November rad girls check in here!!

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Hi ladies -

I just met with my rads onc today for the first time.  They are looking to start me the week of Thanksgiving.  I just thought I would start this thread to connect with those of you starting in November. 

Looking forward to meeting all of you!

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited October 2007

    I just met with my rads onc today also for the first time.  I will be starting rads next week.  Good luck and let's keep in touch.

    Melissa

  • 2dogsnburg
    2dogsnburg Member Posts: 79
    edited October 2007

    Hello ladies,

    I will have my simulation on Monday. Yikes!!

    Good Hopes to all who enter here.

           

           Terry 
     

  • Ggma
    Ggma Member Posts: 97
    edited October 2007

    I checked in with my rad dr. this week and she spent 2 hours explaining all the procedures to me...gave me an appointment for Nov. 13 to have the sim, CT scan and then said we'd probably start the txs the next week.  She explained that my cancer was on the left side, right in front of my heart so the AC had probably already done damage to my heart.  She  said we needed to give the heart as much time to heal as we could bc the rads would definitely do damage to it when we started them bc of how close to the chest wall they have to get.  Okay, I thought that meant that I'd have 3 or 4 weeks off...no tx!!!! Yay!!!  Then they called with an appt. for lymphodema clinic next week (she said I'm high risk for it bc SNB, chemo and rads so it's a preventative).  Then they called to say that bc I'm in a clinical trial we have to start rads within 21 days of finishing chemo so they have to move the sim to Oct 31 and rads have to start before the 8th.  What happened to giving my heart as much time to heal as we could????  Is this safe or not?  There goes my 3 - 4 weeks off!  It' so hard to work full time while going through this stuff.

    Anyway, welcome to the boards!  Jump on and hang on tight as we enter this roller coaster of treatments!

    All aboard!!!!

    Debbi

  • Clessie
    Clessie Member Posts: 210
    edited October 2007

    I had my markings done Oct 24th and will start my rads sometime next week, they did a CT scan so are working out my treatment plan now, I`m so gratful that I was spared the chemo but not looking forward to rads as I`m sure nobody is.

    I was told to get some aqua gel to use after treatment and he wants me to use it 3 times a day, well was all over town trying to find this stuff, they said you can find it in the tanning products, well its fall and don`t they know this stuff is seasonal, will try again Mon.

    All aboard Debbi!!

  • Ggma
    Ggma Member Posts: 97
    edited October 2007

    Hey Clessie!  You aren't too far from me.  I live in Frankfort, which is about 1/2 way between Lafayette and Indy.  Have you tried tanning beds or the internet to find the aqua gel?  My rads dr called in a script for some kind of a cream for me but I haven't picked it up yet.  I'll get in there sometime this week-end.  I'll keep my eyes open for the aqua gel.  Do you know anyone who lives in Florida or Cali?  Maybe someone from a warmer state would have better luck.  It's not like we've had much sunshine around Indiana lately!

    Debbi

  • conniehar
    conniehar Member Posts: 954
    edited October 2007

    Hi girls -

    Wow - 5 of us already. 

    Terry - looks like you will pave the way and let us know what to expect.  Good luck Monday and let us know how it goes!

    Debbi - my dr told me I had zero risk on my heart and my bc was on the left too.  He mentioned that the beams come down at an angle rather than staight on.  I wonder if I am getting different equipment than you or if it because your bc was closer to the chest wall than mine.  And your bc was so small compared to mine.    Sometimes I think there is a different answer for everything depending on who you ask!

    Have a great weekend everyone!

  • Ggma
    Ggma Member Posts: 97
    edited October 2007

    Hi Connie!

    My dr explained to me that it was bc my bc was so close to my chest wall that no matter how she did it, because of my chest rising and falling when I breathe, the heart would be affected.  Lucky me! 

    Terry and Melissa ~ You go girls!  Let us know how rads go.  I'll send good vibes and prayers your way on Monday!

    Debbi

  • katoMato
    katoMato Member Posts: 645
    edited October 2007

    Hi Girls -

    Make that Six! (Debbi, you can run, but you can't hide!!!)

    I've had my tat's, and my CT and I think I'm going in for a simulation this Tuesday. (The "think" part is whether or not it's a simulation - the appointment is definitely Tuesday.) So, that means I've bought my ticket, and I'm BOARDIN' THIS BUS! 

    (Clessie - I live in the So.Cal.desert so I'll keep my eyes open for the Aqua Jel you need. Is that the actual name? It's not "Aquaphor" is it?) 

  • readeram
    readeram Member Posts: 26
    edited October 2007

    Well ladies I guess I'll be joining the November club. I have my first appt with the rads onc on Tuesday. Mine is more preventive than treatment I believe since it was DCIS and they said they got clear margins. Good luck to all of us. Clessie I live in Southern Calif so if I see what you are talking about or here about it at my appt I'll let you know.

