Am I over treating my cancer?

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Mysoubre
Mysoubre Member Posts: 5

Hi,

In February, I was diagnosed with invasive ductal carcinoma stage 2, tumor size 2.5cm. I am 47 years old. I told the doctor that I wanted a mastectomy. On my father's side, grandmother had bc, father had lymphoma and other relatives had various cancers including more bc. My doc pushed lumpectomy and I decided to go along with it and see what the lab results would indicate. The pathology report came back with no node involvement and margins clear. They did report lcis and a nearby dcis that was removed with the idc. Oncotype dx was 10. My gene testing came back negative. Honestly, I'm still paranoid. I talked to my surgeon and asked if it was still possible to have a mastectomy, because I would prefer to avoid radiation and I feel like I would have more peace of mind. My breasts are very dense. I also have really large(DDD) fibrocystic breasts. My right breast feels and looks like it's shrinking considerably since the lumpectomy. It's like a size C while my other breast is a triple d.

I have a skin sparing double mastectomy diep scheduled for Monday. All set to go. I've been very sure of my choice until I saw my cancer doctor yesterday for a follow up. He stated that a lot of women over treat their conditions. He gave me that look that says I'm one of those women. I just want to feel like I did everything I child to treat this.

Now I'm doubting myself. Any thoughts on this?

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  • Meow13
    Meow13 Member Posts: 4,859
    edited June 2019

    I don't think a bmx with diep reconstruction is over treatment at all. You avoid radiation. Just because the genetic tests came back ok doesn't mean it isn't genetic. They only know of a few "breast cancer" genes, possibly many more not known.

  • ElaineTherese
    ElaineTherese Member Posts: 3,328
    edited June 2019

    Who cares what the doctor thinks? Go get your BMX if that's what you think is best for you! Look, you tried a lumpectomy, and you didn't like the way your breast looked afterward. How you feel about your body is important; it's not "overtreatment" if you feel better about the outcome.

    I personally opted for a lumpectomy, in part because I didn't want to do reconstruction (have twins with autism who needed me to recover ASAP). I hope your surgery goes well, and that you heal well from your DIEP reconstruction.

  • mom2bunky
    mom2bunky Member Posts: 189
    edited June 2019

    I chose a lumpectomy as well and feel comfortable with my choice and THAT is the key here. You have to feel good and confident in your choice. Do what you have to do!

  • edj3
    edj3 Member Posts: 2,076
    edited June 2019

    Maybe this oncologist isn't the right one for you? I echo the rest, you get to pick the path that works for you. And you're clear on that, end of story.

    I dislike dismissive comments like your doctor made, not useful in the least.

  • rrshannon
    rrshannon Member Posts: 117
    edited June 2019

    I to do not have any breast cancer genes but a lot of cancer in my family history. I had a lumpectomy 16 years ago went through chemo and radiation and now just finished treatment for a new BC. My surgery wasn’t easy this time around but I wouldn’t change having a bmx. My nodes were negative and my left side was clean but I still wanted to eliminate as much tissue as possible before I had yet a third BC or recurrence. I now it is not 100% that I would get more BC but I am at peace knowing I am doing all I can to keep my body healthy.

    Wishing you the best and a speedy recovery.

  • Meow13
    Meow13 Member Posts: 4,859
    edited June 2019

    you don't have any known bc genes.

  • Salamandra
    Salamandra Member Posts: 1,444
    edited June 2019

    Yeah some women over treat, but the doctors are still just *guessing* about who they are, exactly, because the doctors can't know either (and the good ones admit that they can't know) who will go on to recur or have a new primary breast cancer, and who will not.

    The important thing is that you feel ownership of your decision. You've done your due diligence and research, you can trust yourself to make the best decision for you - the one that you are most comfortable living with.

    My radiology oncologist went on a rant at me about women who do mastectomies when (in his view) they don't really need it. It was totally gratuitous because I wasn't having one anyway. The only thing I could think of was, 'you have no idea what it's like to live with breasts! you do not have even the slightest bit of understanding the complex, complicated, and *VARIED* relationships that women have with our breasts. Step off.'

  • exbrnxgrl
    exbrnxgrl Member Posts: 12,424
    edited June 2019

    Please do whatever you are comfortable with, because in the end, you are the one who will live with the decision.

    Someone mentioned earlier that there were only a few know bc genes tested for. Actually, the Ambry panel tests for 34 different genes (including BRCA 1 & 2).Not all of the genes point to a direct relationship, like BRCA, but there are links. I was BRCA 1 & 2 negative at dx, but had the full Ambry panel last summer, which was also negative.

    All the best to you

  • edj3
    edj3 Member Posts: 2,076
    edited June 2019

    Agree w/ Meow13: you don't have any known genes.

