please help

honeygirl

Jane , I think Ulla is refering to the paragraph "power in the word".

honeygirl

Hi Lisa , have fun tonight. Be careful driving.I think the roads are just wet now. We're all thinking about you sweet sister. Oh , we can talk tomorrow. Now , no swinging from the canderliers tonight!lolxxxx

geebung

I just had a horrible thought. If any one of us was to suddenly get knocked over by a bus or something and disappeared from this forum, we would all be wondering what happened and we would never know. We should leave details somewhere in the house that one of our family members could use to access this forum and let everyone know.  It's a macabre thought but we take risks every time we drive and the other day at this course I was doing one of the guys there threatened to come back with a gun and shoot everybody. He was barred from the course and we didn't see him again but anything is possible! I would just hate to be always wondering what happened.

Jane. xxx 

livesstrong

Wow!!  Lots of posts to read thru again.

Glad to see everyone is feeling good today.  

Don't have much time as DH is home and wants computer time.

Just wanted to say HI!! and I'm thinking about you all and will try and check back later.

Love ya,

AE 

Shirlann

Hi dear sisters!  My husband has developed a "falling over" thing.  We don't know if he had a stroke or if he has one of about 100 things.  Don't think it is Meniere's, because the room doesn't twirl, just tilts?  So I may be missing for awhile.  Y'all take care of each other.  I will get back to you when we know something.  He only has it once or twice a day.  He is diabetic, which means it could be a dozen things.

Love you, Shirlann 

Ulla

dear jane u r absolutely right

i will tell my hubby how to get in here just if anything happened..i am still thinking of karyll

hoping and waiting for her to post

geebung

Shirlann, I will say a special prayer for your husband. Thank you for letting us know. I hope it is just a passing thing and he will be better soon.

Hugs,

Jane 

geebung

Karyll, I am thinking of you. Oh, I wish we knew what is happening! I haven't seen her post in any of the other forums. I am worried.

Jane xx 

geebung

I have a tendency to be a bit of a worrier but have worked on it and I am not too bad now. It does raise its ugly head every now and then though! My mother has always been the biggest pessimist and panic merchant. As a kid I used to sit on a rock in front of our house, worrying about whatever family member was out - praying for dear life - but at the same time certain they had had an accident. I had leaned to think like that because my mother always voiced her fears! Now I tell myself to not worry until I know something definite and I distract myself. Most of the time it works and I don't think I am really like my mother. She has multiple phobias - thunderstorms, frogs, germs... the list goes on! When my sister was about 10 she read my mother's diary and the words "...if I shuffle off this mortal coil any day soon..." made her wonder what she was talking about. I think she must have asked someone or looked it up and realised that my mother was talking about impending death! Pretty scary for a 10 year old to cope with. Anyway, my mum is now nearly 91 so she had many years ahead of her. I though pessimists were supposed to live shorter lives?!!!

Jane. xx 

honeygirl

Awww Jane (((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))) worry is a hard thing not to do. You are right. We need to tell a loved one to come here and how to come here in case anything happens. God forbid , but it is reality. Wow , that was a scary thing you experience. I hope he never comes back and was just talking with a hot head.

I know what you mean about hoping you didn't "inherit" phobias from your mom. I was always afraid my son would have anxiety attacks , because when he was very young I had them for a couple years. I know he witnessed my struggle at times. But hopefully he won't have them. Sometimes life is hard...

honeygirl

Yes , I have been worried about not hearing from our sweet sister Karyll. Gosh I wish she would e-mail us. Does anyone have an e-mail addy for her? Karyll , if you read this , please just post a "I'm ok" if you don't feel like talking here. We miss you.xxxx

honeygirl

Ulla , hubby is gone , what are you up to? When I have an evening or weekend alone. I turn on the radio , I love music , and make something that my o/h doesn't like , for dinner. Last time I was alone , I made sesame chicken and rice. He doesn't like chinese. I enjoyed!

geebung

Yum again, Melody! You are really making me hungry now. It's almost lunchtime here and so I had better sign off and do some work before I eat. I have had a lazy morning.

Hugs and love to:  Angie, Auntie Em, Barbie (Hawkwoman), Cyndy, Dawn (Md Mouse), Karen, Karyll, Lisa, Lucy, Mamhop, Melody, Mia, Pam, Pearl (Snowyday), Sheila, Shirlann, Sue, Tender, Ulla, Valsul, Wren and anyone else that I might have forgotten. Have a great night everybody.

Jane. xxx 

honeygirl

Bye Jane , xxxx Hope you make something yummy. Love ya , Melody

manos

The Survivor Movie  someone sent this to me a couple of years ago and I just found it again. It helped me.

livesstrong

manos - That was awesome.  Thank you so much for sharing it with us.

Aunty Em 

honeygirl

manos , Thank you so very much. Very touching. Says things that I feel. Says things that I needed to hear. Thank you.xxx Melody

geebung

Thank you manos - that is beautiful.

Jane. xxx 

honeygirl

Oh Shirlann , I hope Walt is OK. I'm sorry this is happening. Please know that you are both in my prayers.xxxxx Yes , it could be a number of things , especially because he is diabetic. I hope they find out soon what is wrong. Please let us know as soon as you can. I love you Shirlann. xxxx

Lucy1234

Shirlann

Sending my love to your family, its really strange because my sister had a simular experience recently.

She had an inner ear problem that they sorted out quite quickly. They did think it was Vertigo at one time? I suppose it could be anything...

