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  • mary1220
    mary1220 Member Posts: 1,246
    edited April 2008

    Hey Janie, glad to hear your dad is better. Glad you don't have many wrinkles either. I have some that need attention but I am not real crazy about if they go away or not. I don't want to look 30 or 40 again but maybe a little nicer complexion would be nice.(now if I could look 25 again without any surgery like maybe a fairytale I would jump on that, but the toolman would feel old so maybe not) I have large pores and always have so I have always hated that. Around my mouth is kinda goose butt looking and I would like to keep it from getting worse. I don't wear make-up because I have exzema that comes and goes but it is just a little so I don't do anything to stirr that up and I have to be careful of what I use on my face. Have to do some errands so later and it is another dark gloomy rainy day. Hugs, Mary

  • janie44
    janie44 Member Posts: 1,460
    edited April 2008

    Hey guys,  I started this once before but was interrupted by a phone call and when I came back to finish it, the post was gone.  Must have timed out or something.

    My Dad was discharged Saturday.  They actually take better care of him at the assisted living place than at the hospital where they seem to be so short of staff.  For example, it took transport about 1 and 1/2 hours to come pick him up to wheel him down to the car.  Just picking him up and taking him home pretty much took the entire day.

    How is everybody?  All scans etc. turning out ok?  The weather here has been either chilly, rainy, or cloudy lately.  I am now on Spring break.  I was off for interssession last week but did not get everything I had planned to do done, so I guess I will be going like a whirlwind this week.

    Have a great day ladies,

    Janie

  • mary1220
    mary1220 Member Posts: 1,246
    edited April 2008

    Hey girls, Janie I am glad your dad is out of the hosp. We had a couple good days and everyone was out in their yards. We are getting storms today and toolman has to go to the Dr. in Springfield. Hope your weather gets better and you aren't too busy to enjoy it. We didn't really have a Spring break this year. The kids were out of school for 3 days and went back. I guess they want to get out early. Well gotta get. Hugs, Mary

  • janie44
    janie44 Member Posts: 1,460
    edited April 2008

    Hey all,

    Mary, we get out several days off during the year, but have a short summer.  Our last day is May 29 (I think) and then we go back July 25.  However, we get a Fall break, one week for Thanksgiving, more than one week for Christmas and a couple of weeks in the Spring, plus a few one day holidays here and there.  I kind of like it like that.  Those breaks come in handy during the year.  A couple of those weeks that I am off are what they call inter-session, where the kids who are struggling are given intense instruction while everyone else is off.

    The Lady Vols just won the NCAA championship for the 2nd year in a row.

    Idolers, who do you think will be voted off Thursday?

    Later Gators,

    Janie

  • PJB
    PJB Member Posts: 2,615
    edited April 2008

    Janie, so sounds kind of like the old year-round school model. I think that's pretty cool....



    As for who is going to be voted off.... Carly? Syesha? I'm finding the girls very boring this round. I'm liking the Davids.



    Storms last night here, some tornadoes mostly in West Texas. Ah, spring...



    At home with a sick Nathan today. Should be boring.

  • mary1220
    mary1220 Member Posts: 1,246
    edited April 2008

    Hope Nathan gets to feeling better. My grandkids have had a fever and cold symptoms for almost a wk. Hubby has had a sore throat and caugh flu for a wk. It is going around and I have been washing my hands almost off trying not to get it. We are getting storms and rain for 3 days. How wonderful. We may even get snow fuurries 2 nights because the temp is going to drop to 38. Janie, glad your girls won. Hope Nancy is o.k. There has been an outbreak of b.c. in our town lately. I have heard of 8 new dx. Being a smaller town sorta everyone hears about everything eventually. I guess being a farming communtity I wonder if that may play a roll with the chemicals that float through the air. Maybe not. I wonder if where you live like here if the b.c. people have more ductual or lobeular. I better go. Hugs, Mary

  • janie44
    janie44 Member Posts: 1,460
    edited April 2008

    Hey all,

    Hope everyone is feeling better by now.

