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  • arnie2two
    arnie2two Member Posts: 1,215
    edited November 2009

    Hi EWB!  Hello Indomitable!  Hello all you ladies of faith...

    Yesterday I posted my "life" verse, 1st Thessalonians 5:16-18.  Today I received this...thought it explained the "in everything" give thanks very well.  I love when you're discussing something and then it comes up in another form.

    Friday, November 6The Greatest ParadoxMy brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials.
    James 1:2
    Recommended Reading
    1 Peter 1:3-7

    Many things about the kingdom of God seem odd to those who are not its citizens. Kingdom citizens gain by giving, live by dying, and become great by becoming least. But perhaps the greatest oddity in the kingdom of God is when Christians find joy in pain and suffering. There is something unnatural about rejoicing in the midst of trials.

    But a clarification must be made. The Bible says we are to give thanks "in everything," not "for everything." The Bible is transrational, not irrational; it represents thinking at a higher level, not a lower level. "In" the experience of trials and trouble, joy can still be found because we know that every experience has a purpose and place in God's plan for our lives. Who would not find joy in having his faith proved to be genuine? Peter writes that trials and suffering come for that very reason: to prove that the faith we cling to is the real thing (1 Peter 1:6-7). In such revelation and confirmation is found true joy.

    If you are experiencing a painful moment in your life right now, you don't have to fake having joy "for" the pain. Your joy is to be in the knowledge that God is in control and your faith in Him is unshakeable.

    It is the very joy of this earthly life to think that it will come to an end.
    Charles H. Spurgeon Hope all you ladies are having a blessed day.  (((((((((((hugs))))))))))))) janet
  • AsiaYM
    AsiaYM Member Posts: 2,216
    edited November 2009

    Strengthen your mind with knoledge from all sources

    Prepare your body with nutrition from nature

    Place your trust and soul in God.

    when he is not walking along with you, he is carrying you.

    Everything in moderation

    Walk in the Sun

    Breath fresh air

    Have a glorious day

  • faithandfifty
    faithandfifty Member Posts: 10,007
    edited November 2009

    Mentor Minds..... I am just so grateful to the "sudden" surge of energy here.

    Welcome to all of those 'new' to our little corner of the world. Held keeps us on our toes, but we welcome all who are respectful of meaningful discussion and insight.

    My heart is just so heavy tonight.

    I haven't had a meaningful conversation with Saint since the beginning of the week. This is the longest that we've gone without a lengthy chat -- covering the width & breadth of the universe. I've been calling daily, but she has not answered & I'm guessing that she's conserving her strength.

    Tomorrow I'll call the house and see if I can get her daughter or husband.

    It is so good to come in here and read the scripture, see the comraderie and exhale in the strength of our combined experience & knowledge.

    Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

    xx00xx00xx00xx00xx

  • Connie07
    Connie07 Member Posts: 636
    edited November 2009

    I've offered a prayer for Saint tonight. Here's wishing that she is comfortable and knows that she is loved and missed.

    One Day at a Time.

    ~Connie

  • EWB
    EWB Member Posts: 2,927
    edited November 2009

    May she be returned to good health and good spirits.

  • faithandfifty
    faithandfifty Member Posts: 10,007
    edited November 2009

    I just posted that Saint was admitted to the hospital yesterday, still there.

    Prayers are what's holding her up -- that's her belief. 

    xx00xx00xx00xx

  • arnie2two
    arnie2two Member Posts: 1,215
    edited November 2009
    (((((((((((((((Faith))))))))))))))))))))  ((((((((((((((((((((((((Saint))))))))))))))))))))))
  • Indomitable1
    Indomitable1 Member Posts: 253
    edited November 2009

    Been away from the boards; post chemo, tired, achy, back to work.....just finding out about Saint; Typing as I cry and plead to the Lord. No more..... please, no more. Let us not lose any more ladies (or men) at the hand of this beast.

    Heavenly Father-strengthen and comfort all and help me to remember the Hope we have in you.

