STFU (Shut the F*** UP)
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WTF is going on here--tea, fairy candles, pain meds,recipes.
OK Blondie I don't understand if u can't breathe and u have fluid why is it not enough to remove--How does i go away? This sounds crazy to me--They have to have another easy and good way to help u. And u had chemo I'm so mixed up--(shut up Chevy) I feel so bad for u, going thru all this. Geeze.
And Gma of course I forgot what u'r taking but I do know u can't take alot of the pain meds--There are a few I can't tolerate either and I don't know what it does to our systems cuz they put all this crappy stuff in us (chemo, rads) and yet a pill is intolerable or a patch. Never understood that one. But me too---I don't think u should drive, especially that long--just my opinion too--Beside even if u decide not to take anything for pain, your reactions with u'r legs maybe a little slower than u think and that xould be a problem. Give it thought, please.
And Dwill have u decided what u r going to do???
Phylogottahaveit---we know u looove men, some of the reason for the ankle bracelet so tho we all laughed at that one, cuz it's true--u still want what u want. U can't help u'rself can you? LOL
Sas believe me if I could explain this week to u and my test I would but it's all stupid to me--so I'll talk with my Onc. next week, and when I understand more than believe me u will be doing computer work to help me--but for now I've chosen not to worry or think about it--U know how I am--If I think it's not there then it is not there (for now) hahaha--so let's not talk about me.
I do realize that Chevy is fond of chickens and eggs--well anything u can dip in a sauce or dip toastin, but what's with the fairies?--they don't lay eggs--well they do lay or there wouldn't be and more fairies--What do u wsnt to do with them--OOOHHH not that?? I hope.
Do u think surgery is over yet---? The lap was being done right? I hope so--that's a simple one, I mean it doesn't hurt--I like things that don't hurt after.
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Cammy WTF did you just say? So I read your post 3 times, and now I got it! Honest to God, little Cammi, please don't ever change! I love reading what you say, because I just crack up even when you are serious... which is hardly never.
Fairies don't lay eggs, you silly goose! Other Fairies bring them! They come from my BACK garden, of which there are many! There is even a tiny white chicken on a rock, right in front, that you can't see. It was my Mom's.... along with the Doe, and the two fawns that are laying down. I have a couple things from my Grandma also...
So now I'm tired.... I have to go round up all the fairies now.... and put them in their house.... They are worse than chickens.... Does ANYone know what I am talking about? Love you guys!
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Thank you Sas. Looked it up. My chiropractor was using something similar to that but he gave it up when the treatment wasn't working well. I will have to find someone that works with that.
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gmaFoley - woohoo! I received your beautiful scarf in the mail today. I love it! Thank you so much. I will tie it over my ankle monitor when I go to the grocery store. The produce stock guy loves bald heads but he's a little concerned about the monitor. thanks again!
and cammi, yes, I want what I want!
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Glad you like it. Makes me happy.
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love love love the fairy garden!!!!
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Love it too. You just twinkle so nice:)
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Hey Chevy - BEAUTIFUL and VERY CREATIVE Fairy garden! When I fully become the "Incredible Shrinking Woman", may I rent the place??
And YES, Sas, the puppies and the tubes are history! Went in a 6 a.m. this morning and was home by Noon. Easiest surgery I ever had and the pain is minimal. Of course, I am not letting it get ahead me. Popping those pain pills with Benedryl (for the itching) and putting the Mirilax in my hot tea each morning and my favorite XXX Vitamin Water before bed to ward off constipation. All I all, an uneventful experience. I decided to not start the Femara until a few days from now in the event I cannot tolerate it like the Tamoxifen. I will see if this rehab. stays as uneventful as it is currently and then fill the AI drug. It seems best to not confuse the surgery and its SEs with the Femara (and its' potential SEs), no?
Thanks everyone for being in my pockets today. You were a little noisy but once they gave me the big knock-out drugs, everything was Rosy!
If and when the rest of you Sister Warriors have any type if surgery this week, I will be in your pockets too playing the piano and belting out my favorite Tina Turner songs. Just twist my big toe (gently please) to turn down the volume if the OR staff is not too hip! Well it is just about getting to be the STFU time so I will sign off for now. Thanks again for all of your help and support and for having me in your lives as as I am in yours!
Please, Prayers, Love, HUGS and Blessings to each and everyone one of you today and into the future!
Flowers
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Miss Flowers...glad your home safe...gentle hugs
Miss Sassafrassy...good luck tomorrow...give 'em hell
Miss Chevy...love love the garden
Miss WillieNilly...the guy thing...hmmmmm...I tend to out things out there too
Miss BlondeBombShell...sending you CPR
Crazy day...still so so tired...but brain still buzzing from ROIDS....crazy combo...driving is definitely out for me for awhile
My little puppy comes home tomorrow...yay!
