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  • AlaskaDeb
    AlaskaDeb Member Posts: 2,601
    edited March 2008

    Thanks girls.  I just feel hollow and broken.  I am always the one who has some idea on how to make things OK.  I can't see a way to make this OK...I just don't know what to do.

  • Peter
    Peter Member Posts: 343
    edited March 2008

    I can cook a bit but will need some help, save some room on the carpet for me.....Deb feel the love and support heading your way mate, it has always been there for everyone but as Vickie said it is needed more that ever now.

    Peter 

  • SheriH
    SheriH Member Posts: 785
    edited March 2008

    Deb, I'm in shock!  You've given us the basics, but I'm anxious to hear your game plan when you are ready.  I'm pulling my wagon up to the circle and joining your fellow circle girls.  Deb, I was going to post this anyway (weird timing) but I wanted you to know I still have my circle girl button on the strap of my purse that I bought last winter when you sent them out.  I was looking at it earlier and amazed at the friendships I've made and the things we have all been through the last few years.  Deb, you have been such a supporter to all of us for so long and I want you to know that I am here for you. 

    Let's sit together around the fire and comfort our fellow sister.  My prayers are with you and your family this weekend.  Feel the warmth of our love surrounding you.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited March 2008

    Deb

    Angel and I are so very sorry to hear this and are praying for strength and guidance for you. 

    Karl and Angel

  • newvickie
    newvickie Member Posts: 3,939
    edited March 2008

    Deb...I am so sorry...I wish I knew what to do. To be honest I don't know what this means...I can't google for help for you because I don't know what to google...do you want to give us some ideas so we can do some research?  There are lots of people here pulling for you and lots who can do lots of research...its the only way I can think of to help right now.  I love you.

  • CherrylH
    CherrylH Member Posts: 1,077
    edited March 2008
    Heavenly Father, giver of life and health:Comfort and relieve your sick servant, and give  your power of healing to those who minister to her needs, that DebC ,for whom our prayers are offered may be strengthened in her weakness and have confidence in your loving care; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, now and forever. Amen.
  • shokk
    shokk Member Posts: 1,763
    edited March 2008

    Oh Deb I am so sorry...................I was just praying it would be the sarcoid............Shokk

  • cmb35
    cmb35 Member Posts: 1,106
    edited March 2008

    Deb - I'm so sorry, I'm here for you... Colleen

  • badboob67
    badboob67 Member Posts: 2,780
    edited March 2008

    Deb,

    I posted on your thread in the mets area. I just want to reiterate what I said there:  THIS IS NOT THE END and YOU CAN DO THIS!  Look at all of us here to help you through! The shock will wear off soon enough and I KNOW you will come up swinging.  That's who you are, Deb. That's why we all love you!

    (((HUGS)))
    Diane

  • bearlysane111
    bearlysane111 Member Posts: 735
    edited March 2008

    Deb,

    Just wanted to say how very sorry abt the news. You are such a loved and valued friend to all. There with you and if anything I can do,pls ask. You will get through this and everyone is with you every step-of-the way.

    Iris

  • Naniam
    Naniam Member Posts: 1,766
    edited March 2008

    Deb I am at a loss for words.  Like many, I was worried but I just feel like I have been knocked to my knees once more.  I'm sure you are lost.  YOu have always been here for us - you are not alone.  I know that doesn't seem like much at this point.  We are your cheering section, your prayer warriors, your hovering sisters - you are not facing this alone.  Got your hand, together we are going to get you through this.

    Deb my SIL had BC - no nodes involved.  About 2 years later - was in her lymph nodes.  She has been treated twice with chemo - she is now fine and has been fine this last time for over a year.  This was discovered 6-7 years ago.  Tomorrow we are celebrating her 70th birthday!!    

    Brenda 

  • 2up
    2up Member Posts: 1,358
    edited March 2008

    deb ........ i sent you a pm.

    i am with you heart and soul on this.

    .......... it is shocking, but you're gonna find a way to deal with this news and keep on keepin' on, i promise! 

  • Gus
    Gus Member Posts: 251
    edited March 2008

    Deb,



    I am so sorry...I wish that I could find a way to make it better for you too. All I can say is that I love you and that I'm with you every step of the way. You are NEVER alone, and I am so angry at this disease that I want to do anything I can to help you kick its ass!! Once you've had a chance to get your head together, please let me know what I can do to help.



    Holding you tight!

    Sue





  • beth1225
    beth1225 Member Posts: 1,061
    edited March 2008

    Deb, if I am at a loss for words, you know how much I am praying for you. 

