LUMPECTOMY/RADIATION VS. MASTECTOMY
I have posted this message in another topic area, under "Do you regret your Mastectomy?", but did not find a specific topic on what I want to learn more about , so I am starting a new conversation here.
I am facing... LUMPECTOMY/RADIATION VS. MASTECTOMY.
I was Diagnosed on Oct 1, 2007, with DICS on left breast, 4mm,Grade 1-2, HER2+, ER/PR+. No family history. I do need to have another biopsy because the last one did not have a clear anterior margin (1mm), so I may have a larger area than the current 4mm.
This past Thursday, I saw my breast surgeon, 2 (Hemo & Radio) oncologists, and had a bilateral breast MRI. The MRI came up "negative". The radio oncologist was highly suggesting a mastectomy, due to my younger age (46), and being pre-menopausal. I was sort of surprised at his recommendation, given that radiation is his business!! My surgeon was neutral, as he said this is a very personal decision. As most of you know, the reason the mastectomy was being suggested, was each year that I live, the reoccurrence rate increases. I understand something like: 7% the 1st 5 yrs, then 12% after 10 yrs, 15% after 20yrs, and so on, and also that over 50% RE-OCCURENCES come back INVASIVE.
I am in the process of taking a family poll: Husband says "YES" to mastectomy, so does dad, and best friend. Have not gotten to everyone else, but as dad says, "I want you to come to my funeral, not me going to yours!!"
I try to live my life as, "Don't worry about something, until it happens". Even if it happens, worrying is about as useless an emotion as they can get. I think we worry, because it makes us feel like we are "actively" doing something about the problem. I just do not "WANT TO JUMP THE GUN HERE". I have also always been a risk taker, though I find, as I get older, I do take fewer ones!! Though, I am in a position to CHOOSE, I still need support like crazy. I was almost hoping that the MRI would have shown multifocal disease, as the decision would have been obvious to me then. Sometimes having a CHOICE may be harder than knowing WHAT YOU MUST DO! I think for me, NOT having the CHOICE would be easier!
Initially, I wanted nothing, but to save my breast, but recently I have been considering a mastectomy.
WHY? #1- Well, a mastectomy has about a 99% cure rate. I mean, where else is there for the cancer cells to go? #2- I will not have to "WORRY", and hold my breath with each future mammogram. #3- Having someone tell you that you have cancer at ANY STAGE, IN ANY PART OF YOUR BODY, IS INTIALLY A SHOCK AND DEVASTING!! 13 yrs ago, my 11 yr old son was diagnosed with cancer in his liver, so I know what it is to LOVE someone with this disease; though I would much rather have the cancer than him. But, a mastectomy can put the minds of others more at ease, and does not put them through, the god awful ordeal, of going through longer term cancer treatments with their loved one. #4 I DO NOT WANT RADIATION!! I am greatly concerned about the toxic substance, not to mention possible cardiac damage, as this is a left breast, and other areas the radiation will hit and might affect sometime in my future. #5- Having radiation, and taking the risk of "tissue damange", i.e. scar tissue, could decrease my chances of any future reconstruction.
My thoughts for considering a Lumpectomy/Radiation... WHY? #1- I will not have a long-term recovery time. #2- I will still have my original breasts, and my "sexual nipple stimulation" that I love so much, and that accompanies each orgasm!! #3 Not having any regrets about making the decision of a lumpectomy, if the cancer never returns. Of course, how will I ever know this one, NOW??!!
I do have one LAST CHANCE for a decision to be made for me... Have the lumpectomy, and if it shows another "dirty margin", get the mastectomy. I mean this will be biopsy #3, how many more can I have on a 38B cup??
So, I have a very difficult decision to make, Lumpectomy/Radiation vs. Mastectomy. I don't know.... I have always gone by, "WHEN IN DOUBT, DON'T"!! But how does one decide when, ONE IS IN DOUBT ABOUT ITALL??!! I do have some questions that the answers you give may help me. They are as follows:
1. WHAT DOES "SNB" MEAN?
2. DOES INSURANCE, (I HAVE UNITED HEALTH CARE) PAY FOR A PROPHYLATIC MASTECTOMY, IF I ELECTED TO HAVE BOTH DONE?
3. WHAT IS THE AVERAGE AGE OF THE WOMEN POSTING THAT MASTECTOMY WAS THEIR RIGHT DECISION?
4. I WOULD LOVE TO HEAR MORE FROM THE WOMEN WHO ELECTED TO HAVE A LUMPECTOMY GREATER THAN 5 YRS AGO, AND HOW MANY HAD TO FACE A REOCCURENCE.
5. WITH A MASTECTOMY, DO THEY MATCH THE OTHER BREAST WITH THE RECONSTRUCTED ONE? IF SO, HOW DO THEY DO THAT, WITH AN IMPLANT?
