Starting Chemo January 2017

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  • MexicoHeather
    MexicoHeather Member Posts: 365
    edited January 2017

    Hi. I just came back in from a nice, 2 mile walk with my husband. I needed to walk off some annoyance.

    I had the experience today of speaking to someone on the phone who minimizes what I am going though. "Just 11 weeks and you are done. Yipee!!"

    Um, crap no.

    That's all. Have a nice night, ladies.

  • newt72
    newt72 Member Posts: 16
    edited January 2017

    Just wanted to remind anyone who is interested that I have set up a "secret group" on facebook if you would like to join it in addition to this group. Please send me a friend request AND a message either on FB or here with your real name and I will add you. You can find me on FB as Cher Cline Newton.

  • lps
    lps Member Posts: 3
    edited January 2017

    I start tomorrow - Taxotere, Carboplatin, Herceptin, and Neulasta for the white blood cells. I will admit to being quite anxious especially about the (admittedly low) risk of permanent hair loss. I think that would be really tough. But that answer is a number of months off so no point in getting worked up about it now, right?

  • Dayzeroze
    Dayzeroze Member Posts: 36
    edited January 2017

    it's scary. I'm thinking of tou

  • SkiChick86
    SkiChick86 Member Posts: 55
    edited January 2017

    Good luck tomorrow lps!!

  • dp1
    dp1 Member Posts: 21
    edited January 2017

    evening all, today was treatment #3 and it went pretty good. They were backed up today with emergencies so I was stuck there for 5 hours. What really freaked me out was Tuesday night around midnight I had the worst gallbladder attack. After 7 hours I finally went to the ER. (Had them before, usually over in 2).i got scared something else was going on. The pain was unbearable! Had ultrasound done, no blockage gave me IV fluids,pain & nausea meds, felt much better. I had talked to my surgeon about removing my gallbladder earlier this year. Doc said they would have to stop chemo if they operate now. I am not stopping chemo and will pray that my gallbladder behaves itself. Just what I need, another problem to worry about. When it rains, it pours! But did I mention that today's treatment went good!!

    Hope everyone is doing well and plugging along

  • Goincrzy8
    Goincrzy8 Member Posts: 387
    edited January 2017

    I agree dp1 when it rains it pours. I have not had one good dr appointment where things are they way they are supposed to be. I should have had chemo by now. Met with surgeon today and he is putting in port tomorrow. I thought I would start chemo next week. Had echo last week and ct the week before. No calls from the MO that anything is out of wack. I met with RO she gets the CT REPORT sees a cyst or something on the kidney wants me to see urologist. Do you think the MO should have seen that never mentions it until tonite at 5 pm when I am sitting in Surgeons office. Now she wants a bone scan cause their may be something in the bones and if so that is a different protocal. I am so frustrated with this process and I am in the medical field. Someone is dropping the ball and I am not getting treated and this is so unfair

    ty for letting me vent

  • Alffee
    Alffee Member Posts: 5
    edited January 2017

    Hi everyone! I thought I'd pop in to introduce myself! My name is Amy, I've been reading through so many posts on the message boards here, especially this one as I too started chemo on January 11. It's so nice to hear about everyone's experiences and advice! My side effects weren't horrible after my first treatment. Some days were definitely better than others but I feel pretty lucky. The fatigue has been hard to get used to since I feel tired all the time. My hair is starting to come out pretty quickly now which is tough to see. They told me it would start at about two weeks out but I was hoping to be the exception!! I keep telling myself it's only hair and it will eventually grow back and stay focused on the long term result of being a survivor!! I already have a couple of wigs. I have to say I don't really like how they feel on. I don't feel like myself. I'm sure I'll get used to them. My daughter is home from college this weekend so we are going to shop for some hats with hair sewn in. I thought that would be better for quick shopping trips. I look forward to getting to know you all as we go through this crazy journey together!