  • liven42day
    liven42day Member Posts: 76
    edited October 2007

    Hi Ladies,

    Add me to the November Rads Club, I have my last Taxol on Nov 5 and go for tats (I think) Nov 19. Now Onc said my positional, occasionally working port can come out after last Taxol, i don't know if I start rads b4 port out surgery or after. I am confused. Have to call and clarify all of this, any suggestions, are rads easier with port out? My port is on the same side as bc was.

    Take care Charlene

  • kel1
    kel1 Member Posts: 30
    edited October 2007

    Hi Gals,

    Another member for November...my first posting, actually, but this place has been a gift for the last 7 months.  I start rads on Monday the 29th - my 50th birthday!!! I'm 3 weeks post op for R mastectomy, finished neo-adjuvant chemo in September.  Just ordered my Sween Cream from WalMart this weekend (heard Aquaphor was really messy). My rads onc recommends plain 100%
    Aloe Vera gel...guess I'll buy that next.  All this & Femara too!  Whooppee.

    DX 4/13/07, IDC, >6+cm, StageIIIa, Grade2,4nodes,ER/PR+, HER2+

  • garnetann
    garnetann Member Posts: 158
    edited October 2007

    Hi

    I start radiation on November 1st. I finished taxol on October 16th.  I got tatooed about 3 weeks ago.  I have a tube of the aqua cream and 2 bottles of 100% aloe vera, I will keep one in my car and one at home, someone else said to keep it in the fridge.

  • Kimarene
    Kimarene Member Posts: 18
    edited October 2007

    Hello to all of you!

    I am going for my planning session for radiation on Halloween.  I, of course, have been worried about this phase of my treatment.  I had a lumpectomy on 9/12/07, clear margins, SLN with no sign of cancer in the lymph nodes (and I know how lucky I am!). 

    I have developed what I think is a staph infection from the injections of radioactive isotope before the surgery.  I have seen two surgeons, one dermatologist, an oncologist, and a radiation oncologist - and none of them had a clue about what this red area above my nipple is!  Finally I was lucky enough to hook up with a lactation specialist who took one look and said she thought it was staph.  Now my surgeon has prescribed Keflex and it does seem to be turning it around.

    Has this happened to anyone else?  Is it safe to have radiation while taking antibiotics?  My lactation specialist friend said I should not have radiation until the infection is absolutely gone.

    Thanks for listening.

    Kim

  • Ggma
    Ggma Member Posts: 97
    edited October 2007

    Goodness!  It looks like this is going to be one long roller coaster!  I hope that we have enough cars!!! 

    Hello Kaye ~ Good to see you followed me over here.  We'll be looking forward to your insightful news.  Gals, prepare to roll on your floor laughing, because she's one of the funniest ladies on the August 07 Chemo boards. 

    Welcome to our roller coaster ride readeram, Kel1, Charlene, garnnetan and Kim. I'm also going for my planning session on Halloween so we'll have to compare notes later!

    Debbi

    Kim ~ I haven't had anything like you're describing, but I did have a big blue spot for months after my SNB.  I was afraid that I was turning into a Smurf for awhile.  It did finally go away. 

  • Clessie
    Clessie Member Posts: 210
    edited October 2007

    Thanks Gals for keeping an eye out on my aqua gel, I wonder if the aquaphor is kinds the same thing, they showed me the bottle in the onc. office so maybe if all else fails they can order it for me, hate the thought of sticky gel on me all day and nite for the next 7 wks. but better than suffering burns I reckon or help tp soothe them if I get burned.

    My radiation will be on the left side too and they assured me it would not effect my heart but have to go for a bone density tomorrow has they said radiation can cause osteo., has anyone heard that it can make your ribs brittle and be careful of falls for awhile after rads?

    Ggma yes we are almost neighbors, have been to Frankfort many yrs. ago, its about 35-40 miles away, maybe not even that far.

    I am going to check tanning places tomorrow and my husbands aide (my husband is paralyzed from a stroke) was going out of town shopping this week-end so he was too look for me, pray he found some.

  • labhusky
    labhusky Member Posts: 177
    edited October 2007

    I meet with the Rad dr 11/7 for probably the lets see how you are healing from the 10/5 lumpectomy, then I think things will start fast.  Ive ordered that jeans cream and have some ready and I got crystal deod.  Wonder what else Ill need.  I have DCIS with grade 3 cells, dont know my hormonal.  I had 8MM single focus and the surgeon got 14MM margins.

  • conniehar
    conniehar Member Posts: 954
    edited October 2007

    Wow - I'm going to have to start a list to keep track of us all!  Welcome everyone!  It will be nice to go through this part of our journey together.

