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  • Faith-840
    Faith-840 Member Posts: 995
    edited December 2018

    Dear sisters in Christ,

    Just dropping in to wish you all a most BLESSED CHRISTMAS and a very happy and HEALTHY NEW YEAR. I'm sorry to have been MIA lately but as with most of you, things have just been too hectic and I needed to find time for lots of other things. Please know though, I am always praying for all your needs and believing that God will answer our prayers in His own time.

    Peace and healing for all of you!

    Love, Faith (in the future).


  • bandwoman1234
    bandwoman1234 Member Posts: 5,542
    edited December 2018

    Merry Christmas dear sisters. For some this may be the only White Christmas you will see today. May Christ be at the center of your celebrations today.

    Love,

    Nancy


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  • IntoLight
    IntoLight Member Posts: 1,701
    edited December 2018

    Merry Christmas Nancy and all. I pray you all have a blessed Christmas.

    It is storming in San Diego today, but lovely and warm in my kitchen with the men cooking!

  • bandwoman1234
    bandwoman1234 Member Posts: 5,542
    edited December 2018

    Chris, could I borrow a few men to come cook in my kitchen?

  • bandwoman1234
    bandwoman1234 Member Posts: 5,542
    edited December 2018
  • Ade
    Ade Member Posts: 740
    edited December 2018

    Nancy I love that! YES! They gravitate to empty boxes, baskets, sacks, etc. Ours would even curl up in the bathroom sink! We called her 'bowl cat'. Sure miss them! >^..^<

  • bandwoman1234
    bandwoman1234 Member Posts: 5,542
    edited December 2018

    I finally went to urgent care tonight. I called at noon as you can get appointment times. The earliest available time was at 8PM and knowing there might be a two hour wait I took the late night apt. I have acute sinusitis which I am guessing is the same as a sinus infection. I will be on antibiotics but can't pick up until 9:30 pm.

    I figured this had turned into something else since it was just not letting go. I am still hoping to visit my family but it won't be for three weeks as originally planned as I have important apts I have to get back for. I am not up to traveling yet. Hopefully I will be in a few days.

    I hope you are enjoying some relaxing days after the rush of Christmas. Do you want to him something funny? I haven't started my Christmas shopping yet!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Not kidding.

    Love,

    Nancy


  • bandwoman1234
    bandwoman1234 Member Posts: 5,542
    edited December 2018

    Ade, I bet your "bowl cat" made you smile. Cammie is asleep in the top tier of her cat tree which is her favorite place now.

  • Ade
    Ade Member Posts: 740
    edited December 2018

    Aw, Nancy, bless your heart! Our son, Aaron, gets REALLY sick with that. Glad you went and got it diagnosed with treatment to follow. Praying the Lord will heal you soon and you'll feel much better. Rest and heal. Cammie will keep an eye on you from her perch.

    Sending a hug,

    Ade

  • IntoLight
    IntoLight Member Posts: 1,701
    edited December 2018

    Nancy, so glad you found some help and that it can be cleared. Hope you have a wonderful belated Christmas. My son's family used to come in January every year and I would often Christmas shop the after-Christmas sales for them! Worked well, but they came in November this year... One of my Christmas presents was him telling me I have a new grandchild on the way! God is good!


  • bandwoman1234
    bandwoman1234 Member Posts: 5,542
    edited December 2018

    Yes, Ade, Cammie follows me around like a dog if I leave the room for any length of time. She is my "guard cat" for sure. A few years ago I was at my Mom's house and it was the night of Memorial Day. Cammie has a habit of scratching on the shades in the middle of the night and I raise them a little for her to see out. This time the shade got away from me and went all the way to the top and I was too tired to get out of bed and pull it back down. Sometime later I heard Cammie hissing and I had never heard her do that before. I thought maybe a stray cat had appeared and I got up to look and low and behold...............there was a peeping Tom looking in my window. When he saw me he ran to his truck that was already running and parked going the wrong way in front of my Mom's house. So Cammie really is my guard cat.

    Chris, I have a feeling the Christmas sales will be over by the time I make it to my Mom's but I am taking it one day at a time.

