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  • Ivylane
    Ivylane Member Posts: 544
    edited November 2008

    Anne:  I agree.....

  • NoH8
    NoH8 Member Posts: 2,726
    edited November 2008

    blaest- you're my new best friend--- lol. Glad you've got the energy to refute ignorance. I admire that. Just remember some of those folks think Palin is smart and people who are educated are elilitist so you're not talking to the most open minded, folks.

    justanna- there's such a diochotemy between Prop 8 and the Obama election. Looking at this from an unemotional stance-- I think our side did a poor job reaching out to minorities. Not sure if you watch Gay USA or the podcast, but they had a discussion last week and pulled out the wording of Loving v Virginia in 1967 and the reasons the wrong side disallowing interracial marriage was almost identical to that of those in favor of Prop 8. Whites overwhelmingly supported NO on 8, Asians narrowly supported it, but blacks and latinos were YES on 8 to take away our rights. We have to treat marriage the way Obama ran his campaign, analyzing the polls and seeing who we need to educate on what marriage is and is not. There wrong side had so many misleading and lying information out about what the No on the prop would and wouldn't do.  I think we have to simplify this for voters.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2008

    DH just brought up an interesting idea.  Did McCain purposely throw the election?!!  You do get the impression that both he and George were more than a little relieved to get the burden of running the country off their backs.  After the Big Mess they got it into....Undecided
     
    Only thing that worries me now is what is going to happen with the Middle East?!!  I like  Emanuel very much but he is Jewish, and are some people going to take this as an anti-Muslim, or anti-Arab stance??...another excuse to make Jihad on the Americans?...  I am not pro-Arab and I am not anti-Arab...there are plenty of Arabs who don't believe in violence...this is such a touchy situation.
     
    Linora 
  • LAphoenix
    LAphoenix Member Posts: 452
    edited November 2008

    Amy, you're right about Prop 8.  I think the opponents misread the voters and didn't spend their money wisely.  The "yes" groups waited until the last few weeks and saturated the media with their ads, the "no" folks were slow to counter.  I think if they had gotten a couple of major black leaders, like MLK, III to do TV spots and got Schwarzenegger to do ads sooner rather than later, they might have done better.  And done more outreach to minority communities.  But it's gonna end up in court, like so many of these propositions.  Most legal experts think that the 18,000 who have already married will be safe. 

    Linora, I don't think the jihadists need an excuse to hurt us.  We're going to keep on supporting Israel and that's going to piss them off, no matter what religion the chief of staff is.  I think Obama is going to be welcomed by legit Middle East leaders, much more so than Bush.  And the Secy of State will be more influential with foreign leaders than the COS. 

  • NoH8
    NoH8 Member Posts: 2,726
    edited November 2008

    lin- maybe it's not our place to decide what happens in the middle east. I think we get ourselves in the middle of too many problems in the world that have nothing to do with us, and really isn't our business. I think actions speak louder than words and Obama is able to see all the different sides of situations which is fortunate. I think he's also able to convey empathy even when disagreeing which will be a helpful diplomatic stance.  As for Emmanuel, while his position is very important, I'm not sure that translates internationally as a job that is involved in making policy abroad. I believe most people here and internationally will give Obama the benefit of the doubt. I heard a poll that said 70% of people believe Obama can made a difference. Most republicans seem to be open to working with him, at least publically. The whole world is suffering from  financial woes and people are looking to our country once again for leadership-- which hasn't happened in  6 1/2 years.  I think everything is going to be ok, even if it's not exactly the way we want it.

    lap- I agree that the juhadists don't need an excuse to be against us, but I also think that Bush/Cheney/McCain/Palin's policies have the effect of aggrevating negative feelings.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2008

    Emanuel is not only Jewish, but his Father was born in Jerusalem and was a member of the IRGUN, the "terrorists" who with people like Menachem Begin, threw the British out of Palestine.  Emanuel, during the first Gulf War, went to Israel to help in a supportive role for the troops.  Axlerod too is Jewish.  I think this bodes well for a strong Israel support policy, and that was my biggest concern about Obama, that he wouldn't support Israel.  One reason I am very happy right now.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2008

    I do remember hearing that Osama supporters *wanted* McCain to win because it would make it so much easier to hate the U.S.
     
