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  • abbadoodles
    abbadoodles Member Posts: 2,618
    edited July 2009

    Jorf, I've never been to one of their sales.  Do you mean you've been to the Northampton store?  You're in my neck of the woods?

    I don't know why I bother writing about fashion.  Here I sit in jeans, t-shirt and denim shirt again.  Laughing

  • EWB
    EWB Member Posts: 2,927
    edited July 2009

    because we all dream about being put together and looking like Audrey Hepburn or such.

  • BethNY
    BethNY Member Posts: 2,710
    edited July 2009
    Jorf you can get the I fight like a girl merch at www.cafepress.com In the search bar type in Breast Cancer I fight like a girl.
  • KAK
    KAK Member Posts: 1,679
    edited July 2009

    Tina, I think you, me and jorf should make a journey to the EF store in Northampton on a Friday!  I have Fridays off, so that's perfect.  Jorf, your description reminds me of the good old days at Filene's Basement in downtown Boston!!  Anyone else want to come along?

    There is also a link called:  www.fightlikeagirlonline.com  

    They support breast cancer specifically.

    Jorf, there is also a website for women's self-defense called www.rapeescape.com run by the Women's Self-Defense Institute, whose logo is a cool version of Fight Like A Girl, which you may be interested in checking out as a martial arts person.

    Both of these groups have FB pages, BTW.

    And since this is the fashion thread, I thought you girls might get a kick out of the latest effort in my series of photos & self-portraits about the Big Adventure.  I look like Sarah Palin's biker chick cousin in this photo -- the one they never talk about!!  LOL

  • abbadoodles
    abbadoodles Member Posts: 2,618
    edited July 2009

    Holy crapoly!  I'd know that tattoo anywhere!  What a great picture, you tart.

    Well, Northampton sounds like a plan to me.  You say when.

  • EWB
    EWB Member Posts: 2,927
    edited July 2009

    Love the picture! who is that reflecting in the door?  Maybe red nails to really pop?

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 19,757
    edited July 2009
    Okay Kathi, I'll be blunt, was your prothesis supposed to show? Or is that a funny comment by me? Embarassed
  • EWB
    EWB Member Posts: 2,927
    edited July 2009

    Didn't even notice, too busy admiring the red earrings and shoes. Isn't that similar to another self portrait that you did?

  • KAK
    KAK Member Posts: 1,679
    edited July 2009

    Barbe, the prosthesis is supposed to show....I'm playing kind of a trashy survivor!!   Kind of like having your slip showing....god, haven't worn a slip in a hundred years!!   Gives me a hot flash just thinking about it!   That is me reflected in door (the magic of Photoshop...).  Elaine, I thought of red nail polish, but I was too lazy to do my nails over.  Could change the color in Photoshop, but I like the lips/earrings/shoes combo.   LOL

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 19,757
    edited July 2009

    OOoooo, love your hair though!

    I WOULD do the nails Kathi, it would nail the trashy survivor (pun intended). Though I don't think you look trashy....Undecided 

  • Raye99
    Raye99 Member Posts: 1,350
    edited July 2009

    Great pic, Kathi. For a New Englander, you look mightly Southern in that pic. Must be the hair - love it. I also like the prosthesis showing - when I wear a tank like that, one of  mine invariably works it way  up there - I have to have my husband or girlfriends keep an eye on them.

    I went swimming last weekend in Lake Erie - did I tell you guys this? - had a bikini bottom and sports bra top on with prostheses just stuck in the top- no pockets. I was doing the breast stroke and one prosthesis escaped - thank goodness they float.  The more I type, the more I think I've already told this story, but I can't go back a page and look. About how I thought the prosthesis was a Walleye swimming next me? Yeah, already told you. Chemo head. Embarassed

  • abbadoodles
    abbadoodles Member Posts: 2,618
    edited July 2009

    NO, you didn't.  LOL

    Hey, big bottom girls.  LLBean now has a new jean with curvy fit, for those of us with small waist and big arse.  Gotta get some.

