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  • LINDAGARSIDE
    LINDAGARSIDE Member Posts: 345
    edited April 2010

    GP...keep swimming....you are not drowing...you are swimming, swimming....right?  This TOO will pass.  Apparently liver lesions and the like are not uncommon.  I've seen this so many times on these boards.  Keep swimming....and soon you will be on the cruise...swimming in their beautiful heated pool...

  • jakhope
    jakhope Member Posts: 133
    edited May 2010

    Hi all, Well my ultrasound still shows fatty liver and a polyp on my gallbladder. my Dr said go and have a good time and did not seem too concerned. He said to stay away from fried foods, which I do not eat anyway.I will follow up with him when I am home. My side feels somewhat better, not all gone but I will go and try and forget about it.

    Hugs to all and will be in touch when I am back. I will put a vacation picture on my profile when I am home.

    Be well and strong .

    GP Jeannie here

  • LINDAGARSIDE
    LINDAGARSIDE Member Posts: 345
    edited May 2010

    How are all the pink peeps doing?  Haven't heard much lately.  I know I'm finished my rads tomorrow...yahoo...and I'm "crispy critters" right now.

  • KatieMom
    KatieMom Member Posts: 127
    edited May 2010

    Linda - I am so jealous!!!  13 more for me.  I have developed little pussy blobs right around my nipple on the suture sights.  They pop and turn into scabs.  Anyone else experience this?  Sorry if it is too gross but where else do I ask?  My whole nipple was removed during the surgery and replaced, quite nicely I might add... but there are tiny little spots where the stitches were and that's where these things are popping up (literally).  So far only two, but I'm sure there will be more.

    Thanks, Peeps.

    Katie 

  • LINDAGARSIDE
    LINDAGARSIDE Member Posts: 345
    edited May 2010

    Hi Katie...I will ask the radiologist tomorrow when I have my last treatment.  I've not heard of this before but I know that as soon as my skin started to break they immediately put me on "flamozine"...it's a cream that is an antibiotic as well.  It is quite soothing.

    Here is what really helps me:  saline compressess.  Mix some salt in boiled wated and dissolve and put in fridge for a bit.  When cold, get a clean wash cloth and make cold compressess for your breast.  Leave on for a minute then wring it out in the water and put on again.  Do this about 4 or 5 times.  Then put more cream on and close up.  Good idea to put a gauze thing over your breast so all of your cream doesn't get absorbed into the cotton bra you are wearing.  Repeat as often as you can through out the day.  When you think of it...put more cream on, under the pad...all day as often as you can.  The doctor told me there is no way anyone can apply "too much" cream.  It will get itchy...don't scratch.  If you get flamazine, usually it's only twice a day and you don't mix the flamazine with your other cream you are using.  Basically, pretend you are a turkey and you have to keep basting yourself....for about one month.

    Keep Swimming....Gobble Gobble.

  • etk02038
    etk02038 Member Posts: 150
    edited May 2010

    Hi All...hope everyone is doing well! I am on my last week of rads-Friday is the last day and I have been very lucky with hardly any SE. My skin looks like a cooked lobster but it really doesn't hurt. I am very upset about my ex-oncologist. She is ex as of today when I made an appointment with a new one. I have called twice for her to go over my pelvic ultrasound and let me know if it is ok to start tamoxifen. No response after 2 weeks. I have ovarian cysts and want to make sure I should be starting this stuff. I didn't really like her from the beginning so I am glad I am done with her. She is an older women and very curt to talk with. But not even to call back...what is up with that? What else did she not do or miss? I have seen her twice and have yet to get even a blood test. I need a fresh start with someone new. I will have to drive an hour into the city but well worth it. 

  • KatieMom
    KatieMom Member Posts: 127
    edited May 2010

    Just back from the rad onc.  She doesn't know what my "nipple zits" are but we should watch them.  She's never seen such a thing...  she also said they aren't caused by rads.  Yea, right!!!!  I always get nipple zits!  WTF??  Anyway, sorry, just a little vent.  If they get worse she will start me on antibiotics.  She did assure me that she wouldn't stop rads.  That was my panic as I want to be done!!  12 to go.  

    Katie 

  • LINDAGARSIDE
    LINDAGARSIDE Member Posts: 345
    edited May 2010

    Hi Katie...I did ask the radiologist today about your situation...but what I said was that I thought maybe the stitches were coming undone or something like that.  They said that wasn't possible...but they said that the nipple area is extremely sensitive and if that is where the high radiation dose is, well almost anything can happen.