  • dp1
    dp1 Member Posts: 21
    edited January 2017

    Hi all, sorry to hear about your recent setbacks goincrzy8. Just remember we will persevere and get thru these trying times. I get frustrated but have learned to just face one day at a time. And definitely use this wonderful message board to vent and let it all out! We are all here to help each other.

    Welcome Alffee, glad the treatments are tolerable at this point. I know the hair loss must be very disheartening . I am not at the wig stage yet, but have a couple waiting. Your right, they feel odd on my head too. We are probably just not used to wearing them.oh well...

  • Jens74
    Jens74 Member Posts: 9
    edited January 2017

    good Morning all!

    I just put A C number 3 in the books yesterday and I Have a tip for anyone struggling with the ice chips during A. They were contributing to the nauseous feeling I would get during the push. Try using lemon Italian ice! My nurse was done in 20 minutes instead of the 30 last time.

    Hope this helps some others out there!

  • ThisIsMe4Now
    ThisIsMe4Now Member Posts: 12
    edited January 2017

    Good morning Ladies!

    Lps- hope your chemo session went well. We have the same chemo drugs.

    Goincrzy- I'm so sorry to hear that this process is taking so long. I was feeling the same way, but decided to bug the crap out of everyone. My last MO visit was the 19th and I had to have a CT, echo and port before I could start chemo, the earliest date for chemo start being 1/27. I got everything scheduld and done this past week after teling the onc nurse to open up other facilities so I can have more flexibility in when I can have these procedures done or else it would have been another week or so. It's very frustrating because you would think they know time is of the essence. Get the number for your MO, the urologist and the onc nurse who should be helping you. Someone is definitely dropping the ball on your care and it's not fair to you. Good luck! Chemo will be soon!

    Welcome Alffee- Sorry to hear about how youre feeling. I will most likely shave my head this weekend. I feel like I can control my emotions better if i take some control. We'll see how it goes. I'm sure I'll still cry like a baby as it's shaved off. The nurse at the chemo center said she is always surprised at how good people look when their hair comes out and I can't help but think that won't be me. Lol. Oh well. I'll be wearing lots of beanies and head scarves (if I can manged to tie them correctly).

    Hi Jens74- Congrat on #3 being done. How wonderful! Great to also hear it took less time. Hope you are recovering well!

    As for me, I had my first chemo session yesterday (1/27) of HTCP. It took 6 hours! But everything went well except for a snag in the beginning. I had my port placed yesterday and it was still quite sore and painful, so it didnt help that it took 2 tries to get IV access. I was in tears! But the nurses were so sweet about it all. I also got a little warning about maintaining and or gaining weight. I lost 8 lbs after the initial diagnosis and surgeries and Im petite. I told them it wasn't on purpose obviously and the stress and recovery was hard. Now I have lots of family and friends pushing food at me. Its sweet but Im hoping they dont get too cared away. I'm feeling pretty well today. Took my anti nausea meds to stay on top of it and lots of water. Hoping for the best in the next week but know the fatigue will start after the steriod wears off.

    Hope everyone is doing well!

  • Alffee
    Alffee Member Posts: 5
    edited January 2017

    Good morning all!

    Thisisme4no - Glad to hear your first session went well. I had my port put in 2 days before my first treatment and understand that soreness. Did they give you numbing cream to put on an hour prior? They gave me some cream and told me to put Press and Seal on over it to keep it on until I got to the center for treatment. It worked for me as I didn't feel the needle go in at all. I felt great for the first 2 days and had a ton of energy! I have lost about 5 pounds after the first treatment, mainly because I had some stomach issues and wasn't eating much and my taste buds have been effected as well. Unlike you, I can stand to lose some weight so I look at it as a positive of all this!! Let me know how it goes if you decide to shave your head this weekend. I've read some decide to opt for a close buzz cut instead but not sure if that eventually falls out too? I'll probably just shave it all off and get it over with. I know I won't last more than maybe another week at the rate it's falling out. Fortunately I have thick hair to start with so the thinning may take a little longer. I'll be thinking of you as I know it will be very emotional. Good luck this week - I hope things don't get too bad for you!

