December 2017 Radiation Group

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  • Redheadhere
    Redheadhere Member Posts: 22
    edited January 2018

    The lump area, not the rash area, is also a little itchy.

  • Rhyfelwr
    Rhyfelwr Member Posts: 88
    edited January 2018

    Reheadhere, if you think of your dermis as one huge organism over your whole body, if you are more sensitive to sunlight radiation, I suppose that getting that even in non-treated areas might make things itchy and red. I tend to get itchy and rashy when I am out in too much sun anyway, so I suppose that might get worse now that I have had rads. I will be interested in hearing how you do. Dh and I are planning a trip to the beach in March, and I'll want to be prepared.

    Meanwhile, I am jealous!

  • Redheadhere
    Redheadhere Member Posts: 22
    edited January 2018

    Ah, Rhyfelwr, thank you! Of course.....me being a massage therapist, didn't even put this connection together. Down here in Mexico we have pretty good creams from Europe so I've started applying one that is for skin cancer surgery recovery. I won't wear any type of bra over the next couple days and will monitor it.

    Hearing ocean waves is very soothing for me so I'm happy to be able to experience and enjoy this now. You'll have a great trip!

  • CindyNY
    CindyNY Member Posts: 1,022
    edited January 2018

    Redhead- could be from sweat...when I workout at the gym, sweating makes it itchy, but I'm still healing. Do the quick call to Dr and ease your mind. ENJOY that weather!

  • OCDAmy
    OCDAmy Member Posts: 873
    edited January 2018

    I have no thoughts on this Redhead I still feel itchy everywhere. I just wanted to say I wish I was on a beach in Mexico and glad that you are there!

  • Redheadhere
    Redheadhere Member Posts: 22
    edited January 2018

    You ladies ROCK!!! Thank you just for being here. It is so reassuring to know I could turn to you all and be given great insight and fellowship.

  • DownNotOut
    DownNotOut Member Posts: 99
    edited January 2018

    Wow, Lifechoices, you are gorgeous and I can just imagine you singing in church with your beautiful voice going up to heaven and blessing everyone around you!

    Sonia, hang in there! You can do one more day no problem! Praying for your skin as you finish strong...you are so close!

    PVM, I can see why a saline soak would HURT! Maybe the suggestion of a green tea compress would sooth prior to lotioning up? Plus time, of course.

    Redhead, I'm guessing you have red hair and know how to care for your skin in the sun, but do be extra careful! I wonder if the sunscreen is causing a reaction on your tender skin that is not quite back to normal yet? Inflammation can show up in all kinds of ways.

    And hello to all of you more experienced warriors who I love keeping up with. I love checking in and knowing how you are healing and moving on. You help those of us coming up behind you. Thank you for your inspiration and advice.

  • Ellyn27
    Ellyn27 Member Posts: 147
    edited January 2018

    Sorry I'm late to the party .... Gigibee, congratulations on finishing RADs!! I was by myself at my last appt and when I got to my car it hit me that I was finally finished and started crying my eyes out. My last RAD was Dec 22nd and although I didn't get RED like so many here, I got a pink/itchy spot that is healing nicely. My boob is still slightly pink all over and if I don't use my lotion (some times I put it on later in the day because I don't want to ruin a nice top) I do notice it gets pink. So I need to be consistent and keep up with the lotion.

    I forgot to show you ladies the bracelet/flask I bought myself. Remember when we were joking about BIG wine glasses and bottles a week or two ago, well I got this bracelet, as a joke of course. It's big, it's heavy, it's gaudy and I LOVE IT!!!! I don't really even drink. In fact my son asked me "why did you even get that?" and my response was "Because it's funny!!". I think it will make it's debut for the Superbowl party I'll be going to. I bought it on amazon. They had some that had these beautiful caps with rhinestones and all different colors. I went with the cheapest one since it is just to have fun with haha :) I haven't used it yet but I guess you use a funnel to fill it with your favorite beverage!!!

    The funniest part about this bracelet is that I ordered it thru Amazon Prime. It was delivered in 2 days and not by the post office, it was a special delivery. Well, I got a phone notification that it was delivered and I knew it wasn't because I was working at home and my office window faces the street. My husband told me to wait a day to see if it would come. Wouldn't you know it, my next door neighbor came over apologizing for opening up the package because it was delivered to their front door and they assumed it was theirs. They are new neighbors and don't know me .... at all. So now they see I'm ordering a flask type bracelet and I'm sure they're thinking I'm an alcoholic, when in fact I rarely drink. I felt like I needed to go over and explain myself hahaha

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  • lifechoices2017
    lifechoices2017 Member Posts: 242
    edited January 2018

    I LOVEEEEEEE THE BRACELET!!!!

  • DownNotOut
    DownNotOut Member Posts: 99
    edited January 2018

    Ellyn, your story made me chuckle! We trust that you don't have a drinking problem, and have a great time at your SuperBowl party...maybe you should invite your new neighbor so they can see the "real" you?