    Yes, It is almost year round school.  We have a short summer but I enjoy the breaks during the year, although I always bring work home with me.

    Mary, when I was first diagnosed, as you remember, I was working in a smaller school system in South GA.  That same year, two others were also diagnosed, a teacher and a school librarian.  The water was awful and most adults brought in bottled water.  We had jugs at the county office for coffee or whatever.  Many teachers purchased a system with a cooler in the room so they and students would not have to drink the nasty stuff coming from the fountains.  I lived in a nearby town that was on the sewer system, and commuted (taking my water with me).  I often wondered if the town were contaminated, especially after the outbreak of BC, and there had been other cases before that year.  However, I read that one has BC for several years before DX. However again, mine did not show up in the previous mammo, and was quite big a year later, making me wonder about that.  Anyway,  just my round-about way of saying I have thought along those same lines.

    Janie

  • mary1220
    mary1220 Member Posts: 1,246
    edited April 2008

    Janie, I do remember that. It does make you wonder. I don't like hearing that being over weight can cause it or some of the other nonsense. I think they should use more money on cures too. Well it is cold and wet again. We have had a little snow flurries too. Gosh I am so ready for warm weather. Well, I better get. Hope everyone has a great wk. end and does not get the cold flu going around because it is bad. Hugs, Mary

  • janie44
    janie44 Member Posts: 1,460
    edited April 2008

    Some guy is going to be on 60 Minutes tonight with some phenomenal "cancer cure."  Not to throw cold water on it, and it would be wonderful if it were true, but I have an idea we would have heard of anything that great before it hit the air waves.  I do plan to watch however.

    The weather here is all over the place, ranging from 40's to nearly 80.  Never know what to wear.  There is a wind advisory out today.

    Now listen one and all:  Get better!!!!!!!!!!

    Janie

  • janie44
    janie44 Member Posts: 1,460
    edited April 2008

    Well,  it made more sense (60 minutes) than I thought it would.  It may actually work!  Unfortunately, it will take another 4 years or so to reach humans.

  • mary1220
    mary1220 Member Posts: 1,246
    edited April 2008

    Janie, I missed it because I have the flu. I have been in bed and going back when I get off here. It is the cold flu eck! What was it about? Hugs, Mary

  • janie44
    janie44 Member Posts: 1,460
    edited April 2008

    Mary,  I do hope you are on the mend.  This man was on who has terminal cancer.  He figured out a way to get radio waves to zap cancer cells without damaging organs etc.  Sort of along the lines of Herceptin, except not a drug.  It is working in animals and top researhers have adopted it.  Unfortunately, it will probably be too late for him by the time it is ready for humans.  He hopes to live long enough to see the lst human treated with it.

  • mary1220
    mary1220 Member Posts: 1,246
    edited April 2008

    Wow, that sounds interesting Janie. I am muddling along and feeling a little better every day. We have a craft show this wk. end about half hour away Sat. and Sun. The weatherman says storms and rain both days. Oh good! I hope it goes around us. I should be better by then, I have to be! Well hope everyone is fine and enjoying nice weather. It is about 70 today but 30 m.p.h. winds of course, we can't have everything. Later girls. Hugs, Mary

  • mary1220
    mary1220 Member Posts: 1,246
    edited April 2008

    Crap, our craft show is Fri. and Sat. I don't know where my brain went but it has been gone for a long time. Just me again, Mary

  • janie44
    janie44 Member Posts: 1,460
    edited April 2008

    Hey Mary,  How did you do?  Did it rain?  I have been drowning in referrals and meetings.  Typing until 1:30 or 2:00 a.m. many days.   When I retire, I think I will advocate for school psychologists.  There are so few of us that we do not have lobbyists and do not have time to advocate for ourselves.  We really get screwed sometimes.  Vent over.

    Hope everyone is well.  Summer will be here soon. Hooray!

