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Hi Kathy/PugMum, I too finished my rads in mid-December and have started on Femara on 1/1/09. So far, the only SE is some minor 'flushing' - not exactly hot flashes, but close. But they are not debilitating. My Oncologist mentioned this as a possible SE and some minor joint pain, but he also said that only 1-7 ppl get them and if you do, they should only last about a week or so or until your body has adjusted to the new meds. Of course, we all know that everyone is unique in this journey and some SE persist and some ppl Never get them. I did ask him about this pill raising my cholestrol and blood sugar, and said no they don't do that. I can only take his word for that as he is suppose to be the premier oncologist for most of the West Coast of the United States. He also ordered a bone density test to make sure that i dont have the problem of 'bad bones' happening. Whew, i dont!!! I'm 60 yrs old now and have gone thru menopause at 47, so 'starting' ANY SE of that again are kind of upsetting me...I feel ONCE in a lifetime for SEs of menopause should be enough! hahaha But I will give this pill a GO and hopefully be able to tolerate it for the next 5 years with not toooo many effects!
Hope you tolerate it well also and it does its trick for all of us!!!
Good wishes...Cheryl
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Filled the Tamox prescription last night. Starting Effexor today. Feelings about starting both vary from mild to extreme trepidation. Going off of the Zoloft has made me jittery and almost manic at times (it's always worse at this point in my cycle, anyway), so not much to lose.
Funny - the pharm. was going over the patient info and I was all - menopausal-like symptoms: yep, hot flashes: yep, yep, yep, yep, weight fluctuations: got it. Tell me something I haven't heard already!
Pam
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OK--I switched from Wellbutrin to Lexapro so I could start to take Tamox, and not to get too personal--but orgasms are almost a thing of the past. I mean, it'd probably take me half the day and a staff of 12 (sorry, I'm a little hysterical
). Is it going to be like this for five YEARS? I mean, it's not completely impossible, but...Geez. Anyone else dealing with this? What the heck are you supposed to do? I can't go off antidepressants. I really, really, really miss my Wellbutrin. -
Hi, girls, I'm soooo not caught up here. Finally feeling better but work has been way busy.
Ace, I'm on Effexor, which I swear has improved my libido & it's allowed with Tamoxifen.
Sue, Tamoxifen lowers your cholesterol, as it happens, so I was able to stop taking Zocor when I started it! Good luck.
It's soooo freakin' cold here, I can't believe it. Don't know if that helps or hinders libido!! Well, I don't have anyone to share my libido with, so there's not much point in even thinking about it.

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Kathy, I am in the same boat. I had regular periods before chemo, and they haven't come back in the last 2 months since last tx. I am in radiation now. I noticed also some joint pain, and I wonder if that is because we're now sort of "going into" menopause?
I have to decide to either,
- Take Tamoxifin for a couple of years then switch to AI, OR
- Take shots (Lupron?) to supress periods and take an AI
- Or get ovaries out and take an AI.
NO GOOD CHOICES!!!!
Why can't we add a trip to Hawaii to the list? It would be easy to choose then!
Spring (Beverly)
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I think I just had my first, official Tamoxifen hot flash. Whew!
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Hello again! Well, as you can see below, I restarted the tamoxifen 12/23/08. And, I've had no unmanageable skin dryness/itching (certainly some present, but I expected that!). All along, my onc said it wasn't the tamoxifen. And, It's true, I was also changing wardrobe into winter wools, and using a new face wash. So, I also rewashed my sweaters at home, hoping to get the dry cleaning chemicals out, in case that was it. And, switched to Cetaphil lotion and Aveeno Calming face wash. I like 'em both a lot.
Another mystery - my first few weeks, when itching, I had little increase in hot flashes over what I consider menopausally normal. But NOW, oh boy. Lots more. Also, fierce leg cramps in the night. My reading here reminds me to stay hydrated, and that may be working.
On another topic, Thursday I have a 6-month post-surgery mammogram. I can't think of a way I'm not scared about it!
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pclarky,
Best of luck on Thursday!
