OMG They Found the Cure for Stupid

marywh

Ok where is everybody? Alyson you getting ready for your trip? You have to cluck in every now and then. How long will you be gone? Dont have anything really important to say, got run over by the Ixempra truck, so Im kind of out of it.

Anonymous

Had more fluids today. Also I have to take the anti nausea pills every 4 hours and see if that helps. Onc knows that I'm quitting xeloda. Ate dinner today, soup and tea. So far, so good.

Scottiee1

Veggy, always thinking about you....❤

marywh

Veggy, any idea whats next? Hi Scottiee.

Scottiee1

Hi Mary.....how are you feeling now?

Anonymous

I'll find out next week when I see the onc.

Alyson

Almost there.

Anonymous

Alysonakmostthere - you made me smile!

Wren44

Don't forget you have to lift it also (even without an overweight dashound).

marywh

Alyson, hope you have a wonderful time. Wish you were coming to NC. Doesnt anybody ever come here? We have the mountains And the beach. I need some company....Puleeze!!!!

Alyson

Yes Veggy almost, packed and ready to go. Will be in your area from the 3rd September, so will be in touch, will PM you and Granny.

It is going to be a very long day as we leave tonight, fly for 14hours and arrive in Vancouver 6 hours before we left, then still have 10 hours of Sunday. Figure that one out.

Big big hugs and hoping to see some of you soon.

FireKracker

Alyson-I have an 11:00 drs appt.on sept 3rd.

Please let me no your details.

Spookiesmom

Have fun Aly!!!!!

marywh

Hi Scottiee and K and everybody else. Just cause Alyson is on the move doesnt mean we have to let this thread sleep. Today was a beautiful day, didnt get out of the 70s. Got to sit on my porch with no fan....dh was in a pissy mood so hid from him all day ha-ha.. 

FireKracker

Oh Mary,Mary..why don't u come too?

Scottiee1

Hi Mary....does my heart good to hear you can sit out on your porch and enjoy now.

I'm off to Ottawa for a few days to visit a friend and have lunch with some gals on my Canadian and Ottawa threads that I've never met.....should be fun.

marywh

I wish I could come,k. But Im planning a train trip to DC in Oct. maybe, how far is that from you? Scottiee you're just a traveller these days arent you? Hope you have a really good tome, and behave yorself, not too many shots this time-ha-ha.

Scottiee1

I'm gonna have my shots straight this time Mary.....no jello....ha ha ha

FireKracker

Mary,Mary...u no I just moved to shits creek

Don't know where the hell I am and you want to no how far it is to DC

Me thinks u betta ask veggy,maybe if she feels up to it we can make a trip.

Just sayin!!!

Scottiee...enjoy your vacation traveling sista..good for you.

Gonna miss you.

Eat,drink and be merry...life is too short.

Xo K

Anonymous

5 hours with potty stops...265 miles.

Alyson

Hi all from a tired kiwi in Vancouver

Wren44

Hi Alyson. Hope you are able to rest a little before continuing.

Shira

I am newly diagnosed but wanted to jump in on this thread because I sure wish there was a cure for stupid!!!!  My husband gets all of his information from listening to crazy radio stations, never reads or researches, and thinks he's got everything figured out (and that everyone is out to get us!).  

I waited to have my first mammogram until I was 49 (some of his thoughts sometimes effect me, but I research first, and planned on having one at 45, which he also thought was ridiculous because they're just trying to radiate all of us).  Well, unfortunately, cancer was detected, and I am now diagnosed with IDC, grade 1, 1.1 cm and have a Lumpectomy scheduled. 

Well, my husband thought I was a fool for getting a needle biopsy, and he thinks I should do some juicing and get some cream like someone he knows did, skip the lumpectomy, and then the lump will come out through the skin like hers supposedly did.  But, did he ask her what kind of cancer she had so he could give me actual details, no!  Did he research about Lumpectomies, needle biopsies, anything, no!!!  He is just smarter than everyone else from listening to the radio and hearing third hand information from friends.

Oh, to add to this, he thinks I should do everything naturally, but is he taking over any of the household things I do (plus I work full-time and he is home more than I am), like getting the kids ready to go back to school, so that I can research, eat healthy, and get ready for surgery, no!!!

Anyway, thanks for listening, and I'd swear on here too if I was sure I wouldn't get kicked off this website, it's very helpful (swearing and this website, lol).

mostlymom

Hi Shira - welcome to the site.  You sound like you have your head on straight - bless your hubby for trying, but he needs to be gently aimed in a different direction.  Since my daughter had BC when she was 32, we were both a little more informed which was both better and harder in some instances.  She's now a 13-yr survivor and I'm a 2-yr.  I joined this group just a day after I was diagnosed and it has helped keep me as sane as possible.  Swearing is not only allowed, it is encouraged - we all need outlets....

duckyb1

Shira........your diagnosis, your body, your going thru it.....you do what you think is best or you..........



I had a lumpectomy for a diagnosis very similar to yours.....not sorry I did...first you have to love your surgeon................I had no problems......take one day at a time........get rid of the tumor first......then go to the next step..........for me the surgery was the easiest part.......sounds crazy, but it's true......trust me juicing, and creams do not cure cancer.............anyone who thinks they can be their own Doctor.......has a fool for a patient.......good luck.........swearing is encouraged here...........

Shira

Thank you mostly mom!  My brother was diagnosed with an aggresive rare type of cancer almost 5 years ago (and he is doing well), and at that time I researched and learned a lot too (which I agree is helpful and harder, so many different opinions!!!).  So my husband is coming at this from the little knowledge he has (thinks he has) from radio programs, and I am coming at it from learning as much as I can, plus it's my body, so for him to believe he knows more than the world is sooooo frustrating!

I do wish he could be gently aimed in a different direction!  But unfortunately, he is like this about everything, so the best I can hope for is that he keeps his thoughts to himself, does not argue with my doctors, and that he drives me to appointments as needed regardless of his opinions (which so far he has done, but my mother is coming with me to the Lumpectomy instead just to be safe).  And yes, this group and all of the information on this site is great!

proudtospin

Shira, good luck, yeap, we have some hi class swearing around here...have you met Grannydukes yet?  

Hey K...help her swear!

Glad your mom is going with you to the lumpie, the surgery is not bad but better to have her with you then your hubbie.

marywh

Hey Shira, welcome to our crazy little group. Swearing is permitted and so is husband bashing. I think we all have one of those know everythings in our family. I just let it go in 1 ear and out the other. You have many cures to choose from on this thread, they all work, as we are all still here, and full fo sh$% ourselves

duckyb1

Shira........you said it......YOUR BODY......we have another thread on here called....STFU.....come on over and visit us there too..........no need to tell you what the letters mean........



These are 2 excellent threads to show you how we really feel about the so called "KNOW IT ALL TYPES, AND THE WELL MEANING ASSHOLES WHO GIVE US THEIR ADVICE"

Shira

Thanks Ducky!  I am doing just that (getting rid of tumor first and then worrying about the next step afterwards).  I tried to explain to my husband that there is no way I would leave a 1.1 cm tumor in while I test out natural methods to see if they work as that just gives the tumor time to get bigger, and then I'd be looking at a different situation. 

I will research more before the next steps, radiation and estrogen blocking medications, but for me, taking the lump out is an easy decision.