    I'll continue to pray and plead on the behalf of all of us impacted by BC,any other cancer or illness, and especially for beautiful spirit, Saint, and her family including her dear friend/sister Faith. 

  • heisiam
    heisiam Member Posts: 13
    edited November 2009

    Just wanted to give you a note of hope.  I had breast cancer 12 years ago.  I can honestly say that I never asked why, because I knew.  It wasn't God that gave me breast cancer.  I allowed it in my life because of 2 things.  I was very fearful of cancer, and I also had a lot of bitterness and anger in my life from what people had done to me over the 40 years of my life previously. In Job 3:25 it says For the thing which I greatly feared is come upon me, and that which I was afraid of is come unto me.  The first time I ever heard the word cancer was when I was in the first grade.  It was a teacher who had of course breast cancer.  From that time on I was afraid of the word "cancer".  I also carried every bit of hurt and bitterness that had ever been done to me.  I was not a person to let out my anger or to forgive and forget.  I knew that this was a problem because I felt no pain in the lump in my breast until I would think of someone who had hurt me.  Then it would throb.  I fully believe that bitterness is a spiritual cancer, and if something isn't done about it it will manifest as physical cancer.  Finally I will leave you with this.  John 10:10  Amplified The thief comes only in order to steal and kill and destroy.  I came that they may have and enjoy life, and have it in abundance (to the full, till it overflows).  I submit that the thief is satan and the I is Jesus.  Lets put blame where it is due.  God doesn't give cancer, satan does. 

  • Held
    Held Member Posts: 506
    edited November 2009

    I haven't been here recently.  I haven't been doing much recently.  I annoy myself.  I have the nerve to have the blues when our sister Saint has been so sick!  Someone kick me in the a**! 

    I also feel guilty wanting to pursue this thread when she is so sick.  Faith I am so worried about you too.  I am praying for you to have peace and strength.  I am a bit out of the loop.  I am not exactly sure what is going on with Saint, but I am aware she had surgery and was in ICU.  Her pain brings me to tears, yet I do not find myself asking why, I find myself telling God this just isn't fair.  A statement, not a question.

    I lost another friend to cancer this past week, and found out the best doctor I have ever had had a double mastectomy 3 weeks ago (and is now having complications). WTH????

    I am sorry heisiam, after all the wonderful thing my mentors have taught me, I do not believe you "allowed the cancer into your life" by your thought and/or actions. 

    During this thread we have discussed how my mother told me I gave myself breast cancer by sinning (and I also gave myself epilepsy - starting at age 4) because of sin.  My much wiser mentors smacked sense into me, and a friend of my (who happens to be the wife of a pastor) sent me this bible verse:

    "Neither this man nor his parents sinned," said Jesus, "but this happened so that the work of God might be displayed in his life."

    My wonderful mentors, I thank you for your continued support.  I will be praying for each of you.  Special prayers for Saint and Faith.

  • faithandfifty
    faithandfifty Member Posts: 10,007
    edited November 2009

    Held.

    Saint called me tonight. I put up the details on both of her 'prayer-threads'.

    Her surgeon is very optomistic that the surgery has created a whole new chapter for our dear sister. She has been highly medicated since the surgery, but today was able to get up and out of bed on seven occaisions.

    Prayers continue.

    This news is amazing.

    She sounded so strong tonight.

    xx00xx00xx00xx

    She still has much to teach us: hope!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • EWB
    EWB Member Posts: 2,927
    edited November 2009

    Held - many many hugs! So sorry to hear about your friend and doctor, how are you holding up with everything? Been thinking of you and hoping all is working out ok....

  • Indomitable1
    Indomitable1 Member Posts: 253
    edited November 2009

    God Bless you all. Hope you have had a great Thanksgiving and post Thanksgiving weekend.
    Continued prayers for peace and health, strength and comfort!

