I say yes, you say no, OR People are Strange
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Good Afternoon Everyone!
I just about tripped over a 4 foot black snake a minute ago. Scared the hell out of me cause I didn't see it until I was on top of it. Once I realized he wasn't a bad snake I could catch my breath. Tank, of course, was oblivious to everything. At least he didn't step on this one.
Athena .. Sending you a big hug! I love to shop too ... you know you're under the weather when you have to force yourself to go shopping. Sometimes that comorbidity can be a bitch.
Kad2kar ... It's good to see you. Hope your DH is doing okay. Tim's idea of exercise is walking through walmart.
I got the flowers put in one of the beds today. It looks so pretty. Still have to fill all the hanging pots and the pots on the front porch. Think I'll wait until my mom comes to visit and she can help me.
Hope everyone is enjoying their day,
Bren
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All I achieved over the weekend was rolling out the pool cover and cutting some overgrown stuff near the pool.
((((((((((((((Athena)))))))))))))) - hope you feel better soon
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My DH's idea of exercise is walking from one room to another. He has Type 2 diabetes, high blood pressure and high cholesterol. All are controlled by meds but he complains about how many meds he is on.I can't say a thing. It is really frustrating.
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Oh, great Lioness, sending hugs and good wishes.
Have a great week, dear friends.
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Oh, Athena-I hope you're feeling better soon.
5 more workdays until Spring break for me and Hawaii! We have not had the glorious, warm, spring here that so many of you have had, so I'm really looking forward to the sun!
Susie-I'm sorry you're taking such a beating over on the alternative threads. Why don't you just stay here with us? We appreciate you so much more than they do over there.
Mary
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Thanks Mary - I just can't believe what I read there today. At least we abbreviate such words or use characters, nearly fell off my chair at work

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No kidding, Susie! And I never did see how that person's story related to the discussion. Seemed really random, and disturbing. Just stay here!
Mary
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Apparently it didn't violate the rules - I'm quite shocked.
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Rosemary, that must be really frustrating. Why won't he go for a walk?
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So i am interested to see this about cholesterol and blood sugar levels being an se of arimifex, got told last week i can stop taking it, lungs are clear and its been 5 years. Good news! But my doc has been wanting me to go on cholesterol meds, wonder if this will help, how soon would it make a difference?
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Oops i think posted in the wrong place...
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Esserbre - the AI SE thread in Hormonal Forum has good information. My docs swear the high sugar is NOT an SE of Arimidex. BUT, there has been a great deal published recently about how STATINS ( main med for treating high cholesterol) CAN push some into diabetes!!! And, as we KNOW high cholesterol IS a KNOWN SE of all the AI's - I can hear that voice saying: "Are we having fun yet."
Mary - I agree - we gotta keep SusieQ HERE. SERIOUSLY. There is one very troubled person posting there. Sad, but inappropriate. Guess the Mods don't want to touch it. Very frightening, but nothing we can do about it. Read the thread if you want t, but for Dog's sake, don't post!!!!!
SUSIEQ - you gotta stop trying to "help" people who can not hear anything but what they already know. And I really KNOW, understand how hard it is to watch others suffer, when you have had an experience you think might be of benefit to them. That's just the way it is. LET GO. Really. Please stop hurting yourself in the process. I have a cousin who was on the early clinical trials for Herceptin years ago - she's still with us...happy...and THANKFUL.
Learned we can only share our experience and help others who are open to hearing, learning, somethiing they might not already know.
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Hi, esserbe! No worries!
Athena - stay in the shade of a big ol' tree today. No need to go outside and make yourself feel worse. Hugs & wishes for a quick and happy recovery!
Good morning, all. It's supposed to hit 90 degrees today. UCK.
HotScoot
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Good morning all!
Was hot here yesterday ... cooled down today so you east coasters may be getting a cool down tomorrow.