    Loopy

  • OCDAmy
    OCDAmy Member Posts: 873
    edited January 2018

    Ellyn, you will be able to get in anywhere you want now and drink! LOL! I would feel like such a rebel. I sometimes need that at work!

  • Leilals
    Leilals Member Posts: 37
    edited January 2018

    Hi Amy, I don't know if you remember me. We started chemo the same month. I just started radiation last week. It sounds like you are doing well. I am so glad to hear it. I became very Ill with chemo, due to type 1 diabetes. I am happy to say I am able to walk again. But, I've lost touch. I am feeling good now, rads seem really easy. I am having a really hard time with the exceptance of Tamoxifen. Was wondering if anyone here wanted to talk me off the ledge?

  • PauletteK
    PauletteK Member Posts: 2,205
    edited January 2018

    Ellyn, we wonโ€™t question you, donโ€™t worry! ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”

    Lei, welcome to the thread, Iโ€™m havent started Hormonal therapy and I will be on AI. Iโ€™m glad you able to walk, chemo must hit hard. Glad the tough time is over isnโ€™t it!


  • Georgia1
    Georgia1 Member Posts: 1,321
    edited January 2018

    Hi there Leila, and welcome. Are you having a hard time with accepting the need to take tamoxifen? Or did you start and get side effects? I absolutely did NOT want to take a daily pill, but now that I'm three weeks in, it's all so much easier than I thought. It was the studies about reducing the rate of recurrence that convinced me to just take the darn pills. I figured I could reassess in a year.

  • Georgia1
    Georgia1 Member Posts: 1,321
    edited January 2018

    Ellyn, that bracelet is the BEST!

  • PVM
    PVM Member Posts: 136
    edited January 2018

    Hi Leila welcome, i am sorry you became ill with chemo, unfortunately it does both good & bad to our bodies. Like Georgia said what is it that scares you about Tamoxifen? Is it that you are getting SE or don't want to take the pills. I have been taking it since Sept & can tell you that the SE are not too bad, they are tolerable & its nothing like chemo. My main SE is the hot flashes but i take the pill at night which helps. I do get stiff every now & then but its not constant & trust me its nothing like chemo. I think you need to maybe talk to your MO & see what is beneficial for you. I was not happy about taking it at first, read all the SE & thought the worst of it but honestly its doable & if it helps keep the ugly C away then i will take them as long as my MO suggests. Hugs & do what is best for you.

  • OCDAmy
    OCDAmy Member Posts: 873
    edited January 2018

    Leilas, oh yes I remember you from the chemo thread. It is good to hear from you!I'm sorry chemo was so hard for you and glad you are better now. I will be seeing my MO in the morning to start on an AI. I was in anestrazol before surgery and I did fine on it. Hope you make it through rads without too much skin issues.

  • Rhyfelwr
    Rhyfelwr Member Posts: 88
    edited January 2018

    I am glad to hear a little bit of encouragement about Tamoxifen. That is my next stop, a week from now. I am pretty sure that I am going to take it. I just have hard days when I feel so unwell that I just dread adding another drug and trying to live with that too. It makes the next ten years seem like a very long time.

  • Leilals
    Leilals Member Posts: 37
    edited January 2018

    Thank you all! It was a lonely road for me. Port gave out after 1st treatment, the rest were done in my arm. Type 1 and steroids = 500 blood sugars going into chemo destroys many additional cells. It made it an indescribable hell. Never thought I'd walk again. But, I am. I still have severe nerve damage in arm, legs. But, I'm just going to walk it off literally. Radiation has been a party compared. And I am so full of gratitude. I just found out I am getting 10 years Tamoxifen. Yes, I want it, I want to live. But, some of the s.e. sent me over. At fifty two, my favorite hobbies are hiking, reading and sex with my husband of thirty years. The thought of not walking for hours in the sun or my lady bits, shriveling inside and out and not having a sex life sent me over emotionally. It probably sounds shallow, but I want quality of life somewhat and my hair back. Everything I read is traumatizing. Does anyone have some good news? And again, thanks so much. I have 23 rads to go.

  • Leilals
    Leilals Member Posts: 37
    edited January 2018

    So glad we've all made it this far! Congratulations! Through out these months you have touched my heart more than you know.

    Thanks for calming me!

  • Leilals
    Leilals Member Posts: 37
    edited January 2018

    Ellyn that bracelet is priceless.

  • DownNotOut
    DownNotOut Member Posts: 99
    edited January 2018

    Leilals,

    I am so happy you have joined our group. What a rough time you have had, and I hope your course will be smoother sailing from here on out. You sound like a very determined lady and I love your attitude! I will also be on Tamoxifen and am worried about the SE's (we have the same hobbies ;)), but hearing what it is really like for real people is what gives me hope, and I am finding that here. God bless you, dear lady.

  • PVM
    PVM Member Posts: 136
    edited January 2018

    Leilals don't let cancer rob you of enjoying your life. You have & are fighting a tough battle but your already a winner!!!! We are all winners & deserve happy ever after. There will be new norms to deal with but you shall manage & I'm so sorry you had a hard road so far but there are better days ahead stay strong.