    Joanne, I know you and and your whole family has been run through the ringer these last few weeks. Praying for all of you and for Michelle to have remarkable progress at this rehab facility.

    Love,

    Nancy


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  • Faith-840
    Faith-840 Member Posts: 995
    edited December 2018

    Nancy, I'm sorry you've been so sick but glad you finally went to urgent care and are on antibiotics now. That should help you feel better soon. I certainly hope so and that you will be able to visit your mom soon and of course do that shopping. It's too bad you didn't get any done earlier when the weather was more mild. Hope you didn't go out today, it was awful with the wind.

    Jo, it sounds like Michelle is making some good progress, I will keep praying that she continues to heal in the rehab center. It maybe long and slow but God really does work miracles in His own time. Take care of yourselves, you must all be exhausted with the stress and worry this has caused.

    Chris, congratulations on another new grandchild. Our grandchildren, 10 in all, range in age from 16-26. None are married yet or even engaged. Not that I want to rush them but we sure do miss having little kids around, they are so much fun especially at Christmas.

    I don't know what's going around, but so many of my friends are sick with various things. I didn't get to sing in the choir on Christmas Eve or even get to church on Christmas which just never happens to me. I was getting ready to shower after a busy day of wrapping, etc and suddenly had a vertigo attack and felt awful with nausea and very high BP. the vertigo was better after awhile but I just felt sick that night and the next two days, although I managed to go to our son's house for Christmas Day. I'm still having sinus issues but no fever so I guess it's not an infection.

    Germs are everywhere! We were grocery shopping today and I heard someone loudly coughing and looked up. It was one of the employees standing in front of a freezer case with the door open and showering his germs inside. I wanted to run out of that store. Why aren't people more careful about not spreading their germs?

    A belated Merry Christmas and a Blessed New Year to everyone filled with good health and peace.

    Sending love and prayers,

    Faith (in the future)


  • bandwoman1234
    bandwoman1234 Member Posts: 5,542
    edited December 2018

    Hi dear sisters,

    As we battle sickness and SE's from treatments and just the challenges that we all face though they may be different types and some more serious than others, God cares about every single one of you and what you are going through. He wants you to share EVERYTHING with Him. That is how you build a close and trusting relationship with our God. Even though he is King of Kings and Lord of Lords the Bible also tells us He is our friend. I know that I want to have a friend who has my back in EVERYTHING I go through. One who is the source for EVERYTHING I need. One who loves me despite EVERYTHING bad thing I have ever done. He forgives us of those things as we asked Him to. That is the kind of friend I want in my life. His name is Jesus. We celebrated Him as a baby a few days ago but the truth is He is all powerful, all knowing and the Savior of the World. He grew up to be a man that died for us so that we can have life in Him. Even though I am still sick I can still celebrate all of the goodness we have in Him. I know He is still in control and has never left the pilot's seat on my journey. Have a wonderful last weekend of this year. I am always hopeful that the New Year will bring unexpected blessings if we can only look for them.

    Love,

    Nancy

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  • bandwoman1234
    bandwoman1234 Member Posts: 5,542
    edited December 2018

    Faith, I am so sorry to hear you were not able to sing on Christmas Eve as I know how much that means to you. I am sorry you had to miss Church on Christmas Day. I hope you can get over whatever germs you are fighting. I have never had a fever in all of the days of being sick I have had so that does not necessarily mean you don't have an infection. I guess I am proof of that. Lay low and get plenty of rest. That is what I am trying to do.

    Chris, congratulations on your special Christmas gift news. That is definitely something to look forward to in the New Year.

    Love,

    Nancy

  • bandwoman1234
    bandwoman1234 Member Posts: 5,542
    edited January 2019

    I am literally hearing these fireworks outside my house now. The thought of going to bed early (for me) may not happen. I think that as we reflect on the last year we could all say it was full of blessings and challenges. I imagine this New Year will have some surprises. Take care dear sisters.

    Yes, Joanne, May the Lord's purpose prevail in our lives and in our country.