  • EWB
    EWB Member Posts: 2,927
    edited July 2009

    The more I look at the photo the more I like it and the more "stuff" I see, don't know if its intended but symbols etc.

    TheGap and LaneBryant also have a nice curvy fit, not too expensive

  • abbadoodles
    abbadoodles Member Posts: 2,618
    edited July 2009

    Thanks for the tip.  I can't do Lane Bryant as I'm a size 6 but I will definitely check out the Gap.  I just wish these folks would do a curvy fit with regular waist.  Both LL and Gap (which I just checked online) only have low waist.  It looks like Gap's are lower cut.  I need long rise and have a problem with low waists but I'm gonna investigate for sure!  I've been reduced to wearing LL's comfort waist stretch jeans because at least with the side elastic they don't stand out four inches from my natural waistline.

  • EWB
    EWB Member Posts: 2,927
    edited July 2009

    The Gap are not very low waist in their curvy fit---I am not to much into the low waist and also have long rise but these are nice. Best to try on if you cxan. Comes in Chinos and dark wash demin. I had tried some summer weight material things they had but just didn't fir the same.

  • Raye99
    Raye99 Member Posts: 1,350
    edited July 2009

    What about Lee jeans? Some are pretty cute and they have all kinds of styles.

    http://www.lee.com/store/LEE_STORE_US/en_US/category/women/jeans.html

  • KAK
    KAK Member Posts: 1,679
    edited July 2009

    Barbe, I tried making one of my nails red in Photoshop & it worked!  So, I'll post it again when I get to all of them.

    Raye, funny you should say what you did, because one of my blogger sisters, who lives in Arkansas, saw that photo on my blog & with the hair, the tight dress & the red lipstick, she named me an Honorary Southern Gal!!  Shucks!

  • dreamwriter
    dreamwriter Member Posts: 3,255
    edited July 2009

    I just posted my photo on the Beach thread and the B*tch thread.  Pick one.  Same photo.  Points to note, the arm showing is the one with lymphedema.  The tyke is my grandson and yes he has prince charlie ears.  Smart as a whip.  The skirt I am wearing is a Dreamwriter original.

  • abbadoodles
    abbadoodles Member Posts: 2,618
    edited July 2009

    Went and looked.  You are so cute, dream!  Why do you keep saying you are ugly???  So NOT!  And your grandson looks so joyous and happy to be with you! 

    LOVE the print of the skirt.  Do you sew a lot? 

    Just coming back to edit:  I am so upset at the mean-spirited morons in your hs who saddled you with that name and baggage!  You are adorable!!!  This just p---es me off!

  • dreamwriter
    dreamwriter Member Posts: 3,255
    edited July 2009

    Thank you for the support.

  • abbadoodles
    abbadoodles Member Posts: 2,618
    edited July 2009

    It isn't "support."  I MEAN IT.

    Well, they can all go poop in a handbag, now can't they?

  • dreamwriter
    dreamwriter Member Posts: 3,255
    edited July 2009

    If it didnt hurt so much I could tell them to poop in a handbag.  But they are all successful b*tches and Im a quiet nobody.  They left their marks and I bit my nails.  This swan stayed the ugly duckling.

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 19,757
    edited July 2009

    Dream, when I was in school I was terroized. I had 'slut' written on my locker, and when I asked why, they said 'because you have big tits'. I was told I was the 'ugliest thing that walked the earth'. I was told that now they knew why it was called 'puppy love' (I was a dog).I was told in front of a huge group of peers that I had 'everything a man could want.....including a mustache'. EVERYONE laughed!

    I actually looked at these people with pity and rose above it. I truly believe that beauty comes from within. I have no idea where these people are now and I really don't care, but you have given me pause to wonder how they even look in the mirror in the morning.

    Kiss

  • Raye99
    Raye99 Member Posts: 1,350
    edited July 2009

    Dream! I looked at the picture - you are lovely. What are you talking about? Ugly duckling? Nonsense. Let go of hs. You are a strong woman. Look at what you've faced (are facing) and tackled - STRONG Girl. Don't buy into that horsesh**.

