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  • Maire67
    Maire67 Member Posts: 768
    edited December 2017

    Dear Lita. Hang in there. Why is it always 1 am when you are asleep. MBC. The gift that keeps on giving. That’s one of the things I fear...losing control. My bladder is shot already but you just pick yourself up and grab a chux and Imodium and make it sound like “no big deal”. You are one tough cookie. Sending prayers your way.
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  • Lita57
    Lita57 Member Posts: 2,437
    edited December 2017

    It doesn't help that thanks to mets, I can no longer do Kegels or even FEEL my hoo hah. Everything is numb down there. I also have no control over my sphincter muscles anymore. They makes things worse when these accidents are imminent, but I just have to deal with it.

    The Imodium has helped, but I'm still going to eat the BRAT diet today just to be on the safe side.

    We're going to see the Star Wars movie on Saturday....sadly, no popcorn for me. That would REALLY do a number on my digestive system with things being what they are these days. Too bad again, because popcorn is one of the few things that doesn't taste metallic to me. The Taxol has really thrown my taste buds off. Even my favorite cereals taste (Life, Grape Nuts Flakes, etc.) weird to me. Sweets and chocolates are the worst....so I won't even be able to buy a little bag of M & M's at the theater. I guess I'll bring apple slices or a banana to snack on - what fun!

    L

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  • mara51506
    mara51506 Member Posts: 5,088
    edited December 2017

    Lita, when the Force Awakens came out, I was dealing with poop issues similar to yours. Like you, I was wearing adult diapers myself. I was unwilling to give up popcorn so I did have a small one. I did however load up on immodium before, probably 2 to 3 tablets before and another two after the movie. It completely blocked me up for a couple of days but was so worth to have that popcorn. I can't eat anything with peanuts anymore either. I think chemo ruins our GI permanently even with probiotics. I can eat most things but not chocolate or peanuts. I really miss those myself. Enjoy the movie Saturday even if you bring apples!


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  • Lita57
    Lita57 Member Posts: 2,437
    edited December 2017

    Mara, normally I'd just throw caution to the wind and EAT the damn popcorn, but I'm going out of town on Sunday, and I don't want any "episodes" while I'm traveling on the road. Of course, I might "cheat" on Saturday and eat two or three pieces of my husband's popcorn, but that's about it. Eating even a small container might be pushing it, and if I have any issues on Sunday, I'll have no one to blame but myself.

    L


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  • mara51506
    mara51506 Member Posts: 5,088
    edited December 2017

    Can't blame you there if you have other plans Sunday involving car travel. Enjoy the show at any rate. Hear it's a good movie.

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  • Beatmon
    Beatmon Member Posts: 1,562
    edited December 2017

    Lita: have you tried Lomitil! It has really helped me these last 3 years in Herceptin! It is prescription. I take two before leaving he house and another 2 if I eat in public. Rarely...it does too good if a job and I need Per Diem.

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  • annoyingboob
    annoyingboob Member Posts: 558
    edited December 2017

    I must have missed the post with mri results - smaller Mets? Yay!!

    May the force continue to be with you lita, and safe travels this weekend!!

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  • Iwrite
    Iwrite Member Posts: 870
    edited December 2017

    Good news on the smaller Mets, Lita!

    Hope you have a fun "event free" weekend

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  • Vargadoll
    Vargadoll Member Posts: 2,028
    edited December 2017

    Lita- good news and poo-news! So sorry you have to go through that! Enjoy your movie night! Sending love and light!

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  • babs6287
    babs6287 Member Posts: 2,021
    edited December 2017

    Lita so sorry for your recent bout. I recently went from pooping in my pants to trying to push out rocks. Can’t we just get a happy medium!

    Hope it’s under control now

    Babs

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  • artistatheart
    artistatheart Member Posts: 2,176
    edited December 2017

    Has to be the worse part of Mr. C is the poop issues one way or the other.......Haha Wendy, you crack me up!

    Hang in there Lita, smaller mets now, even smaller soon! Whoop whoop! Enjoy the show! Glad to know you are still getting out and about!

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  • zarovka
    zarovka Member Posts: 3,607
    edited December 2017

    May the force be with you, Lita.