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Oh Chickie Your baby comes home Awwwww. Bet he doesn't cry at all b/c he knows your scent so well. Post picks with Sasha and_______oops forgot the other ones name.
Flowers
good doc, they took time to let the air out
, makes all the difference in how you feel:)
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OK Flowers glad it went smoothly--told u so. But that's why I also tole u rest and take it easy cuz u still need to relax.
ChickaD u'r typing is a little off tonight well typing was good, spacing worse than mine.
Phyloweed I just noticed u have a new avatar??????? Like it.
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Blonde
I did have a lung clot, plus several in my legs. Wasn't fun. But the lung one gave me a terrible dry cough. It was hard to breathe. When doc finally sent me to hospital I was a mess. They put me on heperin, albuterol treatment, and kept me for 3 days.
Then at home I had to do lovenox? Injections. It's expensive, but does come generic. Now I'm on Coumadin for life.
So if they do find a clot, my story might give you a heads up on what to expect.
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Spookie---Holy Chit
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Chevy, Love the fairy garden.
Flowers, Glad you are home. Here's to a boring recovery!
Marymarywhereareyou!? Hope to hear from you soon.
Sassy, Best wishes.
Howdy to everyone else.
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Julia I've said that for yrs and when my oldest would hear it she's get mad cuz she'd aways say I'm bored and I would say boring is good it means nothing bad is happening--I think that's why I never get bored no matter how long I do nothing LOL
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Julianna, hope Mary's not picking her DH up off the ground. Remember he's been with the geriatric crowd on the roof all week. Just checked back and Mary was getting her scan for dizziness HMMMMMMMMM.
Thanks re tomorrow. None of the family knows except DS. Just didn't want to go through all that goes on when they hear something. Their lovely, but....it's physically & emotionally taxing on them. They've all had a very very rough few years. Only told dear son b/c he's in the house buying mode, just needed to slow him down.
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Praying all goes well Sas. You are important to us. Thanks for all the info! I can talk now. Sorry about earlier was at costco with GD.
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back from scans. everything went well, I just hate thhose things. I hate the mri the worst. Thank goodness for ativan and earphones. Geriatric crew made it through the week on the roof...I was worried about them, but no mishaps. wish you could have heard them complaining though it would have been funny if it hadnt been so sad. They all have rotator cuff troubles. but the hard part is over so the rest will be a breeze. I found some really cool tile today, its ceramic but looks like old hardwood...Im so excited to find it.Hope everybody is doing ok after surgeries and chemo...Im so glad I took an extra week off...
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I am flying home tomorrow from San Fran but I will be in your pocket tomorrow anyway!
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Sas let us know when u get home u might want to talk or rest either way we'll be here.
And Maryscan/mri not fun I know--the worst for me is the bone scan I think, maybe I don't know I really don't like any tests anyway
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HUGS and a first good night. Hope it's the last for tonight. My biggest worry is not waking up in time b/c of the hearing. DS is going to be my alarm clock. Good kid.
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Flowers it was probably noisy in your pocket because of Cammi - I asked her not to make a ruckus but.............sometimes there's no stopping that girl.
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Flowers - my probation officer called about me being out of pocket. I had to explain that I was IN pocket, just not the usual one. Then there was the issue of all the background noise and Cammi squealing...
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Sas - in your pocket tomorrow. Cami and Chevy might have to be restrained or muzzled.
Flowers - so glad it was an easy surgery. Rest and recuperate.
Maryofthenewporch - glad you're done with scans. Praying for good results.
Gma - I knew there was a reason you didn't use any patches. So do you have more testing to come?
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Blondiee - Thanks for checking in. I think of you often throughout the day. If you are feeling any anxiety from low blood oxygen, ask your doc for some valium or xanax.
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Phylonoanswer--u'r avatar if it walk likes a duck and quacks like a duck it's probably a stupid chicken, but in this case it looks like a weed. wink, wink
Oh and luvhowdouloveu'rgoats---I'm fine in a pocket as long as I have my vodka, pot or special brownies--but Chevy well she'll be cacklin like a u know what and lookin' for eggs. and Phyloankle might have her bracelet go off again--but we'll be there.
Oh I can't sleep I don't like this at all.
Oh and blondie ask u'r Dr. for any meds u need for anything--don't hesitate for a minute Shell is so right.
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WHO'S got chickens? Are they "stupid?" Or is it ducks?