    Goincrzy - I too am sorry to hear about the delays in your treatment. I can't believe under the circumstances they don't push things along - when you get this diagnosis, all you want to do is start killing it. It makes me feel fortunate I haven't experienced that so far. I was diagnosed on 12/15 so I had the holiday schedules to deal with but was able to have all the tests, MRI, EKG, CT and Bone scans done, port put in and have my first treatment on 1/11. I hope things move along faster for you.

    Have any of you had an issue with watery eyes? The past couple days my eyes have been watering like crazy. I read that can be a side effect. It's annoying more than anything. I'm hoping it goes away quickly. I also am noticing that my skin is incredibly dry. I'm going through lots of lotion

    I hope you all have a great weekend! I'm off for some more wig shopping!

  • Goincrzy8
    Goincrzy8 Member Posts: 387
    edited January 2017

    My lesson I learned yesterday. Do not wear a pull over shirt when you get port installed. I was not even thinking till right before they took me back, I told my son and BFF I wore a pull over shirt, I dont know how I will get that on as the port is on the right side and my MX on left. Thank goodness my cousin gave me a black hoodie that has the F*** Cancer logo (not real happy about wearing that cause I have grandkids etc) but it saved me last nite after surgery. I was able to put it on zip and get home.

    Nurse navigator and I met face to face yesterday she came to hospital before I had surgery to meet me. She is working on getting things moving, PET scan scheduled for Friday. Hoping for a clear scan.

  • Camarillomom
    Camarillomom Member Posts: 9
    edited January 2017

    Hi, I am starting chemo this Monday. I was diagnosed with HER2 breast cancer so Im doing chemo for 6 cycles then double masectomy. I would like to join your group if possible. Thanks

  • lps
    lps Member Posts: 3
    edited January 2017

    So, chemo round #1 was yesterday and more or less uneventful! The steroids taken before the treatment is throwing off my sleep, which is not helpful, but that is about the worst so far. I find the Neulasta device a bit odd to have attached but it completed its cycle this afternoon without problems. So, so far so good. As others on this site have had luck with the dark nail polish to prevent nail problems, I will give it a try as well. I am assuming it is only your hands that you need to worry about to polish and not toenails? Any guidance would be great!

  • ThisIsMe4Now
    ThisIsMe4Now Member Posts: 12
    edited January 2017

    Hi ladies!

    Alffee- I didnt get the numbing cream but will definitely for next treatment. They blasted the area with a cold spray but it didnt help with the pain much. I'll let you know how the head shaving goes.

    Goingcrzy- Glad your port is in! Mine is still tender after 4 days so I'm hoping it'll heal up soon. Hoping you have a clear scan too!!

    Camarillomom- Welcome. Sorry to have to meet this way but you are among great company. Good luck tomorrow. It may be a long day but hoping things go smoothly for you.

    Lps- yay for chemo #1 being over! I feel relieved that the first one is over too. I don't have neulasta but have zarxio, which i have to inject myself on day 3-5. My sister helped me with it today. Something about giving yourself a shot. Lol. I'll have to look into the nail polish also.

    Hope everyone is enjoying their weekend!

  • kmk40
    kmk40 Member Posts: 42
    edited January 2017

    2moveforward, I am also receiving weekly taxol/herceptin. I just wanted to let you know there is a weekly taxol/herceptin group on here that I follow as well. It's more targeted to my treatment as far as side effects, things to look out for. It's titled "who has started herceptin and taxol regemin in October 2016?" in the Her-2 positive forum. Good luck to everyone this week.

  • 2movefoward
    2movefoward Member Posts: 6
    edited February 2017

    Hi, thisismenow, my first chemo treatment went fine --slept through most of it (5 hours). Bless my daughter, she sat there and did work on her laptop the whole time.  The only SE I found were gas/bloting, head ache, controllable but uncomfortable.  The port is still a bit sore and then they added fluid to my expander boob. My daughter was watching and said Mom I literaly watched your boob deflate (when they took the air out) then inflate.   You gotta laugh at what our bodies are willing to handle!!

