STEAM ROOM FOR ANGER

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  • wrenn
    wrenn Member Posts: 2,707
    edited August 2021

    Runor I am always amazed at your concentration and that you can sustain it during really long rants (teasing here). Very articulate and you nail 'pissed' better than anyone except maybe Alice. :-)

  • runor
    runor Member Posts: 1,798
    edited August 2021

    Wrenn, Alice holds the title there. I know when I am out- gunned. 

  • ShetlandPony
    ShetlandPony Member Posts: 4,924
    edited August 2021

    For the record...Love you, runor!

  • ShetlandPony
    ShetlandPony Member Posts: 4,924
    edited August 2021

    SerenitySTAT, you said you had to report someone to security who would not wear a mask in the cancer center. Well, I had to report a cancer center security guard!

  • Harley07
    Harley07 Member Posts: 164
    edited August 2021

    @runor - I love your style and it's never boring 😄

    My rant for the day and I do realize this is nothing compared to what many of you are going through. I'm supposed to have gallbladder surgery tomorrow. 'Supposed to' because I'm not sure I'm doing it. I'm beyond pissed off at the general surgeon. I had a consult last week after the ER referred me due to a gallstone attack earlier this month. She spent a whole 8 minutes with me (yes, I timed it).

    I checked my patient portal today and noticed the visit notes from last week's appointment were uploaded. The notes were ~50% accurate. The other 50% was from another patient(s). My records indicated I take 18 medications for a variety of ailments ranging from diabetes to high BP to heart disease. I don't take ANY of these medications and do not have ANY of these conditions. I called her office to discuss. An addendum with the correct info was added within 2 hours. I received a phone call from the practice supervisor apologizing and explaining they would be implementing a safety incident report and 'that this had never happened before'. I nicely explained I was given the same response of 'it has never happened before' last year when a radiologist sucked out a marker from biopsy #1 (and broke the machine) while doing biopsy #2 so I spent a few extra minutes in the mammo machine while they replaced the equipment. Same hospital system, but 2 different facilities.

    I wonder if I can really trust the surgeon to do a relatively simple surgical procedure? But if I don't do it tomorrow, I'll need to find another surgeon and reschedule. I gotta think this over tonight.

  • AliceBastable
    AliceBastable Member Posts: 3,461
    edited August 2021

    Harley07, how frightening! IF you decide to go through with it, I'd insist on a witness present for the pre-op run-through and make the surgeon do a checklist, and have the anesthesiologists do the same checklist with a witness.

    My rants have become more abrupt and less refined over time because I seem to be losing my written language skills, so I have to get to the point before I forget what it is, or forget the words to express that point. It sucks because for most of my life, I was the go-to person in a variety of situations for fairly eloquent writing, particularly of the persuasive type. I really hate that I've lost most of that ability.

  • Harley07
    Harley07 Member Posts: 164
    edited August 2021

    Thank you Alice. Perhaps I’ll have DH stay thru pre-op and then he can head to work.

  • bcincolorado
    bcincolorado Member Posts: 5,758
    edited August 2021

    Oh Harley How awful. You know you need the surgery and I do not blame you for being worried. I agree make sure you have not only a support person if you can have one as a witness and advocate but also a nurse double checking everything first. Keep us posted.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited August 2021

    ShetlandPony - Insane! There's a security guard station between the chemo suites and the medical appointment rooms. The charge nurse is always moving around there. Since my rash experience she's gotten to know me well. She'd be next up for me.

    Harley - That's awful. Maybe the practice supervisor can do the supervising to make sure there's not another incident.


  • Harley07
    Harley07 Member Posts: 164
    edited August 2021

    I appreciate the support - thank you! I may not make a decision whether to proceed with surgery until tomorrow morning.

  • BlueGirlRedState
    BlueGirlRedState Member Posts: 1,031
    edited August 2021

    wren - thank you for the link. This weekend I heard a nurse express similar frustration and that she was starting to lose sympathy for covid patients who had refused to get vaccinated. As I read the news it not only saddens me but pisses me off, those who make comparisons to Nazis, the yellow star Jews were forced to wear, and Jim Crow segregation. IS it possible to listen and talk to those people? I stop myself anytime I wish ill will on someone, but maybe a little humbling would not hurt.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited August 2021

    Completely preventable.

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  • Rah2464
    Rah2464 Member Posts: 1,647
    edited August 2021

    Cowgirl - just wanted to add my exuberant congratulations to your 37 years! How very wonderful! Those of us with family members who struggle with mental illness with the associated self medicating abuse have a small inkling of what an achievement that truly is.

  • GoldensRBest
    GoldensRBest Member Posts: 447
    edited August 2021

    Such a good read here. Love the rants and responses. I don’t know what has happened, but I just don’t have the energy anymore to rant and/or respond. Glad I can do it vicariously. BTW, even though I had Pfizer vaccines in February, I was hospitalized for 4 days earlier this month w/covid. And every doc I saw assured me I would have been on a ventilator if i had not been vaccinated, given my underlying medical problems. This is serious 💩

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited August 2021

    GoldensRBest - I'm so glad you were able to avoid a ventilator. Being fully vaccinated had reduced the severity of the illness. I'm sure the HCW were pleased to discharge you home. Hope you continue to improve so you can do a proper rant.

