Has anyone ever changed jobs while on chemo?
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This is my first post here, and I hope I'm putting it in the right place - if not, could someone please redirect me?
I have a friend and coworker who was diagnosed in January, had a lumpectomy, and started chemo a couple of weeks ago. She and I are both concerned about her job situation. I won't go into detail here - it would take pages - but it is, in a word, *awful*. It's a retail job with major amounts of stress, some of it from corporate stupidity, but most of it coming from a new manager who doesn't like her (they worked together before; the woman transferred to another location and just came back in December). And this stress is not what my friend, Karen, needs right now. But it also doesn't seem to be a real good time to change jobs.
She's planning on talking to the social worker about it when she goes in for her next treatment on Thursday, but I told her I would try to find a message board and ask the question there; she's not online so she can't do it herself. Has anybody out there ever changed jobs while undergoing chemotherapy? If so, how did you do it?
Here's some basic info. If you've ever worked retail you know it's physically demanding, but Karen's job is even more so, because she's the receiver (handles truck shipments, both incoming and outgoing) and also stocks most of the product that's shipped in. She's very strong, but the chemo has made her tired (so far that's the only side effect, except of course for hair loss). She's still going in every day and doing her work, but I think she'd be more comfortable with a job that's less physical. And she'd need a somewhat flexible schedule to accommodate the treatments and doctor visits (something the store manager's not happy about right now). And then of course there's the pay - *and* the health insurance benefits. I used to be an employee benefit specialist, and back then - 20 years ago - group plans covered pre-existing conditions, but I don't know if that's still true. I do know it takes longer to get into a lot of group plans these days.
Anyway - lots of, uh, challenges here - but hopefully they can be overcome. She *really* needs to get out of this job. (I found myself a full-time office job and am leaving the store job on Friday; now I need to work on helping Karen.)
Is there anything I can do to help her with this, or any suggestions I can pass along for her to do? I'd really appreciate any help anyone can give here - and I know Karen would too.
Thanks in advance.
Peggy
P.S. So much for a short posting...
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Why not take some time off instead. If she has worked for her company for one year and they have more than 50 employees she is eligible for FMLA which protects her job for 12 weeks if she wants to take time off. She then could get pay from state disability (depending on the state she is in) and also get short term disability benefits if her company offers them and she elected them. I am sure her doctor would sign her out.
Also she is now in a protected class because she has cancer (so tell her to talk to HR if she feels like her manager is harassing her).
Most insurance policies won't cover pre-existing conditions for one year after signing up so this could be a challenge if she changes jobs. Also if she changes job she would lose her protection through FMLA.
I worked retail for 10 years (got out of it a few years back) so I know how physical the job is. I managed a few women who had BC and they took time off during their chemo, surgeries etc. because of the demands of the job.
Good luck to her. you are a good friend!
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Thank you for the suggestions. I just checked the employee handbook and there is a short-term disability plan, which she probably has because she's a full-time employee (I never looked into this myself because I'm part time and part-timers don't get benefits). She may be saving it for if she becomes too ill to work, but I'll mention it to her. I'm not sure what the state (Colo.) offers in terms of disability benefits, but I can look into that myself.
About the "protected class" status you mentioned - where could I find more info on that? I don't think it will help with HR, they're useless, but maybe I could go to the state department of labor; I'm planning on doing that anyway because of some illegal practices going on there.
I'm not surprised to hear about the pre-existing conditions clause - but I am disappointed. I won't go into my opinions about the insurance industry here.
Anyway - thanks again for your help. And good luck to you, too.
Peggy
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Peggy -- HR may be "useless" but they still have to comply with the Family & Medical Leave Act (FMLA) -- it's the law, a federal law. If your HR is anything like mine, they will NOT bring up FMLA or "offer" it -- but once your friend asks for it, HR will absolutely have to comply. Believe me, someone in HR knows about FMLA.
Link to info about FMLA: http://printe.employment.findlaw.com/employment/employment-employee-family-medical-leave/employment-employee-family-medical-leave-fmla.html
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