  • abbadoodles
    abbadoodles Member Posts: 2,618
    edited July 2009

    Garnet Hill is having their big end of summer sale and they have tons of cute stuff including Eileen Fisher.  Also some knit dresses that might please some of you.  www.garnethill.com

    I went for a hair trim this morning and, of course, couldn't resist a side trip to the mall.  Bought a couple of cute, short, tiered cotton knit skirts (a white and a brown) for 1/2 price in Ann Taylor Loft.  I'll be able to wear them with a bunch of summer tops.

    Also bought a black, slinky but calf-length travel knit skirt from Chico's.  Now, I know I said I wouldn't wear long skirts and even this is longer than I was looking for, but it's gored and flared and just drapes so nicely.  I can see it for all year long wear (it's heavier weight) with cute tops and, of course, it won't wrinkle.  I'll be it'll look good in the fall with black opaques and either my heeled bootlets from last year or tall boots.  So, see.  Never say never.

    PS I've decided that pic of Kathi looks like Holly Golightly on steroids.  Cool

  • Raye99
    Raye99 Member Posts: 1,350
    edited July 2009

    Ann Taylor this time of year has great sales - I am trying to curb my spending however, so I have nothing to report except the blue flat iron for my hair, oh and a new pair of brown sandles, which were 1/2 off at Macy's on the clearance rack (where they put only the one shoe out). Oh, and the Ohio State pink and grey t-shirt from TJMaxx yesterday. oh, how easily we forget. sigh...

    I think the long skirt would look great with a form fitting top and tall boots in the winter.

  • KAK
    KAK Member Posts: 1,679
    edited July 2009

    Dream, when I was in grammar school/middle school, I hung out with the "uncool" kids, the rejected girls that no one else wanted to hang with.  I was kinda nerdy & geeky.  Once in seventh grade, because I didn't want to gossip about one of my friends with the "cool" girls or let them copy my homework, they actually picketed me in the schoolyard, carried signs and everything.  I ran into one of those girls about 15 years later & she was actually nice & said to me, "I was a little bitch back then, wasn't I?"   Wonders will never cease.

    LOL, Tina!!  That was actually what I was sort of going for, the Holly Golightly on Steroids!!!  (I actually have a very HG sort of hat & vintage dress that I'll have to do something with....hmmm.  I'll have to find some pearls and some short white gloves for that!)  Wanted to poke some fun at myself & at other people's assumptions about us bc girls.

    Good tip on Garnet!   Thanks!

  • dreamwriter
    dreamwriter Member Posts: 3,255
    edited July 2009

    Maybe it was the MEAN girls that cause the cancer.... seeding negative thoughts about ourselves.  It is amazing how many of us have suffered at the hands of the b*tches.  My story had an addendum when we had the 10 yr reunion.  There were 10 seats and 11 of us and they asked me to move.  They were polite enough, but they wanted to be together and I was the one they wanted to move.  I got a migraine, while sitting at another table.  I threw up at the very entrance to the washroom.  Then "the ugliest girl in school" got me a cab and paid to send me home.

  • EWB
    EWB Member Posts: 2,927
    edited July 2009

    Forget them, not worth the time of day. Besides- you are with the cool group now---US--and thats what counts Cool

    I suppose many of those girls/ladies end up rather boring (or Mrs. Milk Toast), maybe they always were. Shallow people with nothing interesting to talk about or share, which is why they focus on others. I expect that the ladies here all have extraordinary stories, lives, hobbies & interests.

  • KAK
    KAK Member Posts: 1,679
    edited July 2009

    Elaine, amen to that!   I know that I've ended up being a much more compassionate person because I got sh*t on so much as a kid.  I also learned early on who my real friends were, and to be true to myself, because the people who would even ask you to sell out ain't worth spit.

    Dream, this adventure that we all go through is definitely an occasion when we find out who really cares about us & what people are really made of.  So, cherish those who love & care about you (all the ladies here sure do), and forget the jerks that are so insecure, they have to prop themselves up at someone else's expense.  They are the true losers, in every sense of the word.  I wouldn't trade places with ANY of them!

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