    The cases of COVID patients needing lung transplants or other organs make me sad for those whose place on the transplant lists dropped. When I was a student, I worked as a unit clerk in pediatrics. There were a few cystic fibrosis kids who were regulars. They and their parents must be so angry.

  • bcincolorado
    bcincolorado Member Posts: 5,758
    edited August 2021

    Cystic fibrosis is awful too. I remember being in elementary school and had a friend who had it and was restricted on what they could to in school and after school her mom had to put her on a big flat board and a help do something to help clear her lungs from being in school a few hours. Her sister had it as well so their mom was dealing with them both. Her sister died I know while we were living there and it was so sad. First person I knew who who had died and it was a little girl. As a parent I cannot imagine that grief.

  • KIDI919
    KIDI919 Member Posts: 425
    edited August 2021

    Runor, I too have lost where/what the hell I was doing. Put eggs on to boil the other night (mind u husband was at stove cooking) and forgot about them. He said "did you want to boil these eggs til the water was gone?" Why yes dear I did! Had mammo the other day.. had to wait in vestibule while some idiot argued with the receptionist on why he didn't need a mask. UGH! just put the fing thing on! I wear one at work all day and I'm not dead yet. I did sit at a green light on my way to work until it turned red. Luckily no one was behind me. This shit might be making me dangerous. WTF

  • KIDI919
    KIDI919 Member Posts: 425
    edited August 2021

    And PS. It is a rant thread so I guess that means it's a free for all bitchfest.

  • Rain88
    Rain88 Member Posts: 167
    edited August 2021

    My rant: Just had my female parts turned inside out, poked and analyzed the hell out them AGAIN, only to get a line worth of nothing conclusive. I mean, really, why even bother to do it? I could"ve writen it all myself without having to suffer thru all this nonsense!!! That"s the aftermath of my sonohysterosomething, so idioticly useless, it"s appalling! I'm just at a loss: how come all gyno related tests and scans have remained so barbaric?!

  • KIDI919
    KIDI919 Member Posts: 425
    edited August 2021

    Well, if we were poking around on man parts the story might be different! Finger up the butt once every few years...

  • KIDI919
    KIDI919 Member Posts: 425
    edited August 2021

    Harley07..wishing u all the best for your surgery! I had mine out 1991. Just be careful what u eat after. Greasy foods are no fun after. My DIL is a nurse anesthia person Sorry I don't feel like looking up the spelling. That besides the surgeon is who u want to be on point. Hope u are having it laproscopy.

    Goldensarebest: Glad u dodged that bullet.!!

    Cf is horrible. My 2nd daughter had twin girls in kindergarden that had it. One passed away that school year. Very sad. Frankly I would rather have me go than a child. At least i've had 60 odd years. If wishes were horses we'd all be riding

  • bcincolorado
    bcincolorado Member Posts: 5,758
    edited August 2021

    Rain guess at this point I see no point in going for those kind of appointments anymore and putting myself through anything I do not have to do. Not giving up but see no point in putting myself through it.

  • Harley07
    Harley07 Member Posts: 164
    edited August 2021

    @KID1919- thanks for thing of me. I had the surgery this morning all went well. I was home before noon

  • LW422
    LW422 Member Posts: 1,312
    edited August 2021

    Harley07--glad your surgery went well. Hugs and well-wishes for a quick recovery.

  • Spookiesmom
    Spookiesmom Member Posts: 9,568
    edited August 2021
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited August 2021

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    In the Stat News article I posted earlier, a nurse from the National Disaster Medical System said the statement above.

    In Texas where hospitals are filling up with patients, there's talk of including vaccination status as a triage factor. Given that hospitalized unvaccinated COVID patients are having a poorer outcome due to Delta than vaccinated, it's logical to consider when resources are limited. The stage IV breast cancer patient should never have been kicked out early. She only needed another day or two. An unvaccinated COVID patient stay is unpredictable.

    https://www.dallasnews.com/news/watchdog/2021/08/19/if-north-texas-runs-out-of-icu-hospital-beds-doctors-can-consider-a-patients-vaccination-status/

    There's a real benefit to getting vaccinated, but it takes at least 5 weeks to become fully vaccinated. Everyone should wear a mask when around others, but the unvaccinated should wear a really good mask.

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  • bcincolorado
    bcincolorado Member Posts: 5,758
    edited August 2021

    Harley I am glad your surgery went well. Hope you feel better soon.



  • KIDI919
    KIDI919 Member Posts: 425
    edited August 2021

    Spookiesmom< Good one!

  • molliefish
    molliefish Member Posts: 723
    edited August 2021

    KID I had a good chuckle. I sat at a stop sign one time waiting for it to turn green. I still laugh about it. Thanks for the memory 😂

  • bcincolorado
    bcincolorado Member Posts: 5,758
    edited August 2021

    Those of us who ended up doing all the work hated them in school all the time while the slackers got by and got good grades off my work. Only now we are prisoners in our home to be safe while they go out kill themselves and pray they all die off and it goes away and we live long enough to live a life again outside in the world again.

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