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Mel...it's always WONDERFUL to see you!!! I sure hope your back is feeling better after today. Do they give you any back exercises to do? I used to have back issues..and so much of it is due to poor core muscle strength. If you can, do some sittups when you are feeling better. Also, they should give you some exercises to strengthen and stretch your back. Good luck with that sweetie..I know it's so uncomfortable.
Cathi...Enjoy your time with Alexcis!!
Barbe...I agree why don't they take it out if it's so large?? Happy B'day to you, just in case I am not on!!
Val...thanks for that group hug......ADORABLE!
Off today...lots to do, as usual!
Love to all my sisters!! Wren.........so good to see you!! Sorry you have been feeling so low.
Fumi...I agree with Mel....we need posts and PICS from you!!
xoxo
Lisa
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(Notice I didn't ask if the kittens were all dead in that picture? Y'all laughed at me over the puppy one!)
Thanks Cathi. You WILL be busy!
Mel, I've had 4 epidurals in my neck and back at a pain clinic. Can they send you to one? Back pain is horrendous to live with. There is no crutch or cast for anyone to see why you hurt so much....((((( hugs)))))))).
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Posting Sheila's beautiful quilts!
Hugs,
Fumi
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Thanks Fumi, that is actually the same quilt, top shot taken at work, bottom shot taken at home.
The top one I pinned the block for my grandmother to my valentine quilted wall hanging, I haven't taken it down yet
. All the hankies in Grandma's block belonged to her mother and sister in-law from the 1930's. I hand appliqued each piece of hankie on a base fabric, then hand quilted around each block. I found a scroll heart quilt design to quilt in the border. I embellished the block with vintage buttons from Aunt Alice's button box. Donald came up with the idea for the lace edging on the block. Some of the white ones don't show the white embroidery on them in the photo but they are all beautiful. The C in the middle is for Cora Reeder (my great grandmother) but my grandmother's name is Coral. I plan on making a larger version for my office wall.
Sheila
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Sheila it's beautiful! I noticed the heart quilted border right away. When do you give it to her? Has she seen it in progress? Nice to finish a UFO, isn't it...hehehehehe
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Barbe, I picked the heart quilting pattern to match the scroll work around the C in the middle. She hasn't seen it yet. I will be giving it to her next week (Saturday) at her Birthday party. I started on this wall art in Feburary and finished it in May so it wasn't too long in the works. What takes longer is the bigger pieces and more extensive hand quilting. I do have to thank her for my love of sewing and quilting. She had me sewing at a Tredle sewing machine when i was about 8 or 9 making stuffed rag dolls and clothes to put on them. I only hope to get as good with my quilting stitches as she has done in the past. Due to her age, arthritis and macular degeneration, she doesn't sew any more.
Also, to be in my quilt guild you have to have more than 5 projects in the ufo stage
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Sheila
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Shelia the quilt is beautiful. We have one that Ed's mom made about 25+ years ago (we use it every winter here) just beautiful too, and it just continues to stand the test of time. She was a great quilter as well (of coarse being Amish thats pretty much a given) hie sis has many more she made.
Yes Barbe I have a busy weekend ahead, and I am suffering with a gosh awful headache, have taken so many Tylenol my stomach is upset, have no clue what it's from, hopefully I'll have it better by 4 when Ed and Alexcis get here. Don't think it's a migrane, I don't get those, but my eyes do hurt (not light sensative though) just my eye sockets feel painful ???? Weird -think I'll try a nap
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Cathi, it may be your sinuses getting all blocked up...do you have allergies? Hope you feel better soon, cause it's going to get pretty busy there very soon!
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Sheila - that is a beautiful piece of handiwork! It has love sewn into it.
Cathi - hope your headache has gone. It is probably stress-related. I tend not to get headaches but for a few years in my mid-40s I got migraines and they were truly dreadful so I really feel for anyone who gets any sort of headache.
Val - love the group hug photo - dear little kitties! Love the smiles on their sweet little faces.
Hugs to all,
Jane xxoxox
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Barbe, it's already the 16th here so I'm also getting in early and wishing you a VERY happy birthday! Hope you have a very enjoyable day. xxx
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Lisa, your daughter is very beautiful. I love the dress. Sorry I haven't been on in a while.
Leesa
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Sheila!! So talented. That is a a beautiful quilt!!
Big Hugs to all. I missed you all today!
Keeping you all in my prayers.
