Newly DIagnosed and was Lumpectomy now Mastectomy.

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Irishlove
Irishlove Member Posts: 82
edited March 2019 in Just Diagnosed

Hi everyone. Thank you for offering such a warm, wonderful place to come for support and information. I'm struggling, maybe in denial as yesterday I was scheduled for a lumpectomy and it changed in the surgeon's office. The biopsy Feb. 1 showed IDC left breast. We scheduled the surgery for Wed. Feb. 27 followed by rads. Well I mentioned to the surgeon that I wondered what the future looked like due to very dense breasts and imaging problems. She decided on breast MRI bilaterally. As I was leaving her office yesterday (Monday) she stopped me to tell me the results finally came in and a second area, in the same breast, showed possibly positive also. I had about two minutes to absorb this and made a decision to do a mastectomy instead of waiting, biopsy, more waiting and my mind could not wrap around any further delay. So tomorrow is my day. I don't want to second guess this, just need some support. I have MS and that isn't helping. I like to tease and say when I'm flustered, "My brain, she are no good". lol

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  • Wigging2000
    Wigging2000 Member Posts: 295
    edited February 2019

    Hi Irishlove!

    I’m very sorry that you have to be here. You’ll get a lot of support! I did something similar to you, when my MRI showed additional suspicious areas, I decided not to wait for biopsy and actually chose a bilateral mastectomy. I wish you all the best with your surgery. Mine was much easier than I had expected. I hope that yours will be too.

    I know you are probably very nervous tonight. Please check back in with us and let us know how everything goes. Happy thoughts for a successful procedure and an easy recovery!


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  • Moderators
    Moderators Member Posts: 25,912
    edited February 2019

    Welcome, Irishlove. We're so sorry you find yourself here, but you've definitely come to the right place for support. Best of luck tomorrow, we'll all be thinking of you and are here for you!

    The Mods

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  • blah333
    blah333 Member Posts: 270
    edited February 2019

    I had a multi-focal situation and worried about getting good margins, and my breasts weren't large enough to take so much tissue anwyay. I was happy to be able to forego radiation and hormonal drugs. What would be left of my breast would be unrecognizable and was not worth saving. Mastectomy is a good choice in this situation. It's too bad you don't have much time for this all to sink in!

    I hope your surgery goes well. You will feel much better when you wake up from it and are on the other side!

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  • msphil
    msphil Member Posts: 1,536
    edited February 2019

    hello sweetie I was making wedding plans for our 2nd marriages when found lump didn't want to go into new marriage with breast removed so thought about lumpectomy But my wonderful now husband said do what you think will be best I want you don't care bout breast. So I decided on L mastectomy. Praise God this was 25yrs this yr. msphil idc stage2 0\3 nodes 3mo chemo before and after Lmast got married then 7wks rads and 5yrs on Tamoxifen

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  • AliceBastable
    AliceBastable Member Posts: 3,461
    edited February 2019

    Having a mastectomy might mean no radiation, but I don't think it affects if you'll need an anti-hormonal or not.

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  • Irishlove
    Irishlove Member Posts: 82
    edited August 2019

    Thank you all so very much for your welcoming support. It is so very much appreciated. Surgery went well. Now I don't want to jinx anything, but so far so good. Strange when I looked down at myself it didn't shock me. Might be because I still wear a training bra at the age of 63. lol. Hey it paid off being flat chested after all. lol

    I'm home and happy to be in my own bed. From what I've been able to read and absorb, it will be 2 weeks for the path report. She also said the second area of concern could well have been a false positive on the MRI. That's interesting. I had thought MRI's are the best screening available. Wonder where the 3D mammo's rate in the screening process.

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  • Wigging2000
    Wigging2000 Member Posts: 295
    edited March 2019

    glad you are finished with the surgery, Irishlove. It’s a huge step to get through. Hopefully the pathology will come back sooner than later. Focus on healing and taking care of yourself for now.


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  • Elephant
    Elephant Member Posts: 88
    edited March 2019

    Good Irishlove that the surgery went well. The worse time for me was from the time of the biopsy diagnosis to the actual date of surgery. I was very frustrated with nothing being done, from my point of view, to deal with the condition. Once the surgery was scheduled, which was a few days before the surgery, then I felt that I was on the way to fighting and getting rid of the cancer.

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