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Oh, pclarky, my 6-month post-surgery mamm is coming up in a few weeks! Good luck! My poor right breast (what's left of it) has started to feel painful again due, I think, to some further post-rads shrinkage/adhesions, so I'm going to have to massage it again like mad before I go for my squishing! Never ends, does it??
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redheadace1,
you need to move a little further north to help with the hot flashes! This has been a very cold winter in Boston and I must say, it helps with those hot flashes!
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Hey, Makraz, doesn't it tho'??? At least we can save on heating bills!
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I went for my first six monthly check up in London, UK and was dissapointed that they did not do anything except a manual breast examination. They told me it all looked good and asked for a permission to take a photo for their records. I asked whether I could have a mammogram or MRI and they said that there was no need. I mentioned that in America doctors do this and UK oncologist said 'We all know why' (presumably meaning for profit - I can't think of any other reason). Anyhow, even though I don't particulary want to go through trauma of having a mammogram I kind of feel envious as at least you will be properly checked guys. Best of luck and hope it is not too bad. Nena
P.S. I tried arguing but the oncologist was adamant that it was not necessary. He said that even if they had left any cells behind it will be some time before they will be visible on mammogram. I will try and have it done privately in May.
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Accidental - It's not just the UK. I can't have a mammo until my usual yearly comes up this spring. Onco said the insurance wouldn't pay for it any sooner. And after they denied my Oncotype DX payment, I guess they're the boss. Jerks.
Susan
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Hi, Nena! I took a little cue from you & named my new blog "The Accidental Amazon." Even own the domain, www.accidentalamazon.com. LOL. How are you & your family, stupid healthcare systems aside??
How's the buzz over our new president in London? I sat & cried (with the poignancy of the occasion) during his inauguration today. I was 14 when Martin Luther King died & it still sends chills up my spine when I remember him saying "I may not get there with you" during his "I have a dream/mountaintop" speech. Our president was 7 years old the year King was assassinated. Lot of historic resonance around this occasion. The building where he stood to get sworn in today was built by African slaves. Wow.
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HI All. Kathi -yes, what an incredible day, moment, etc., etc. It was very hard to not to have tears, goose bumps and a great sense of hope and joy. My sister, her daughter, son, nephews, husband, brother-in-law, etc. were all there. I thought his speech was excellent and he did not back done, nor did he "preach." He spoke the truth and asked for our help. Wow what a day - the music, poem was great, but I thought the benediction was the best.
Kathi -- it is good thing we didn't try to talk today. I have lost my voice and am fighting a bad, throat, cough thing.
I have one more exciting or amazing thing to add - going back to Obama. One of my very good friends was good friends with Martin Luther King Jr. and I get to work with this amazing man who Martin asked to help him with the civil rights movement. What a privilege this is.
I hope we can take responsibility and demand/urge, whatever, to get answers to why we are developing cancer. Why there is so much talk about treatment (which is good), but always with little discussion of the causes of cancer. At this sociohistorical moment in cancer we are being influenced in a significant way to always think treatment. There is much more to think about and to research. I do not want to become a person whose ideology is influenced so strongly by treatment, treatment, treatment and treatment for whose benefit. I know some people may be angered by my post, but I think we need to get angry for a number of reasons and chanel that anger into action.
Thanks for letting me talk. E
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Hi Kathi, I looked at your blog and like your original picture promised it is a reflection of your many talents as well as someone who manages to do a lot. When do you sleep?
Thank you for asking I am mostly well. My husband is half American and we are coming to the USA for Easter (New York and Washington) partly to visit family and partly as tourists. I am really looking forward to that.
We were of course following Obama's inauguration and it really was touching. I have to say though that I am not very political (or rather have become rather cynical about politics in my old age). I come from a war torn country and I heard too many promises by politicians which were broken. There is a nice poem/nursery rhyme which goes 'A man of words and not of deeds is like a garden full of weeds etc'. I guess now I wait to see the deeds before I get enthusiastic about any politician.