    >Z<

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  • Lita57
    Lita57 Member Posts: 2,437
    edited December 2017

    Heading off to Half Moon Bay for a few days with a friend.

    Prayers for safe travel and no digestive "incidents."

    Thanks to my numerous tumors and spreading numbness, I no longer have full control of my bladder OR my anal sphincter, and have already had accidents this past week, as I chronicled earlier. I have to wear Depends ALL THE TIME now. I'm bringing a full package with me, so I should hopefully be okay.

    It really sucks, but THIS IS MY LIFE NOW. ((But at least I can still walk with my walker and talk in semi-coherent sentences...that could change any day, but let's be grateful for the faculties we still possess.))

    The Last Jedi was pretty good, and I think I only dozed off once, for a minute or two, so I didn't lose the forward momentum of the plot. Won't say anymore, but I liked the character development. Plenty of latitude for more sequels in the future.

    I may only check in once or twice while I'm away, so blessings to everyone.

    L



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  • molliefish
    molliefish Member Posts: 723
    edited December 2017

    I rarely pray Lita, but for you, I pray for a pleasant respite. Bless you.

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  • Lita57
    Lita57 Member Posts: 2,437
    edited December 2017

    Thank you, Mollie.

    Blessings back at you!

    L


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  • Wendy3
    Wendy3 Member Posts: 1,012
    edited December 2017

    Hugs Lita crossing all my fingers it goes well with the travelling. Safe travels

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  • babs6287
    babs6287 Member Posts: 2,021
    edited December 2017

    Lita I’m so glad you’re taking this trip! I hope you have the most amazing time!

    Bab

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  • Tina2
    Tina2 Member Posts: 2,943
    edited December 2017

    Safe and happy travels, Lita!

    Tina

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  • kachincolor
    kachincolor Member Posts: 118
    edited December 2017

    I don't post very often Lita but admire your grace and humor in dealing with all of side effects. I treasure how you hold onto gratefulness in what you do have. So inspiring. Grace made manifest. Have a fabulous adventure with many gems along the way.

    Warm blessings to you Lita,

    Kimberly

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  • Kandy
    Kandy Member Posts: 1,461
    edited December 2017

    Lita, have a wonderful time on your trip. Enjoy every moment.

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  • MJHJAN1014
    MJHJAN1014 Member Posts: 708
    edited December 2017

    Lita, you go girl! Best wishes for a great trip! MJH

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  • MinusTwo
    MinusTwo Member Posts: 16,634
    edited December 2017

    Lita: I too read every day but don't post often. Always sending positive thoughts. I was raised on the SF Peninsula and Half Moon Bay is one of my favorite places. Hope you have a great time. Somehow watching the Pacific Ocean always calms me.

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  • Lula73
    Lula73 Member Posts: 1,824
    edited December 2017

    Have a great time Lita!!

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  • Lita57
    Lita57 Member Posts: 2,437
    edited December 2017

    image

    Taken outside Nick's Restaurant in Pacifica, just north of Half Moon Bay. NICK's is an institution...been there since the 20s. Great crab sandwhiches and seafood. I had fish and chips.

    L


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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited December 2017

    lucious blues

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  • Beatmon
    Beatmon Member Posts: 1,562
    edited December 2017

    We will be waiting for word of your return....and the hugs and giggles you and your friend have. I have bail money if you two get into trouble! Have fun

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  • Kjones13
    Kjones13 Member Posts: 1,520
    edited December 2017

    beautiful! Enjoy

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  • Micmel
    Micmel Member Posts: 9,450
    edited December 2017

    Lita~ you are amazing. Enjoy your trip!!!! Be safe, make some wonderful memories!! I am so thrilled you're just doing it!!! Just like NIKE says. Just do it ! I'll be waiting to see pics along the way. Beautiful water. Absolutely wonderful! Big hugs and blessings your way.

    Lol at Beat mom about the bail money!!!! Adorable!! Lol

    ~M~

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  • DancingElizabeth
    DancingElizabeth Member Posts: 415
    edited December 2017

    Beautiful, Lita!!! (There needs to be a *like* button on here!!!)

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  • AnimalCrackers
    AnimalCrackers Member Posts: 701
    edited December 2017

    Looks beautiful! Enjoy! You are amazing

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