    Hugs to all,  Janie

  • mary1220
    mary1220 Member Posts: 1,246
    edited April 2008

    Hey Janie, you are working too hard girlfriend!!! Breath and release. O.K. school will be out soon. We are out the end of May. The kids go back like June 3 or about to pick up their report card then go back like Aug. 22nd. or about. Well we came home yesterday because it was way too windy and everyone went home and went back today. I went late because I am still fighting a sore throat and bad caugh. I went over to check on hubby and he did pretty good so I put out a few jewels and made about 25 bucks in about 3 hours. It was pouring down rain and cold! Wasn't many people there. I picked my stuff up and came home and hubby stayed till 5. It was clear and 5 degrees warmer at home which is 25 miles away, go figure. We awoke at 4:35 the other night rocking and rolling in our bed! Our mirrored closet doors were rattling like they ment some harm. There was a train down the road and I thought that was causing it but hubby said no he thought it was an earth quake. I said look out the window and see if we are still at the same add. I thought we bounced accrossed the street. Now we had one when I was a kid and again when my kids were young and now. I was in 2 in Calif. when I lived there for a year. This was a doozy. You probably heard about it on the news. Thats a rude awakening at 4:30 in the a.m. I thought we were being tossed about by a demon and needed an exorcism.  Gosh; I am glad the train didn't derail. We aren't built or prepared for a good quake. This was a 5.4 and our high rises and over passes aren't built to withstand one. We are not prepared for gas leaks or chemical leaks ect. We have coal mines hundreds of ft. below the ground. Gosh, people around here need to get with it and do something. Ahhh, our state is broke and the only place in Il. that gets money is Chi. town. Oh well, now I vented. Sorry we have a school closing here and a town close that has to bring their kids bussed to our schools(their school is closing too) and it doesn't matter how many are in a class or the busses running through the country in snow. Down state gets left out I am affraid. Well, hope all is well with everyone. Janie you get some rest ya hear? Hope Nancy Lee is well and Paula is not working too hard. Later girls. Hugs, Mary

  • janie44
    janie44 Member Posts: 1,460
    edited April 2008

    Wow ladies,  we got kicked to the 2nd page.  Had a hard time finding us.  Mary, GA is having financial woes too.  It seems to be widespread.  AND.......... milk is supposed to go to 7.00 a gallon!  The two just don't mix....... money going down, prices going up.

    Later gators,

    Janie

  • mary1220
    mary1220 Member Posts: 1,246
    edited April 2008

    Hey Janie, We are hearing that flour is going way up and there is going to be a shortage on bread because of the wheat shortage. The farming community is saying there is grain shortages. We produce the worlds most grain. Pretty sad. They closed a flour plant close by. Well; we have 2 grandsons in baseball and the grandaughter is in softball so we are going to be spending a lot of time at games. The oldest boy plays for the school so that will end when school is out I think. He will no doubt play for a travel team all summer though. Well; after 80 degrees for a few days, down Tus. to 50's. What a crock. Oh well I am getting over my flu. Hubby is too. It keeps coming back on us. My neighbor went to the hosp last night with it and they kept her for the 2nd. time. Everyone seems to have it. Well I have kids on the way over then off to the game at 6. Hope everyones fine. Later,Mary

  • janie44
    janie44 Member Posts: 1,460
    edited April 2008

    Mary, I used to love going to sports events for my kids. Can't wait until I have grandkids so I can do that again.......probably on my walker hobbling along.

    We do not have a flu outbreak at the moment.  Parvo outbreaks are happening at several local vets offices though.  What is gas running in your states?  It is around $3.56 here. I actually thought I got a bargain today at $3.49?!?!??  Took over $41.00 to fill up my little car and it was not empty to start with.