    Happy Birthday, kel1.  What a gift for your 50th!  I hit my 40th during chemo.  I had been dreading that birthday for years, but honestly after this year, I was so happy to be here for my 40th - even though it wasn't too fun given the chemo.

    Clessie, my Dr. said something about rads affecting my ribs, but he said it wouldn't cause me any problems until I was 70 or 80.  I could have jumped up and kissed him - just the idea that I will make it to 70!

    Charlene - my surgeon told me to call him when I am done with chemo to get my port out.  So, I was thinking I would have it done before rads, but now it seems like everything is moving quickly again that I'm not sure I want to try to squeeze a surgery in, too.  The rads nurse asked me if I had a port, but didn't say anything else when I told her yes.  Mine is on the opposite side of the bc - I wonder if that makes a difference.

    Kim -  I haven't heard of anyone having a staph infection.  Glad they finally figured out what it was and that it is clearing up.  My gut would tell me that it should be cleared up before starting rads, but that is just my unprofessional opinion.

    Hope everyone has a great day!!! 

  • burquie
    burquie Member Posts: 129
    edited October 2007

    Well, I guess I'll sign up here. I had my 1st of 28 today, so I guess that's close enough to November.

    I asked today about what they recommend  as far as skin care goes; they told me I'll be meeting with the nurse next Monday and she'll go over everything with me. In the meantime, someone my DH works with had rads and she swears by a product called Triple Paste, I have to special order it at the pharmacy, I at least want to have something on hand. What have others suggested???

    Anyways, glad to be aboard with all of you!

  • Clessie
    Clessie Member Posts: 210
    edited October 2007

    Well Ladies I`m cooking now.......or will be soon....lol

    I called my cancer center and asked about the gel, they said I could go with aquaphor or 100% aloe vera and that Walmart keeps it on hand all year, so ran out there and got the 100% aloe vera, tried it out on my hand and it doesn`t seem to be sticky or too gooey, so think it will work OK, stocked up so won`t have to amke a trip anytime soon, still waiting on that call to come in and get started, like how long does it take to get a treatment plan, ready to get this show on the road and over with.

  • Clessie
    Clessie Member Posts: 210
    edited October 2007

    Hooray, just got a call from my cancer center and I go tomorrow for x-rays to get me lined up and start rads on Wed., never thought I`d be happy about it but as soon as I get started the sooner I`m done.

  • conniehar
    conniehar Member Posts: 954
    edited October 2007

    I here you, Clessie.  I feel the same - sooner the better.  I was hoping to get all of mine into 2007 so I could start 2008 on a good note, but with all the holidays, looks like I will peek over into 2008.

    Best of luck to you!

  • MLizA
    MLizA Member Posts: 33
    edited October 2007

    Greetings Ladies, I had my simulation this morning and should have my dry run by the end of this week and begin for real early next week.  I just finished my final chemo (Taxol) tx last Wednesday.  I have to have 35 sessions and am anxious to get started so I can starting counting them down! 

      The one thing I am worried about is lymphedema since I had many auxiallary nodes removed. Has anyone got any guidance on that? So far I have no swelling after surgery and through chemo.

      For the Indiana ladies, I packed up my baby (18 year old son) and sent him off this fall from Colorado to West Lafayette to go to college. I wasn't able to go with him in August since I was in the middle of chemo but sure miss him.  People ask how my husband and I are handling being empty nesters but since bc has taken over our lives for the past 5 months we really haven't had a chance to figure that out.  I am looking forward to rads getting over so we can find out...

  • 2dogsnburg
    2dogsnburg Member Posts: 79
    edited October 2007

    Hello ladies,I also had my simulation this morning...not as bad as I expected.

    I was very anxious about the whole thing (ativan helped).The techs were great.I have a dry run on Wen. and the real deal starts on Thurs.So I guess this show is finally on the road...hoping to be all done by Christmas.

    Linda sorry you have to wait for real empty nest experience,MY youngest is now in grad school.I remember being so sad at first with the house being so quite,but it didn't take long to get use to it. I love it when they come home for a visit and I love it when they go. But the best part was remembering why I married their father,We just have a great time together.He has been my rock thu this .

    Just keep in mind when this is all over you have allot to look forward to!

  • Kerri
    Kerri Member Posts: 22
    edited October 2007

    Hi Connie and girls,

    I'm starting rads. on the 1st Nov.. My mum is finishing her rads the same day as I start, 20 mins. before to be exact.

    So the "real" cancer treatment begins, well that's how I see it anyway. I've been lucky and have met some of the nursing staff at the clinic because of going to support mum some of the time.

    I'll be glad to finally recieve my treatment timetable and then I can plan around it. I just hope the side affects won't be too bad but just have to wait and see.

