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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited October 2009

    Oh darn!! I have to pass on meeting up with you wonderful Jersey GirlsYell  Paramus Pk Mall is too far for me and lately I never know when I can get the car.  We are playing musical cars in my family these days because my own car is in for service waiting for a new engine.  Maybe another time we can have another one.  Chern, I still have no hair either!  I hate wearing my wig it's so hot, and I usually am taking my chemo cap on and off in the house depending on how chilly I get or if I'm getting any hot flashes I rip it off too.

    Shellyr25,  Hi,  my oldest daughter used to go to school in Rochelle Pk.  I am seeing Dr. Waintraub at the Cancer Center in Hackensack.  Is that where you go also?

  • EWB
    EWB Member Posts: 2,927
    edited October 2009

    Why don't we also find some place for those more south of the Paramus area? Where does everyone live?

  • cherneski
    cherneski Member Posts: 726
    edited October 2009

    I am in Belvidere (Warren county), but I go for txs and to see family in Somerville (Somerset county).  I am up for anywhere within about an hour.

  • cherneski
    cherneski Member Posts: 726
    edited October 2009
    shanagirl, I hear ya about the head wraps.  I have my thin wrap, the winter hats that look ridiculous on me, I am always changing them.  I drive down the street bald sometimes, I just dont care.  When the hot flashes come, ppl should be thankful I dont strip!  Laughing
  • EWB
    EWB Member Posts: 2,927
    edited October 2009

    I am in Parsippany, Morris County.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited October 2009

    OMG, Chern,  StripSurprised  If we did that, people would be in for a real shocker http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZNxdm824RGUS I look at myself in the mirror sometimes and thing what a mess!!

  • EWB
    EWB Member Posts: 2,927
    edited October 2009

    Who cares what others think? And if you avoid mirrors, it becomes all about how you FEEL and what makes you comfortable. IMHO

  • cherneski
    cherneski Member Posts: 726
    edited October 2009

    EWB, Yes but stripping in public could cause problems~lmao.  You are just a hop skip and a jump down Rt. 80 for me.  Mapquest says about 50 Minutes.  Lets see who else is around us.  Are you going to lunch this Friday? 

  • EWB
    EWB Member Posts: 2,927
    edited October 2009

    Not sure, have to rearrange some other things and not sure if I can make it work. Yeah- I didn't think about the stripping thing, I was thinking about head coverings and other sorts of things we all seem to worry about. Although I suppose if you were at home......

  • cherneski
    cherneski Member Posts: 726
    edited October 2009

    I have gotten way too comfortable with the bald thing I think.  If people come over I dont care most times, as I am always either HOT or FREEZING.  So I go from, bald, to woolly, to thin wrap, to bald, blah blah blah.  I have a wig, but really dont wear it.

    Hope to see you Friday, so far I think it is only 2 of us.  It would be great if you could come too!  

  • shelleyr25
    shelleyr25 Member Posts: 107
    edited October 2009

    Boy- I walk away from the computer for a few hours and you guys are yappin' up a storm!! LOL!!

    Shanagirl- Yes, Waintraub at Hackensack...he is...well...lets say interesting!! LOL!!!

    I will definitly be at Bensi on the 23rd..as for any other meetings just let me know. My second surgery is scheduled for tomorrow and then rads wont start for 4-5 weeks so I have some free time that I should be feeling pretty well. 

    Deborah- glad you are done with the chemo and feeling well..you will be my rad sister!!

    If anyone else wants to plan another meet up for those south and west, let me know, I travel well!! :)

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited October 2009

    Shelly, hope your surgery goes ok.

  • candie1971
    candie1971 Member Posts: 4,820
    edited October 2009

    I am in Caldwell

  • shelleyr25
    shelleyr25 Member Posts: 107
    edited October 2009

    The surgery went ok yesterday...still sore of course. Should have the path by my appt. on the 22nd. and hopefully he got the margins we were looking for...

  • EWB
    EWB Member Posts: 2,927
    edited October 2009

    well Candie- we're practically neighbors!

    Shelley- hoping you are resting comfortable and healing quickly!

  • cookiegal
    cookiegal Member Posts: 3,296
    edited October 2009

    have fun everyone!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • cherneski
    cherneski Member Posts: 726
    edited October 2009

    Sorry Ladies it is Friday morning and I feel like crap, so I wont be able to make it.  I was hoping it wouldnt last (started Wednesday).  I hope you all have fun.  Sorry for the short notice.

    Hugs Deb

  • shelleyr25
    shelleyr25 Member Posts: 107
    edited October 2009

    Deb- Aren't our plans for next Friday the 23rd?? (sorry you are feeling so badly)...

  • cherneski
    cherneski Member Posts: 726
    edited October 2009

    LOL, Thanks Shelley!  Shows you how out of it I am.  Great, hopefully I will see you all then.  I am sure I will be feeling better from this by then.  Pretty sure I have a sinus infection. blah blah blah

    Glad I felt bad as I would have been the only one there.  If I only had a brain.Laughing

  • cherneski
    cherneski Member Posts: 726
    edited October 2009

    Shelly, glad sx went ok.  Hope you get GREAT news on the 22nd!

  • candie1971
    candie1971 Member Posts: 4,820
    edited October 2009

    EWB, where are you??

  • shelleyr25
    shelleyr25 Member Posts: 107
    edited October 2009

    Deb- dont laugh...I had to check 2 calendars to be sure that I was not the one with the dates wrong!! LOLOL!! Glad it is only a sinus infection..hope to see you on the 23rd!!

  • EWB
    EWB Member Posts: 2,927
    edited October 2009

    Candie- I am in Parsippany/Morris Plains...right off Rt 10 / Rt 53

  • unklezwifeonty
    unklezwifeonty Member Posts: 1,710
    edited October 2009

    Curious where is everyone going for their treatments?

    I had my surgery at Sloan Kettering.

    Having chemo at Overlook.

    Planning radiation at Sloan Kettering.

  • shelleyr25
    shelleyr25 Member Posts: 107
    edited October 2009

    Hackensack University Hospital...surgery, onc and rads will be there too..

  • cherneski
    cherneski Member Posts: 726
    edited October 2009

    Steeplechase Cancer Center in Somerville, next to Somerset hospital.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited October 2009

    Hacensack University Medical Ctr  ~  mastectomy Dr. Davidson, Reconstruction, Dr. Stephanie Cohen, Chemo, Dr.Waintraub

    Jersey Shore University Medical Ctr ~ Radiation, Dr. Briggs

  • shelleyr25
    shelleyr25 Member Posts: 107
    edited October 2009

    Shanagirl....using Davidson as well as Waintraub..

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited October 2009

    Shellly, I like Davidson,  Waintraub is "interesting".... Wink

  • shelleyr25
    shelleyr25 Member Posts: 107
    edited October 2009

    Yes, "interesting" is the way to put it...he came super highly recommended though...but I must say, he did not catch the interaction between the tamoxifen he prescribed, and the Zoloft and Wellbutrin that I was already on...

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