  • Held
    Held Member Posts: 506
    edited December 2009

    very discouraged.  been feeling like crap for 3 weeks.  dizzy, light-headed, rapid heart-beat.  skin tingling.  My doc is on medical leave for 2 more weeks... ugh!

  • faithandfifty
    faithandfifty Member Posts: 10,007
    edited December 2009

    Held. Goodness dearie. I just got on here..... and found your message.

    None of that sounds acceptable. Are you waiting for your doc to return from medical leave??

    Surely there's someone else that you could see??

    I had the opportunity to speak to Saint late this afternoon -- she's having a GREAT weekend. So there is a miracle unfolding for her.

    Now we need to shift our prayers over to you as the subject.

    Much love while you get to the bottom of all of this.

    xx00xx00xx

    Strength and courage.

    Strength and courage.

    Strength and courage.

  • EWB
    EWB Member Posts: 2,927
    edited December 2009

    Held - so sorry to hear you are not feeling well,  is there someone else you could see? just to tide you over till your reg doc is back? gentle hugs, kickass prayers and hoping you have a quiet restful place to curl up with a blankie and soak up healing vibes and light and love!!!

  • Held
    Held Member Posts: 506
    edited December 2009

    The problem is that the rest of my clan of docs all want me to check with the doc that is sick before they do anything!  So frustrating.  I am feeling a little better today.  Thanks for all the prayers.

  • deborye
    deborye Member Posts: 7,002
    edited December 2009

    Here is some hot chocolate to drink while in you are cuddled up in your blankee.

  • EWB
    EWB Member Posts: 2,927
    edited December 2009

    how frustrating! thinking of you today and hoping things continue to improve.

  • Held
    Held Member Posts: 506
    edited December 2009

    Ahhh, looks yummy!

    I called my GP today and left a message.  I asked if they would be willing to run the Lyme test again (my other doc treated me for it a few months ago, maybe it isn't all gone).  I haven't heard back from them.... sigh.  I finally got brave enough to reach out to another doc to ask for help and they don't call me back!!  Doesn't that figure.   ;(

  • julz4
    julz4 Member Posts: 2,490
    edited December 2009

    Hello Mentors....I have been reading since day one here ...on & off. I run stuff by Faith once in a great while mostly ramblings. Last night was one such time as much goes on here & in my life. When I finished writing to her....I LOL & said this is one for the Mentor thread!!! Well she wrote back that I should copy & paste the whole thing here.

    Well here goes.....From FaceBook.

    Debbie, First off Big HUGS!!!!!

    Oh what a week....So as I sit in Church tonight & most other times....I take a piece of paper out of my purse & start to Jot down ALL the names I can possibly remember that Need special Prayers.....The first person I wrote was Saint.....then YOU (Faith)!!! I do this before Mass begins so as the service unfolds I can glance at the names & remember Tidbits of things that Need to Cross into my Intentions of those In Need.....It was for Miracles....I still continue to Pray for Hers to Unfold.....
    In the Midst of this Great Feat of Mine tonight......Much More was Brought to his Table through My Heart.....as the Mass Intentions were for My Motherly figure Friend that Died Early this year. Then the Priest Opens up about a Brave Wonderful Young Man.....that lost the Battle Today. My boys either went to School with Him or Knew of Him. He died of Bone Cancer I believe.

    Yes I am Greatly Saddened.....& Much has been brought before my Table this Year....This week....but strange as it seems I some how feel peace through all this sadness. Some how I feel a Growing....Learning process in all of this.....Understanding that many don't get.....I will some how be made stronger from all of this....& many other reasons that have yet to be known by me.....

    Yes I am being Challenged & Very Reflective tonight.....Some how I can run these Ramblings by You & know You understand with out a word being spoken back to me!!!!

    Maybe this should of been put on the 'Mentor' thread! LOL!!! I some how am LOST when it comes to Bible Verses though!!!!

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    Ok Faith I did it. It's true about the Bible....I absorb through hearing....I guess Music is my Momentum gives a purpose & makes my Heart sing.