    I know my nipple is really swollen and sore and there are all kinds of enlarged bumps around it...looks worse than it feels.  My whole nipple area has taken on a new look....no longer a circle but sort of a stretched lumpy oval with major swelling in the little bumpy parts.  Under my arm is the worse area and is already peeling.  Today was my LAST blast.  Yahoo....now I'm applying the cream (including antibiotic cream) .... and will be past this very very soon...and you will too.

    One other thing...remember initially we were concerned that you were taking so long for your rads to start?  Today the radiologist said if you had surgery to your nipple area that would be why as it has to be healed well before they start their zapping.

  • KatieMom
    KatieMom Member Posts: 127
    edited May 2010

    Thanks for the help, Linda.  It is really not that bad, just annoying to hear that it is not radiation that is causing it...  doesn't everyone have zits on their nipples?  I hear about that a lot in the lunchroom hahahahah

    Katie 

  • LINDAGARSIDE
    LINDAGARSIDE Member Posts: 345
    edited May 2010

    Hi Katie...woke up this morning and noticed my skin is peeling...much the same as when you have a bad sunburn and it starts to peel?  The radiologist told me NOT to peel it but put lots of cream on it.  This is hard for me because I am one of those people who like to peel things.  LOL.

    You are almost half way through your radiation..yahoo.  And others are almost half way through chemo...yahoo x 2.   One day this will all be behind us....

    A word of encouragement to newbies....don't worry....I promise you that by Christmas you will be almost through with all of this as well....  Smile

  • LauraM
    LauraM Member Posts: 251
    edited May 2010

    Katie - It sounds like you are having the same issue on your boobs that I am having on my stomach.  What they are telling me is that the body is spitting out the stiches.  I hope mine is almost done, seems that 9 weeks out my body would be done, but went to the doctor today and two other areas were spitting them out and they form a little puss pocket around them as they are spitting them out.

    Might not be the same thing, but thought I would share.

  • KatieMom
    KatieMom Member Posts: 127
    edited May 2010

    Laura - yes, that sounds about right.  My surgery on that piece was Dec. 11.  Seems a long time to wait for them to spit themselves out, but that is exactly what it looks like.  These things form right on the stitch marks (which are very faint).  So far only two... we'll see.

    So my principal needed a ride to work today so she had to come to rads with me... kinda weird, but I think she has new respect for what I am going through.  Todd the Tech gave her a tour of "Wall-e" and the stuff there.  

    Thanks

    Katie 

  • irish47
    irish47 Member Posts: 109
    edited May 2010

    Hi all,

    Good news for a change! have finished the rads today!! Great to be done. Still tired but off to Edinburgh on Friday with my husband to celebrate, ash clouds permitting ( That Iceland volcano still causing problems over here).

  • LINDAGARSIDE
    LINDAGARSIDE Member Posts: 345
    edited May 2010

    Irish!  Congratulations pink sister.  Doesn't it feel good?  It seems like only yesterday we were saying how impatient we were for waiting for this and waiting for that...and WOW...we're finished!  They say time flies when you are having fun...but this hasn't really been a whole lot of fun for any of us.  LOL.

    I certainly have enjoyed meeting all of my pink sisters...and learning what peeps meant.  LOL.

  • etk02038
    etk02038 Member Posts: 150
    edited May 2010

    Congrats Irish!  Do you have to do tamoxifen now? I am done Friday and since it is Mother's Day and my birthday Tuesday I expect a big celebration this weekend.

  • codavis
    codavis Member Posts: 122
    edited May 2010

    Conratulations to all of you that have finished your treatment. I still have 4 1/2 months of chemo, but it makes me smile to think that there's a light at the end and you've reached it!

    Have a fabulous weekend of celebrating.

  • Pickles
    Pickles Member Posts: 80
    edited May 2010

    WooooHoooo IRISH

    Celebrate well!  Bubbly must be ordered!!  I am so thrilled when we here the good news of our class members! 

      Hope your boobie feels better too!  It's probably heaving a sigh of releif knowing it doesn't have to go back in that machine!

    CONGRATS!!

  • arubajan05
    arubajan05 Member Posts: 140
    edited May 2010

    I'm with codavis it is great to know there is a light at the end of the tunnel!  Congratulations!

