November rad girls check in here!!
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Hi Ann
I did not have a post surgery mammo...the rad onc says he'd rather I avoid the discomfort and have the mammo after rad. Plus I pushed to start as soon as possible so I would be finished by Thanksgiving...well that didn't work. The rad onc office was a little slower about scheduling the simulation appointment because my insurance approval hadn't come through....so much red tape involved with insurance. I'm taking the week of Thanksgiving anyway to visit my family in Arkansas. At least one of my rad onc is not very supportive of that...but thank goodness I've been on this site comm with some of the Oct glow goddesses - one is taking a break and leaving for Cancun. Ann, at least you'll have Thanksgiving.
Kagaines, does your insurance kick in Dec. 1st....keep in mind that if your first rad onc appt is Nov. 26th...that will be the consult....they will still have to schedule the simulation then your planning and schedule will be put in place...It could be 2nd week of Dec. before you start depending on the quick work of your rad onc. office.
It sounds like you want to move the date up...so maybe your rad onc will work with you on the med ins. I'm a strong believer in sooner than later on this issue...but only you know your ins/fin. status and ability to do this before your insurance kicks in.
Take care,
Sandra
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Hi all
2 down 30 to go. I was in and out under 15 minutes. If I can get used to the drive, I will do fine. they said I would meet with my oncologist about 2x a week, once he will check in on me while I am having radiation and again for like an office visit. I decided to get out my german language CDs and see if I can learn German on my long drives to the hospital.
I also decided I can surely do this. I was thinking back to the chemo AC and the nausea. Even the SE from the taxol is almost gone. No tingling or itching in my hands at all and my feet only bother me when I go for a 2 mile walk, but it is getting better too. So, radiation, inconvienent as it is, has got to be better.
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Hello All
I start Rads on Nov 7, I finished chemo Oct 8, had port removed last week. This was the first week I didn't have any doctor appointments and it felt great, I almost felt like my old self. But next week it starts all over again, I've been dreading the 54 mile round trip, but after reading how far garnetann is traveling I won't ever complain again. I hope everyone has a great weekend and I look forward to getting to know everyone.
Pat
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Wow, my Radiologists office just called to remind me of my appointment on Wed and if I agree to having Rads, they have scheduled time for the set up too. Does that mean tattoo and or other tests? It seems like everything is starting to go so fast-WOW blows me away. Im having a few tears too though dont know why, probably just overwhelmed. Im not scared.
I go back to work on the 13th after taking a nice long break. Maybe it didnt start out that way with the lumpectomy and recovery but its starting to feel like a nice vacation. Went to my surgeon a couple of days ago to see how I was healing. She had to take off the steri strips because they tend to stay on me pretty good. Its been 4 weeks today but my incision is completely closed and it kind of looks like a seam.
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Wow - this group is huge!! I don't have much to add as I haven't had my CT or sim appt yet. But, I wanted to welcome the newcomers and send best wishes to those who have started already.
This no bra thing has me concerned. I am not big breasted, but one side is reconstructed and the other side - well, let's just say it hangs low! I can't go to work like that!
Hope everyone has a great weekend!!
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I'm jumpin' in too! Looks like a great group. I should start the process on Nov 6th. I say "should" because I really should have started on Sept 7th. I was actually at the rad onc clinic to have the simulation and the doc comes in and says, "OOOPS", we need to halt the process. They just noticed additional information on the path report that the margins weren't clear. Lumpectomy was July 30 and I on Sept 6 learned I wouldn't have to have chemo. Obviously, I was ever so pleased! The med onc did say he was going to call the rad onc because he was concerned about the margins. Both the surgeon and the rad onc had missed that part of the path report. That certainly didn't create much confidence. So, for various reasons MRI scheduled and re-excision planned for Sept 24. Then, after MRI there seemed to be abnormalty showing up in my lung. This meant deferring surgery and having a CT scan. CT scan was inconclusive so surgery rescheduled for Oct. 15. Re-excision actually took place. I'm healing nicely, except for the abundance of serum now collecting.
But, all of this means - I can be a "November Rad Girl"!