    Almost time to see who gets voted off... I predict either Jason or Brooke.   Later   JF

  • mary1220
    mary1220 Member Posts: 1,246
    edited April 2008

    Janie, we gassed up for $2.35 a gal. the other day. Promotion for ethenol(they do it every year at F.S. station). They had it that price for 4 hours and the traffic was lined up for miles. You could only get ethanol or E85. There was a couple R.V.'s there too. We got there early and out in 1/2 hour. It is $3.51 to $3.53 today. Il. has a bunch of tax on our gas so it is always higher than anywhere else. I got me a Focus wagon in place of the suv and I am sooo glad! We still have the 8cy. pickup though but we drive the car all the time. We got rid of the old Jimmy too cause it was a gas hog. I wanted something I could just pay for that was cheap on gas and this little silly looking thing was perfect and its mine. The truck cast about $80.00 to fill. YIKES! Well Janie it is fun going to all the sports. I never missed a game when the kids played and I get to most the grandkids games too. You will LOVE grandma-hood Janie, it is soo much better than momhood, and it is soo much fun watching them act like their parents sometimes. Sweet Revenge! Thats the mothers curse, they have a kid just like them. I so don't miss the "MOM make him stop looking at me", or "Mom, he put his socks in my face", or the " mom make him change the channel back". Yea, my son was indeed the "starter of evil"  and my youngest was the informant, she would charge the olders for silence but told mom anyway and the brain dead olders would pay her every time. This youngest was one to recon with. I would yell at her and she would threaten to call DCFS on me so one time I dialed the phone and said here I will call and have them pick you up cause I am tired of yelling at you and she never said that again, if I said I was going to tell her dad when he got home she would call his work and tell him I was being mean. She was a dozy. She says whats on her mind if you like it or not. This is the Pharm. Well I better get. You are going to be a great grandma Janie. I think you get as excited about the grandkids birth as the kids. Don't feel bad, I will be in a walker when the youngest finally has kids. She is too busy making money. I hope she finds the time because she would miss so much to let time pass her by and she would be a good mommy. I really want her have a kid just like her though, oh yea, mouthy as heck and I want to be alive to enjoy seeing that. Hugs, Mary

  • PJB
    PJB Member Posts: 2,615
    edited April 2008

    80 bucks? Oh, that's painful. I paid 3.33 today for gas. Ouch. But my car only holds 8.5 gallons, so it's never too bad. Mary. BTW, thanks for sending the funny stuff the other day.



    Hey, Janie, I was pulling for Jason to get voted off. Very cute, but not a good singer. It was sort of a surprise, but Brooke gets a lot of sympathy for that poutiness.



    Work's been hectic, and we're getting a new publisher. I'm crossing my fingers I get to fill positions as they come open. LOTS of papers laying people off.



    Mary, is your daughter being called to testify against the guy who tried to rob the pharmacy?



    Last horse riding lesson is this weekend. It's pretty fun, but not fun enough to spend 30 bucks a week. AND I have to groom the horse and pick its feet myself. It'll be fun, tho, this weekend because one of my instructor's horses just had a baby. Should be very cute.



    Going to San Antonio in a couple weekends. My sister is coming down from Penn. to interview for a job there, so we'll go visit her for the weekend. Got a great deal on a 4* hotel on the Riverwalk, so I'm hoping it'll be really nice.



    Anyway, hugs all around,

    PJ





  • mary1220
    mary1220 Member Posts: 1,246
    edited April 2008

    Hey girls, It is cccccoooollllddd this a.m. It is 32 with wind chill. Crazy Il. weather! Hey P.J. what kind of car do you have that holds 3 gals? Is it a hybred? They have written my daughter about going to court but she has opted out because she is affraid of someone wanting revenge. They said they have him on tape so it isn't nessary she go and the cops got him with the stolen drugs. Glad you enjoy ridding. I always loved horses and ridding. They can pack a mean bite though and leave large scars. I have a friend who has had horses all her life and she has sooo many bite scars her legs look horrible and she has a few on her arms. Sounds like you and your sis will have a great time. That would be nice to have the family close by. Well I better go. Kids will be up soon and I have to make pancakes and sausage. Hey Janie and nancy Lee. Hugs, Mary

  • janie44
    janie44 Member Posts: 1,460
    edited April 2008

    Horse bites?  I did not know that.  Never knew horses bite people!!!! Live and learn !!!! 