    Also, LINDAGARSIDE, no peeling!!!!  :) 

    Happy to have some pink "peep"s to celebrate all our pink milestones with! Hugs to all!

  • irish47
    irish47 Member Posts: 109
    edited May 2010

    Thanks to all for the for the good wishes and lots of luck to all still going thru treatment!

    Well  the volanic cloud was kind and off to bonnie Scotland in the morning.. Will have a drink to Linda  and all my fellow pink poops!

    Ellen, going to do the tamox.Had a second opinion from a fab female onc and she really changed my attitude. She also prescribed lots of stuff to counteract the side effects of the tamox so much happier to take it now. 

    Cora 

  • LINDAGARSIDE
    LINDAGARSIDE Member Posts: 345
    edited May 2010

    OK, Cora...so what kind of things does she prescribe to help off set the Tamoxifen?  Come on girlfriend, give it up!  LOL

  • LauraM
    LauraM Member Posts: 251
    edited May 2010

    Congrats to all of you wonderful women who are done with their treatment, what a wonderful accomplishment!  

    etk02038 - Happy early Birthday!  I hope you have a wonderful day!

    I started my dose dense AC treatment today.  All went well, no SE's to speak about yet!  Nuelasta shot tomorrow, I am hoping that goes well too.  My Onc told me that exercising will make the affects fo the Nuelasta less so I hoping walking every morning will help.

    Have a great night.

  • irish47
    irish47 Member Posts: 109
    edited May 2010

    Linda,

    The doc prescribed magnesium  and calcium for the bones, effexor for the hot flushes, selenium as an anti-oxident and I am adding in fish oils for skin, hair and nails.  She also recommended travel socks for long haul flights.

    Ok peeps, flight to catch! talk after the weekend 

  • LINDAGARSIDE
    LINDAGARSIDE Member Posts: 345
    edited May 2010

    Irish...have a wonderful time.  thanks for the tip on the flight socks...I am off to Vegas with my son in Sept (there is an annual convention there for people with Stills disease...I think I told you about the crazy auto-immune disease my poor son has)....anyway, the socks will help avoid clots.  I understand drinking lots of water and getting up and walking about will help as well.  Naturally, if you drink lots of water you'll be getting up to go to the bathroom a lot.  LOL.

    I guess the possibility of clots is one of those not so good aspects of taking tamoxifen.  Oh well...I like the other side effect...living.

     I am peeling like crazy today...no matter how much cream I use.  All around the nipple area.  I guess this is normal.  What a sight.  And I am trying so HARD not to pick or peel it!!!  Pray for me my pink peeps....I'm a person who LOVES to pick.

  • mari-12
    mari-12 Member Posts: 23
    edited May 2010

    Hello to you all! I hope I am in the right place to introduce myself. I am 55 yrs. old and married 29 years. On 3/26 I was diagnosed with IDC (apparently with surrounding DCIS). Had a lump. on 4/6 with a dirty margin and will have re-excision soon. Waiting for all the results and wondering what the treatments will be have been the most difficult so far. What I do know is that there will be Arimidex and 33 Rads with boost. The Mammo-print said High Risk and I'm still waiting for the Oncotype DX results. I'm told by BS that this will determine if chemo will be needed. He suspects that I will fall in the intermediate-gray area. This sounds like a roll of the dice will determine if chemo or not! This seems crazy. Has anyone had a similar experience? How did the Oncologist and you decide what to do?

  • LINDAGARSIDE
    LINDAGARSIDE Member Posts: 345
    edited May 2010

    Hi Mari-12...and welcome to the club you thought you'd never be a member of!

    There are lots of things before you right now and certainly more questions than answers. I hope I can help you a little.  First of all, try to relax. 

    One of the key things in your journey is your pathology report from your surgery.  This is going to be the corner stone for what decisions are made in your case.  It tells a story. You will soon find that even if we have similar cancers, our treatment plans are all unique to our own situation/story.  You will learn on this site how to understand your pathology report.  There are lots of threads about this topic and I encourage you to read as much as you can. 