  • PauletteK
    PauletteK Member Posts: 2,205
    edited January 2018

    I always think quality of life is very important, Leila, the worse is over now life will be better!


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  • Leilals
    Leilals Member Posts: 37
    edited January 2018

    Thank you downnotout! So good to have friends to walk this road. Thanks for the chin up.

    You're absolutely right pvm, thanks. Once in awhile I tip over. Thanks for the hand up!

    I remember you from the beginning Paulette, hope is a powerful thing to share. Thank you. Love the saying.



  • CindyNY
    CindyNY Member Posts: 1,022
    edited January 2018

    Leilasl- I'm hoping the worst is behind you. Onward! You're proof of how strong you can be when the chips are down. HUGS to you.

    Ellyn- that bracelet is priceless! You could fill it with iced tea, ask for a shot glass at the party, fill it up & slam it back...what, 2 - 3 times. LOL love it.

  • MamaFelice
    MamaFelice Member Posts: 216
    edited January 2018

    Hi ladies!! I know many of you from the chemo threads (& many now in our Facebook family-- thank you Paulette)! And since I am finishing chemo Tuesday (๐Ÿ™Œ๐ŸผYay!๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿผ), I thought I ought to sneak around looking at the rads threads, and to no surprise, you are all just as loving, positive and supportive as you are everywhere else! I'm thankful to have become virtual friends with so many of you!

    It's Ellyn that I need to introduce myself to because that bracelet is beyond fabulous! I'm not a boozer by any means, but I love a good party chat piece-- plus I teach cooking classes and can hide olive oil in it or something because I always talk about how I am an EVOO snob and like to bring my own to restaurants!! ๐Ÿ˜œ Can you please share the Amazon link to where you got it? Does it actually fit well on your wrist? Maybe another pic with you wearing it??? ๐Ÿ˜Ž

    Anyhoo-- thank you all for sharing your rads experiences-- you make it all seem so "doable". I'm sure after I'm done with my rads in a couple of months, I'll be finding you all again on the hormonals threads!! Until then, best wishes and keep spreading all the positive vibes!! ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป

  • lifechoices2017
    lifechoices2017 Member Posts: 242
    edited January 2018

    GOOD MORNING AND HAPPY FRIDAY WARRIORS!

    Wait...aren't we supposed to be dancing for someone todayyyyy....SONIA! Step up to the dance floor...its gonna BE A LOVELY DAY!

    Leilas; hello there... If these ladies here dont have the answer; then there isnt one. And the support...WOW! Beyond wonderful...

    Ive been on tamox since Jan 1 and as PVM stated the only SE that ive had are the hot flashes; and as she said they arent that bad. I do find myself drinking more water now because sometimes I feel dehydrated; but that could be because of the 'after rads effect'. I also sometimes feel stiff when I sit a while but once i get up and get to moving im fine; no pain...just being 49 (lol)... But other than that I feel fine.

    Trust...if you've gotten to this point this pill is smooth sailing. And as the ladies have said; LIVE! I know that takes on alot to say that w/so many unknown fears but by now I think we can pretty much survive ANYTHING! My prayers for you to be strengthened mind and body... We're human so 'doubt' has a way of sneaking in... but we're also fighters and WE WIN!

    PauletteK im gonna try to get to your page today... not sure what was going on the other day... i'll keep you posted.

    LADIES FOR YOU:

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  • Ellyn27
    Ellyn27 Member Posts: 147
    edited January 2018

    Leilals - Don't stress about the meds. I've been on anastrozole (since I'm post menopause) since Jan 8th. I spoke with my MO about taking the meds because I was scared to death. They told me I may get no SEs and that you only read about people getting SEs because the ones that don't get any never write/post about it. Now I admit that I need to see long term how it affects me (like my bones, etc). My biggest concern was the SE of weight gain .... I was not having that!!! But, I've been eating better and doing more exercise and even started going to a nutrition class (at the survivorship center at the hospital) and at weigh-in this week I've lost a total of 3 pounds. I feel great!!! So don't stress about SEs. It's like those comercials on TV where they say could cause A, B, C, D, E, F, G ......ย  Just remember, you could have NO SEs as well :)

    MamaFelice - Here's the link to the amazon page for my new favorite bracelet/flask. You can search amazon for "bracelet flask" and a bunch will come up, some more $ and some less. I read the reviews for others and some said it was too big and some too small for their wrist. I liked that this one gave me measurements and I just went for it. I have thick wrists and this was no problem getting it on. It does tend to spin around since the cap pulls it. Keep in mind, it is clunky!!! hahaha This one claimed to have a patent for it and that it was food grade stainless steel. It was $20.

    ย https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B071WK36PR/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o00_s01?ie=UTF8&psc=1


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  • OCDAmy
    OCDAmy Member Posts: 873
    edited January 2018

    MamaFelice, Tuesday, YAY!! What a relief to put chemo behind you. I know you cold capped, did you keep your hair? Rads are easier than chemo but still challenging. How long did they want you to wait until rads start?

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