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Hi Debbie........it's good to see you on this thread. Please stay with us. Everyone needs SOMEONE, and there's alot of caring and compassionate ladies here. You really get attached to others here and get worried if you don't see them for a few days. So, please make us a "habit". We'd love to have you!!

Ok........Kathleen.....I hope you're feeling better. I DO think about you and praying for you every single day. Can't wait till you're out of the hospital. Lucy is supposed to be getting us an address, and when she does, you better watch out. You're gonna have alot of reading to do. Maybe it will pass the time. Of course, I'm sure they're working with you in therapy.

(((((((((big gentle hugs for you today))))))) can't wait till you're home again.

Coonie:  Thank you for all your thoughts and thoughtfulness! 

I read everyone's comments and am so amazed by your compassion. 

I am sleeping better now, but I have decided not to take anything.  That seems to help.  Someone mentioned anxiety.  Some of my anxiety I know is about my son.  I know I shouldn't, but my mind won't stop thinking at night. My son is getting remarried on 7-11 and he and his finacee are doing everything themselves, including the food and the cake.  I said I could do the deviled eggs.  He finally said yes (I think it is because he always liked mine). They bought 40 pounds of pork that they are cooking so they can have pulled pork - barbequed and plain.  I said I could do some of that.  He finally said yes to that. I want to do more, but hope I can do this.  You know what I mean?!  They both work full time.  They both have kids = my son's sons are 13 and 10.  He gets them every other weekend.  She has two girls - 9 and 2. Everyone gets along very well.  The little girl absolutely adores my son.  The lady is really great and she makes my son happy and he makes her happy.

Besides the food, they are moving everything themselves.  They found a house they can buy on contract.  Both have been working really hard to fix it up. He has this one chair that weighs about 500 pounds.  That piece of furniture worries me mainly because he wants to put this down in his basement. 

He was so hurt after his first wife decided to call it quits.  His ex-wife had men "friends", but kept telling everyone they were only friends.  She told my son on their anniversary six months after they split, that she would go back with him and try it again.  Two days later she told him she was 3 months pregnant with her "friend's" child.  He was absolutely crushed.  I know it takes 2 to keep a marriage working, but both need to really be committed to it, especially if you get back together.  After that, he was done with women.  I don't think he even considered dating for a year.  He and this lady have been together now for a year and have had their ups and downs.  He is 34, but has grown a lot through this experience.  You know, no matter how old they get, they are still your children.  I wonder if my mother thought that about me when I remarried the second time.  She probably did and kept it to herself.  Thank you for letting me talk about this.  I don't have anyone that I can say this to and not worry that it might get back to my son and his future bride. 

Thanks.  Debbie

Gentle hugs Kathleen.

Anyone have her address yet?

I want the addy toooo!

Happy 4th, Kathleen.  I hope everything is doing better.  It will be great to have you back!

Happy 4th, everyone.

I would like her address, too.  I don't know how to do PMs.  I tried it once, but it wouldn't let me put anyone's name in. 

I realize it is the 3rd, took me a while, though.  I better remember, I have a massage scheduled for 1:00 this afternoon.My shoulder and back feel so tight.  Probably, some of it is from the computer.  This is the most enjoyment I have when you can't do things you need or would like to do as well as you could.  Some things, not suppose to, they say.  Oh, well, I'll just have to figure this out.  Anyone else have should and back problems?

Debbie

Happy 4th of July Kathleen. I will be online next week sporadically.

Sheila

Kathleen....just a few fireworks for you just in case you missed them. Hope you've been able to accomplish alot today toward your recovery. Sending hugs and prayers still that the doctors and rehab people can get you back and going in the right direction real soon. Can't wait to have you back on the boards posting those cute pics again. Gentle hugs (((((((((((((Kathleen))))))))))

Let us know if you are able to get near a computer. We'd love to hear from you and how you're doing.

Hey did anyone get an address for her yet??????

Good morning Kathleen! Don't know how many days this has been for you, but I sure hope and praying you're making great progress!! Who knows, you might be ready to do the walk with Checkum this month. Still sending you big hugs and bigger prayers for a speedy recovery.

Hi Kathleen........hope you had a good weekend. Hope the hospital at least gave you some red/white/blue jello or something to help celebrate the 4th of July:) Can't wait till you home and posting again. We miss you!!

(((((((((gentle hugs))))))

That would be GREAT Lucy!! Thanks!!!!!!!

Hi Kathleen.......sure hope they've got that foot feeling better. That's pretty serious stuff. We're missing you terribly on the boards. Can't wait till you're back. Lucy is gonna get your addy so we can drive you crazy while you're there;)

(((((((((((((gentle hugs)))))))))))

Thanks Lucy!!!!!!!!

I just talked to Kathleen. She sounds pretty good. I think she's a bit tired of the hospital food....said she thinks they ship it in by bulk.......yuck:(

Anyway, she will probably be in for about 3 more weeks. They're treating her with antibiotics, so maybe it'll heal up. It was really good to hear her voice.

I'm sure she would LOVE some cards!!!

((((((((((((((kathleen))))))))))

I have been waiting for that address for simply ages.  The card is all ready to go.

Just saw the address and will get a card in the mail tomorrow.

Sheila