6. WHAT ABOUT TRYING RADIATION FOR ½ THE TIME THEY ARE SUGGESTING (3WKS)?
7. CAN THEY SAVE YOUR NIPPLE WITH ANY OF THE RECONSTRUCTION METHODS?
8. WHAT IS THIS "PHANTOM ITCHING?"
Thanks to all for listening to me babble on. Your thoughts, opinions, and shared experiences, are welcomed!!
Maureen
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Hi Golden,
Lots of questions to answer.
1. SNB = Sentinel node biopsy. In my case, this was done at the time of my lumpectomy. Prior to the lumpectomy a series of about 4 tiny injections are made around your nipple area. Sometimes this is done with anesthetic. Mine wasn't. The purpose is to inject a dye that will follow the lymph pathways of your lymps nodes. The sentinel nodes are socalled because they will be the first ones the cancer will go to if it has spread to the any lymph nodes. The dye is used to light up these nodes so the doctor can see them when doing the surgery. Pathology tested mine for cancer while I was still in surgery, so I had the results when I woke up.
2. Can't answer the insurance question, but my assumption is yes.
3. I don't think there is an average age. It seems from reading the posts on this board that the younger the woman, the more aggressively the cancer is treated.
4. I personally only know of one woman, my surgeons wife who had a lumpectomy 11 years ago for IDC and has had no recurrence. Of course, there are tons of women out there, but they are most likely no longer posting on a support board.
5. Reconstruction can be with expanders/impants, or autogenous flap reconstruction.
6. You can check into Mammosite radiation. It is a five day procedure.
7. Don't have the answer, but I haven't heard of this.
8. Are you referring to after a mastectomy?
My DIL's mother had a small DCIS tumor and a lumpectomy. They did not get clearn margins, so she opted for a bilateral mastectomy. She has Kaiser insurance. She had to fight with her surgeon to get a prophylactic of the opposite side. Her thinking was she never wanted to deal with this again. She has had no radiation and will not take HT's. She has also been waiting a year to meet with a plastic reconstructive surgeon.
My story is, I was 51 when diagnosed. I had a small IDC .6 cm x .7 cm, er/pr+, no nodes, Stage I, Grade II. I had a choice between mastectomy or lumpectomy and radiation as you do. Except, because yours has been identified as DCIS, the assumption is you have no nodes involved. Reconstruction may be difficult after radiation, but certainly not impossible. I chose lumpectomy and radiation. If there had positive nodes, I would have had to have chemo as well, and not been able to make a choice about it. I chose this tx because I didn't want to loose my breasts. It was my decision, not my SO's or my family's. My sister would have made a different choice had it been her. Making the choice for someone else can lead to regret and resentment, in my opinion. I was fortunate that the side my cancer was on was my bigger breast, so with the lumpectomy it actually ended up making them the same size. So, cosmetically it worked out. The doc removed quite a bit of tissue and I had .6 cm margins at the closest.
I like my breasts and am quite attached to them. I also like them sexually and the thought of not having any sensation in them was too much to give up. It's traumatic enough that it had cancer in it. My boyfriend would have supported me and stood by me no matter what I decided. I was lucky that I could make that choice. So many can't.
I guess I don't understand why they are trying to get clean margins with biopsies. Do you mean you've had 2 lumpectomies already? Biopsies are diagnostic procedures. Lumpectomies are to remove the cancer and achieve clean margins, then proceed with radiation to "clean up" the area as added insurance that all the cancer is gone.
I'm sorry this is so long. I know others will be along to help you out too. The thing is, everyone is different and their decisions are as unique as their diagnosis.
I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Brenda in VA
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Hi Maureen-I just had lumpectomy on Oct 23rd. I have always been against radiation and chemo because of their toxic effects. Everything happened so fast for me. I was diagonosed with breast cancer on the 19th- and had surgery on the 23rd! I just wanted it out of me. A part of me would've just gone ahead and had the masectomy-I didn't care, I wanted it gone and I hated the idea of radiation. My Dr. really pushed a lumpectomy and to tell you the truth, my head was spinning, and he talked about the 'targeted' radiation where they insert a balloon inside hollow the breast area after it had healed, filled with fluid, and drained- and do a 5 day, 2x a day radiation. In my delirium, I said that would be best.
However after surgery, the Dr said he had to go much closer to the chest wall cavity than he wanted to and now he doesn't think I can do the targeted radiation, it will have to do the 5x a week for 6 weeks.
My margins and nodes were clear!! praise the Lord! And the more praying and thinking and research I do, I am leaning towards not having radiation at all. I put it in God's hands- the cancer is gone. And that's that. I am getting my drainage tube from my lymph incision out tomorrow morning-if you have any questions about the sentinol node biopsy-or anything else with the surgery, let me know-
God bless you!
Jen
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If you are over 50, had a non-lobular tumor, are hormone-receptor positive, and less than a grade 3, I know of an alternative to radiation. I had it done in August. PM me if you want to know the details.
