Getting organized before we die

Fllorik

That is a decision I have been putting off too. But this round of health issues, really made me realize I need to do this when my mind is clear....ha! clear????

saint

LOL hugs florik!

Analemma

Sparkie,

Why don't you take the document that you have to a lawyer, and ask if it will be sufficient to provide for the care of the children.  That's the most important thing - whatever it costs, whatever the inconvenience right now, is less than it will be later if there's a conflict over the care of the children.  See a lawyer while there's time to make it all right.

dreamwriter

Good idea Analemma

naturallyredd

i am on my way today to sign the will - the trust - the poa - the health proxy - just in case the brain mets get the best of me.  my sense of urgency is taking control over everything ...there just isnt enough time to do the things i was born to do.  im afraid.

sheila888

Bumping for webbie

webbie

Thanx Seyla888. This IS one of my favorite threads here. Tho I am not a IV yet, I like to look at things the way Analemma did. What I was actually looking for was her Goodbye thread. I wanted to contribue my thoughts on the effect she has had on my life and my own struggles. I wanted to let others know how much I loved her and miss her already. But I can't seem to find a thread and she is not on the Angel wall yet. Maybe she wanted it that way? I know she wanted her funeral to be a celebration of her life. Maybe no one here knew she died? I guess I'm confused.

LisaSDCA

Oh, we knew she died.

Which thread do you mean by her 'goodbye thread'?'

http://community.breastcancer.org/forum/8/topic/750209?page=2#idx_46

And there is another one posted by her son.

HTH

Lisa

chainsawz

I'm not familiar with the angels wall, but

Analemma's name was added by Celia088 to the thread "Angels list from the Threads" - here's that link: http://community.breastcancer.org/forum/56/topic/694012?page=11#post_1809991

Her goodbye thread is in the stage IV forum and it's called "BrendaF/Analemma is among the stars now"  Here is the link: http://community.breastcancer.org/forum/8/topic/751425?page=1#idx_21

Like LisaSDCA said there was another her son posted on, but I can't remember which one that is now.  You can post your feelings on the "among the stars" thread and I'm sure her family will see....I'm glad she had a positive impact on your life...she seemed like an amazing person :>