Elisabeth, I agree that not enough is being done about causes of cancer. There simply must be a reason (or combination of reasons) why the number of people diagnosed with breast cancer are going up at such an alarming rate. I know that the theories put forward by proponents of alternative health treatments are often not scientific but with so much money invested into breast cancer research and with such modest results we are left searching for anything which might give us some sense of control over this beast. It is almost pointless discussing changes in diet or lifestyle with doctors as they are simply not informed well enough so we are left to our own devices. I for example no longer eat dairy but while I hope that is going to make a difference I am aware that I do it more to make myself feel that I am doing something rather than that I am convinced it will. Or am I seeking certainty where there is none.
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Dr. Susan Love has organized an "Army of Women" to try to find the causes of breast cancer. the army needs to consist of all women, those that have and those that do not have bc so they can try to determine why. if you are interested in signing up, go to her foundation website and or Avon as they are partnering. You will get info about specific studies and if you fit the criteria, can help by sending hair samples, etc. One of the studies so far was a "sister study" examining families to see why one sister may have it and one does not. My sisters and I did not fit the criteria, but I joined and get updates continually. No cost or obligation.
Pres Obama's mother died of cancer, so I think it is a strong spot with him. I so hope we get some kind of access to health care in the US. I also thought this week was very emotional - hope that everyone gives him a chance and really listens to some of his messsages about serving in so many ways throughout the country. Or just being respectful to each other, wouldn't that be a start?
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Traveler56
I already signed up last October and really encourage EVERYONE to sign up and to get all your friends and coworkers to sign up. Please go to her webiste and learn moer. It's reallllllly easy to do!
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I'm in the army of women, too. I joke with my sister, the retired colonel, that I will outrank her soon.
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Send hair samples? Who has hair?
Sorry, just couldn't resist!
Is this a study just for sisters? I am the only girl.
Lori
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So, had my 6-month-post-lumpectomy mammogram this morning. Now, I'm one of those women who think mammos are very painful. That said, I will also say that these were only just a little more so, and that mostly while the tech was placing me in the machine. One surprise: they took 3 views: the traditional top and side squishes, PLUS a focus-on-the-site squish. When she led me into the room where I got bad news last summer, and said the Doc would be in, my heart sank. BUT! He just wanted to say it looked ok, and that I don't have to come in until next July, when it's time for my traditional annual mammo. Now, here's something I've never had a Doc say to me before: "...and there's a little fat around the site, which is what we want to see." Hah!
So, KAK and others coming up on this milestone, take heart!
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Is anyone having "eye" symptoms? I'm sure it's exacerbated by the season (even here in Texas, we are occasionally running the heater), but my eyes feel dry and often tired, and it seems to be a Tamoxifen thing. I wear contact lenses, so it's annoying. No change in vision - just sort of less moisture. I was feeling tired this morning, and I realized it was more about wanting to shut my eyes than actually wanting to rest my brain or body. My glasses still work but are about ten years old - normally I only wear them to find my bed or find my contact lenses, but lately, I've been wearing them more. I suppose I may need to bite the bullet and pay big bucks to get new glasses (with my prescription, I look like Mr. Magoo if I don't get special lenses). If anyone else is experiencing this and has ideas, I would love to hear them!
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Hi, girls. It's http://armyofwomen.org by the way. And the point is to sign up. The hope is that there will be many research studies that may potentially find recruits from the army of women for potential research participants. So, there may not be a study today but there may be one tomorrow that you would be perfect for.
Drying up is unfortunately part of real menopause so I guess it maybe is part of the fake menopause that these hormone therapies induce. Sometimes I need to run a humidifier at this time of year & use artificial tears or allergy eye drops a lot. Oy. One more thing to deal with.
Gee, Nena, New York isn't too far from Rhode Island. Maybe we can plan to meet up somewhere. We'll have to PM each other.
Stay warm, everybody.
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Kleenex- I also have been having problems with dry, tired eyes- I find that using eye drops (just regular old plain dry drops) helps, as does staying as hydrated as possible. I suppose its related to a number of the medications we are all taking.
Good luck all.
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I think i am suffering from Post Traumac Stress...this has been a really Hard week for me...I've only been on Fermera for 3 1/2 weeks, but am experiencing alot of the SE's...like hot flashes, night sweats, fatigue and bone and joint aches and according to my hubby, i'm turning into a cranky old woman! Oh Lord! Flash back 10 years ago when i entered menopause and now re-doig it! Why?