Man, I had the worst dream last night! What WERE your dreams about Chevy? Well, it was about these 2 big dogs, running in the street, and I was out there, trying to make them run the other way, down a side street, out of traffic! I was yelling, and then I saw one of the damn chickens, and then I was trying to catch HER, and then there were 4 dogs, and MY Lacee, all going nuts and running! I grabbed the chicken & screamed for Kelli, and then I woke up. You can TELL I don't have anything important on my mind! So never mind Cammi. Don't say it.
Sassy.... just thinking about you.... Okay, I'll be serious now.... Just waiting for you to be out of the throes of those issues! All you need is your Son.
Phyllicracker! What are those weeds? Looks like some sort of Philodendron... Or IS it weed, like Cammi said? I know MaryJane has 5 tips on a leaf..... Ask my Daughter! She HAD a little plant growing in her little room, in a HUGE pot...(ahem). Did she THINK I would never find it? I DID! I drug it downstairs and DH tossed the whole thing in the ditch. So that meant she would never try smoking grass, right?
SHE'S the one who's little bag I washed, and all her posessions fell out.... Rolling papers, a baggie of seeds, and that glass aparatus thing. And SHE is the one who grew up to be the sweetest, cutest most loving Daughter, I could ever be blessed with.... Her AND her Sister! And they BOTH smoked it.... Maybe that's what made them so good.... Ha!
I have to go back a page....
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Savi
pocket room, anyone wanting to make a ruckus is fine, Jefferson Starship though will be playing.Phyllodendron :)JUlie, cami, Chevy with your fairies, shells littlegoats VEGGY wake up, I took all the lint out. There will be chocolates, strawbwerries, cheese, and spirits. I'M thinking of taking a swim, but coffee first and a smoke, while I think of you all.
Found my new workable dose of sleeping assist drugs YAY-2mg ativan and 5 mg melatonin. Slept like a baby and woke at 7. No drug hangover. No pain. Going to swim
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I'll bring the boombox!!! SAS - Thinking about you this morning...
Luvmygoats - No more tests at the moment - Docs won't order anything - they don't think they will find anything - my pain is "Hidden"..
Funny thing is, I got a notice that its time for my mamo "screening" STFU! I had a diagnostic mamo both breasts in January.. I called them to try to put them straight and they said they don't consider a diagnostic mamo a screening... WTH!!! - They smash you everyway from sunday and it doesn't count LOL - I told them I would pass until January..
I decided I would deal with the pain a little longer, so I can drive... thanks for your advise.. I will only take it at night until my GD is delivered safely to her dad next week..
Oh someone warned me earlier about taking the pain med and sleep apnea - My sleep doc told me I can only take the pain med at night IF I am using my APAP or I can't use them...
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Cammi, I have to tell you.... I majored in English... so that means I know all about spelling, typing, dirty words, etc. So it has gotten so that now I clearly understand everything you say! I have learned how to analyze, decipher, and coagulate all your sentences! Or is it correlate?
So no more worries! I understand EVERYthing.... Ha! Just glad you learned how to email your Sister. So that must mean you "graduated" from your state job? Or you went to work for the Aerospace industry?GFoley... Does your cute little granddaughter call you Grammi? Oh wait, I SEE she does!!!! I can't call you that anymore, because she does..Love your picture!
Hope the pain meds work for you! I LOVE Sonic! That's where I tried my first "Sweet Tea".... The gal crashed into your car? OMG how embarrassing for her! But it HAD to be funny!Just enjoy her! They grow up way too fast! My GS's are in Orlando, so we only get to see them every year or so! But I'll always have a million memories of them growing up!Phylli... That picture was funny, and so TRUE? Ha!Blondielittlehoney! Man, you have been through the mill.... Just hope they will help you.... soon! I remember once having an asthma attack, and I couldn't stop it... So we ran to the hospital, and they gave me so much "stuff" that I could finally breathe! I remember that feeling! Then the "Benadryl in oil" made me so relaxed, I couldn't even sit up... I thought if I laid back I was a goner!Morning Wren.... ! And Sass, I DO have a "fairy light"... "She" is sitting down, laying across this frosted "globe" light! And I can turn it off or on. Just something about "make-believe" and fairies that I really like. It must go back to child-hood... a way to "escape"... And it's where everything "good" happened.Thank you MM! Yes Sass, just call me "sparkle-plenty"...Ha, ha! Wasn't she from Dick Tracy?Yes Flowers..... I'll reserve a room for you! For all of us! So glad you are doing better! Yes, waiting to start Femara sounds good go me. Give everything else a chance to settle down, before you start that.Hi Chickers.... good to hear from you... Yes.... post pictures!Hi Spookie... HOW do you know when you have a blood-clot? I mean like in your legs, or lungs? Is it painful, and do your legs swell?And Hi Mary, Savgigi and Shells.... Hope I didn't miss anyone! xoxoxo
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