It's been very windy. Looked out yesterday morning and the patio table umbrella was gone. My first thought was who the h*ll steals just an umbrella. It was on the roof ... no damage to anything but definitely a WTF moment. (Note to self ... putting the umbrella down is not enough ... tie it also.) Then it did a Mary Poppins thing on hubby when he was trying to put it back in place. I would have waited to put it back when the wind was not howling but I'm not a guy so ...
Was anybody here in the path of that awful tornado outbreak? Scary stuff!
Hope you get to feeling better Athena!
Waving at Bren ... glad you survived your close encounter with that big snake. Obviously Tank will not be much help on the snake patrol front. Our dogs when I was growing up thought those big black snakes were toys and would grab them and throw them around playing with them.
Susie ... you can lead a horse to water but then sometimes you need to back away to protect yourself. I agree that 'support' is sometimes really 'enabling' ... so I can't honestly pretend it's all fine either. Walking away is sometimes the best you can do.
Speaking of horses ... Sampson and Scoot has a very nice ring to it! All digits crossed that all goes well and you will be galloping through the fields and leaping over tall buildings in a single bound soon!
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Good Morning Everyone!
Going to be a warm and beautiful day here. I got my flowers planted yesterday .. they look so pretty. I need a ton more to fill all the pots and hanging baskets.
Scoot .. Been following your adventures on the horsey thread. I'm glad you having so much fun. Can't wait for you to meet Sampson! Your sister's taste in horses is definately more my speed.
Esserbre ... You're not in the wrong place ... stay and visit for awhile. We love to welcome new folks to this thread.
O.M.G. Just discovered my hot water heater broke .. I've got 1/2 inch of water covering the basement. I hate being a home owner, especially with Tim gone all the time. Got a plumber coming after lunch. Somebody just shoot me. I'm not near as calm as Mary with her water problem.
hugs,
Bren
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What is it with water heaters this month?! Mine didn't leak - it just quit heating properly. Turns out there is a gizmo on top called a mixer. While the heater actually was heating, the mixer was putting too much cold water with it so that I was having lukewarm showers. And the valve to shut off just the hot water heater water was so old it wouldn't turn so the guy had to turn off all the water in the house while my little granddaughter was here and replace the valve later. All fixed now. The next day the mechanic figured out the squeak my car had been making for months - dirty brakes. Now everything is fixed except for the hit on my bank account. Til the next thing goes.
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I'm getting mine replaced tomorrow. It's Bad Water Heater Month, apparently.
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Hi Rabbit ... we were writing at the same time. I'm fit to be tied over this latest development. My homeowner's policy doesn't cover broken water heaters. And we've got a $500 deductible to clean the mess up.
Tank is useless with snakes. He doesn't even see them for some reason. Tim wants me to carry a golf club with me when I walk the dogs .. I guess so I can club the snakes. That's not going to happen! Then he told me that the black snakes will chase you down! Wow .. I really needed that bit of information!
Other than my water problems, it's a beautiful day here!
hugs,
Bren
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Pack a mongoose! They'll get your snakes for you.
Sorry about the water heater, Bren. With the $500 deductible and the water heater itself....ugh. A lot to shell out.
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We replaced our water heater a couple weeks ago. DH went to empty the litterbox and there was a little trickle of water on the floor. So we rushed out to Lowe's, bought a new one and installed it a couple days later (DH is handy). Apparently the Water Heater Union has decided to call a strike!
Funny thing was we arranged a large object pickup by the county for the old, dead water heater. We put it out by the curb and went to dinner ... And it was gone when we came back! Apparently there is a good amount of scrap metal in one. Interesting!
Good luck, waterheater buddies!
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HL, Bren and Scoot, this is one reason I am a happy renter!!
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Sorry for all the water heater troubles. Ours hasn't been replaced since we moved here either so that will probably be our next 'surprise' too.
Bren ... hopefully the clean up part won't be too bad. Have you got a shop vac to suck up the water? That and a couple of big fans in the basement might dry it out?