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The headache went away after a left over MX pain pilll and a good nap, Alexcis and I enjoyed a great bike ride, then watched a movie. I recorded the Farrah Story and just finished watching it - did anyone else see it. All I can say is WOW, cried like a baby, never was a big Charlies Angel Fan so sad to see anyone suffer so.
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Happy Birthday Barbe!!!
Sheila, such a pretty quilt! Yes, you ARE talented!
Cathi, so happy you got rid of your headache. I recorded the Farrah story too, but haven't watched it yet. (actually forgot it was on last night and that I had it set to record ... now I know what I will be watching today)
Happy weekend all
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Thanks for the good wishes all! Off to work soon....sigh.
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I watched the last hour or so of the Farrah story. She's got a hard case...it will be very, very tough to beat it. My gut tells me she's just buying time, but as the ladies on the Stage IV board say, at what price of QOL.
Gray, rainy day here, just right for buying my herbs and maybe getting them in the ground between showers. Then I don't have to water them (heh, heh). I'm going to visit my dad this afternoon and see how he's been doing at his physical therapy this week.
My kids took me out for a belated Mother's Day dinner last night. We gorged ourselves on sushi. Now I'm off to take my son home after he spent the night. It's so nice to hear his voice around the house and to hear him playing the piano. I realize how much I miss him when I have him here.
Barbe, did I miss your birthday? Oh no, I'm always coming in late for thye party. Hope you have/had a good one!
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Cathi and others, I watched the Farrah story too. It was amazing. She really let you sneak a peak into a very personal part of her life. I agree that she is buying time. I didn't realize that Ryan O'Neil has Luekemia. Such a sad story.
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Hello Sisters xxxx
I love all the pictures... Lisa, Olivia is a stunner ... you mut be so proud ... and your picture is beautiful, my your hair is gorgeous!
Sheila I love the quilt ! You are so talented ... I really wouldnt have the patience LOL
I am sorry I haven't been around, I haven't been feeling 100% lately, and I dont know why.
Yday I went to the chemist to discover they couldnt get hold of my anti ds so I googled to see if it was a permanent problem... I didnt get that far a I found out that anti ds can cause WEIGHT GAIN, I have never given them much thought since the doc prescribed them nearly 2 years ago when I discovered BOIL IN THE DIRTYRIDDEN BAG BOOTFACE....and now realise that I dont really need them ??????????????? So I am breaking ea tablet up and taking 10 mg a day.....what do you think ???????/ I read it is hard to come off thing like these.... can anyone give any input ....
I feel kind of sad lately and can feel a black hole ... but I am happy @ the same time.... very difficult to describe...
I also read the tabs cause bone pain and bad dreams ... I now wonder if it is these rather than the chemo....
WHAT TO DO...,.
Can anyone please advise better ... I mean of any experiences.... I just really never gave it a second thought ... it has been the least of the problem xxx
thankyou sisters... it means a lot.
I do hope everyone is fairing up.
I AM GETTING SICK OF THE ENGLISH WEATHER ... it has rained for weeks on end!
Much Love xxx
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Sue, I know the anti d meds cause weight gain, and so does Lyrica and Neurontin, but I have to chose my devil and I can't stand being angry.
I'm worried that you feel kind of sad. Don't you think it's because you've reduced your dosage? You should talk to your doctor about weaning off. The weight gain is a couple pounds not 10 or 20.....
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Hiya Barbe
I have been feeling down for about 3 weeks now... and a lil under the weather.. so I put them together.
I just took my first pill reduction this morning, I notcied straight away driving to work a little different and more focused.
I have gained about erm... 20 pounds since nearly 2 years... I have never gained weight before...I just thougt last night ... when I saw bone pain etc side effects it may be this ... ohhhhhh I dont know what to do ... if I go the docs they will just say go down to 10mgs if you want to wean off them... I am just scared of the withdrawals... I might try... I might even feel better...
I think I have been sad cos I think that I am running out of time before it comes back... as its been 2 years since...
ARGHHHH state of mind lol xxx
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Sue, I used to be on 250 mgs of Zoloft. I am now down to 25 mgs. I still need it to hold back anger, but I don't feel drugged at all. Perhaps a change of meds rather than a complete lack of them will help you better. You have to be careful of these drugs, please talk to your doc! They are here to help you. Your body may not be utilizing your med properly now and you may need a new one anyway!
Hugs!