    The genetics counselor I saw was very clear that while my results showed no known at this time genetic component, that's all it showed. Nevertheless, despite having no known at this time genetic component for either melanoma or BC, I've got both.

    You are your own best advocate.

  • countdooku
    countdooku Member Posts: 63
    edited June 2019

    It's YOUR body and YOUR life, so YOU get to decide.  

  • lovebiggielupines
    lovebiggielupines Member Posts: 3
    edited June 2019

    Hi there! I have been browsing this website since the day I got a callback from my last mammo in February. Just decided to participate today. Your diagnosis is very similar to mine. I was dx in March. Initially from biopsy my tumor size was 1.6 cm, IDC grade 2. MRI showed bigger tumor up to 4 cm . I had bmx 3 weeks ago which revealed 2.5 cm and a tiny 6 mm tumors grade 3. No lymph nodes affected. I am also 47 yo. Dense breast. My pathology also revealed alh on my supposedly clean breast. Part of the reasons why I decided on bmx was my dense breast. My lump wasn't palpable and mammo plus US couldn't detect my 6 mm tumor floating around in the same breast.

  • Mysoubre
    Mysoubre Member Posts: 5
    edited June 2019

    Did you have Oncotype DX test? My results showed 10 which also showed 3% chance of recurrence. The doc said that me getting cancer was likely just a fluke. I'm suspicious of that conclusion. I called and postponed my surgery. My husband had a massive heart attack three weeks ago and I don't feel like I should make any big choices until things settle down. My husband was relieved when I told him that I was waiting. I don't need to add more stress on him. I was so sure about my choice until the doc said that my chance of surviving is the same regardless of mastectomy vs lumpectomy w/rads and that lots of people tend to over treat it out of fear.

  • lovebiggielupines
    lovebiggielupines Member Posts: 3
    edited June 2019

    Mysoubre : I am really sorry for your husband having a massive heart attack. I feel what you and your hubby have been going through. Hang in there! I don't see any Oncotype DX test in my pathology report but then again I went the surgery route first and will meet my medical oncologist for the first time this month for the next treatment(s). It was not an easy decision for me to decide on my BMX . Based on the mammo and US finding, I thought I would get away with lumpectomy, rads and hormone pills but the MRI finding changed the whole thing. I was so stressed out up to the day of my surgery but now that I am out it, I feel better. I was for a while considering a single mx (my surgical oncologist suggested that and he also mentioned that just because I had cancer in one breast, didn't mean it would go to the other) but I don't know, my dense breast kinda worried me and I just wanted both off. It's a gut feeling--I doesn't mean I was not in panic mode and depressed before BMX (I was, BIG time)--It was a very tough decision. Whatever you do, I hope you can come to a conclusion on what's right for you and I hope things are getting better and easier for you and your husband.

  • Mysoubre
    Mysoubre Member Posts: 5
    edited June 2019

    I kind of feel stupid for waiting until two days before surgery to up and decide to wait. Hope the doc isn't upset or charges fees. I already paid my doc. I was all ready to go. I read about people regretting their BMX because of lack of sensation or pain down the road. I couldn't get what my oncologist said it off my head. How could a lumpectomy w/rads be just as good as a masectomy? If their is hardly any breast tissue left, how can cancer return just as likely as lumpectomy.(When there is significantly more tissue?

  • ElaineTherese
    ElaineTherese Member Posts: 3,328
    edited June 2019

    Mysoubre,

    The survival rates for BMX and lumpectomy + rads are the same. Those who get a lumpectomy + rads are slightly more likely to have a local recurrence than those who get a BMX. However, even women with a BMX can get a local recurrence because the surgeon cannot remove every last piece of breast tissue.

    Survival rates are about who is alive, 5 years out, 10 years out, etc.. Women who die from breast cancer are those whose cancer traveled to the bones and/or other organs (brain, liver, kidney, lungs). The choice of BMX vs. lumpectomy + rads has no impact on who suffers from a distant metastases that can lead to death.

  • Mysoubre
    Mysoubre Member Posts: 5
    edited June 2019

    Can you ladies tell me how your radiation treatments went?

  • edj3
    edj3 Member Posts: 2,076
    edited June 2019

    I'm going through radiation treatment right now--I've had 5 of 20. So it's early days for me but so far so good. My nipple is a bit cranky, as is the incision in my armpit. But (knock on wood) no redness to speak of, and I'm not getting the fatigue yet either.

