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  • AliceBastable
    AliceBastable Member Posts: 3,461
    edited December 2021

    Rah2464, is your SIL always an idiot or just selfish? I'm so sorry your brother has to suffer more because of her crappy decisions.

  • ctmbsikia
    ctmbsikia Member Posts: 1,095
    edited December 2021

    I know Alice is going to love this-so here you go ladies, this quote from a co-worker:

    "I only cough in here. I go home and I didn't cough at all. I have been coughing and sneezing, I am sure driving everyone nuts. I think it may be the dry air and it's so warm in here. I feel fine today. I'm sure I should have stayed home last week, but I don't want to use my PTO for a sick day. I know, it's wrong. So, I get everyone sick. I did take a rapid test and I'm fine. I get my booster today at 3:30 and a flue shot. I am prepared to be rough tomorrow but I think I'll be fine."

    Unbelievable!

    Thank God my boss has no problem with me working remotely and I don't have to be there sucking in everyone's germs. While at home yesterday my landlord was by, and I had no idea how stupid he and his girlfriend have become. I lived here for years and have always liked them. She apparently breaks out in a rash whenever she's around vaccinated people. He is convinced the shot changes your DNA. The man is surviving a stage iv thyroid cancer with conventional treatment and swears if it comes back he won't do conventional, he's going to Mexico.

    Honestly, WTF is wrong with people? They are getting dumber by the day!!!! My vent for today!!! ARGH

  • KIDI919
    KIDI919 Member Posts: 425
    edited December 2021

    My SIL died today of covid pneumonia. Why can't people take this disease seriously. She was my best friend.

  • cm2020
    cm2020 Member Posts: 615
    edited December 2021

    Oh KIDI919 I am heartbroken for you and your family. I am so sorry. Sending you hugs and love today.

  • Rah2464
    Rah2464 Member Posts: 1,647
    edited December 2021

    Oh Kid1919 my sincere condolences. God bless her and you both.

  • Moderators
    Moderators Member Posts: 25,912
    edited December 2021

    (((((((((KIDI919))))))))) our sincerest condolences.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited December 2021

    KIDI - I’m so sorry for your loss.

  • Sunshine99
    Sunshine99 Member Posts: 1,680
    edited December 2021

    KIDI, that's heartbreaking! I'm so sorry...

    ctm - ??????? She gets a rash when she's around vaccinated people? Maybe tell her you're NOT vaccinated and see if her rash goes away. When it does, you can say, "Oops, my bad. I guess I AM vaccinated, after all."


  • illimae
    illimae Member Posts: 5,710
    edited December 2021

    Kid, I’m sorry for your loss. Sending virtual hugs.

  • moth
    moth Member Posts: 4,800
    edited December 2021

    KIDI919, I'm so sorry. May her memory be a blessing

  • Elderberry
    Elderberry Member Posts: 993
    edited December 2021

    KID1919: I am so very sorry. There are never adequate words. Cyber shoulders available for leaning on. This is a tragedy that should not have happened.

  • Katyblu
    Katyblu Member Posts: 171
    edited December 2021

    KID - I am so sorry for your loss. I wish people would take this more seriously. We are all here to help

  • Trishyla
    Trishyla Member Posts: 1,005
    edited December 2021

    I'm so very sorry about your sister in law, KID1919. There's been so much loss with this Pandemic. Sending hugs from the left coast.

    Trish

  • AliceBastable
    AliceBastable Member Posts: 3,461
    edited December 2021

    KID1919, I am so very sorry. How horrible. Peace to you and all who loved her.

  • ctmbsikia
    ctmbsikia Member Posts: 1,095
    edited December 2021

    So sorry for your loss.

  • GoldensRBest
    GoldensRBest Member Posts: 447
    edited December 2021

    KID1919 - I’m so sorry about the loss of your SIL. Hope you can find peace in the wonderful memories you two shared. So many loved ones are being stolen from us by one damn disease or another

  • DivineMrsM
    DivineMrsM Member Posts: 9,620
    edited December 2021

    KID, my deepest condolences on the los of your sister, your best friend. I am so sorry.


  • jhl
    jhl Member Posts: 333
    edited December 2021

    KID, like others, I offer my deepest condolences on the loss of your sister-in-law. I hope the days ahead will bring you comfort as you reflect on her memory.

    Jane

  • bcincolorado
    bcincolorado Member Posts: 5,758
    edited December 2021

    kid1919 I am so sorry about your SIL and thoughts with you and your family right now.

    ctmbiskia people are bananas about that shot and that is crazy. Not sure what the big deal is unless they are afraid to get a shot really. Even the last President got it. I have family members in another State who are refusing to get it too for one reason or another. Dumb.