    I agree with you that the U.S. should butt out of the Middle East...but we have to have a policy considering how deeply we're involved over there; heck, we've got troops there.  I think the U.S. is to blame for most of the trouble we've had with Iraq (it is said that Madaleine Albright actually tacitly approved Saddam's plans to invade Kuwait).  Our dismantling of the Iraqi gov't has left a dangerous vacuum...
     
    And there are situations that shouldn't be ignored, especially in cases where there are vast violations of human rights (like against women in Afghanistan) and ethnic cleansing... just finished reading "Left to Tell" ..a remarkable biography of a woman who survived the Rwandan holocaust (anybody else read it?) and it seemed really insane that the rest of the world just let the massacre happen without any intervention.  Well...I am getting a little off subject here, but I think we are too big and powerful not to have policies towards the Middle East or other places where there is a lot of trouble...
     
    Beth...loved your story about Jamaica and how everyone chanted "Yes we can" when Obama won.  I think the world looks to the U.S. president as a major leader...not just of the U.S. but of the world in general...
     
    Linora 
  • Little-G
    Little-G Member Posts: 647
    edited November 2008

    Did you see the assholes that protested in front of the white house today when Barack and Michelle came to visit??  Go crawl back in the cave you came out of!!! 

    Sorry, I am just so sick of these people.  How about joining in now and all work together!

  • NoH8
    NoH8 Member Posts: 2,726
    edited November 2008

    lin- I agree with you about human rights, ethnic cleansing etc. It's a delicate balance.

     g- please don't tell me they were bigoted assholes? Garden variety assholes are bad enough.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2008

    Just popping in here to say to justanna who wrote:  I am in the field and it absolutely sucks that there are willing, happy healthy potential families with two mommies or two daddies but don't fit the Arkansas defininition out there for kiddos in need. 

    I have to say ... some people don't realize the need out there .. some people do need to wrap their head around the fact that 2 mommies or 2 daddies is better than NO parents.  Please don't criticize my statement ...  A very long time ago, I worked at a car dealer.  A salesperson apparently refused to wait on 2 lesbians.  I had no clue "what" they were ... I was asked to help them. OK.  They had kids with them. On the test drive, it came out that both of them were the mommies.  I was 23, I was confused. I asked them. They explained. I then asked how they got the kids!!  LOL! They explained they adopted them from Bangladesh.  I am a cry baby ... I started bawling. I knew these kids had NO CHANCE in their country, yet here were two loving moms (actually rich ones) and these kids were getting the best of everything: especially parents and grandparents, whom I met.  The ladies gave me their trade in to drive to the dealer and get it appraised. When they came back I had no idea if we had a deal ... they said after disclosure, they were buying no matter what I said: they trusted me, they liked how I treated them. 

    I sure wish that more people would realize that loving children along with providing them with a safe and sound home is more important than keeping them available for 2 married people. Some single parents can provide a safe loving home for children and yet so many are left in the homes, left wanting a place to belong.

  • Ivylane
    Ivylane Member Posts: 544
    edited November 2008

    Rocktobermom:  What a beautiful story! I agree, it's all about the kids being in a loving home.

  • Little-G
    Little-G Member Posts: 647
    edited November 2008

    Amy...lol...I'm guessing it was a little of both!! 

  • LAphoenix
    LAphoenix Member Posts: 452
    edited November 2008

    Rocktobermom: thanks for sharing your lovely story.  I'm glad that, because of your youthful ignorance, you were able to experience this family with an open heart.  Sometimes that's all it takes, personal contact.  My daughter had a good friend in nursery and elementary school who had lesbian parents.  I don't think she ever asked me about them.  She just accepted that that was how her friend's family worked.  I don't think kids really care, at least not when they're young.  It's the parents who make a big deal about it.