    Love,

    Nancy


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  • zjrosenthal
    zjrosenthal Member Posts: 2,026
    edited January 2019

    So much sickness! I am battling bronchitis. Tried 2 urgent care places yesterday, both with 2 hr. wait times. I opted to make an appointment with a general practicioner at one of our local medical facilities for tomorrow. Constant coughing, slight fever and chest rattling. Praying we all feel better soon. The New Year started off on a low note so hopefully things will only get better. Love, Jean

  • Faith-840
    Faith-840 Member Posts: 995
    edited January 2019

    As we say goodbye to the old year may our prayers be for a New Year of GOOD HEALTH, HAPPINESS AND PEACE, for us and our families and for this world, that Our Blessed Lord has given us.

    Happy New Year everyone!!!

    Faith (in the future)

  • HersheyKiss
    HersheyKiss Member Posts: 550
    edited January 2019

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    Dear ladies, I am safely home from visiting my mother for the holidays. Thank you for your prayers. The scene above is reminiscent of the countryside near my mother's home: lots of snow, cold temperatures, and roads waiting to be properly plowed. I am grateful for the time spent with my mother and thankful to be home (and be warm, safe, and sound!).

    May God bless one and all with the happiest and healthiest of years!

  • IntoLight
    IntoLight Member Posts: 1,701
    edited January 2019

    Nancy, I am so happy you were able to go to your mom's for Christmas, and that you returned safely. I was praying you would be able to go.

    We spent a quiet New Year's eve and day at home watching old TV programs (we are not a football family.) I just ordered Chinese for dinner after spending all afternoon making my DH mince pies--a throw-back from his English mother. I promised them last year and never made them.

    Happy 2019 to everyone here. I pray God sends you many blessings this year.

    Chris

  • bandwoman1234
    bandwoman1234 Member Posts: 5,542
    edited January 2019

    Chris, I think you got our names mixed up perhaps. Hershey visited her Mom for the holidays but I am still getting over my sickness so I missed the Holidays with my family and am still trying to figure if I will make it down in a few days. I would still appreciate your prayers that I will be able to at least have a short visit. How was your Holidays?

    Hershey, I am glad you got to spend time with your Mom and are back home safely. It sounds like you had a Christmas postcard view at your Mom's. The banner looks beautiful. Glad you are safely home.

    Faith, are you feeling better now. I have been praying for you.

    Jean, I am sorry to hear you are sick too. That was the wait time at my urgent care time too so that is why I took the 8pm apt when I called at noon on Dec. 27. I hope you can see this doctor soon. I have seen improvement after a few days on antibiotics.

    Joanne, continued prayers for you and your family.

    Ade, how are you and James doing? I know you are probably disappointed that you didn't get to see some of your family because of sickness.

    Lita, how are you doing? Did you have a good Christmas and New Years.?

    I haven't gone out to celebrate New Year's Eve in quite a few years. My Mom and I would at least watch the ball drop in NY and I was so out of it I completely forgot about watching it last night. However the neighbors fireworks were alive and well long after midnight!

    Praying we all feel better for all those who are sick and those dealing with SE's of treatments.

    Love,

    Nancy

  • IntoLight
    IntoLight Member Posts: 1,701
    edited January 2019

    Nancy, so sorry I messed this up, and I am sorry you are still too ill to travel. I will continue my prayers for your recovery.

    Hershey, I am thankful you got to travel and are home safe. I don't even try it at Christmas. For some reason I have not felt very much holiday spirit this year although I had family here and everything, and lots to be thankful for. I am even ready to take the little bit of Christmas stuff down that I put up, and I never feel this way...

    I think and pray for you all often.

  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited January 2019

    Joanne,

    I pray for your granddaughter (Michelle) to regain strength during inpatient rehab.

    Jean,

    May you find relief from bronchitis.

    Nancy,

    Praying you're able to have a short visit with family.

    Chris,

    I'm always ready on the 1st to start packing away Christmas and New Year's stuff. I then feel all downhill to Spring!

    In my evening prayers one and all.

  • Lita57
    Lita57 Member Posts: 2,437
    edited January 2019

    We keep our decorations up well into January. It's too depressing to take them down on 1/2.