    Bless you all and God get us through.

  • Sadiesservant
    Sadiesservant Member Posts: 1,995
    edited February 2017

    Hi All,

    I'm a bit late joining but started Taxol last Friday (January 27th). I am on a three week cycle, unless neuropathy becomes a problem at which point I will probably go to weekly. In my case, we're trying to get those nasty cells under control before I switch to hormone therapy for what I hope is a very long time.

    In terms of SEs, I have had some nausea but believe that is primarily due to the pleural effusion in my right lung. The last two days I have had the aches and pains. I had to laugh as they told me I needed to let them know if I had pain in my leg. What kind of pain? My left leg was killing me!

    The biggest issue for me has been my bladder. I think the problem was that I did not drink enough fluid before, during or after. On Saturday I had that wonderful burning sensation and urgency. Now, it's just the urgency and I general level of discomfort in my nether region. Anyone else have this problem? I am not sure if I need to let them know at the Cancer Agency.

    Thanks. Pat

  • illimae
    illimae Member Posts: 5,710
    edited February 2017

    Thanks for all the well wishes. After my severe allergic reaction to taxotere, we tried taxol weekly on 1/16 and sure enough, it happened again. Flushing, heat, pain and bp of 176/112. For my 3rd try, I asked for abraxane weekly based on what I've read here and there, I had it on Monday 1/20 with no issues and so far no side effects other than an odd boost of energy. Here we go, finally

  • MKT1
    MKT1 Member Posts: 3
    edited February 2017

    I began CMF chemo on Jan 19, 2017. Did not have a port. Arm was sore from chemo IV for about a week. My "kitchen counter pharmacy" managed side effects pretty well. I'm scheduled to have a port put in next week, then have second round of chemo the next day. Does that sound doable to those of you with a port? Part of me wonders if I could get through 5 more treatments without a port

  • ThisIsMe4Now
    ThisIsMe4Now Member Posts: 12
    edited February 2017

    Sadiesservant- Sounds like a possible uti. I'd let your center know just in case. I tell them everything at this point. Better safe than sorry is my approach these days.

    Illimae- sorry to hear of your allergic reactions and glad to hear you found the right drug.

    MKT1- welcome and glad to hear your side effects are being managed well. As for the port, I dont think I would have had one placed if I didnt need the additional year of IV herceptin. I would have just endured the arm poke. Also take into account the lab draws before each treatment. All the pokes add up. My port was placed last thursday and its still uncomfortable. Guess its as much as I can expect with a gagdet that sits under your skin. Lol.

    As for me, I had a rough last few days. Had a fever of 102.6 on monday and had to spend the evening in the er. My lab work was fine and they think its a viral infection. Then today the GI issues started. Imodium isn't helping much but I'm staying hydrated. Hoping this is the worst of it and it goes away soon.

  • BG46TN
    BG46TN Member Posts: 286
    edited February 2017

    MKT1 I'm visiting from Nov chemo group...I will be have having chemo #6 next week and I have done them all with no port, just used my veins. It is possible if your dr thinks you have "good veins". My MO was the one who said I didn't need a port, and he said we can always revisit lt later if we needed to...my veins have been pretty good. I did have one "harden" after they used that same vein 2 chemos in a row (with AC) they probably should have rotated...but oh well, its not bad...now they rotate each chemo to a different vein, back and forth between arms (I did not have surgery yet) if you had surgery already you are better off with a port since they can't use your surgery side arm.

    Good luck to all of you starting out soon!! The actual chemo day is not that bad...very uneventful LOL I had very minimal side effects so far through all of this, pretty much just very tired, my advice, take the nausea meds like clockwork!! keep that under control...drink lots of water and fluids (soup etc) and rest when you feel you need to. Take a stool softner or Senokot starting the day before chemo, constipation has been the worst during all of this!

