sits there looking lonely.
Can you tell I'm avoiding leaving for my long drive

I did go and check my tyres, so I'd better go - sigh
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How crazy is this? My one year old great-niece has a Facebook page.
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