Thinking of MomAllTheTime and Dani

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  • JFL
    JFL Member Posts: 1,947
    edited March 2018

    Mom, Dani and you are in my thoughts. The whole situation is just awful and you have support here. We are here to listen to the good and the bad. I hope that the right decision is made about what to tell the children and when. A dilemma for which no one knows the right answer. It feels so wrong to me that anyone has to be in a position to have that conversation with children. Something I struggle with too. Praying for a glimmer of hope to shine through all of the recent darkness.

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  • rpoole1962
    rpoole1962 Member Posts: 413
    edited March 2018

    Monall, Thanks for the update and your courage and strength to compose it.

    I understand about the Celexa all to well. I was crying all day everyday and could not get through a sentence when I was first diagnosed. I did realize it made me stop crying some, but I still cry a lot, so I don't feel to much like I have no emotions. But I do understand your point.

    I pray for you 2 strong ladies daily and believe something has to turn around. Is she still having the kidney problems?

    Much Love to Mom and Daughter,

    Robin

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  • Micmel
    Micmel Member Posts: 9,450
    edited March 2018

    thinking of you Mom and Dani~~ everyday. Hoping for strength and a positive direction pathed with improvements and strides to lessen her pain and yours as well,being the one who is trying to guide her and who is by her side! Never too far from our minds ever. ~M~


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  • melmcbee
    melmcbee Member Posts: 1,119
    edited March 2018

    Sending prayers and love

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  • AnimalCrackers
    AnimalCrackers Member Posts: 701
    edited March 2018

    Thinking of you Mom and Dani.  Sending love and support.

    Rpoole - how are you doing?

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  • josgirl
    josgirl Member Posts: 231
    edited March 2018

    I think of you and Dani all the time. Sending you strength

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  • zarovka
    zarovka Member Posts: 3,607
    edited March 2018

    Hey MomATT. Thinking of you.

    >Z<

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  • lulubee
    lulubee Member Posts: 1,493
    edited March 2018

    Sending love and saying another prayer.

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  • Iwrite
    Iwrite Member Posts: 870
    edited March 2018

    Thinking of you all. We're listening, praying, and holdingyou in our hearts. Loving our children is what moms do. Your love shows every day.

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  • jensgotthis
    jensgotthis Member Posts: 937
    edited March 2018

    hugs to you and Dani, mom. Thinking of tiu

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  • Almosthere
    Almosthere Member Posts: 197
    edited March 2018

    I can’t imagine your pain and helplessness as you watch your daughters body betray her. She must feel so trapped in a broken body. Bless you for your strength to be there for her.

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  • babs6287
    babs6287 Member Posts: 2,021
    edited March 2018

    TO EVERYONE

    It is so hard to tell you all but Dani passed in the middle of the night. There are no words!!! She fought so valiantly but her poor body just couldn’t take anymore. She tried so hard for her girls. I spoke with mom and she’s busy making funeral arrangements and flights so Dani can be buried in Israel.

    I truly hate this f. Ing disease. Dani leaves two young girls. Just soooo sad! May this beautiful and loving family know no more tragedies.

    Babs

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  • leftfootforward
    leftfootforward Member Posts: 1,726
    edited March 2018

    thank you Bans for telling us.


    Mom- I have no words except to say I am thinking of you and the family. I wish we were closer so you had us to lean on in those moments where you need to breath. Lots of love to you.


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  • Lynnwood1960
    Lynnwood1960 Member Posts: 1,284
    edited March 2018
    Babs, thank you for letting us know of Dani's passing. Such a difficult thing to do and it is much appreciated. My heart is broken for MomATT and for Dani's girls and family. Mom and Dani both fought with every strength of their being to beat this cancer. I literally have no words, just profound sadness.
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  • Kaption
    Kaption Member Posts: 3,192
    edited March 2018

    Tears and prayers. That’s all I have.


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  • Iwrite
    Iwrite Member Posts: 870
    edited March 2018

    Thank you, Babs, for letting us know.

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  • Kkrenz
    Kkrenz Member Posts: 100
    edited March 2018

    Mom - My heart is broken for you!  I pray for peace for you and your family.  I cannot even imagine your heartache and pain.  

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  • 50sgirl
    50sgirl Member Posts: 2,527
    edited March 2018

    Mom, There are no words that can heal your pain right now, no thoughts that can remove the loss you have suffered. I am so sorry. My heart goes out to you, and I lift you and your family up in prayer. You know in your heart you did everything you could for Dani. You left no stone unturned, researched every possible treatment, searched for the doctors who would not give up. You amazed all of us with your strength and love. Take time to grieve, but know that Dani is now at peace, and she is free from pain and suffering that she endured so bravely. She is now at peace. She will remain in the hearts of her family - her children you, your DH, and her sisters - forever. I pray that you from strength and comfort.

