Getting organized before we die
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That is a decision I have been putting off too. But this round of health issues, really made me realize I need to do this when my mind is clear....ha! clear????
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LOL hugs florik!
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Sparkie,
Why don't you take the document that you have to a lawyer, and ask if it will be sufficient to provide for the care of the children. That's the most important thing - whatever it costs, whatever the inconvenience right now, is less than it will be later if there's a conflict over the care of the children. See a lawyer while there's time to make it all right.
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Good idea Analemma
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i am on my way today to sign the will - the trust - the poa - the health proxy - just in case the brain mets get the best of me. my sense of urgency is taking control over everything ...there just isnt enough time to do the things i was born to do. im afraid.
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Bumping for webbie
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Thanx Seyla888. This IS one of my favorite threads here. Tho I am not a IV yet, I like to look at things the way Analemma did. What I was actually looking for was her Goodbye thread. I wanted to contribue my thoughts on the effect she has had on my life and my own struggles. I wanted to let others know how much I loved her and miss her already. But I can't seem to find a thread and she is not on the Angel wall yet. Maybe she wanted it that way? I know she wanted her funeral to be a celebration of her life. Maybe no one here knew she died? I guess I'm confused.
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Oh, we knew she died.
Which thread do you mean by her 'goodbye thread'?'
http://community.breastcancer.org/forum/8/topic/750209?page=2#idx_46
And there is another one posted by her son.
HTH
Lisa
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I'm not familiar with the angels wall, but
Analemma's name was added by Celia088 to the thread "Angels list from the Threads" - here's that link: http://community.breastcancer.org/forum/56/topic/694012?page=11#post_1809991
Her goodbye thread is in the stage IV forum and it's called "BrendaF/Analemma is among the stars now" Here is the link: http://community.breastcancer.org/forum/8/topic/751425?page=1#idx_21
Like LisaSDCA said there was another her son posted on, but I can't remember which one that is now. You can post your feelings on the "among the stars" thread and I'm sure her family will see....I'm glad she had a positive impact on your life...she seemed like an amazing person :>
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