Wanting to Help Others -- Camisoles for Comfort Project
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Hi everyone,
I am trying to get a program that I have named "Camisoles for Comfort" up and running at my local hospital. My idea is to apply for a grant to provide each newly diagnosed woman with a tote bag which will have a mastectomy camisole, pillows, calendar, book on breast cancer, etc. This program is already running at another hospital in my state.
I am doing this to help newly diagnosed women have a better experience than I did at my local breast care center/hospital. This is my way of "giving back."
I have posted an entry under the "Surgery - before, during and after -- breast cancer support question." I am asking that women share their experiences with me of what they were given after diagnosis by their local hospitals and/or breast care centers.
I would appreciate hearing from any of you. I'd like to present this to my local breast care center to point out that there really is a need for this --
Laurie
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laurie
i think it is such a wonderful idea
it would have been a blessing for me if they would
have had that at the hospital i was in,,
hugs, laurie
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Laurie, this is a great idea. I left the hospital with discharge orders and prescriptions for my meds. Fortuantely I work for a pharmacy that supplies durable medical equipment. I, too, used the Softee camisole. I am still using them a year later, I just had my tissue expander/implant transfer surgery. Good luck.
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It's wonderful you are doing this! Good luck to you.
The first thing I got was a patient guide 3-ring binder from my breast center that has been my Bible. I still never leave home without it. I keep it in the trunk of my car and I've been done with treatment since Nov 2006. It has my entire history and all relevant phone numbers in it, drugs, surgeries, pharmacy, etc. I think it's crucial for anyone going through treatment. i've made books for people I know who have cancer but weren't given a book by their cancer team.
I also keep a large yearly calendar in there to keep track of all my appts. I do not throw them out as the years pass, as they're great for a quick reference if you need to know a past date.
The first page contained a very comforting letter from my breast surgeon to her patients re breast cancer. Second page contained a plastic sheet that already held all the business cards for my surgeon, nurse navigator, radiology center, oncology center, etc. (pictured below.)
This was followed by:
1. Overview of the Breast Center at AAMC...the team, procedures, resources, follow-up care, information resources, counseling, research, etc.
2. Section entitled "My Care Team" with a printed list of everybody with phone numbers.
3. My Reports section...which is now bulging. They advised me to always get copies of everything, 3-hole punch it and put it right in the book. I've been pretty faithful with this.
4. Understanding Breast Disease Section.
o Understanding Breast Anatomy
o Breast Cancer Work Up - covers Hx & Exams, biopsy techniques, and a glossery of breast cancer-associated terms and what they mean.
o Types of Breast Cancer
o Breast Cancer Stages
5. Treatment Options Section
6. Questions for Doctors Section
7. Resources with a Q&A section re drains, exercises . Also gives names and addresses to buy wigs, lymphedema center, ask-a-nurse phone number, etc.
8. Life Long Wellness section. It gives you steps to remain healthy, has comments from survivors, a nutritional section
9. Last Section is entitled "Notes."
Here's a picture of the book:
Here's a picture of the business card section:
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When I was in the hospital for my SNB, the ladies from the Survivor group who volunteered at the breast center were waiting for me when I woke up. They gave me a satchel that was filled with all the things you mentioned...small handmade pillow, pens, ribbons, even a breast cancer wristwatch. A paper that had a list of free services available to me. They would come clean my house, free massages, free grocery shopping and delivery...meal preparation..wherever there was a need, they would get that need covered. They'd take you to your treatments if you needed it. Free counseling services, etc.
I ended up getting two bags...the ladies visited me before my lumpectomy several months later (I had my chemo first)...and presented me with another one chockful of goodies. It was also wonderful that they talked to me before my surgery. They really cared.
You might want to talk to someone at the Breast Center affiliated with the Anne Arundel Medical Center here in Annapolis re their program or maybe they'll send you samples of what they give out.
I could have gone to Johns Hopkins...but after visiting their center, there was no other place in the world I wanted taking care of me.
Take care-
Patrice (GSG)
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Laurie, this an an awesome project. The ONLY reason I knew about the camisole was because I lurked here for 5 weeks prior to my mast. surgery. This site gave me the majority of my valuable information.
I visited a Cancer Center about 40 miles away the month prior and met a wonderful woman there who gave my the ins. code and info to give to my surgeon so that the camisole would be approved. She also gave me my little pillows for after surgery along with the ACS surgery booklets. This lady was a lifesaver. She's also the first person who gave me hope for the future.
My hospital gave me no help at all prior to surgery. At my hospital, I was finally given an ACS packet 3 days before surgery because my cancer nurse was on vacation for the month prior to surgery and had only come back. She also took the day of my surgery off, so my poor DH had to run interference for me. I think that all hospitals should require that the cancer nurse assigned be available when the bc patient is coming out of surgery.
Because of the many threads I have read with similar problems with lack of communication, I hope your project is wildly successful.
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txgirl: It makes me sad the way some centers treat their cancer patients.
Last time I was at my oncologist's office, I was in the waiting room and in walked a nurse from my Breast Center with an older woman. It was the woman's first chemo...she was scared and her son had to work..so the hospital/breast center sent someone along with her for her first chemo, just to be there with her. The oncologist's office is not on the hospital complex either.
I know there are many other wonderful centers around as well...I hope the centers who don't do so well with their patient service will wake up and check them out.
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What a wonderful project....I hope it is a success! Wish we had such a thing here too! Let us know how it is going.
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I received a bag with post-surgery follow-up info, ACS pamphlets, a book -Finding Your Way to Wellness- by the local Komen group, a handmade pillow ~6 x 10", a stress ball, a CD from Gilda's Club and some other stuff. I don't know if they give mastectomy patients anything else.
When I started rads I received a basket with a hat, gloves, gentle lotions & soaps, Philosophy "Grace" perfume, chapstick, note pad, pen, tissues, a lavender-filled stress ball, and the offer of a small stipend if I needed it. Oh, and a couple of chocolate bars
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Hi everyone,
Thank you so much for your responses .....
The main doctor at my breast care center was very disinterested really with my idea -- and she herself had a mastectomy in the past -- but I hope that if I present all of your comments to her, she will see that there truly is a need for this type of service. I think it is so shameful that there is such a disconnect between the medical side and the emotional side of breast cancer.
I do have a person on my side at the breast care center, though. She runs the patient cancer support program and she thinks this is a fabulous idea. If you all don't mind, I would like to share your responses with her.
For me, personally, I received a prayer shawl and a book on breast cancer. I loved the prayer shawl but it certainly was not a practical item -- when I purchased the camisole after my mastectomy, I lived in it! I have read the breast cancer book from front to back ....
Thanks for your comments and keep them coming. I really want to show my breast care center that there is this need. I loved the cancer book that GSG submitted. I welcome your positive comments and ideas as well.
Laurie
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I would certainly welcome additional comments as I want to present this to my breast cancer center to show them that we definitely have a need for this project I am trying to get going ....
Thanks!
Laurie
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