  • Beesie
    Beesie Member Posts: 12,240
    edited June 2019

    Mysoubre,

    Here's the thing about having a MX (or BMX). It likely reduces your risk of a local recurrence. It certainly reduces your risk to develop a new primary breast cancer (an unrelated second breast cancer) at some point in the future. But it does virtually nothing to reduce your risk of a metastatic, i.e. distant, recurrence. Why? Because a MX is kind of like shutting the barn door after the horses have escaped.

    In most cases, we've had breast in our breasts for at least 3 years and possibly much longer by the time we are diagnosed. This tiny breast cancer is too small to be felt or detected by imaging. Over the years, as the tiny cancer grows to eventually become large enough to detect, a few cancer cells might break off and move, either through the bloodstream or through the lymphatic system, into our bodies. Often that doesn't happen, but if it does happen, those are the cells that will one day develop to become metastatic breast cancer. So it all happens before you and your doctors even know that you have breast cancer. This is why a mastectomy doesn't reduce the risk of mets. By the time you have your surgery to remove the cancer from your breast, whether you have a lumpectomy or a mastectomy, breast cancer cells have either already moved into the body or they haven't. And that's the risk of mets.

    It could happen that someone has a local (in the breast area) recurrence and this recurrence leads to mets - this happens rarely enough that it doesn't change the statistics that show that the survival rate is the same whether one has a lumpectomy + rads, or a mastectomy. Most mets develop without there first being a local recurrence.

    Can you know if any cells escaped before you discovered your breast cancer? In most cases, no, because it's just a few cells, too small to be detected by screening or tests. So what do you do? That's where chemo and hormone therapy (Tamoxifen or an AI) come in. Both of those treatments are given to track down and kill off those rogue breast cancer cells that might be sitting somewhere in the body. And the Oncotype test is used to analyze the genetic make up of the cancer, to determine if it's a cancer that's likely to have shed off some cells as it was developing and growing. An Oncotype score of 10 says that your cancer isn't likely to have shed cells, so the risk of mets is low and chemo won't be recommended. But in all likelihood hormone therapy will be recommended, as a precaution, to lower your risk of mets.

    You may decide that BMX is the right decision for you, to reduce your risk of a local recurrence and to reduce your risk to develop a new primary breast cancer. The risk of mets shouldn't factor into this decision, because it's the same either way, whether you have a lumpectomy+rads or a MX. With a 10 Oncotype score, chemo won't be recommended whichever surgery you choose. And for others who have a higher Oncotype score, or a more aggressive cancer (triple negative, HER2+), chemo will be recommended whichever surgery they choose.

    Good luck with your decision. One option, given your uncertainty and the approaching surgery date, is to start with the lumpectomy, and then decide once that's done - when you have the final pathology, know the surgical margins, and see the results of the surgery - whether to move on to rads or to opt for the BMX.

    Hope this helps!

  • Mysoubre
    Mysoubre Member Posts: 5
    edited June 2019

    I have already had the lumpectomy on May 25th. My margins were clear. The tumor was 2.4cm. A 1cm dcis was found in the "chunk" of breast that was removed. I also had lcis as being found on the path report. I did not have the results yet for the gene testing at that time, but now I do. I tested negative.

    When my doctor met with me for the results of the oncotype dx test, I asked him if that 3% chance was just for this cancer. I asked him what we're the chances of a new cancer developing in either breast. He said, " that is the 3% score ." I did not believe that. I was under the impression that oncotype dx just tested this tumor and could only report On what this tumor would likely do.

    I wanted a BMX because my breasts are DDD and dense. I have fibrocystic breasts that are really lumpy. I figured it would be better to just get rid of them. Diep sounded like a good option...until i read stories of pain and my doc said that my outcome would be the same.

  • Beesie
    Beesie Member Posts: 12,240
    edited June 2019

    Sorry, Mysoubre, I did see that you had the lumpectomy (which makes sense since you have your Oncotype score) but then I forget that when I wrote my post. A senior moment.

    You are right about the Oncotype score. No question about it. Your score is specifically related to only your risk of metastatic cancer, from this diagnosis. It does not reflect your risk of a localized recurrence, and it most certainly has nothing to do with your future risk to develop a new primary breast cancer. It also says nothing about whether or not this cancer was a fluke. It simply looks at the genetic make up of this tumor, not what might have caused the cancer to develop.

    What my first MO told me, and what I've seen in some studies, is that the risk to develop a new primary breast cancer, for women who've been diagnosed previously with breast cancer, is approximately double that of the average woman of the same age who has not had a previous diagnosis. This will of course be higher or lower for each individual based on personal risk factors

    Here's a sample report that happens to show an Oncotype 10 score. The only risk level it mentions is the "Distant Recurrence Risk at 9 years".


