BC stole my friends

Anonymous

badmamajamma- Well, I'm a little late to the party but just wanted to send you some sympathy, empathy, hugs and some little girl panties 'cuz sometimes we should be allowed to wear them!  I kind of felt abandoned by my friends during treatment, too, and it caused me to take a step back and reanalyze a lot of relationships.  Weeded out some toxic ones and realized the ones that were left were just clueless, not cruel.  It gets better....honest!  Some people just don't know what to say so say nothing.  Some don't know how to act so go missing.  And I swear some think we're contagious!  But I totally got what you were feeling and saying and I understand how much it f****** hurts to feel alone at a time when you need your friends the most!  So vent away anytime!  We're here to listen!   ((((BIG HUGS))))

duckyb1

Kate22....Love your  "yes they're fake".............kind of says it all......I wanted "fake" told the BS take them both, I don't need them, they are only decoration at my age.   The BS thought going so drastic was really not necessary, and said to me, "but its your choice.  After talking it over with my 6 children I decided to go for the lumpectomy knowing I always had the option to do the mastectomy if the previous did not work..........Not sure if that was the best choice, but after pathology came in, it did seem like the choice was a decent one.....i guess time will tell that story........

Beside that I was kind of looking forward to smaller boobs.........at least without those big boobs my crumbs could fall into my lap instead of on my chest............I'm not massive, but just big enough to be annoying............When I see women who have implants (just because), I think, Lord why do you want them, I would give anything to be your size.........

I  start Rads on Monday, and I'm not sure how that will go, but I am getting some positive's from some of the ladies on here, but I also see some of the "bad news".  I will do what it takes, and hope for the best, and I guess we do whatever it takes to stay alive.