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Hello, ladies today was zap #2 and all went well. I must say it sure is fast.They get you lay-ed out like a side of beef and move you around and before you know it your done.The problem for me is the anticipation its all in my mind. Maybe I'll get use to it ...I just have these control issues. Every thing is out of my hands.So far no SE's,OK only 28 more to go.
Well every one rest up and enjoy your weekend.
Good Hopes,
Terry
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Hi all,
I had been having what I would call sore muscles? On the affected side - at the shoulder in front - feeling like I had to stretch them out. I looked on other threads, and yes, that is a se of rads. Some said massage worked...i'm not at a place yet (4 down 29 to go) where I feel I need that, but it was nice to have that info.
So far no redness, no soreness (other than the muscle in front of that shoulder). I'm wondering if I'm having a little trouble breathing, too...it's hard to determine if this is from rads, or the little bit of exercise i've been doing.
"Little bit" = ten minutes there and back total in the am to rads, then 30 minutes walking after dinner with dh.
Have a good weekend!
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HI kagaines,
If medical oncologist is suggesting an earlier time try for it. But check re insurance if they will cover the procedures after the 1st. Best wished -
Well ladies its back to the grind of rads tomorrow, I have had a pleasent week-end, stayed in my jammies all week-end rested played with my critters and fixed my comfort foods, have decided I will get what shopping needs to be done during the week since I have to be out anyway for rads and the week-ends will be more relaxed, after all they tell rest helps those healthy cells build themselves back up.
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I had my first visit and simulation last week. No tattoos just markers.
Melissa
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Oh my ladies, don't let your guard down...ever! I breezed through most of my chemo and finished up on October 17th. I thought all was good to go. Went in last Wednesday for sims and CT scan and breezed through that too. Got to feeling really crummy on Thursday, but tried to get through the day at work anyway. Had to give up and go home at 3:30. By 5:00 p.m. Thursday I was being admitted to the hospital with chemo induced neutropenia. My white blood cell count was down to 1.1 and I was septic. They sent me home this afternoon after being in reverse isolation all week-end even though my counts are still only up to 2.2. I'm off work and confined to home for the week. My son isn't allowed to come home for 3 days because he was at Marine Corp drill and got vacinations and they don't want him around me. My dh spent 2 hours stripping the beds, washing every surface in the house down with Clorox wipes and hovering over me. He's gone out to fill my antibiotic perscription finally so I'm allowed off the couch to sneak a message of warning out to you! I thought that I was home free, but I was wrong. PLEASE be careful!!!!
Debbi
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Goma,
Thanks for the warning. Glad you are out of hospital. You are so right about not letting our guard down. I know I have become more lax about washing hands, rest, etc. Monday is second week of rads so I will be more cautioius. I had two hospitalizations due to being septic during chemo so I understand what you went through.
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Hi all
3 down, 30 to go. They changed my appt. to a little later from now on so I don't have so much traffic to deal with. Still feeling fine, a little tired, but I think it is more from the chemo than the radiation. Been putting on aloe as soon as I get out of the Dr. office, than sween cream when I get home from work than aquafor before I go to bed. Hoping something is working.
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Hello
Today was my #3 out of 30. Last week I took 1mg of ativan for each appt.,thought I was doing so well that today I took half. So today I had a mild panic attack...got through it ok but now I'm so depressed about the whole thing.Can I really walk in there 27 more times and lay myself down on that table?Sorry to be such a downer.It's just that cancer sucks!
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Greetings, I wasn't expecting to start rads until Wednesday but went in for my verification CT today after getting my tats and sim last week and after they got done, they asked me if I just wanted to get started today! I told them to "fire away"! So I am 1 down and 34 to go... I should be done on Christmas Eve.
I just see rads as something very proactive and focused on any possible remaining cancer so am very upbeat and positive about it. It feels good to be doing something that is really targeting where the cancer was last. Chemo was harder to relate to because it seemed so passive and unfocused to me, radiation is very active! So 2dogsnburg, just try to think about it as something that is truly targeting any potential remaining cancer ... that is a good thing. Think about all the good that is coming from the time you are on that table. Cancer certainly does suck but it is wonderful that we have this means to attack the cancer.
