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LOLOLOLOL hahahaha... Karyll...you make me laugh so hard...lol..I am off to find a measuring jug...lol..lololol.....xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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I won't be laughing this time tomorrow though....
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8.2 measuring jugs full...
...... I won't be drinking out the jug though ..... going to make orange and lemon....will be here till mid nite at 2 jugs an hour ... lol.....blerghhhhh xxx
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You need to have that looked at. From what I have read, breast cancer that is hereditary like yours seems to be, and ovarian cancer are connected. Is your breast cancer ERPR positive? If so, getting your ovaries removed can only help. I'm so sorry you are going through this, and know that as of this posting, you have had your surgery. I hope you are doing well.
I have just been diagnosed 10/10/07 with infiltrating ductal carcinoma. My father had breast cancer and prostate cancer, and my mom died of pancreatic cancer...all related to the BRCA2 gene as is ovarian cancer. I am planning on having my ovaries removed after a bilateral mastectomy with reconstruction is done-I don't have a date as of yet. Waiting for yet more tests and another biopsy- once my breast cancer treatment allows me to do this.
I'm just so glad there is a place to talk to people here. I hope that you will be back on the site soon to get moral support.
Kimberly -
Hello ladies--Betsy and I are just checking in on our dear Sue and I have not had time to read through the entire thread yet and get caught up on everything and everyone, but sending you all hugs and sloppy cocker kisses from Ms. Betsy!
Dear Sue, I just finished number 3 of my 6 CMF treatments, and I must say they are not going at all as bad as I thought they would. (yup, I like to assume the worst is coming, and then when it is not so bad, I am relieved.) While I have had nausea (succesfully treated with Zofran) and been very tried (expecially after treatment number 3) I am still handling the grocery shopping and making dinner every night, made it to several dinner parties with friends, scheduled one dinner here for friends which hubby helped with, and am planning on attending a wedding on Sunday. I refuse to let the beast keep me down!
I am very positive thinking and I know I will be well enough next Tuesday to take our annual Thanksgiving trip to Paris (hubby proposed to me at the Eiffel Tower--I won't even go into how many years ago)--and I will be darned if I skip my annual trip because of chemo.
Keep drinking you water Sweet Sue--it makes such a difference. My nurse told me if you are not peeing every two hours, and getting up a couple times a night to pee, keep on drinking until you do!!
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Sue,
I have not had time to completly catch up on a week's worth of messages, I just hope that you are doing well and the chemo is not beating you up too hard.
My surgery was well and I feel great.
Sheila
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Jane- I just want to give Betsy hugs & kisses!! She is just the cutest.
Well dear Sue (aka Dorothy) This time tomorrow you'll be well on your way to the Emerald City. Is anyone going with you ?? DH went with me the first time, then I was on my own. Bring your Ipod, plenty to read or even your laptop if you have one. It all makes the time go quicker. There's a good chance you might even doze off from some of the drugs. bring that jug of water as well. Don't be surprised if you pee red - thats normal.
I'm not sure if I mentioned it, but my Mother died at 43 from stomach cancer. I was 9. My Father died at 47 from a brain tumor, I was 12 then. So I can totally relate to how you feel. I never thought I would make it past 50 - but here I am- living the "new normal"!! I kicked that bootface right in the butt!!! LOL. I plan on living till 100!!!
Please let us know how you make out, I'll be thinking of you all day.
Stay strong,
Auntie Em
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Jane Betsy is absolutely gorgeous and the cards are very luxurious with kind messages....I want one LOL...I so love your dog and all the good work she does..xxxxxx beautiful!
Auntie Em...What a sad time you have had...but what a trooper to turn your sad time into huge inspiration to one and all....you are truly truly remarkable ...God Bless xxxx
Jane you are doing great on CMF....so much positivity xxx
Well my O/H is going with me tomorrow and I will take some books and my ipod....etc..
I am just going to work out the best route plan...and catch up on my water...only had one jug so far lol xxxx
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Hi Sue,
You are a brave, wonderful woman and I have nothing but admiration for you. You express your feelings SO brilliantly - I do hope you write a book one day.
Good luck with drinking all that liquid! I always have trouble drinking a lot when it's cold but find it helps if I warm it up. I am sure it will help a lot though. As I said before, I haven't experienced this (sometimes I think I shouldn't post anything because of my ignorance) but I am thinking of you and praying that you will get through the first treatment with minimal side effects. I think it's a wonderful idea to mark off each treatment off a calender with a violent scrape of a pen - how cathartic!
Sending you my most loving thoughts and prayers for the next few days,
lots of love and hugs,
gb
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gb.....my angel..of course you should post regardless of ANYTHING...we are all scrapping with the same thing lol....we are marching on together...and you are one great support to me.....and I truly truly love you as a friend and as b/sister.....
I am supposed to drink 8 big jugfuls ...I have managed 1.5 so far...just had a nice cuppa.....back to the water....blerghh....I need to drink 18 glasses before I go bed.....my tummy is bloated ..... I look like a balloon LOL
Much Love....
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Poppy, I just wanted to wish you all the best too. You are another brave warrior. I hope you heal up quickly.
Jane, what a precious one Betsy is - beautiful and kind! I am so glad your treatments are not getting you down too much. Have a wonderful trip to Paris - you are another incredible and inspiring woman.
Love to all,
gb
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sue
i hate having to drink water! just think it'll be over soon.
i am still in hosp, i have so much fluid from the lat flaps i feel like im lying on a water bed!
the drains in my back are making my nerves go into sppazem (cant move!) thank godness for pain killers!
how is everyone else?
x
xxxxxxx
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My goodness, those photos of Betsy are GORGEOUS! In my next life, I want to come back as your dog, Jane. You obviously adore her and spoil her rotten.