    Held  it isn't right at all. I hope that Dr. gets back soon. You know your body & when something isn't right. I hope that things get looked at soon so that you can start to feel better.

    Sending Prayers to All you Mentors....For Learning.....Giving.....& Recieving Strength.

  • faithandfifty
    faithandfifty Member Posts: 10,007
    edited December 2009

    Julz. Welcome.

    Held. Hugs.

    Prayers.

    Strength and courage.

    Strength and courage.

    Strength and courage.

    xx00xx00xx00xx00xx

  • Held
    Held Member Posts: 506
    edited December 2009

    I saw my plastic surgeon this morning.  I was having such anxiety waiting to see him.  The longer I waited, the more anxious I got.  I had to remind to myself to breathe!!! LOL!  I wasn't sure what to expect.  Come back in a year? 6 months? Never?  Find something ELSE to biopsy??  

     He gave me the once over - told me he was basically pleased with the result (the incision started to open before it was healed so it is a rather ugly scar).  I am going back in 2 months and then he is going to touch up my tats in March.  Should be intersting. 

    I am very blessed to have such a talented, caring surgeon, but I am glad today is over with!!!!!!

    My primary doc called me back and thinks I might be feeling so miserable from allergies - hmmmm, not so sure I agree, but I will try her home remedies and see what happens.  Thanks for all your prayers.

    PS - I got braces put on for the second time in my life this afternoon.

  • deborye
    deborye Member Posts: 7,002
    edited December 2009
  • EWB
    EWB Member Posts: 2,927
    edited December 2009

    Oh my Held, you have had so much going on! Glad you got thru the check up, hoping you feel better soooon.

  • saint
    saint Member Posts: 1,877
    edited December 2009

    I have been out of the loop too long! I just wanted to stop by & offer my continued support & prayers for all here--------& a profound THANK YOU! Your prayers worked a miracle for me---I have always scoffed at ppl asking for miracles! God has a funny sense of humor don't you think???

    Hugs all-be well & stay strong 

  • EWB
    EWB Member Posts: 2,927
    edited December 2009
    Saint! hugs hugs hugs. God indeed has a funny sense of humor, and maybe some day we will actually pay attention Tongue out. So glad to "see" you, and so very glad you are feeling better. Much love, hugs and prayers.
  • saint
    saint Member Posts: 1,877
    edited December 2009

    thanx & hugs back!!!!

  • Held
    Held Member Posts: 506
    edited December 2009

    I hope everyone had a wonderful Christmas! 

    Anyone else having the blues?  Mine might be medication related, or because I really miss my brother (haven't seen him in 3 years), and then the day after Christmas my life-long friend send me a message that her father died.....  the funeral is tomorrow.  Ugh.

    My doctor called me this morning. I told her I can't handle the side effects of some of these medications, so she is adjusting some things and doing some blood work.  I am looking forward to feeling better when the change happens (I hope).

    I am going to make it a New Years resolution to go to church every week, without beating myself up if I don't go.  Anyone with me?

  • faithandfifty
    faithandfifty Member Posts: 10,007
    edited December 2009

    Well held. I'm in the 'blue' department with you. We had a lovely week of Christmas, simple and relaxing -- with blessings abounding.

    Yesterday our son-in-law deployed for Iraq/Afghanistan..... leaving our daughter to single-parent our 3 treasures which is a circus act on a good day.

    Saint is having an especially tough time -- with unexplained pain, headaches and other host of symptoms. She was very weak when we spoke briefly yesterday.

    Tomorrow is my 'recall' mamo..... so we shall see what we shall see.

    So "BLUE" is an apt description for me. I wrote a very heart-felt post on my blog about our church's "Blue Christmas" celebration on Christmas eve-eve. You can get it on my blog, look back a few posts, till you find the license plate that says: SRVIVOR.  Reading there might give you a boost. It was a brilliant idea.

    xx00xx00xx00xx

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