STFU (Shut the F*** UP)

marywh

Third angel gone in a week. Veggy I will miss you so much.Bon voyage sweet Veggy.

Teka

Fly high among the stars!

duckyb1

gone too soon........we raise you up....."

GmaFoley

Veggy, you always had a kind, encouraging word every time I had issues. I will miss you. Hope you are partying with the other angels watching over us.

ChickaD

Sad....this was too quick for our Veggy...prayers and peace for all ♥

Wren44

Really sad news. My heart goes out to her family and friends. Gone way too soon.

IllinoisLady

I am so very sorry to hear about veggy. I did not ever really post with her, but did read those she wrote to others...I missed someone beautiful while I was collecting stones. I hope she had a beautiful passage and I also hope her loved ones can get through the next few days without too much distress. Healing thoughts and prayers for their loss.

Lilli

juliaanna

Ah, Veggy-no more dark basements. Only light and joy as your spirit soars. Keeping your family in my thoughts and prayers.

dwill

Hi! My dear family,   Just wanted to say love you all and appreciate you thinking about me and keeping a check on me.  Sass told me Veggy passed!  I am so terribly sad to hear this news!  We've lost a member of our family.  It's so-so sad!

dwill

IllinoisLady--such a beautiful tribute about stones and diamonds for Veggy.  It will help me remember  what is important in life.  May Veggy spirit continue to glow as a beautiful diamond.

camillegal

I just read this on another thread, and it so sad, I can't believe this happened so fast--Oh my God please welcome veggy into u'r arms so she will see all the light that she didn't see here, and may her family find peace.

Shellshine

Precious Sassy called me at work today, shedding tears about our Vegette. I was between hospice families, and couldn't spend more than a few minutes with our Sassette. We have lost a beloved sister today - Darling Girl - you are with your angels now.

Chevyboy

For Veggy.................

4sewwhat

Good Morning Hoolies,

Alyson posted a picture of sweet Veggy on the Big Girl Panties thread....

sas-schatzi

After several disasters in the early 80's , it was found that strenuous physical activity after an event within twenty four hours, that it had a major impact on how someone recovered  physically and psychologically.  This was with EMS personnel, but I've found that it works well in this situation too. The effects were measureable up to a year later.. Sorry that sounds so clinical, but a bit of exercise today will clear the mind and help begin the healing process. Another thing that was found is that people wanted to pull away from their usually activities. and that it was important to allow time for grieving , but to keep involved too. Here the natural tendency is to want to take a break or leave entirely. Real thoughts and feelings, Veggy would be the first to say hold on to each other.

blondiex46

Chickie love that pix how beautiful is that....

congrats on the end of rads...

Can't believe about Veggy, my thoughts and prayers go out to her family and her family here...she was a wonderful woman....worried about Granny tho....hope she checks in soon.....

welcome newbies....Ok the surgeon said that they are doing an open lung biopsy which means they.are taking a biopsy of the like from the surface in...that will tell them hopefully what the deal is but they think it is the chemo who knows what then, changing chemo I guess...it is supposed to happen next week and I will be in the hospital for a couple of days..you all will lbe in my pocket...

Teka

Yes,

duckyb1

Grieving is part of the Circle of Life.........everyone does it in their own way, and in their own time......I found that out the hard way.........however you handle it is an individual thing, and no study or clinical finding matters when you lose someone you love........what matters is they are gone from your life......and you miss and grieve for that loss.........

We love you Veggy, and will miss you dearly......in time we will heal......and go on.....

Teka

I found comfort going to "Search" and reading prior posts from veggy.

ChickaD

Its awesome how we can bond not in person....you ladies are so special to me and you all make it possible for me to keep moving forward.   

I love all of you!

IllinoisLady

I shall rake many leaves today because I want to heal and do it quickly. So sad to say it, but there will be others to grieve for and even someday, hopefully someone will grieve for me. I do think it is so.......I think it is something like forcing a little expansion as we and our bodies and spirits want to close ranks so to speak when something painful or very hard to comprehend jumbles us around a bit --- easier to find the way when we get out of ourselves for a bit......then we can be still terribly sad but more EVEN about it.

Lilli

4sewwhat

I did some of that too Teka! She and I were most recently discussing our too silly sons! It was nice to go to the Big Girl Panties thread and put a face to a name, but so sad.....

Blondie in your pocket for sure! Hope all goes smoothly and they get you feeling better quickliest!

Shells, how is DH since his fall?

4sewwhat

I am locking the door to the basement. Nobody is allowed down there again.....

duckyb1

Teka.....did the same thing......

I use to tell Veggy when things got really tough I would wear suspenders on my "Big Girl Panties"......she loved that.......

I feel so bad for Granny.....this has hit her hard.....keep her in your prayers too......they were so close....we were planning to get together, now that we were all in Pa.......it was easier for me.....just drive, not a lot of walking......or trains.....so sad

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GmaFoley

I chatted with Granny - She has the comfort of her grands that all knew Veggy. She is very sad but ok.

Figured a bit of good news would be good with all the crying going on (including me) I really miss chatting with Veggy.. Anyway the good news: My trans-vaginal US came back normal. Labs are good. My MO told me to work with my PCP for the dizzy and nausea issue and he will see me in a year.

Teka

4, Alyson posted an excellent chicken photo on the "OMG They Found the Cure for Stupid" thread.

I feel the need to be a hen in a flock!

duckyb1

Gma.........great news ......negative tests "rock"

Yes, have spoken to Granny several times through this whole thing.....she is heart broken, but holding up......she is a tough broad, my Firecracker, but a marshmallow when she loves you and your hurting...

.My Grayson is an example .......her prayers helped my little angel take her first steps yesterday assisted by a Gait Walker from CHOP...........it was only 4 steps, but her first 4 of many more, we hope...(some know her story from when she was born.....

4........lock that door

Chickie......we are unique...love from a distance

4sewwhat

Teka, I saw that pic, it was great!

Great news Gma!

luvmygoats

Ducky - great news about Grayson taking her 1st steps and yes the first of many.

Gma - well progress is very good news. How has the ear crystal exercises gone?

Spookie - how's the sinkhole coming? Sad for those people.

duckyb1

Thanks Luv.....we are joyful.....she is a fighter......my grandaughter said when she goes in her Gait Walker she looks around so lovingly, like she is seeing everything for the first time and not from a reclining position, or laying on her back completely...."It's 2 1/12 years watching her twin sister being the one who is mobile.....now they can stand side by side.