2 small lumps on chest wall & just accepted a new job :(

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ps0705
ps0705 Member Posts: 122
edited February 2019 in Not Diagnosed With a Recurrence or Metastases but Concerned

Had a BMX on 12/21/17 Now have 2 small hard lumps on the same side that had DCIS grade 3, ER-/PR-, 1.4 cm.

Saw my breast surgeon today and she (not so tactfully) walked out of the room and told the intern she has to stop whatever she is doing because she can go back to that and to come now so she can feel this to compare with the US results. BS also told intern to feel the nodule and the lymph node on my chest wall !??!?!?!!!

WTH?

And to top it off I just gave my 2 weeks notice and start a new job end of the month.

I sign the paperwork next week on the morning of my US. I am feeling crazy now starting a new job with a high possibility of recurrence.

Anyone start a new job with a recurrence at the same time. Just wish I could go back and rescind my resignation. ugh

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  • vlnrph
    vlnrph Member Posts: 1,632
    edited January 2019

    I have not experienced that situation but want to suggest that, should you be in the US and get health insurance through your employer, make sure you don't have a gap in coverage. Use COBRA if you have to - it may be expensive but you cannot afford to 'go bare' even for a couple weeks.

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  • Salamandra
    Salamandra Member Posts: 1,444
    edited January 2019

    Hey ps0705,

    What a stressful situation!! My big concern would be that you wouldn't have access to FMLA protection at your new job right away. I'd be checking up on the benefits ASAP, especially if you don't have access to financial support through family.

    That said, depending on the new job, things could be completely fine. Do your best not to borrow trouble, just get as informed as you can and make the best choices from the limited options available to you. That's all any of us can do. You didn't have a crystal ball, you bet on the status quo, that was a smart thing to do! You will make this work too, one way or another!

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  • ps0705
    ps0705 Member Posts: 122
    edited January 2019

    Thank you. I will check to see if there is a gap and I need cobra. Good point

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  • ps0705
    ps0705 Member Posts: 122
    edited January 2019

    Thank you. I looked up FMLA and definitely wouldn't get pay. I don't know if they can fire me right away. This whole thing sucks for many reasons and now I have to worry about possibly being let go. Who would hire in someone that is just diagnosed with a recurrence?

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  • KBeee
    KBeee Member Posts: 5,109
    edited January 2019

    Hoping all turns out benign. Just take things a day at a time. I agree with the others though about being sure there are no gaps in coverage.

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  • ps0705
    ps0705 Member Posts: 122
    edited January 2019

    Thanks KBeee, Salamandra, and vlnrph. Because of your help, I checked to see if I needed to Cobra my insurance. Fortunately I will be covered from my first date of employment. So I pushed back my ultrasound to next week. It's only a week later than originally scheduled but this way everything will be under one insurance. I am living dog years though. I have made that area sore feeling it obsessively. I can feel lots of bumps now along a line that would mimic lymph nodes across the top (just beneath the clavicle) and then continuing down the outside of my breast down the side. I have made that area sore feeling it obsessively.

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  • KBeee
    KBeee Member Posts: 5,109
    edited January 2019

    So glad to hear you'll have coverage. As hard as it is, keep your hand off of the area. That will lead anything to swell.

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  • Salamandra
    Salamandra Member Posts: 1,444
    edited January 2019

    I'm sure it must feel like each day is a year. UGH.

    I'm glad you'll have near continuous coverage, and hopefully the results will be benign AND the new job will be fabulous!

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  • blah333
    blah333 Member Posts: 270
    edited February 2019

    Stop feeling around... it will drive you crazy. Start feeling around other parts of your body, like your arms, or some of your lower ribs. There are bumps everywhere! Especially along bone.

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  • ps0705
    ps0705 Member Posts: 122
    edited February 2019

    Blah333 yes I know and it is driving me crazy.


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  • ps0705
    ps0705 Member Posts: 122
    edited February 2019

    Blah333 yes I know and it is driving me crazy.


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  • ps0705
    ps0705 Member Posts: 122
    edited February 2019

    Update - I had both a deep tissue ultrasound and mammogram and they are benign. They are oily cysts - which sounds really gross but I'll take it.

    Thank you for your support throughout the waiting game. I've also decided that I should switch Dr's since mine is an alarmist.

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  • beeline
    beeline Member Posts: 308
    edited February 2019

    So glad the results are benign! Hope the new job is great, too

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  • KBeee
    KBeee Member Posts: 5,109
    edited February 2019

    Great news!

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  • Salamandra
    Salamandra Member Posts: 1,444
    edited February 2019

    YAYAYAYAY!!

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