    It's interesting to read how many of you are planning to use aloe vera gel. I've been considering doing the same. They do supply you with all the creams you need, but I think aloe vera is very cooling. Just depends on have bad the irritation gets.

    Let the zapping begin!!

  • whoablaze
    whoablaze Member Posts: 26
    edited October 2007

    Hey girls!  I love a good club, and this one is as good as any!  I started rads last week, but here in Germany, they don't do tattoos, so it's only marker.  My marker wore off over the weekend after already having two tx, so I had to start over again yesterday.  So, tacking on another few appointments to my tx schedule.  Now I just need to master the powder technique to keep these marks on!  Apparently, if you powder these things 8-10 times daily, they magically stay on!

    I look forward to hearing how you deal with any sores.  Also, anyone dealing with swollen arm from lymph node removal?  I had surgery in April, but now my arm is getting really bad.  I have been lifting and such, which I really shouldn't do too much of, but I need to get into shape!

    Any ideas? 

  • conniehar
    conniehar Member Posts: 954
    edited October 2007

    Wow - I actually took out a piece of paper this morning to keep track of this.  We have 16 members and one from Austrailia and one from Germany!  Sounds like some gals are getting started this week, so I hope all goes well for you.

    Linda/whoablaze - I don't have any info for you on Lymphedema.  My rad onc said he wasn't going to radiate my lymph node area and that would decrease my risk for that.  You may want to go on the Lymphedema section to ask if some gals ended up with it from rads or surgery for you whoablaze.

    I hope everyone has a great day!!!

  • nevaeh
    nevaeh Member Posts: 85
    edited October 2007

    Hi everyone,

    This list is awesome!  I'm so glad to have Sisters out there who understand.

    I will be going for my first appointment November 12.  Not sure what to expect, i.e. simulation, dry run etc., what the tatoos will be like, etc.

    Someone mentioned osteoporisis as a se - I already have that - any more information from any of you about this warning from your dr's

    Trying to decide what creams to go with and trying to prepare mentally.

    Whoablaze, I would suggest you go back to your dr for your arm swelling and do some research about lympodema.  There are things you can do to manage it.  There is a discussion here on this web site also.

  • Clessie
    Clessie Member Posts: 210
    edited October 2007

    Whoaablaze ask to have tape put over your markers, they did mine last week and they are still as clear as when they did it, my cancer center doesn`t do the tattoos unless requested, which I was happy about didn`t want needles in a sore boob.

    They are just doing the rads on the whole boob, my nodes were clear however may have just a little radiation that falls there, but I have heard lympodema can come even after yrs., very encouraging isn`t it, I had been worried about that myself and have tried to be careful with that arm, but its hard when you grocery shop or house clean ect. but as my surgeon said its hard to say who gets it and who doesn`t.

  • garnetann
    garnetann Member Posts: 158
    edited October 2007

    Hi all

    I get my first tx on thursday.  I have plenty of aloe vera, the aquaphor and ordered some sween cream.  I plan on doing all I can. I will take a bottle of aloe vera with me to the dr, my hubby was joking about me putting it on in my car.  He said it might look funny rubbing my boob inside my shirt.  Wink

    Anyway, the drive for me is 160 miles round trip for 33 days.  Hoping the time passes and I get used to the drive. I will be by myself sometimes and will have someone with me other times.  Hubby said he will start taking me all the time if fatigue sets in. 

    Oh, I remember when my boys graduated and left. They are twins, so it was all at once. I sat in their rooms and cried and had a hard time getting over it.  I am fine now, but it took about 6 months before I got used to it. 

  • Ggma
    Ggma Member Posts: 97
    edited October 2007

    Wow!  16 ladies, this place has really grown.  What a club!  It sounds like we've been pretty busy this week with several of us already going for our markings and simulations.  It's my turn tomorrow.

    LindaP ~ My youngest son is a Junior at Purdue this year and loves it.  I go for my treatments about 20 minutes from campus.  Is he in a dorm or where does he live?  What is his major?  I remember how upset I was when he left for the first couple of times to go back to campus.  Now I guess that I'm used to it.  Our 28 year old has moved back home with us while he figures out what he wants to do with the rest of his life.  He went into the Marine Corp right after hs graduation and lived in California for about 4 1/2 years.  Since then he got out and enlisted in the Reserves and has been to Iraq for 2 deployments.  This last time he returned home the same day I found out that I had cancer.  Welcome home...I have cancer.  It's been very nice to have him home with me on days that I haven't felt too great.  We're (my dh and I) moving soon and our oldest son is going to stay here in our old house. 

    I picked up a perscription today for Biafine that my dr. called in and said to get filled before I start tx.  I certainly hope it works because even with a script card, it was still $50!

    Debbi

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