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after my pathology results tomorrow, I would love to know an alternative-if I qualify!
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Dear Brenda,
I guess I just had to add m 2 cents worth to this conversation. I was diagnosed 5 years ago with DCIS stage 0.No node involvement, in the left breast.Decided to go with lumpectomy & radiation, was told this was just as good a treatment as mastectomy.Now this past March, had a biopsy for a "shadowy area" in left breast again.Found ALH & LCIS, which are considered a pre-cancerous condition. Decided to have a mastectomy(which Insurance covered) to prevent further diagnosis.Well, lo & behold, the pathology came back that I had Invasive Lobular Carcinoma in the left breast again, and over an 8 cm area.The surgeon was blown away by this, we were not expecting to find this, it did not show on an MRI that I had done.She said I had just literally saved my own life by deciding to have the mastectomy.No node involvement again,and did 4 rounds of chemo, and now I am attempting reconstruction. We had put expanders in after the mastectomy, but the previous radiation has caused all kinds of problems and we have had to remove the left one twice.Now having a tram flap to the problematic left side,and will remove the expander on the right afterwards and put in an implant to match the tram flap project.If I had to do it all oevr again, I should have just had the mastectomy the first time around, now I wouldn't be going through all of this! I was just too scared at the time to have one.But think about it.With a lumpectomy, you are leaving behind tissue for cancer to return to.With a mastectomy, most of that is removed and your odds of recurrance are alot less.And radiation can cause all kinds of headaches with reconstruction.You usually don't need radiation with a mastectomy.That is just my feeling on the subject.Hope everything goes well for you, wishing you the best.Feel free to send me a personal message if you would like. Jax
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Hi Maureen,
I'll just tell you my experience. I was diagnosed with DCIS (10 cm) and IDC in my right breast. My left breast looked clear on mammo and u/s. However, had a bilateral breast MRI which picked up two suspicious areas in the left breast. Went back for a targeted u/s, and they still couldn't see anything, so I had an MRI-guided biopsy. The path report showed one area of DCIS and one area benign. I already knew I was losing my right breast (the DCIS tumor was too large to save the breast), but I was heartbroken to think of losing them both. I debated doing a lumpectomy on the left side (I was also told there was no guarantee that a recurrence would not be invasive), but in the end, I chose to have a bilateral mastectomy. (I had immediate expander reconstruction, so I woke up with "breasts." I have had no phantom itching.) As it turns out, there was multi-focal DCIS in the left breast that did not show up on mammo, u/s or breast MRI.
I am 48 years old, have a 2 1/2 y.o. daughter and was still nursing her when I was diagnosed. I am still heartbroken about the loss of my breasts, but I know I made the right choice for me. I want to watch my dd grow up. My nodes were negative, which was the only good news I got, so I do not have to have radiation, but I am going through chemo now and will have Herceptin through 8/08.
Good luck with your decision. BC sucks, but the main thing is that you want to live a healthy life, and if possible not worry all the time about a recurrence. I just looked back at your post--the HER2+ also means that it is an aggressive form of cancer, so you might take that into account as well. Will you have to do chemo w/Herceptin?
Carolina -
HI I am 48, single, was dx Jun 07 with IDC, her2+, er/pr-, stage2, 5cm+ tumor, no node involvement (so far) in left breast. I had neoadjuvant chemo (AC for 3 mths) to shrink tumor to allow for lumpectomy because I do not want a mast (same reasons you gave). I was told tumor shrunk but surgeon still wants to do mast - too many microcalcifications. PS says that they can do skin sparing mast but not save nipple. I have already backed out of scheduled surgery once - rescheduled for Nov 9th. PS wants to impant tissue expander then. I still have to have more chemo and rads - no choice! After rads they are advising a DIEP or SIEP recon - because I am a belly dancer and need my belly muscles. I have been very depressed at thought of losing my breast and not having a choice. Feel fortunate that you have a choice. My preference would have been a lumpectomy and rad. Coworker had lumpectomy and chemo with rad and loves the results - she is only 42 and felt she was too young to have mast also. Good luck!!! I wish none of us had to make these decisions - but do what you feel is right for you, not others, and no regrets. I had friends and family saying have mast from beginning; but knew I had to do everythig I could to save my breast so that I would not think later - "what if... ?" esp. if research down the road could keep me from losing it in case of recurrence.
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I am 53, have had a lumpectomy with snb. No node involvement, margins clear, .7cm IDC tumor, ER+ PR- HER2- . Have not seen Oncologist yet but surgeon feels I will have radiation (5 days a week for ~7 weeks) and Aromatase Inhibitor. I am not crazy about any of the treatments and feel like I want to skip them all but am scared that this the wrong decision. I have sort of talked my self into gutting it out thru the radiation but am really having a hard time with the AI for 5 years with all of the side effects since I am physically a very active person. I don't know if Chemo and no AI would be a better option. Thanks for any input.
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