I'm feeling for you, Sue. I've had a difficult time getting all my liquids in. I count tea as water. I imagine that's cheating
. Oh well, I'm drinking SOMETHING all day long, so I'm sure I'm doing ok. I'm certainly peeing enough!
Good luck tomorrow, Sue. It's going to be fine. If you're like me, the chemo drugs will make you groggy, so you may very well feel like napping. I'm glad you beat that nasty flu bug and that you're on schedule with your tx plan. You'll feel to much better once the plan is in motion and you know how it's going to effect you. You're a trooper, so I know you'll sail through with flying colors!
Much love and hugs to you and to all my other bc sisters,
Karen
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God bless you too, Poppy. Sorry to hear that you're still in the hospital. I'll pray for your quick and comfortable recovery.
Hugs,
Karen
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thanks karen
i just want the fluild to go! i feel like the marmellow man out of goastbusters lol
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sorry about the spelling (bit woozy)
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aww ..Poppy...its so very good to see you...gosh I hope typing isn't making you feel worse lol..... you are soooooooooo amazing...I start chemo tomorrow...so we will both be at war...I will be thinking of you...hopefully you will be out by Friday.....I bet you miss your boys....all these moments pass and you will be as one again...awww and you will be able to get big lick off of your baby dog xxxxx
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Karen...thanks for all the strength...I am having a cup of tea now..lol....the water had filled my body up to me eyeballs....lol.....I can't wait to come back here after I have had it done....everyones support and advice and love mean so much to me....which in turn helps my boys.....as I can support them better...
Daniel said he had been tidying his room yday as he knew I was going in for treatment on Tuesdqy...in the end it was apparent...he thought tidying was the same as cleaning and getting rid of germs ...lol....he doesnt want me to catch anything ...bless him x
Much Love xxx
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I am so glad you are 'ok' Poppy...you are amazing xx
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I will be thinking of you tomorrow Sue. The first one is scary, because of the unknown. Knowing what I do now, it really was not as bad as I thought it would be.
I was never told to drink that much liquid...hmmm...maybe I would have fared even better. I drank some water, but not allot.
Prayers and love are with you...get some sleep!
Poppy....I hope your pain gets easier for you!
xoxo
Lisa
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Hello everyone!
Sue, just wanted to wish you good luck. You will be fine. It is so relieving to begin treatment, and KNOW what to expect rather than WORRY about it.
LOVE the wizard of oz analogies, all. I have been a huge fan of the wizard of oz, and even read all of the books by Frank Baum. The month after I was diagnosed my husband took me on a trip to California to see the musical Wicked. It was awesome.
Have a wonderful week all! Keep on keepin on!
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Hi
Just checking the latest postings and thought Id chime in.
Seems like you've had allot of wonderful support and advise!!! Thank god for this site.
A tiny bit of background.
First BC at the age of 27.IDC Stage 2 chemo, lumpectomy,rads,
Now diagnosed June/ July 2007 Inflammatory Breast Cancer (very aggressive no lump) Stage 3b (Yuck) Cancer in both breast and nodes.
Just finished chemo.
Now awaiting Double mastectomy 11/28
P S I also LOVE The Wizard of Oz.
Hugs Va
Write anytime.
Kim
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thankyou allll for your kind words
feeling alot of pain today but 1 thinh made it worth while...............
my boobs look amazing!
i cant stop showing my visitors!
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Poppy....how funny! You should be proud! I hope when I have my reconstruction, that mine look good too!! The pain will be worth it...I hope!
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Sue,
Just wish to join the chorus in our best wishes for you today! Glad your Dad was able to drop by for a visit. I was on chemo too when my Dad was on his (2001), and we're still trucking....
Thinking of you and your boys,
Tender -
Poppy - What kind or reconstruct did you have?
It makes me smile to think of yiu so happy with your results!!! YEA
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Poppy--How are you doing today with those beautiful new boobs? I cannot blame you for wanting to show them off. Doing a happy dance here for you and hoping your are recovering quickly.
Sweet Sue--how did it go today?
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Poppy - so sorry about your pain but it's just great that you are thrilled with the result. Hope you are feeling better soon.
Sue, I am thinking of you and wondering how you are.
hugs,
gb
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kimmi
have had latimus dorsi flaps with implants. i cant type properly on this keypad so if you guys would like to see give me your emails and ill send you a pic when i get home.
has anyone heard from sue?
i wonder how she got on?
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Yoo hoo ... xxx
Well I just got back ...and how's this for fate...during my wait at the hospital I searched and read every magazine going.....and then happened upon an article.....about....the remake of......Wizard of Oz! to celebrate its 70th anniversary...being made for 2009....well how about that for fate!! I went and found a mag in the hospital bringing me close to all my amazing interweb friends! xxxx lololol
Poppy.....you making me mad jealous
...put them away! lol....it is always brilliant to hear how you are doing xxxxx
Well .... I am feeling sick....but at mo have steroids and sickiness tabs in me....and all the gallons of water...so not too bad...I had the chemo about 5 hours ago ....
I txt my boss and told him I will be in work tmw if I still feel ok....
When does it all kick in.... I have tablets and mouthwash etc....
Emotionally I am very sad...very very angry ...very sad ...more angry.....but positively a little more secure with the treatment....like someone has wrapped a blanket around me in the storm.....I will probably throw the blanket off tomorrow though....
Much love and many many many thanks xxx
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