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Thankyou soooo much , I didn't realise they could stop working as effectively etc... I think I will go and see my doctor next Thursday... actually in all reality I will stick with the correct dose, if I don't get to the doctor on my day off (you know what I am like ha) I will most cetainly get there eventually!
I do feel really low, I have been relatively OK for 2 years until last month! I wish I wasnt so complex, I annoy myself @ times like these! I definitely feel deeeeeeeee damn pressed LOL... well maybe a lil sad.... everything is just greyyyyyyyyyyy x x x
Thankyou very much ... X
hey it could be the weather... my age..... my job......... ..... english mps... England....... joe public....... the list is ENDLESS lol I need a retreat ... I just cant shake the cloud!
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D I S I L L U S I O N E D
just bout sums it up xxx
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..... last time I started feeling so low was before I realised and got DX ... so that puts me on edge... when I cant put the blame on anything in particualr..OH MY GOD I NEED TO RANT SOON hahaha
YES I DOOOOOOOOOOOOOO lol
but I will save you from my rants ... eh ... xxx
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Geez Sorry ... OK
I am down YES ... BUT I am happy cos if I feel down then it might be connected with you know what as it was last time... so am I ok or am I trying to fake cos I am scared it might be a sign of something ...
OMG does it make sense...
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Rant away, Sue! After all, you do it so well and it makes EVERYONE feel better!
Hugs!!
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Hi Sue
! If you want to get off the anti-ds , I think you are doing it correctly. You need to reduce gradually. Once you are off , see how you feel. Just never stop suddenly. I ran out of effexor once , and didn't have it for two doses , wow , I'll never do that again! I thought I was going down for the count! I'm sure you are nervous at the thought that you are now 2 yrs out. Which is bitter-sweet. One part of your brain says , yeah! I will never have to deal with this again! But then the other part is "waiting for the other shoe to fall". I hope you can get off the anti-ds , and feel good again. And that you never had to deal with stinking , BOIL ON THE RIM OF A SICK DOGS A$$ BOOTFACE EVER -NEVER-EVER AGAIN!!!
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Hi Makraz! How ya doin'? I'm doing good. Back is feeling better today. Hurts mainly in the mornings when I get up. Boy , you should see me "trying" to walk to the bathroom when I get up , you wood laugh your a$$ offf!lol I would if it wasn't so painful at the time. Quiet around here today. Do you have any plans for the weekend? I'm just taking it easy.I did clean out the fridge , wow , I think some of that stuff could of started talking!lol You know how you push stuff into the fridge , and then forget about it , and then when you find it you need a ferensic doc to figure out what it was? Yep , thats what I found!
Sheila , that is a beautiful hanging. I just love the fact that it is made up of the hankies. And it brought back memories for me too. I use to have hankies when I was little , and it spurred my memory of one that looked like the pink flower one you have. I wish I would have kept them. They were so delicate , and girly.You are so very talented. And its so nice that you share that talent with others. Such a special gift from God.
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Ohhh Mel xxx thankyou ... I just had a lovely mail on facebook too xx
Ok I went into the kitchen for a brew ... bcos the email I had made me cry... and then I held back again...which made me think ____
I am way behind on the emotional front ONCE AGAIN AS PER ...BCOS I never ever ever face anything ...EVER ...HEALTHILY ...
AND IT ANNOYS ME ...I ANNOY MYSELF!!
I have always been a workaholic ...every single job... since mu mum died ... I had problems there years after ... and now I think I the last time I cried for England was in the chemo room ...EVERY VISIT ... I blew out so much anger ... rant after rant after rant ... and now a year on I bottled it all up ... and I think that is why I feel so rundown .... and low... and now I am in a corner ... or going down the hole... but WHY ... nothing significant I think ... just on that roundabout ... I never get off to breathe... it has been ages since I have spoke to you all ... ages... bcos I run from everything... and even though I would like to say I have been getting on with life... well to some extent .. maybe... but majorly I have just been treading water on autopilot and running!
I have discovered this since having a full blown row at work with my area manager... involving the original timings of bootface ... and this was 3 weeks ago ... just sent me right back to the bottom ... where I probably was anyway....
I felt truly happy here .... and understood .... grounded ... and then I run ... and slog into work ... BAD BAD BAD .... baaaaaaaad
and having become less fatigue from stupid tx and wotnot ... I am now waking up to reality!
BAD BAD BAD ....
I will never change ...I really want to ...
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of course if my dad ever read the above post he would bounce me to the moon and back... I promised him I would go easy on work ... I never did ....
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