    The best way you can make a good decision is to be informed and so when you talk to your oncologist you can feel like you've got some control over what is going to happen.  Get copies of all your reports and don't be afraid to ask questions.  The hardest part is going to be the waiting part...wait for this test...wait for that test....wait for this scan...wait for the results...wait for rads to start...wait for rads to end...etc etc.  It seems like yesterday I was diagnosed but now I'm finished.  Amazing really as I started this journey in November and had all the same questions you have. You've made me remember how overwhelmed I felt at first and how much I relied on this sight to help me understand what was going on.  Trust me...it really helps.

    You've asked a number of questions but one thing I'm going to say is try not to get ahead of yourself...one step at a time.  Don't assume the worse...only expect the best.

    Personally, I did not have to take chemo, but I am now on tomoxifen and had 30 radiation treatments as well as the lumpectomy and node surgery.  The reason there was no need for chemo for me is because my particular cancer was slow growing, like a slug (and clean margins and no lymph involvement). 

    Sluggish cancers don't do that well with chemo...a more techinical word for slow growing cancers (you will see this in your pathology report) is "well differentiated".  So, I was lucky enough to have the well differentiated type of cancer.  Do not panic if your cancer isn't "well differentiated"...as chemo is excellent for zapping cancer...as is radiation.  

    Other important factors you are going to want to know is this:  What feeds your cancer?  Is it estrogen or progesterone positive?  (ER+ and PR+)  ER and PR positive indicates your cancer is 'fed' by estrogen.  That is why drugs such as tamoxifen and Arimdex are prescribed.  They block estrogen...and so the cancer is "starved". (You say you are going to take arimidex so my guess is that they already know your cancer is ER+).  

    Let me encourage you by saying to you that you will find lots of support here and also lots of good information.  Try to read as much as you can...visit different threads....read read read...it really helps.  Try to keep your humour up as sometimes a good laugh is as good as a good cry.

    Welcome, pink peep!  Gentle supportive hug coming at you right now....remember....you are not alone my friend  ((((((((((((((((((Mari-12)))))))))))))))))))

  • mari-12
    mari-12 Member Posts: 23
    edited May 2010

    Thank you Linda for for your kind and informative words! The past several weeks I've been reading everything I can get my hands on but it seems this is the best place to come for information. :) and a supportive hug :)))))))

    I am IDC, stage 1, grade 3, 0/2 node neg, Er+/Pr+, Her2neg. I had a lumpectomy on 4/6 and I'm still sore. Returning for a re-excision 5/18. The path report stated 'poorly differentiated' cells. I've met the radiologist who said 33 Rads with boost and oncologist who said Arimidex. She did not have the Oncotype back and therefore did not want to say for sure if there would be chemo.....

    I've been fast walking on the treadmill which helps to alleviate some of the anxiety but then I feel so sore afterward. Perhaps a new sports bra would be in order??? I am normally a 34B. Has anyone had success with a particular sports bra????

     The more I know, the better I feel about what the course of treatment will be . It is so hard not to get ahead of myself. I suppose that is because I've been the type of person who has tried to anticipate what will happen next if given x.

    It's incredible how this diagnosis has swiftly put the important things in life into perspective once again. I have, as I'm sure we all have been through plenty in our lives but this life altering experience is mind boggling!!!!!!! My DD and DS who are in their early 20's seem more relaxed talking to me about things in their lives too!! That's a bonus! 

    Happy Mother's Day to everyone!!!!!!! 

     

  • LINDAGARSIDE
    LINDAGARSIDE Member Posts: 345
    edited May 2010

    Hi Mari-12.  The bra you wear is very important.  Make sure you are wearing mostly cotton and nothing with under wires.  Personally I went to a place here in Victoria which specializes in mastectomy supplies.  A special front closing bra with special built in pockets on the side, to hold small ice bags was a real God send.  I found that ice packs (do NOT use ice gel) became my best friend and really helped in the healing process.  Small arm exercises really helped as well.  I'm sure you know already about keeping a very small cushion under your arm...especially while you are sleeping?

    Don't worry about the "poorly differentiated" thing.  There is a treatment plan for everything and from what you are saying, it seems like you've caught it very early and your surgeon is right on top of things.

    You can start now to block estrogen by omitting from your diet anything that is estrogen based.  The cancer nutritionist advises against anything with soy protein for sure.  There are lots of other things as well...but again, information is what you need.