Debbi, Thanks for the warning -- we all need those kinds of reminders. I just finished Chemo on Oct 24th and it is easy to forget that I still must pay attention to my recovery afterward to make sure I stay healthy. I am very sorry that you had to go through that and hope that you take it easy this week and recover fully...
Wishing everybody a good week!
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I have consult, Tues 6th, with another radiation oncologist. The docs in the group rotate locations. I should have been done with radiation by now, but delays and postponements goofed that up. So, I feel like I'm starting over, but I'm thinking positively in that I'll have yet another pair of eyes and another opinion. I want to get the process going so I can be done by the end of this year. Please send me good thoughts that there won't be any more "surprises" and that sim and tats will happen perhaps even right after the consult! I'm only slightly apprehensive about the treatment. I'm just so dang happy I didn't have to have chemo. Any and all words of encouragement, tips or things to be concerned about gladly accepted. Cheers!
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This is my first time here. I just had my first radiation today. It was pretty uneventful. I am hoping to only have to have 33 treatments and I will finish just before Christmas. Boy, this bc takes a long time to get through.
I went last week and got a sleeve and a gauntlet to prevent lymphedema when I fly which I have to do regularly on my job. Of course, I haven't done much of it in the past several months but hope to get back to normal in the new year. I am not thrilled about the sleeve, but the therapist strongly recommended it as a precautionary step to avoid problems.
GarnetAnn, nice to see you on this forum; glad to hear you are doing well so far. Your trip there and back doesn't sound like fun.
Take care all,
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I went for my CT scan, tattoos, and nurse consult today. They were running behind (ER patient w/priority), so I got to sit and stew for an extra 40 minutes. I do believe that whatever modesty I had after having two children is now gone. Strip down, poke, prod, dots here, stickers there, oh - let's get some pictures!
They gave me an appointment for Wednesday morning for the dry run/beam verification test and set me up for my first session on Thursday afternoon. I guess I'm getting rads.
The nurse gave me the scoop on it all. No deodorant, no scented soap, no shaving (ack!), no lotions but the aloe vera gel.
I'll meet with the rad onc and the nurse once per week. There's also a social worker/therapist in the office on a Wednesday. After the near panic attack I had at work today, I may take them up on that.
I'm trying to stay positive, but it really hit me hard today.
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Wow, Debbi, what a scary ordeal. You think you are done, but we forget that our body went through hell and has to come back. So glad that you are ok!
Linda - that's great that you got to start right away. I hope that happens to me. I just want to get this done with. I go for my CT on Thursday.
Best of luck Kiwi - sorry that you had so many delays. Hopefully, this time you can get it back on track.
Welcome, Debbie. I too, have a sleeve. I don't travel often, but it was drilled into my head that it was essential. The two times I flew this year, I felt weird wearing it, but I guess it's better than the alternative.
Pam, I agree about the modesty thing. I have always been a private person. I could care less now. When I am talking to people about my ordeal, I often think to myself that never would I have imagined that I would be even having conversations with co-workers, etc. about my breasts! And who cares who looks and touches!! Ha.
Best of luck to those having treatment today. My buddy, Renee, from the April chemo girls starts today! Good luck Renee!
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Question Ladies,
Is the Aloe Vera a PREVENTATIVE measure? My skin isn't red or burnt yet at all, and I keep forgetting to use it, so I'm wondering if the bad boob going to flare up in a week and catch on fire? That's all they told me to use so far, and yet no one said why... What happens if you use nothing? If you get red would it be too late by that time? Is it to ward off any POTENTIAL skin issues?
Any input? I suppose I could ask them today, but they have me in and out of there so quickly, if i had hair, it would be blown off.
Thanks!
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Conniehar ~ Yep, I guess that I'm done with chemo, but it's not done with me!
Pam ~ I too have found myself discussing my bad boob with people I never thought I'd talk to about private body parts. It gets to be kind of funny when you realize mid-sentence what it is that you're talking about!
Debbi
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katoMato,
Use the Aloe Vera! 'Preventative maintenance'...I questioned my rads onc and he guaranteed I would redden and burn later(after 2 weeks) into treatments (bolus applied every day)...said the Aloe would help the skin even when I didn't see evidence of burning. Was told to use it 3 x daily (plus I slather on Sween Cream b4 bed) - so far, so good.