    If you get Neulasta, take the claritin to help with the bone pain.....I also found that getting the on body put on my belly made me have way less side effects (the first chemo I had it on my arm....HORRIBLE bone pain that time)

    I am working through this whole ordeal (teacher) and I swear keeping my routine as "normal" as possible has been great at keeping me positive (and helps the time go by faster) I also have 3 kids who keep me busy, another reason I try to keep things as normal as possible...

    I have only had to miss work for my chemo days or dr appts...I think I missed 1 day for just not feeling great.....

    Good luck to all of you!!! You've got this!!

  • MKT1
    MKT1 Member Posts: 3
    edited February 2017

    To- ThisIsMe4Now...Hope you are feeling better. I hate hearing that you had such a difficult time. Xoxox

    To- BG46TN....Good point about the port. I have already had surgery, so I can only have chemo in left arm. That is probably why they think I'd be better with a port. Guess I'd like to avoid another procedure....but maybe in the long run, it will be easier with the port.

    Went to the cancer center this week to look at wigs. They are going to get it ready, (body wave, low lights etc) but they can't cut it until I either buzz my hair or lose more. I wasn't ready emotionally to buzz it, so they will have it ready if and when I need the wig.

    Next week is port on Wednesday, second chemo on Thursday....sounds exhausting, but we all seem to discover that we are stronger than we think.

    Hope everyone has an uneventful, restful day....

  • MexicoHeather
    MexicoHeather Member Posts: 365
    edited February 2017

    It's Day 18. My scalp is itchy, but I am trying not to touch it. Also, I have this one uterine fibroid that has just been throbbing, "Hello!"

    I did do some sewing today. I have a Pfaff machine.

    Thanks for the explanation about the port. They wouldn't be able to switch arms because of the lymphedema risk. I have not really come to terms with the port being there.

  • bareclaws
    bareclaws Member Posts: 345
    edited February 2017

    MexicoHeather, shout out to another Pfaff lover! I think I have three here right now, including the one my mom bought in 1951. Trying to get back to sewing, too. It's a good distraction. Third AC today. Looking forward to having that in my rear view mirror.

    Ports are a good thing. I can't imagine dealing with any sort of complication without having had the port. It saved me.

  • HoneyBeaw
    HoneyBeaw Member Posts: 212
    edited February 2017

    Bareclaw and Mexico Heather , glad to know you two are getting back into sewing. Im not here yet, while I love sewing , sadly it just does not interest me right now . I have to find something to interest me right now, just to relieve the stress and anxiety.

    Just wondering how many of your ladies are working while going through chemo and how are you handling it all . I'm seriously thinking of going back to work after I see how my second round goes.

    If some of you could please share you working and chemo experiences Thanks

  • SkiChick86
    SkiChick86 Member Posts: 55
    edited February 2017

    Hi Honey Beaw. I have chemo (AC) every three weeks on Tuesdays. I take the full week of chemo off - Monday to get my life together, Tuesday for chemo, and the rest of the week to rest and recover. I had my first chemo last Tuesday and I honestly didn't need the full week off (but I'm going to keep taking it!). I felt fine Wednesday and Thursday morning and only started experiencing symptoms Thursday evening. I also had very, very minimal symptoms in general so I might be an exception. I am now 10 days out from chemo and my blood cell counts have dropped and I am definitely very tired so working the last few days has been hard.

    I would say if there's flexibility with your job go for it! You may find some days are great and others are tough, but as long as you feel able to call in sick on unexpectedly hard days I don't think it shoudl be a problem. I have found work and being around people to be a really, really nice distraction.

  • HoneyBeaw
    HoneyBeaw Member Posts: 212
    edited February 2017

    Skichick

    Thank you for your reply, yes my counts also dropped mostly my platelets, so that worries me a little about going back to work and just being to tired to work , I don't want to go back only to have to take leave again, yet I need to get out of the house and do something. I have a desk job but it can be demanding some days.

  • MexicoHeather
    MexicoHeather Member Posts: 365
    edited February 2017
    Well, my hair started to fall out, so I pulled some off and left it in the woods. I hope nobody from Finding Bigfoot finds it! ( It was supposed to be for birds, and for me, so I do not get sad today.)

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