    PJ,  guess I was wrong in my prediction.  At this point, I guess it is hard to guess with so many differing opinions.  I have thought for a while that the remaining two will be the 2 Davids, especially since neither have been in the bottom 3,  but you just never know.

    Mary it got into the 80's here today.  Hard to believe that you were freezing and I had the air on.  I'll send you some heat and you send me some cold waves.

    Hugs all,  Janie

  • PJB
    PJB Member Posts: 2,615
    edited April 2008

    Ah, luckily no horse bites. Of course, I keep a close eye on them when I'm near them. I just don't really trust anything that big.



    Got a bread maker today. MMMMmmmmm, smells good.





  • janie44
    janie44 Member Posts: 1,460
    edited April 2008

    PJ,  homemade bread is so good.  I read online that groceries are going to go out of sight, especially bread, milk, eggs etc. -- the article was encouraging people to buy in bulk or grow their own etc.   A breadmaker may be a very good idea.

  • PJB
    PJB Member Posts: 2,615
    edited May 2008

    OK, so no one's turning cartwheels over my first try at whole wheat bread. I think I'll go a little less healthy with my next one... :)

  • mary1220
    mary1220 Member Posts: 1,246
    edited May 2008

    Well P.J. it will get better when you get brave with recipes. I have had a bread maker for years and I make up my own breads like Asiago cheese bread or I throw in Itialian seasoning, Parmesan cheese or sundried tomatoes and black olives and everything I can come up with. (I cheat sometimes and get the frozen bread dough and let it rise all day until it is well over the top of the bread pan and then bake it in the oven and boy, thats good too.) They have flavored bread dough bags for bread machines at our local kroger so thats easy enough. Don't get discouraged; if you bake it they will come(and eat it). Hope everyones doing good. I have another friend with b.c. Wow, thats like an epidemic! My neighbor is in the hosp. and not real good. She got the flu and now they have tubes in her to breath and drain her lungs. She is just fighting like heck. Poor thing. I really like her and miss her. I am used to seeing her and talking to her every day and she brings us home made fruit breads. Some times I think life just sucks! I have been taking food to her hubby off and on when he gets home from the hosp. and baking things for him. Hubby has been mowing for him too. Well I hope you aren't working too hard Janie. P.J. keep baking and tweeking the recipes, and hope Nancy Lee is o.k. We have a craft show Sat. about a half hour away and it is suppose to strom bad tomorrow and get cool like 58 on Sat. Oh great, another ear ache for me. This weather sucks! Later little lady bugs. Hugs, Mary

  • PJB
    PJB Member Posts: 2,615
    edited May 2008

    Mary, so sorry to hear about your good friend's struggle. Life does just suck sometimes. Hugs to you. And good luck with the craft show. Your stuff is beautiful. You should sell out.



    Hi to Janie...

  • janie44
    janie44 Member Posts: 1,460
    edited May 2008

    Hi All

    Ummm those flavored breads sound fantastic!  Makes me want to rush out and buy a bread maker .... or go to Subway. 

    I discovered a very easy great cake to make.  Being busy (or lazy take your pick), I admit it is from a mix.  You bake the Super Moist Lemon Supreme cake (think it is either Duncan Hines or Betty Crocker) which yields two.  Split both so that you have four (better split this way than dividing and baking four separate because it absorbs icing better).  Then stack and frost each layer and top and sides with Supreme Lemon Frosting, yep from the   can(s).  It is ultra moist and the frosting saturates the throughout and it is really scrumptuous.

    Mary, I hope your friend starts doing much better.  BC and life can suck.  You are so right.

    Hope you sell out this weekend.

    PJ - keep on baking

    janie

  • mary1220
    mary1220 Member Posts: 1,246
    edited May 2008

    Janie, I am going to try that next wk. it sounds really good. I didn't mean I made up breads I mean I just throw in my own flavorings as to buy the bagged bread mix but some of my flavors I have never heard of and some I try to think of what they are when we are at restaurants that serve bread and oil for dipping. The wheat bread needs some sweetness but I haven't figured out how to do that. Mare

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