I've been on this 'fast track' for the last 5 1/2 mos...diag. 8-13-08, 1st lumpectomy 8-30-08, 2nd surgery 9-10-08 for clearer margins..started rads 10-30-08 finished 12-16-08 and started Femera 1-1-09. I feel sometimes like i've gotten the bums rush and i NEED to take a big deep breath!
Have any of you stopped the drugs after the 1st month and stepped back and re-evaluated your situation? Sometimes I feel that's what i need to do...I just dont know...Everything is soo darn confusing anymore.
I seen my gyno yesterday and he, so far, has been most helpful with info..he's doing labs on Vit D levels, Thyroid levels, diabetes and cholestrol...maybe there's something else going on and i need to address them also along with the darn BC...Ugh...Help!!!! I'd appreciate any info for you guys...Thanks, Cheryl
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Hi Cheryl. I have been on Arimidex since October 08 and have had a very hard time. I had a very hard time after I took 1 pill. I reacted very strongly and then went to 1 every other day, then tried 3/4 every day and now am back to 1/2 every other day. I am still having a very hard time. I am extremely active, very fit, eat right, ya da ya da, but really have a hard time with all the SE's. I see my onc next week and will reevaluate. The other AI that is sometimes prescribed or switched to is Aromasin. It is a steroidal base and Arimidex and Femara are not. Good luck. Keep me posted as to what you do.
Thanks. E
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Kleenex,
Dry eyes is a common side effect. My dentist, of all people, kept asking me that. Also, he put me on a flouride mouth rinse, about $18 prescription. He also mentioned that oral hygiene is a must for us! Our saliva actually gets more acidic with the meds.
I too, have been wearing my glasses rather than my contacts. This week's the exception, since I had Moh's surgery to remove basal cell cancer from my face. One contact - 1/2 the vision.

Hang in there. Bottom line, this tamoxifen gives us a great chance!
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Wow, That is really quite interesting..the flouride mouthwash, esp considering flouride is so controversial. Many people filter their water to keep the flouride away since it is potential carcinogen or is thought to potentially contribute to other health issues(of course there is limited information and many docs won't make recomendations until there is literally a TON of research....seems I've read more controversy on that...they started all that in the 60's or 70's trying to help teeth....
Kleenex, I live in your area(native texan-here all my life) and have noted more eye issues recently. Have issues off and on for several yrs now usually watery/itchy tho. I had Radial keratotomy tho yrs ago to correct nearsightedness...now recently of course I have some reading glasses. I WILL be getting scheduled opthalm appts as visual issues have been reported w/ tamox......still haven't started that yet,a couple weeks more of rads and that has not been near the cakewalk predicted so I am just taking everything one day at a time.
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Because we who take tamoxifen can have an increase in acidity of our saliva, not too mention the strain just battling cancer puts on our immune system, we are at a greater risk of dental disease. Poor dental health also puts people at greater risk for cardiovascular disease.
Here's an excerpt from the ADHA-CDC guidelines. Link to the article at the end.
"Children and adults at high risk of dental decay may benefit from using additional fluoride products, including dietary supplements (for children who do not have adequate levels of fluoride in their drinking water), mouthrinses, and professionally applied gels and varnishes."
There's controversy in any treatment we undergo. The most important thing we can do for ourselves is educate ourselves with credible information from reliable sources, and trust the doctors we've put our faith in. There's a ton of stuff on the internet, and not all of it coming from sound research.
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Thanks for the info about the army of women. I'll sign up. I've been doing ok with the Tamoxifen, but the antidepressant switch is still knocking me for a loop. I've gone into a sort of depressed, apathetic, low-motivation state. But I'm upping the Lexapro so we'll see. Pclarky, congrats on your clean mammo! Mine's coming up in February. Kleenex, my eyes have been extra dry and sore as well. I'm not sure what would help. Traveler, always good to hear from you.
As far as Obama goes, I'm over the moon!
Take care, everyone.
xo,
Ace
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