  • NoH8
    NoH8 Member Posts: 2,726
    edited November 2008

    rock- Thanks for sharing the story.  I don't think the GLBT community has done a good enough job conveying stories like that.

    Did everyone catch Keith's special comment on gay marriage? It was wonderful, especially coming from outside of the GLBT community. I feel better just knowing there are people like him.

    A quote that's been bandied about since election night is, "We should never have the majority ruling on civil rights for the minority." rings true to me. If we had voting on the end of slavery, it wouldn't have happened. It took a supreme court decision in Loving v Virginia to nationally repeal laws against interracial marriage, who's opponents used words eerily similar to those against prop 8 (e changing the definition of marriage (to allow blacks and whites to marry) would destroy the institution of marriage).

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2008

    Its taken "activist" Federal Judges to right many of the wrongs of society.  Remember Brown v. Board of Education?  The south would still be a segregated society but for Activist Judges who interpreted the US constitution as requiring justice for all, not simply the majority. 

  • NoH8
    NoH8 Member Posts: 2,726
    edited November 2008

    Yup. Leaders in the glbt community have told me that it's too risky to judge the courts on marriage rights and it looks like only open minded leaning judges will be retiring for the courts. Thank goodness McCain wasn't elected.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2008
     
    It's a delicate balance all right... 

  • AnneW
    AnneW Member Posts: 4,050
    edited November 2008

    Scanning the NYTimes this morning before heading to work. I came across an artical by one of my favorite guys, and it fits right in with my values and what I want in the leader of the free world...a brain. Because when my right -winged buddies are befuddled about "what has Obama done??" I like to think also about what I know he's going to do. And I say, "at least he has an effin' brain!"

    November 9, 2008 Op-Ed Columnist

    Obama and the War on Brains

    By NICHOLAS D. KRISTOF

    Barack Obama's election is a milestone in more than his pigmentation. The second most remarkable thing about his election is that American voters have just picked a president who is an open, out-of-the-closet, practicing intellectual.

    Maybe, just maybe, the result will be a step away from the anti-intellectualism that has long been a strain in American life. Smart and educated leadership is no panacea, but we've seen recently that the converse - a White House that scorns expertise and shrugs at nuance - doesn't get very far either.

    We can't solve our educational challenges when, according to polls, Americans are approximately as likely to believe in flying saucers as in evolution, and when one-fifth of Americans believe that the sun orbits the Earth.

    Almost half of young Americans said in a 2006 poll that it was not necessary to know the locations of countries where important news was made. That must be a relief to Sarah Palin, who, according to Fox News, didn't realize that Africa was a continent rather than a country.

    Perhaps John Kennedy was the last president who was unapologetic about his intellect and about luring the best minds to his cabinet. More recently, we've had some smart and well-educated presidents who scrambled to hide it. Richard Nixon was a self-loathing intellectual, and Bill Clinton camouflaged a fulgent brain behind folksy Arkansas aphorisms about hogs.

    As for President Bush, he adopted anti-intellectualism as administration policy, repeatedly rejecting expertise (from Middle East experts, climate scientists and reproductive health specialists). Mr. Bush is smart in the sense of remembering facts and faces, yet I can't think of anybody I've ever interviewed who appeared so uninterested in ideas.

    At least since Adlai Stevenson's campaigns for the presidency in the 1950s, it's been a disadvantage in American politics to seem too learned. Thoughtfulness is portrayed as wimpishness, and careful deliberation is for sissies. The social critic William Burroughs once bluntly declared that "intellectuals are deviants in the U.S."

    (It doesn't help that intellectuals are often as full of themselves as of ideas. After one of Stevenson's high-brow speeches, an admirer yelled out something like, You'll have the vote of every thinking American! Stevenson is said to have shouted back: That's not enough. I need a majority!)

    Yet times may be changing. How else do we explain the election in 2008 of an Ivy League-educated law professor who has favorite philosophers and poets?