    I'm going to guess you might be recommended for chemo.  While nobody likes to take it...everyone likes the fact that it is one of the best weapons against cancers like ours.  My guess is that if you didn't take it...you'd wonder if you should have and will feel always anxious about it.  Even I still wonder if I should have...and had to have a very serious talk with my oncologist about it who carefully explained (and the reading I've done certainly backs him up) that slow, well differentiated (stage 1) small cancers (grade 1) with no lymph involvement and clean margins do not require or respond (well) to chemo.  Now I am not anxious about it.

    The hair grow back before you know it...and is often very curly.  I understand the curls don't last that long but it is sort of fun if you're not used to curly hair.  I'm also reading posts from sisters who are having fun with wigs/caps and even painting their heads!  We truly are amazing women, aren't we?

    Happy Mother's Day to all the pink peeps out there....you are AWESOME!

  • cathyqk
    cathyqk Member Posts: 19
    edited May 2010

    Just wanted to wish all you wonderful strong women a wonderful Mothers day!

    Irish have a fab knees up in Edinburgh!  You made it!

    Katie I need to hook up as all the hair is now gone! sorry to hear of your nipple zits but I hope the advice out there works for you! I found Aquaphor cream absolutely brilliant!

    and Linda so happy for you also to be done!

    I am now on Leave until the end of my chemo! Round 2 was yesterday and I had an anaphylactic reaction as many apparently do.. but they drugged me up and slowed down the drip and I made it. Tired today but got out and stayed active, and have hit the hay early. Five Leukine shots coming up .. ugh! Ended up with 10 after round 1 and thought I was going to die! They lowered the cytoxan dose to avoid so much white cell loss this time.

    Went to a "look good feel better" class the other day at the cancer center and wow! Wonderful tips and tons of free products! The center also gave me a free wig! I now have red head and brunette alts.. plus several hats and a couple of scarves.. heading into the heat here in CA, so still checking out the cooler options.

    Champagne all around tomorrow ladies! Irish lasses its Moms day in the states so feel free to partake!

    Love to all pink peeps!

    CK 

  • Ezscriiibe
    Ezscriiibe Member Posts: 598
    edited May 2010

    Retrievermom: No I didn't go to the Derby this year. We usually watch it from home, too. But I was a little extra excited this year as I found out that my brother's wife's family had a horse in the Derby this year. It was the filly Devil May Care and while she obviously didn't finish in the money, she did come in like 10th or 11th. In a field of 20, that's not too bad I guess! It does add to the excitement though, when you personally know a horse running.

     So glad to see everyone moving along in their respective treatments and doing (relatively speaking) well.

    My chemos are finished and I start on the radiation adventure on Monday. I'm just happy to have a few days in a row that I can go out, go shopping, visit friends, what have you, and not feel like a wuss.

    Oh, I did get into Lexington yesterday with my sister and went to an opening for William Shatner's wife's nature art. My sister and I got to actually meet William Shatner and he spent about 10 minutes just chatting with us talking about his wife, his horses, etc. It was a blast. I ALMOST felt normal! 

    But enough about me, Jeannie, hope you are doing well and hate to hear about your setbacks. But also hope your cruise went well and you got to put cancer on the shelf for a good long rest!

    PS: Tip on reducing the fatty liver -- it takes about 4 or 5 days, so obviously don't do this on vacation or a cruise, but get some protein shake powder (I get the Strawberry flavor from Unjury in the single serving packs) and make some banana smoothies with it -- ice and a dash of any flavor crystal light only. Drink those for breakfast for about a week, and for lunch and dinner eat a high protein to carb ratio (with minimal oils and butter, subbing olive oil if you have to have it). Snack on sugar-free jellos and puddings and sugar-free pops.

    It's the carbs that help add fat to the liver, so try to reduce or eliminate them as much as possible for a week and increase your protein intake.

    I did that prior to some abdominal surgery last year and it worked great. 

  • dutchgirl6
    dutchgirl6 Member Posts: 673
    edited May 2010

    Happy Mother's Day to all the moms out there.

    Mari-12, first of all welcome to the site.  I'm sure that you will find, as I have, that the support and knowledge that you get here are valuable as you negotiate your journey through cancer land.  You had asked about any success with sports bras, well, I'm no athlete, but after my lumpectomy I went to my local lingerie shop to find something without an underwire, and they had me try on a sports bra made by a company called Anita (www.anita.com).  As soon as I tried it on, I said "I'll take it", it felt like a second skin, and is truly is the most comfortable bra I have ever owned.  They also make post surgery products.  I hope that this helps.

    Have a great weekend everyone.

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