    Meanwhile we live in our house and stare out windows so we are safe and won't die from the virus. Other things, yes..........but why invite more trouble than you have already?????

  • ctmbsikia
    ctmbsikia Member Posts: 1,095
    edited December 2021

    Another day at home, alone, working. Glad I can at least function but these coughing bouts have me on the fence of whether or not to seek medical attention. It feels a little like bronchitis however I am not coughing anything up and no wheezing. Vitamins, lots of water, and advil are helping. Will be adding in some honey today. Have some garlic cloves in some water on the stove going to try breathing that in as well. It helps the inflammation for me, anyway.

    I have a dexa and the low dose lung ct scan next week. Hope I don't have to reschedule.

    I called my friend last evening and told her not to expect me at my friends memorial service. I just can't do it.

  • denny10
    denny10 Member Posts: 289
    edited December 2021

    ctmbsikia ,I think you need to speak to a healthcare worker. Have you been able to have a covid test ? A dry cough can be a sign of the covid infection amongst other things. I hope you can stop working and rest this weekend and your self care regime helps.

    Good luck getting to your dexa and scan next week.

  • ctmbsikia
    ctmbsikia Member Posts: 1,095
    edited December 2021

    Thank you denny10. I did do a covid test and it's negative. yea! Just finished a report for work, and there is nothing else "due" today so I may knock off here soon and go rest. I did the pre-check in for my appointments (twice, you have to do each one separately!) The covid text survey will come on Monday so I am hopeful I will be feeling much better by then. It's been a long time since I've been ill for this long (more than 2-3 days). Improvement is coming now. Pretty confident of that. I cancelled all plans for the weekend. Just having that pressure off is also a help for me to rest and heal.

    Hope you and everyone here that has been so gracious to me has a wonderful weekend.

  • bcincolorado
    bcincolorado Member Posts: 5,758
    edited December 2021

    ctmbiskia if it is cold there and the heat is on like it is here it dries it all out and can cause people to develop coughs from the dryness of the air. We sometimes even boil a pot of water on the stove to get some moisture in the air here. A hot shower helps sometmes helps do the same thing too. We usually even leave the door open when we shower to let the steam from the shower out in the house. If nothing else, honey lemon sugar free cough drops are the go to there.

  • KIDI919
    KIDI919 Member Posts: 425
    edited December 2021

    Thank you everyone for your kind thoughts. This is maybe not the forum to post on but at a loss as where to go. I have my sisters to turn to for comfort. My brother is going to be lost. Cindy was the best thing that ever happened to him, He is a homebody

    with a capital H! If not for her he would never leave his recliner. Now we will have to shift his butt


  • JKL2017
    JKL2017 Member Posts: 437
    edited December 2021

    So sorry for your loss, KID. She sounds like she was a very special person. May you find healing in your memories.


  • sunshinegal
    sunshinegal Member Posts: 209
    edited December 2021

    My rant: Last Friday I got my long-awaited (first) tattoo commemorating my two bouts with cancer (the semicolons mean "a story not yet finished"). Two days later, I found a new lump in my good breast. Birads 4C. Biopsy scheduled next week. Looks like I'm headed for my THIRD BOUT with this stupid beast. Oh, and with Christmas coming up, DH and I have pre-emptively decided we will not share any bad news we get until after the holidays. Which is the same approach we took after bout #1 which we learned about three days before our wedding. Feels like I spend more time protecting other people than dealing with my own feelings. Ugh!

    image

  • cm2020
    cm2020 Member Posts: 615
    edited December 2021

    sunshinegal...I love your tattoo! I am so sorry you are headed towards a 3rd battle with this beast. You tell people when you are ready and not a minute before then. I am thinking about you. Hugs.

  • KIDI919
    KIDI919 Member Posts: 425
    edited December 2021

    Sunshinegal: So sorry about your news. Sending thoughts your way. We also put off telling anyone until after a big, planned vacation with family.

  • Sunshine99
    Sunshine99 Member Posts: 1,680
    edited December 2021

    Sunshinegal, I love your tattoo, too! I'm sorry that you are facing the possibility of another round of cancer.

    (((hugs)))

    Carol

  • nopink2019
    nopink2019 Member Posts: 329
    edited December 2021

    Sunshine - Don't consider that not sharing the news is protecting others, consider it preserving YOUR holidays. I'm very open with friends about my diagnosis, but had scans in the fall just before trip with girlfriends and determined that I'd delay the news until the fun was over. I think you are protecting yourself and that is good. You can get their support after enjoying the fun.

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