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  • Ingerp
    Ingerp Member Posts: 2,624
    edited June 2019

    Mysoubre—just chiming in on rads, which I’ve been through twice. It just wasn’t that big a deal for me. I agree the hardest part is having to go five days a week, but the good part of that is the 20-33–however many sessions seem to fly by. Every week that’s another five behind you! I had some skin reaction but never bad. (Funny—you could see exactly where I’d gotten a lot of sun growing up—oops.) I had a couple days of fatigue, but really only like 2-3 each time, and it went away if I got off my feet for an hour or so. I’m sure you’ve heard they are really quick appointments—literally like 10 minutes once you’re called back. I wouldn’t let it scare you.

  • edj3
    edj3 Member Posts: 2,076
    edited June 2019

    Hey Beesie quick question for you--I understood that radiation is part of the killing off of stray cancer cells in the breast area (and armpit if that's also getting radiation), and that tamoxifen and the AIs are to reduce the risk of recurrence. But from your post, it sounds like you're saying tamoxifen and the AIs kill off stray cancer cells because they block estrogen. Is that what you're saying?

  • Beesie
    Beesie Member Posts: 12,240
    edited June 2019

    edj3, yes.

    Rads are used to kill off stray cells locally, and Tamoxifen and AIs (and chemo) are used to kill off stray cells both locally and any that might be in the body.

    Tamox and the AIs starve those rogue cancer cells by cutting off or stopping their access to their food supply, i.e. the estrogen. Tamoxifen blocks the estrogen receptors in the cancer cells, stopping them from accessing estrogen. The AIs reduce the amount of estrogen in the body, cutting off the supply of estrogen to those cancer cells.

    That's how Tamox and the AIs reduce the risk of recurrence, by starving and thereby killing off cancer cells that might still be in the breast or the body after surgery. The fewer cancer cells that survive, the lower the chance of recurrence.

  • OnTarget
    OnTarget Member Posts: 447
    edited June 2019

    Mysoubre, I'm sorry to hear about your husband, I hope he's doing OK now!

    Don't feel bad about cancelling, you had ample reason!!

    I was originally diagnosed with a 2.7cm tumor with IDC and ILC features in the left breast. At that point in time, lumpectomy vs mastectomy was on the table.

    A breast MRI showed that I had 2 tiny suspicious lumps in the right breast. I immediately said BMX. My surgeon was neither for that nor against, but she wanted to discuss before I decided.

    I absolutely treasure my surgeon for not overly pushing either option.

    Then one of the right side lumps was also identified as ILC via biopsy and she said BMX was a great choice.

    Personally, the BMX brings me greater peace of mind. Whereas other people are more tied to their original boobs.

    The end result was that my left tumor was 3cm, plus there were 2 other small tumors in there. My right just had the one tumor, but I had atypical lobular hyperplacia in the nipple, plus lots of additional sketchy stuff in both breasts that was not previously identified LCIS, DCIS, etc). For me, BMX really worked out.

    My neighbor chose lumpectomy the two times she had breast cancer, and she's happy with her choice. It is such a personal choice, go with your gut!

  • Meem888
    Meem888 Member Posts: 3
    edited June 2019

    Mysoubre, I’m sorry you are not getting the support you need from your doctor. I was being pushed into a lumpectomy after dcis diagnosis, but I was done. Done worrying, done with yearly MRI, ultrasounds, mammograms, and 2 doctors doing physical exams yearly. My mother and both sisters had already been diagnosed over the last 9 years. I was next in line. After 2 biopsies (both resulting in hematomas) I got the news that I had bc. Very early stage. I wasn’t going to screw around. I didn’t want to worry till the next time I got the diagnosis, and go through another lumpectomy and radiation, or worse. I’m glad I did it. I just had my tissue expander swap out. Still uncomfortable, but I’m happy my chances of getting bc again are 1%. That’s a number I can live with hopefully. No regrets!!!

  • Tmh0921
    Tmh0921 Member Posts: 714
    edited July 2019

    My surgeon didn’t push me one way or the other, he presented all options with the pros and cons of each for me to decide. I was 27 at my first diagnosis and opted for a lumpectomy vs losing a breast.

    19+ years later I can honestly say I wish I had gone with a mastectomy. I’ve spent the last 19 years having abnormal mammogram after abnormal mammogram, which are almost always followed by a biopsy or two. I’ve had fibroadenomas, radial scars, ADH, ALH, DCIS, and now a new IDC. The constant stress and anxiety have definitely impacted my quality of life.

    This time I told my surgeon from the get go that I wanted a BMX with reconstruction (which is now scheduled for 8/5).

    The bottom line is YOU are the patient, and YOU have to be comfortable with your decisions. If your MO talks down to you about it, you may want to consider a new MO.

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