Libby ... we can almost always put big stuff out by the road early on the night before trash day and it disappears. We're gotten rid of old printers and an old tiller and a weedeater and an old set of golf clubs, etc. that way over the years. There are people who patrol areas around trash day looking for items like that ... they fix and re-sell them. One of my daughter's friends had an older relative who made his living that way. Win-win
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Oh, we have that happen here all the time, too, WR. The area in which I live is affluent and people put out amazing stuff for the trash all the time. At one point, we had about 5 lawn mowers because they were perfectly good but they had tiny things wrong with them . One just needed a new pull cord, but the people threw it away. Crazy! I used to tell DH we were going to call our house the (DH's name) Home for Wayward Lawnmowers. He just fixes them and gives them away. We haven't seen so many since the recession. Same with vacuum cleaners. And we scored a lava lamp out of the trash, once! We have also had a number of patio tables we scored from the trash. A falling tree limb from the hurricane last August took out our last one. I remember because it was the day after I got home from the DIEP surgery and it just struck me as hilarious when DH said, "Hm, a big limb took out the patio table." (I was still stoned from pain meds.) I got the giggles and they HURT!
There is also a guy who cruises our neighborhood every trash day morning picking up scraps and other useful stuff. We were just surprised when the water heater disappeared because we didn't think there was that much scrap metal in the water heater. I'm perfectly happy if someone made a few bucks from it. -
Well .. the plumber just left. I'm sick of having to deal with Tim (also known as Mr. ADD) on the phone, he's driving me crazy.
We don't have enough freakin' cash to pay the guy, so tonight when he gets home we have to go to Lowes and charge a new hot water heater. After looking at the one in the basement, I don't know why Mr. ADD can't install it himself. It looks pretty straightforward to me.
Anyway ... the plumber will be back tomorrow a.m. to install the new water heater.
Rabbit .. We don't have a shop vac. I do have a fan I can set up down there. At any rate, I did get the water to the house turned back on as the plumber shut it off at the water heater. Mr. ADD can figure out what to do with the basement mess tomorrow. Thankfully, 99% of the stuff down there was in plastic bins and stayed dry.
I'm thinking about taking the dogs for a hike, but I swear I am not in the mood for any more damn snakes!
hugs,
Bren
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Bren,
I don't know why he can't install it either. I thought men were born knowing how to do this stuff? And that's why we're in the kitchen making sammiches and keeping after the little ones? No?
SUCKS that you have to deal with this, Bren. Stupid house.
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(((((homeowners)))))
Renters unite!

Oh that other thead.....
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Yeah, that other thread. Not gonna go there.
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Hey girls - sounds like you all need solar hot water - ours is on the roof and costs me virtually nothing for hot water - I think $25 a quarter. We have had to replace the tank and solar panels over the last 30 years, but only once. I got a stainless steel tank last time so I hope it lasts forever. The other benefit is no leaks in the basement - not that we have a basement.
That other thread - well I can't stand to see someone trying to do away with themselves by not even having surgery, but I hear you and am out of there.
Steve away - couldn't sleep well - always happens when he's not here. For some reason I get nervous even though the house is locked up tight. You would think I'd luxuriate in having the whole bed to myself.
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Thanks for the commiseration. Maybe Tim can look at it and figure it out .. but he just called for the millionth time and I won't even be home until 7 p.m. Then we have to get to Lowes. What the hell .. maybe I can figure it out myself. I'm pretty handy!
Susie .. Sometimes I get scared at night too.
hugs,
Bren
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Bren, you live in the country, yes? No city utilities (i.e.,no gas line?). If Tim is handy with electrical stuff and it is an electric hot water heater, he might be able to figure it out. HOWEVER, he might have to pull a permit at the county to do it so they can inspect it after it is done. It will make it easier to sell your house when the time comes. We pulled a permit with no problem as homeowners and after DH installed it, the inspector came and passed it no problem. It was gas, but DH can work on that and knows how to do it. Electric is easier.
Good luck! BTW, if you are planning on living there for a while, I would get the Whirlpool water heater. That's what we got.
L
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