    Granted, Mr. Obama may have been protected from accusations of excessive intelligence by his race. That distracted everyone, and as a black man he didn't fit the stereotype of a pointy-head ivory tower elitist. But it may also be that President Bush has discredited superficiality.

    An intellectual is a person interested in ideas and comfortable with complexity. Intellectuals read the classics, even when no one is looking, because they appreciate the lessons of Sophocles and Shakespeare that the world abounds in uncertainties and contradictions, and - President Bush, lend me your ears - that leaders self-destruct when they become too rigid and too intoxicated with the fumes of moral clarity.

    (Intellectuals are for real. In contrast, a pedant is a supercilious show-off who drops references to Sophocles and masks his shallowness by using words like "fulgent" and "supercilious.")

    Mr. Obama, unlike most politicians near a microphone, exults in complexity. He doesn't condescend or oversimplify nearly as much as politicians often do, and he speaks in paragraphs rather than sound bites. Global Language Monitor, which follows linguistic issues, reports that in the final debate, Mr. Obama spoke at a ninth-grade reading level, while John McCain spoke at a seventh-grade level.

    As Mr. Obama prepares to take office, I wish I could say that smart people have a great record in power. They don't. Just think of Emperor Nero, who was one of the most intellectual of ancient rulers - and who also killed his brother, his mother and his pregnant wife; then castrated and married a slave boy who resembled his wife; probably set fire to Rome; and turned Christians into human torches to light his gardens.

    James Garfield could simultaneously write Greek with one hand and Latin with the other, Thomas Jefferson was a dazzling scholar and inventor, and John Adams typically carried a book of poetry. Yet all were outclassed by George Washington, who was among the least intellectual of our early presidents.

    Yet as Mr. Obama goes to Washington, I'm hopeful that his fertile mind will set a new tone for our country. Maybe someday soon our leaders no longer will have to shuffle in shame when they're caught with brains in their heads.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2008
     
    As far as international problems go, I think we need a stronger UN, a stronger world gov't that is committed to fairness, human rights and global preservation.  We should not be acting alone, as a country.. making wars and making stupid and uninformed decisions. It would be great if Arabs, Americans, Europeans, Africans, Jews, and people from the third world could have a voice and discuss things at a table instead with guns and bayonets...
     
     
  • Jaybird627
    Jaybird627 Member Posts: 2,144
    edited November 2008

    Anne, thanks for the article. I was a Gore supporter and I still think he was too 'smart' for the average American and that's why he lost! (that, and the vote/chad/FL fiasco)

  • NoH8
    NoH8 Member Posts: 2,726
    edited November 2008

    I agree about a stronger UN. With Obama I think we will again become part  of, not estranged from, the world community. I've been saying this since Bush invaded Iraq.

  • Ivylane
    Ivylane Member Posts: 544
    edited November 2008

    Great comments this am ladies and gents.  I am really tired of people asking what has Obama done?  He's done a LOT in my opinion, the problem seems to be that it doesn't compute with what those who didn't support him were looking for. In addition to that, the man has common sense and  is brilliant (Pres of the Harvard Law Review).  Well we KNOW what GW and his administration have done the past 8 years and it's not pretty.  I wish the skeptics would just be quiet and give the new Pres a chance.  If, in a couple of years we are even worse off than we are now (which is almost impossible) then they'll have something to compalain about.

    I agree with Linora, we need a much stronger UN.  With this new adminnistration I think we will see that happen.  There's good reason why people all over the globe are celebrating the outcome of this election. We will no longer be perceived as bullies of the world.

    Maureen (formerly Blue16) 

  • Little-G
    Little-G Member Posts: 647
    edited November 2008

    "if your skin isn't thick enough, ya know, ya got no business being in politics."  hhhmmm..how about this line Gov. Palin...."if you do not have any knowledge of the world around you, and you do not know what the job position is that you've accepted..you have no business pretending to be VP material!"   Oh..I just seen a piece of Matt Laurers interview with her.  And then of course she said..."ya know, I'm not going to answer that."  Of course your not.  That is, after all, your tag line!