    I suffer from seasonal affective disorder-SAD. Jan is always a very hard month for me...so dark, cold and short days.

    Praying for those who are sick out there.

    L


  • Vargadoll
    Vargadoll Member Posts: 2,028
    edited January 2019

    I am praying that everyone is feeling better! New Years Blessings to everyone!

  • zjrosenthal
    zjrosenthal Member Posts: 2,026
    edited January 2019

    I saw the doctor today and was very impressed with the efficiency of the doctor and the place. Within 45 min. I saw the doctor, got a chest xray and got a call from him on the way home. I have pneumonia and by the time I get home he had already called in prescriptions for an antibiotic, cough medicine and an inhaler plus arrangements for a follow up chest xray in 3 weeks. I think I will be using him for general practicioner visits in the future. God is so good. Love, Jean

  • IntoLight
    IntoLight Member Posts: 1,701
    edited January 2019

    Jean, yay for good news in the midst of the bad! So much better than the 8 hours I spent in the ER with my pneumonia!
    Chris

  • zjrosenthal
    zjrosenthal Member Posts: 2,026
    edited January 2019

    I'm feeling a little better today after getting some sleep last night. Now the challenge is to remain resting and avoid,a relapse by doing too much too soon. Love, Jean

  • IntoLight
    IntoLight Member Posts: 1,701
    edited January 2019

    Jean, I am glad to hear you are feeling better. I will keep praying for you. Rest my friend.

  • bandwoman1234
    bandwoman1234 Member Posts: 5,542
    edited January 2019

    Hi dear ladies of faith.

    I never did make it to visit my family and am not planning on it now. I had a setback a few days ago and was so dizzy and very disappointed. I had toyed with the idea of leaving today but I know I need to take time to finish healing. I still have a couple more days of antibiotics. I did see my new pcp yesterday as our urgent care wants you to follow up with your own doctor shortly after your visit. I am feeling much better today and even did some vacuuming and laundry today. I will have to find some time to squeeze in an unplanned visit later.

    Jean, I am sorry to hear you have pneumonia but glad you have had a good experience with this doctor and are on meds now. I know it is not easy for me to just rest and do nothing but that is pretty much what I have done for the last three weeks and hopefully I am almost over with this stuff. I still have congestion but in general am feeling much better. Give yourself permission to rest and I know that is not easy to do.

    Good to hear from you Vargadoll. I hope you had a good Christmas and New Years.

    Lita, I use a lightbox and have used one for many, many years. I can start feeling the effects of shorter days as early as Oct. so I just keep this box on my dining room table and try to use it everyday. I think it helps a bit.


    Do you all remember helping me with my sunset photos. Well............................I won for the month of December. I instantly have won a $75 gift card and am now in competition with the other month winners from May - Nov. to win the top prize of $500. Voting is all on Facebook which I am not even on so I don't have a million friends on Facebook to ask to vote for me. I am just happy to be a finalist. I was interviewed via email and there will be an article on me. I had quite the back and forth email volley today with the person writing the article. I had answered her questions yesterday and then she said something today in an email that something inside of me just laid it all on the line. I said something like I don't worship creation but the Creator. Anyway it will be interesting to see what she writes. This is the photo which I changed a bit since posting the last time. I was SOOOOOOOOOOO excited as I have worked so hard on this competition for two years. I took this pic just a few days before getting sick. So thank you all for your input. It is not the one I thought they would pick but you never know what they will pick.

    I hope all of you who have been battling sickness are improving and that our 2019 will be a great year.

    Love,

    Nancy

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  • HersheyKiss
    HersheyKiss Member Posts: 550
    edited January 2019

    Nancy, congratulations on the December award! Your photo is gorgeous. You have such a gift for perspective and color. Only if you are comfortable, please PM me a URL to the article when it is published. I'd love to read it.

    I am sorry that you were unable to visit your family over the holidays. It sounds like you are doing the exact right things to heal and gain your strength. Perhaps a visit for Valentine's Day is in the cards??

    Jean, I am happy that you are on the mend and that the new PCP was so skilled and efficient. He sounds like a keeper!

    God bless everyone's day with happiness, peace, and love.

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