Thinking of MomAllTheTime and Dani

Zar it reminds me of the comedian that always says: and here is your sign. Cluelessnes you bet. As i've learned the best way to help is to ask someone: what do they need, not what the other thinks they need. Real simple.

Animalcrackers that's what i hear from my children. I am working on myself. Of course it's so true.

Hi Micmei thank you for being there. I know you guys would round up in a beat. Everyday is a new dilemma re: the children. But we make sure to mention their Mommy all the time. D's bday just passed, so my girls broached the subject with the little ones, first they had the grand idea that they won't go to school that day, we told them it's not happening. But then the younger one the 10yr old, came home from school and made a beautiful homemade card to celebrate Mom's birthday. In it she wrote, when are you coming back?

The other day she told me, you wanna hear something sad, ( i was thinking sure, stab me again), so she's wearing this dress that Dani had just bought for her, and she told me that Mom was asking her to try it on with a new summer sweater she got her, but she says, i didn't have time for it, and now i regret it. Ughhh of course i told her well I'm sure Mom sees you and she loves the way you look. Yeah we need mom. The older one, she is 11 1/2 does not speak much about her at this time. She has it all inside.

My dear MOM passed away at 95, she was and looked very well, only the last few weeks her sickness made things hard for her. It took me months and months not to reach out to the phone and call her, i called her so many times a day.

Mom - your grandchildren are in amazing hands as long as you are in their lives. Make sure you take care ofyourself too.

Patty - so so nice to hear from you. We are with you all the time. Thank you sweetie for taking the time. If we could help you in any way, please do not hesitate for one minute. Love you so much.

thank you!