Thinking of MomAllTheTime and Dani
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MomATT - I don't have any words. I wish your family strength as you walk this path that should not be.
>Z<
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I am devastated by this news....crying and grieving with MomATT at the loss of beloved Dani.
The fact that she has now transitioned seems so surreal right now. We thank the Lord that she is no longer in pain or suffering, but It's going to take a while for this to completely sink in.
Thank you Babs for posting.
I pray for strength, comfort and peace for the entire family at this difficult time.
Love, Lita
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Thank you Babs for informing us of this news.
Mom & Family, Huge virtual Hugs.
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Momall, I don't post often, but I have been following your updates, marveling at your fierce love and determination and hoping that a miracle would happen that would turn all that love into more days for your beautiful daughter. No parent should have to bury a child...
((Gentle hugs))
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Oh mom, in one of the emails reaching out to doctors to try to help find someone to help, I said I was asking on behalf of a woman who is like a sister to me. Dani was ousister, as are you. Your fierce love for her is just amazing. Oh her girls. My heart is so heavy.
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MomATT- I have no words except to say that although I don't know you and Dani, I know the depth of your love for her and the lengths that you went to try to save her. I have never seen strength as you displayed. I am broken hearted for you. Know that you are in my thoughts as you go through this difficult time.
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........ for Dani...... and Mom.... loving you from a far. But caring as if we were all in the same room. ♥️💔Much love always ~M~ -
No words to express my shock at this news, Babs. Much love to MomAtt and her family as they grieve this almost incomprehensible loss.
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Oh Mom There are no words that will suffice. This disease is evil. Im praying hard for healing for you. You are so strong and deserve peace after the war you and Dani fought. Im just speechless
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I do not come and check in on this site as often as I used to. But this news broke my heart. Mom, my thoughts are with you and family.
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Momatt, I echo everyone's heartbreak and thoughts. Dani is free of the pain but that does not make it easier. We all support you here all over the world.. Thinking and keeping your family in my thoughts as well.
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I am devastated to hear this news. I feel sick about it. I don't know what else to say. Mom and Dani have become such a special part of this forum. Thank you for sharing your daughter with us, Mom. We all felt like we knew her and the support you have provided to her through this awful, awful time is immeasurable. I will be saying a lot of prayers tonight.
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Incredibly sad news, MomATT. Dani's case was the most unfair, so young, and not one thing they threw at her did anything to stop the cancer. And you have been through every step of it, too, the hopes and disappointments. Please take the time to fully grieve and care for yourself!!
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MomATT - I am so sorry to hear this news. I am still somewhat new to this site and not a frequent poster but I have followed your posts with admiration for your and Dani’s strength and love. I wish you and your family much support and comfort.
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MomATT,
I'm so very sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine what you are going through, but I do hope you receive comfort from all those who have surrounded and supported you through this entire nightmare.
Amy
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Heartbroken.
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Momall, it is with great sadness that I hear your news. I cannot even begin to fathom how you are doing. I’m thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers along with Dani’s family. I’m so very sorry for your loss
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MomATT - There is nothing I can say or do except share your tears. Sharing this with you.

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I read this last night and couldn’t even think. I am so devastated for you momallthetime and her girls. Having a young daughter myself I have felt close to Dani thru you and her decisions and struggles with what to tell her girls always had great meaning for me. I pray for you all. I wish there was more I could do but I am heartbroken for you and her husband and daughters. May her memory be a blessing.
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just still doesn't seem real. Mom we are here. We love you both. Our hearts ache so badly and there is nothing that we can even do to help. Much love ~M~
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i’m Just now seeing this. I send my deepest condolences. Mom—your fierce tenacity is something to behold. Reminds me of my mother. So I know that Dani felt such peace with you around because she knew that you would do anything for her. I’m sorry medicine failed her. I’m sorry her body couldn’t hold off the cancer any longer. My heart breaks for her children. But they will know their mother through you. Sending much love. Rip Dani.
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ohh I hate this damn disease. Sitting here sobbing 😭. It just plain sucks. Can’t believe we lost another amazing lady to this horrible horrible disease. It robs not only our lives but our family and friends lives are also forever changed.
Momatt. So very sorry for the loss of Dani. I am at a loss for words of comfort for you and Dani’s dds. I just have so much anger that still no cure has been found. You have been an amazing rock for her. I am just so very sorry.
Sending you much love and hugs.
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I'm with Patty. DAMN, I hate this &@%#¥ disease. I literally feel physically ill just thinking of you and Dani's babies. I'll just say it again.... DAMN, I hate this &@%#¥ disease.
Mom, I wish I could just give you a big hug and let you just cry or vent or whatever. Praying unceasingly.
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Louis
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Mom - I am so sorry to hear of Dani’s passing. Sending love
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Oh, MomATT, the things of this world that we will never, ever understand. What incredible pain and loss that just shouldn't be. Deep care and prayers for you, the girls and all of Dani's family and friends.
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MomAllTheTime - so many thoughts areswirling through my head right now and none are adequate. Your grief is beyond measure. We are all here for you. Sending much love and support to you.
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I'm just reading this now with tears streaming down my face with the passing of sweet Dani. Patty's and Louis' sentiments are mine. I hate this f---ing disease! Just so unfair. Words aren't enough to comfort, but know I hold you and your family in my heart Mom. Sending love and strength to you and family at this very difficult time. No longer in pain, rest in peace, dear Dani.
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Oh, MomATT... we love you. You did all you could. You fought for Dani, you loved her like a fierce mama bear, you made sure she knew she was supported and would never, ever fight this thing alone. I will never ever forget the beauty of watching you love your daughter this way. You were a blessing to her from the first day of her life to the last.
Those precious little girls--her best gift to you--hold them tight. They will keep you going.
Much love and continued prayers for you and your family.
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Mom,
I am so sorry for your devastating loss. I am sorry for the hole in your world that will never be filled. I am sorry for the pain you will feel from this day forward. I am sorry Dani doesn’t get to see her girls grow up and become women.
This is cliche and I can’t believe I’m gonna say it, but here goes....at least she is no longer suffering. Doesn’t mean she would not have rather continued suffering to stay in our world...but we know, with her passing, that her suffering is over. May her memory be a blessing.
Thank you for sharing Dani with all of us. It has been inspirational following yours and her journey. It is amazing what you have built here on this site with all of these women who loved Dani through you, and who love you for being the greatest bravest mom all the time.
I hope you will continue to come here for a while so we can lift you up and give you the support you will need.
Sunset (formerly known as Stef a joy)
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