  • Madison
    Madison Member Posts: 1,819
    edited March 2008

    Deb,

    We're coming........and we all have boxing gloves on.   We are gonna fight and WIN..........

  • lv2cmp
    lv2cmp Member Posts: 1,363
    edited March 2008

    Deb I know the gut feeling that you have believe me but you are a strong person and will come up fighting.  If there is anything I can do for you, please let me know.

    Amy

  • lv2cmp
    lv2cmp Member Posts: 1,363
    edited March 2008

    Deb I know the gut feeling that you have believe me but you are a strong person and will come up fighting.  If there is anything I can do for you, please let me know.

    Amy

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited March 2008
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  • AlaskaDeb
    AlaskaDeb Member Posts: 2,601
    edited March 2008

    OK....have I told you lately how wonderful you all are?  I told my DH and girls....God, that was hard.  We all cried, but now we are watching Monk and laughing....amazing I can laugh....

    At least I have quit puking.  Can you believe I freaked out so bad I actually made myself physically ill?  Fear is a nasty thing.

    OK...I'm blathering.  I am getting some valium and going to bed. 

    Hugs

    Deb C

  • BMD
    BMD Member Posts: 1,492
    edited March 2008

    Deb-I think I would have been puking too. I wrote you a post at the Hamptons. Love you. You are so special.

  • TheShopMama
    TheShopMama Member Posts: 577
    edited March 2008

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    Seems like everyone is getting bad news.  But the good news is we are all in agreement.  Cancer sucks.  We can fight it together.  All of us.  Together.  

    Hope today is a good day.  Love you all, Pam

  • joy1122
    joy1122 Member Posts: 352
    edited March 2008

    Deb- I am so sorry,I don't know what to say.Please don't give up that fighting spirit you have.If there is anything I can do for you please let me know.

    Joyce

  • purplemb
    purplemb Member Posts: 1,542
    edited March 2008

    Deb, prayers and lots of love going your way, just tell us what we can do and you know we will be there... hugs my cold friend from the north....

    MB

  • MargaretB
    MargaretB Member Posts: 1,305
    edited March 2008

    Deb, I haven't been able to get to the boards since Thursday night.  I'm so sorry for your news.  I don't know what to say except that we are here with you every step of the way.  Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you.  I told Colleen earlier this week that I work for a biotech company and have access to all kinds of journals and information so if you want me to research anything for you, just let me know.  Got out the boxing gloves for you - we're all going to fight this cancer with you.

  • k4katz
    k4katz Member Posts: 240
    edited March 2008

    Deb, sending you prayers and hugs with all my might.  You have a great medical team and they will help you fight this!  We are all here for you.

    Kristin

  • livesstrong
    livesstrong Member Posts: 1,799
    edited March 2008

    Deb, I just sent you a pm.

    Can I be in charge of the pissy tent???

    Valerie 

  • neesie
    neesie Member Posts: 1,924
    edited March 2008

    Is the big F still the unison word of the day?

    Deb:  No doubt in my mind that you will kick the beasts ass once again.....but it is so not fair that you have to.  Love you my former Michigander.......and will be there watching as you drag the beast over the coals and get rid of him for good.

    Well...as for the rest of ya........thought today would be a good day to catch up..............and after reading about Deb.........I am actually sick to my stomach.....................hope all have a good day.

    Hugs,

    Neesie 

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited March 2008

    Deb, I rarely come in to lurk here on the Circle.  It is most definitely a beautiful place to be.

    You and I do not interact on BCO.  But I want to tell you just how much I admire you.  You are one very special person i.e. great mother, wife, friend, fun person.  There are so many adjectives to describe you, but I just can think of them right now.

    My heart is broken for you.  I've given some thought (I try to push those thoughts away..stick my head in the sand) to the "what ifs."  Would I be able to go through this again?  Not on my own.  It would take God, family, friends, many prayers, and the girls from this board to encourage me.  You have a wonderful family support system.  You are so loved by them, and by all of us.  You WILL get through this.  The only thing I can do for you is pray..pray for strength that God will pull you through this..pray for healing and the best ever outcome from the chemo you will be taking.  You have got one helluva attitude..a great attitude. 

    I know none of these words makes things any better.  But, Deb, I'm really cheering you on!  You CAN do this Deb, you can!

    Hugs, hugs and more hugs,

    Shirley

  • PuppyFive
    PuppyFive Member Posts: 2,808
    edited March 2008

    {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{DEB}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

    I'll be back Sweety, just need to go Puke!!!!

    can someone make chicken broth???

    Puppy

  • Madison
    Madison Member Posts: 1,819
    edited March 2008

    Puppy,

    We are putting logs on the fire and all of us are gathered together.   We need each other......I need all of you......

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