    She sounded like a spoiled brat who lost a game.  Which..I think is probably very accurate. 

    g

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2008

    I do think that a stronger UN fits somewhere in the future, and people in the third world look to the world for justice.  I remember thinking that Jimmy Carter was an idiot when he talked about human rights...I was a student of cultural anthropology at the time and a total relavist, but now I think it makes a lot of sense.
     
    I'd love to see some sort of world culture that celebrates diversity, different ethnic groups, different arts and talents, different approaches to solving problems.  This homogenized Big Box, Plugged In Electronic Culture really frightens me.  I want to see more local arts, more grass roots, in fact, a depression might not be a bad thing if it go people dealing with one another as *PEOPLE* and not as competitive consumers...
  • NoH8
    NoH8 Member Posts: 2,726
    edited November 2008

    g- why should we care about people who deny Obama's accomplishments. To some folks blacks have to work twice as hard to be considered half as good. As foir Palin, every time she opens her mouth she sounds less intelligent. The woman doesn't realize a sentence needs a noun, a verb and doesn't run on and on and on and on and on, LOL. She comes across and vindictive and untrustworthy.

    lin- I think being raised on electronics is a huge disservice to kids today. They learn to socialize face to face and conflict resolution skills. They also are robbed of the chance to develop their creative talents.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2008

    Amy, they would actually get further with their cause if they "exploited" the issue of the needy kids ending up in loving, caring homes.  I've told you all about the story when T was in pre-school and she was flabbergasted with joy that there were a brother and sister there who had TWO MOMMIES.  I mean she was like:  aren't they lucky???!!!  ...  I assumed it was a step mom and a mom who were picking up ... it was not until a birthday party (where my wig fell off in the jumper) that I found out it was just two mommies ...

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2008

    Good Morning Obama friends.  I'm not in hiding, just have been working 12 hours a day and it's just about killing me.  I have missed all the news about Obama since Monday! 

    Nicki

  • gsg
    gsg Member Posts: 3,386
    edited November 2008

    Since I posted this in the Republican thread, in response to something I read on there, I need to also post it here to be completely nonpartisan.  Anyway, this is an article that explains the voting process in Minnesota, which sounds like a darn good one, in my opinion, and it explains how it is that Franken could win the recount in his bid against Coleman.  I don't know anything about the publication that the article is in.

    http://www.alternet.org/democracy/106625/why_al_franken_will_be_minnesota's_next_senator/?page=1

  • NoH8
    NoH8 Member Posts: 2,726
    edited November 2008

    You're probably right RM, There was such a debate in the community, at least in California about using real families with kids, adopted or otherwise to make the point. I don't know as much about Ark. From what I've seen and heard (albeit not being in california) a lot of the ads were more cerebral and less about the emotions of fairness, families etc. --except for Ellen's. The other side seemed to play on emotions, little kids coming home from school and saying they learned about gay families in school. Hopefully your wig didn't fall into your jumper when you found out the two mommies were a couple Wink. I like your signature.

    nic- I miss ya. how long do you have to keep this schedule up?

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2008

    No, my wig fell of when my 4 year old asked me to do a flip. I never had heard of wig tape. I did the flip, my wig fell off and all the little kids were stunned silent.  My daughter picked it up, said, "My mommy has breast cancer and chemo. Don't laugh at my mommy." And she handed me my wig.  No one was laughing til she said that!  Then they ran screaming with wonder, "She lost her hair, she lost her hair."  I was laughing so hard I almost peed my pants.  None of the other moms knew I had cancer and that's how they all found out.

    After that ...everytime I went to preschool, the little kids asked me to take off my wig to feel my head. Moms would be embarrassed by their kids requests but I wasn't .. I just took it off, sat down and let them feel ... sometimes, it's better to go with it, especially for my daughter to see I was going to be ok .. and hair was coming back.

    Anyway, I need to get out of this thread before I become a Democrat.  I mean, isn't it contagious?Wink

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