Reduction and reconstruction 4 1/2 years later
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stacyofhavertown
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Hi girls,
I am scheduled to have surgery on Sept 24th. I am having my right side reduced and my cancer side reduced and the big crater fixed. Here's my???.....Has anyone done this? I hate the way I look and really want to look "normal" again. I just don't know what to expect with recovery and I did have 35 radiation tx's so I know the tissue is hardened. The ps said my reduction wil be a piece of cake but the left side(cancer) will be more of a challenge. Am I nuts for doing this ? Any thoughts or helpful advice would be great
Hugs,
Stacy
I am scheduled to have surgery on Sept 24th. I am having my right side reduced and my cancer side reduced and the big crater fixed. Here's my???.....Has anyone done this? I hate the way I look and really want to look "normal" again. I just don't know what to expect with recovery and I did have 35 radiation tx's so I know the tissue is hardened. The ps said my reduction wil be a piece of cake but the left side(cancer) will be more of a challenge. Am I nuts for doing this ? Any thoughts or helpful advice would be great
Hugs,
Stacy
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Stacy, you're not nuts for doing this. I had the same thing done as you last November, and I'm very happy that I did. I also had a lumpectomy and rads. Sx and tx left my cancer affected boob almost 2 cup sizes smaller than the good one. I was an almost DDD on one side and a D on the other. Chose the lumpectomy because my bs said I had plenty to work with, and could have the reduction later. Besides the lumpectomy I've had 2 excisional bxs on that same breast. I'm very pleased with the results. My clothes fit. I don't need industrial strength bras anymore, or a partial prothesis, and I look fabulous. Even if I do say so myself. Hubby says I have the boobs of a 20 year old. Unfortunately the rest of my body will be 57 in October, and looks like it.
Recovery took quite a while, I must say. It took maybe 6-8 weeks before I could sleep on my side again. Ps removed 5 pounds of breast tissue, and fixed a scar from one of my previous bxs. He also took out scar tissue from the cancer sx. Just had my new baseline mammo, and everything looks normal. I just can't say enough about how good this surgery has made me feel.
The side that was radiated healed very well, too. I love looking and feeling normal again.
Hugs and healing,
Laura -
Stacy, good for you! You have every right to look lovely again.
I'll be having my fingers crossed on the 24, but you know your ps will do a great job!!This is all they know!
Where will it be?
Happy for you, Joan -
Hi Joan,
It will be at the surgi center at Bryn Mawr. I could have had it done at the hospital, but the doctor said the surgery will be 2 1/2 hours. I thought I don't need all the hustle and bustle of that busy place!! Dr. Lohner is doing it. Dr. Cohen said he is very good and I have 2 girlfriends who used him for their bi-lats and are very pleased. He is very easy on the eyes as well . I'm nervous, but glad I finally made the decision to do it. Thanks for the well wishes, I'll need them.
Hugs,
Stacy -
"Thanks for the well wishes, I'll need them."
You WONT need them, Stacy!You'll be fine, your team is wonderful!!
And I love the surgicCenter.(Had my port put in & taken out there) Definately a funner place.
I'll send you well-wishes not to be nervous!
Just think how great you'll look, again!You deserve it!
Hugs, j
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