Yea Sue would be nice to chat, have a few battles in my head at the moment that Im having trouble making sense of and thought maybe you had simular experience?

Im off to take the kids swimming today  first time the scars are out for all to see. Maybe they will chuck my out for scaring all the young children!! LOL. My boys love swimming and they have NO fear, thats what scares me, my youngest jumps in then wont let me hold him, even though he just sinks!

Better go and get the old cozzy on.

Love to you all!

Lucy

my3girls

Shirlann, I am sorry to hear about your husband.  I thought the same thing as Lucy, first thing that came to my mind was Vertigo. I hope they figure out what is wrong, and can treat him.  We will say prayers for him. Manos thank you for that little clip. Very nice, and easy to relate too..  Mel..didn't it have your favorite painting in there? Well, I think I had a few too many last night. I only had 3 drinks, but since I am not used to drinking that much, it gave me a headache. I have stuff to do today to get ready, but I have no energy or motivation.  Not being able to eat really is hard! I am not in the most conversive mood today.  So I just wanted to stop in and say hi.  I will try back later before I leave for the hospital. Olivia said she will get on here and post to update you. xoxo Lisa

susanmcm

I have skimmed through almost this whole thread.  It's great.  I recognized your name Sue. I sent you a christmas card.  You all keep having so much fun and caring about each other.

susan

livesstrong

Hi ladies,

(((((((((Shirlann & Walt)))))))) - hoping that it is something minor and all is well with the world again.

((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((LISA)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) - Good Luck my friend,  man - new boobs & a tummy tuck - I'm jealous!!  

Sue - hope you are sleeping the day away.

Melody, Jane, Lucy, Ulla - I know I am forgetting some - have a great day ,

AE 

Ulla

hi girls.

hope u had a great sunday..

dear shirlann my best wishes to ur dear husband .....

sue ,,honey??where r u ??i guess u r making a good roasted meal for the boys...yummmyyy

mel ..thanks for the clip//it is really nice..

lisa ..have good luck dear ...we will all be thinking about u today,,,

lucy ,,,i wish u had a nice time with ur boys swimming dayyy..i wish i was there tooo.i miss to be with friends in such places....

ae..i love u...

jane,,i feel everyword u said,,,

love u sisters,,,

Lucy1234

HAVE YOU GOT A HEADACHE LISA!!!!!!!!!

Sorry I am normally very supportive but that one is self inflicted LOL

Hope you feel better now.. Chocolate and chips normally help me

XX

md_mouse

Lisa - i will be thinking of you tomorrow as you have your surgery.  Sending you positive thoughts for an uneventful procedure and recovery.

All - you are the best at keeping everyone's spirits up.  Have a wonderful rest of your weekend.

Shirlann - I hope Walt is feeling better and they find out what is happening soon.

Dawn

sueps

Hello Everyone xxx

I hope you are all having a peaceful Sunday xxx I just love coming to this corner of "our world" catching up with you all and feeling strength that we are all on the same ship xxx

((((Shirlann))) Please know that we are praying for you and Walt....hopefully it is something simple...and you wont have to wait long to find out....Much love to you both xxx

((((Lisa)))) I guess you are getting ready for tomorrow...we will all miss you loads but we will all be here waiting to give you all the support in the world when you are at home recovering..you will never be on your own xxx  And don't worry about not feeling like conversing...your mind is all wrapped up on getting focused...I so know the feeling xxx

Lucy...I hope you had a great swim with the boys!! I wish I could take mine swimming ...I am so self conscious right now...god bless your little one ...lol...have no fear...hahahah..I hope he didn't sink...lol...Daniel my youngest has no fear...they are so funny...xxx

Ulla I did not have a roasty tonight...I made a huge spag bol ...mmmmmmmmmm ..... the boys loved it....oh my I am putting on a couple of pounds lately....I will be a size 12 before I know it...I cannot stop eating !!!

Well apart from doing the usual weekly shop ...I have done nothing but sleep AGAIN....I just seem to be sleeping my life away or working....I have a real orrible 3 days at work coming ...and so I will just have to shut my eyes and get through it... also hopefully will get my scan results back...I have no idea who to chase for them xxx

Much love to everyone here.... I treasure all of you ...each of you have a special place in my heart... X X X

Off to do some paper work and get a cuppa xxx  Wish I wasnt so out of steam!!!

geebung

Hello everybody,

Just a brief one from me this morning! Lisa, sorry you have a headache but hope you had great time getting it!! I will be thinking of you today praying that you will have peace, strength and courage as you approach your surgery, minimal pain afterwards and great boobs and flat tummy! Wow! 

Shirlann and Walt - my thoughts and prayers are with you too. I am hoping that this is just a temporary thing which can be fixed with medication adjustment. Hugs to you both.

Everyone else here - hugs to you all. Hope you all have a restful and enjoyable remainder of your weekend. 

Jane. xxxx 

livesstrong

Well ladies just wanted to wish youi all a nice evening - I am getting ready to go to a neighbors who is having a Super Bowl (football championship for all you across the pond)party -good company,  good food, big 50" Tv, funny commercials and lots of alcohol - life is good!!!

Will check in tomorrow at work to see if Olivia posts.

Hugs,

AE 

Lucy1234

Ow no Sue not a size 12!!!!!!

I would love to be a 12, I am a chubby 14

As my other half says - More cushion for the pushin!