5 down - 28 to go!
Bless us all,
Kelli
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Kaye,
I put on aloe vera in the car after my treatments. I put on sween cream at lunch, aloe vera after work and aquafor before bed. I don't know what works for me, but I figure I have all the bases covered. I read that someone elses onc. said to put on aloe vera before any reactions start because sometimes you can't see it until it is already there. I had #4 today, met with my doc. and he showed me my CT scan pictures and showed exactly where the radiation was going. You could see my backbone, my heart, my lungs, my boob, and the area they removed the tumor from. Then there was a box that showed where the radiation beams went. The 28 treatments cover my whole boob, and only a tiny sliver of my lungs. So they said to be diligent about any problems with coughing or anything like that.
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Garnetann - what's sween cream? They gave me the aloe vera and said nothing else.
Debbi- I was reading above about the no-bra thing. I forgot about that! No low necklines because of the permanent marker "X" in three spots (in addition to the tattoos), camisoles will work, I guess, but it's going to be a couple of months of high-necked baggy, baggy sweaters.
Met with my director today - my manager is one of those "you must work 8 hours a day, 5 days a week or flex your time over 7 days so you get in 40 hours." I was worried that he'd be so black and white about this that I'd work myself into a state if I had to cut back hours. Fortunately, the director said he understood & would deal with my manager and that I wasn't to worry about it.
I was out to dinner with my extended family last Friday - I was just about to pull down my shirt a bit to show my scar when my 16yo daughter looked at me with such horror...and I realized where I was.
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I ordered it from the manufacturer but you can get it from your pharmicist too. Indications: Use Sween Cream® for: Cracked and flaky dry skin; Red skin due to minor burns; Radiation/chemotherapy skin reactions; Peri-wound skin; Perineal Erythema; Surgical incisions - reduces itching and pulling discomfort; Relieves itching under tape; Callouses; Any reddended skin.
http://www.sweenstore.com/sweencream.html
I got the fragrance free stuff. I read about it from a lot of people on the radiation boards, so figured I would give it a shot. My onc said anything was fine but to be careful of lanolin because if you are allergic to wool. And to avoid anything with fragrances.
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Hi all,
thanks for the clarification regarding Sween Cream.. Someone had recommended it on chat, but misspelled it as Sweet Cream.. I thought it was like whipping cream, but then asked my pharmacist daughter to check it out for me, but she couldn't find it.
Another bit of information that has me a bit worried is that my medical onc told me not to use aloe vera because it is an antioxidant and that both chemo and rads kill cells by oxidizing them.. I am using aquaphor on my scar twice a day and euricin on the rest of my huge treatment area. 6 down and 30 to go.
Steffi -
Ok, this IS interesting. Sedosa, The advice your med onc gave you doesn't make sense to me - unless one is dealing with cancer that directly relates to skin. If the cancer is BENEATH the dermal layers, it seems as though you'd WANT the skin to have all the help it can have to regenerate. It doesn't penetrate through the dermal layers to the breast tissue, or does it??? Was your cancer very close to the surface of your skin?
I'm not wearing anything right now because I keep (intentionally) forgetting. My rads Dr. said not to worry about it until it seems red. But then I'm not ever sure he knows what he's talking about. (Don't have as much confidence in him as I did with other doctor's I've had this year....EEEEEGH.)
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I got some aquaphor for the nipples only, they gave me samples in the office, the nipples are starting to get a little sore, which they say is a common SE, after 6 treatment not red but getting a little sore, and I got my tattoos today and that was a breeze, so I caqn soak in my whirlpool tonite, this Indiana weather has turned cold and my joints are aching so gonna soak in a hot tub, not too hot because for some reason they say not hot, does anyone know why we can`t?
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Clessie, I was told no hot tubs to avoid lymphedema.
Kato, I am receiving a bolus every other treatment to bring radiation up to skin according to my rad onc. He says the skin and the scar are the places cancer reappears most often. Unfortunately my rad onc issn't as great as my other docs have been.
i can't wear a bra for six months because of bad scarring on bra line.
7 down and 29 to go
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