    Hugs and prayers from, Lynne


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  • Grannax2
    Grannax2 Member Posts: 2,551
    edited March 2018

    Of all the women who have passed on this forum, I felt like I knew Dani best. Through Mom's words, I felt close to them. I was just telling my friend about her yesterday. So many ripples from this horrid disease. Valiant Dani. Yes, that describes her.💔💞

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  • Southernsurvivor
    Southernsurvivor Member Posts: 632
    edited March 2018

    Babs - thank you for sharing this news, which I know wasn’t easy to do.

    Mom, my heart is breaking for you and all of your family as I read this morof Dani’s passing . Dani fought this disease, with you by her side every step of the way, with such incredible perseverance and courage. Your great compassion shined through your posts here and I felt your unbreakable bond with Dani through your words. May God provide you comfort and peace right now. We ❤️ you.

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  • Micmel
    Micmel Member Posts: 9,450
    edited March 2018

    OMG~ No!!!! just plain effing NO. This Just cannot be happening. Broken hearts. Broken souls. I am so so very sorry beyond comprehension of words. Mom. Dani. We love you. May you finally have no pain in your betrayed body any longer. 💔 I switch between such sadness and anger. Because it just isn’t fair. How can we get through this..... knowing. So many hearts are broken, not knowing what to do with such disappointment and sadness. We are here you are there, and I hate that. I want to have a drape of Love placed around you, just to shield you from such pain! Broken hearts everywhere.... with more love than I can express in words. ~M~ 😞😢😫💔

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  • Lindalou
    Lindalou Member Posts: 647
    edited March 2018

    Mom, Words can't express how sorry I am to hear of Dani's passing. Remember, you were her strongest source of love, and care that any child could ask for. We are here for you. Love to you and your family.

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  • bigbhome
    bigbhome Member Posts: 840
    edited March 2018

    Babs- Thank you for taking on the difficult task of letting us know about Dani.

    Momall- Words... You have been the bravest, strongest woman I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. Through you, Dani was so vibrant and alive to us. We felt her beautiful soul, her valiant spirit and her heroic efforts to stay alive for her daughter's! I trust Dani's hand will remain on her daughter's for the rest of their lives!

    From you, I have learned what a strong, loving and dedicated mother is all about! You are the quintessential mama bear and I wish that everyone had a mother like you. During this time of sorrow, please take comfort in the fact that you left no stone unturned in your quest to help Dani. That you were her rock! Surround yourself with your family as you make this journey to Israel, and know that Dani is at peace with our Lord. Also know that you are surrounded with our love and our prayers as well. Also, please, please take care of you! 🙏Your kindness and thoughtfulness have touched me in a way that is priceless! You and Dani will always remain in my thoughts and prayers!

    Claudia

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  • ChelleG
    ChelleG Member Posts: 540
    edited March 2018

    Mom, I am sending all of my love and strength to New York this morning. I love you and Dani as if you were my family.

    Chelle.

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  • rpoole1962
    rpoole1962 Member Posts: 413
    edited March 2018

    Momall,

    I am in tears over the news of Dani's passing. As someone before me has already stated, I felt I knew you and Dani best. I was always in awe the way both of you were so courageous, strong, and fought up until the very end. Mom you are one of a kind!!! You took on all the challenges and researching on behalf of your sweet Dani, who just wanted to be a Mom to her 2 girls. Prayers going up for you, Dani, and the whole family. Also prayers to all the wonderful sisters on this forum who loved you guys so much.

    Rest in Paradise sweet Dani!

    Much love and many hugs from Alabama!

    Robin

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  • SandiBeach57
    SandiBeach57 Member Posts: 1,617
    edited March 2018

    MomATT, because of you, the world has known your daughter and we grieve. Thank you for sharing your very personal story and family with us.

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  • ShetlandPony
    ShetlandPony Member Posts: 4,924
    edited March 2018

    My heart is breaking for Dani’s Mom, and for Dani’s daughters, and all her family and friends including us here. Momallthetime, your fierce, fierce love has made an impression on me forever. You were a lion, you were a hurricane. Your daughter was the same for her daughters. And now I know you will continue to be there for them, too. Dani is at peace. Please find some rest for yourself in the coming days. We love you.

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  • illimae
    illimae Member Posts: 5,710
    edited March 2018

    So so sorry to hear this. Dani will be missed and Mom, you have been incredible and inspiring.


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  • MJHJAN1014
    MJHJAN1014 Member Posts: 708
    edited March 2018

    So very hard to get this news. Mom-you are the best, and I pray for you to have the strength to get through the upcoming days. I can't fathom what the depth of your pain and grief must be. Sending love and heartfelt condolences to you and your family. MJH

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  • kachincolor
    kachincolor Member Posts: 118
    edited March 2018

    Babs, Thank you for the post letting us know about Dani.

    MomATT thank you for sharing your joy in your child and your heartbreak. To the many women on this forum who post frequently and bravely, thank you for sharing your wisdom, your courage and your support to MomATT and those of us who post less frequently. Each loss is devastating.

    Kimberly

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