Misdiagnosed / delayed but turned out ok?

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Jojo0529
Jojo0529 Member Posts: 193

Anyone have any stories ????? Need some encouragement....

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  • Moderators
    Moderators Member Posts: 25,912
    edited January 2016

    Hi Jojo -- could you share what's going on so others can weigh in with their experiences? What have you been misdiagnosed with?

    Hope we can all help you feel better!

    --The Mods

  • Jojo0529
    Jojo0529 Member Posts: 193
    edited February 2016

    hello,

    I had a lump that my primary diagnosed as benign- never sent me for a biopsy. He was sure it was b9- mamos missed it because of the location (high on my chest). 4 and 1/2 yrs later- idc as you can see by my signature. I feel horrible that I did not insist on a biopsy and took my doctors word for it. I actually feel kind of dumb. I was positive it would be all over in every lymph node. I felt like it was a miracle that my nodes were negative. I feel alone because I have never read a story or heard of a story like this.

  • SummerAngel
    SummerAngel Member Posts: 1,006
    edited February 2016

    There are quite a few women on this board with similar stories, if you read around the board a lot you'll see them. Generally, cancer takes a while to grow, and some tumors are more likely to spread than others. For example, my left side tumor was 2.2cm when I was diagnosed and because it was slow-growing I likely had cancer in my left breast for 10 years or more before it was removed.

  • farmerlucy
    farmerlucy Member Posts: 3,985
    edited February 2016

    Jojo - I so know what you mean about feeling "dumb". I knew with my family history I was high risk but still I "let" cancer catch me. I felt really stupid and foolish until I finally accepted the fact that I did everything I could and so did you. Also my IDC should have been found in my 2009 excisional biopsy, but we didn't get it until 2012. I'm four years out now and doing great. In fact I was just thinking about a way to celebrate my upcoming cancerversary. Birthdays - ha - not really into celebrating them. Cancerversaries - Oh yeah - love them!

    You're gonna get through this but it is a process. Gentle hug.

  • coraleliz
    coraleliz Member Posts: 1,523
    edited February 2016

    Jojo- I went to my PCP 3 or 4 years prior to my diagnosis because I had 2 enlarged lymph nodes in my armpit. They weren't huge but you could see them when I raised my arm. I was sent to a BS & she sent me to get an ultrasound. The radiologist came to talk to me afterwards. He said I had 2 isolated & slightly enlarged nodes. But since my mamogram 1 month prior didn't show anything, a biopsy wasn't necessary. I was ultimately diagnosed & those 2 nodes turned out to be positive. This was my left breast. This cancer was only found after I was diagnosed with BC in my right breast. I was sent for a MRI which picked up my more advanced tumor.

    My anger & frustration has lessened over time.



  • marijen
    marijen Member Posts: 3,731
    edited February 2016

    I also have/had cancer in right breast and palpable node in the left. They did an US but said it was nothing because of no increased vascular activity. No biopsy.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited February 2016

    Hi Jojo, I think I've seen you on here before. So my story might sound familiar. I have had breast problems for about 10 years, starting with microcalcifications that turned out benign after a stereotactic biopsy. I then developed multiple cysts starting around 2008 or 2009, which showed benign on an MRI. After that, I was just monitored with mammograms (stupid me didn't ask for ultrasound). In May of last year I had my cyst aspirated, again benign. But it revealed a lump behind it that looked suspicious. In September I insisted on a biopsy because of my brother's breast cancer, and it came back positive for IDC. So I don't know how long it's been there hidden, but my guess is that it started between 2009 or 2010. I only had one 4mm lymph node positive, because the tumor was slow growing. Oncotype came back low risk so I opted for hormone therapy and no chemo. So I hope that and the other women's stories give you some comfort! You're going to do fine!

  • Leighku
    Leighku Member Posts: 26
    edited February 2016

    Jojo....I cab totally relate to how you are feeling. March 2013 I felt a lump on the side of my breast. Went to OB the following week. Said it was probably just an infected/enlarged lymph node but sent to get tests anyway. Had mammogram and ultrasound. Mamm showed nothing. Ultrasound showed 5mm enlarged benign lymph node...or at least that is what I was told. Sent home saying no additional tests needed. May or may not go back down. Routine mamm in April 2014 showed 2 areas of concern. Ultrasound showed previous spot measured 1.5cm. Second spot about 5mm. Biopsy in June 2014 showed IDC. After mx I realized the small spot was actually 2.2cm and my primary tumor. Even had a third small spot of IDC. Cancer center radiologist pulled up the images and said he would have called them suspicious and sent me for biopsy hen. Oh how I wish I would have listened to that voice in my head and asked for more tests. I am so angry I was misdiagnosed and the worst part about my diagnosis has been accepting the feelings of regret I have. I would have been in a much better position had they found it 15 months prior to my dx. You are not alone.

  • wintersocks
    wintersocks Member Posts: 922
    edited February 2016

    Very similar story here too. Can't even bear to repeat it

  • Leighku
    Leighku Member Posts: 26
    edited February 2016

    Wintersocks...I know how you feel too. It brings up all the feelings of regret each time I repeat the story. I do it a lot to try and help get the word out about dense breasts. I want my friends to know that a clear mama does not mean no BC...they have to be vigilant, demand ultrasounds and/or biopsies and listen to that voice in their head. Hope you're doing well.

  • Optimist52
    Optimist52 Member Posts: 302
    edited February 2016

    I think I've replied on another of your topics. Similar story for me, diagnosed with ILC in 2003 at age 40, then regular annual mammograms and US for nearly 12 years and then I found a lump, turned out to be 4cm. I actually had clinical symptoms (inverted nipple and itching on breast) which no doctor took seriously. It was only after the fact that I found out that ILC usually needs an MRI to diagnose it. No doctors ever suggested that I have one, even though I had already had ILC before. I have to make a conscious decision to not be bitter and resentful about all this.

  • Jojo0529
    Jojo0529 Member Posts: 193
    edited February 2016

    thank you summerange

  • Jojo0529
    Jojo0529 Member Posts: 193
    edited February 2016

    thank you farmerlucy ❤️

  • Jojo0529
    Jojo0529 Member Posts: 193
    edited February 2016

    thank you coral... Summer's response re some tumors are more likely to spread than others gives me hope... I guess some could be found quick but be really aggressive... I am counting my blessings; however, a part of me would like to take my sliced up breast tissue and shove it down my ex dr's throat

  • Jojo0529
    Jojo0529 Member Posts: 193
    edited February 2016

    thank you optimist ❤️

  • Jojo0529
    Jojo0529 Member Posts: 193
    edited February 2016

    xoxoxo lovingislivin

  • wintersocks
    wintersocks Member Posts: 922
    edited February 2016

    LeighKu

    The dense breast thing I now understand the importance of. I did have biopsies and ultrasounds and mammo, all came back negative. I was later told that it is possible to 'miss' the cancer area, or even go 'through it' to reach a non cancerous area, the correct depth being the determinant in 'pulling up' the cancer cells.

    I did have a very pronounced lymph node at this time and i wish I had asked for an MRI. I was told that I most likely had an infection and that was the cause.

    Some time later stage 3.

    I hope you are doing well too, I always get some comfort when people understand. Thank you,

  • Luvmybengal
    Luvmybengal Member Posts: 2
    edited January 2017

    Hi - my first time posting. It has been a crazy year. I was diagnosed with stage1a IDC breast cancer. I had 2 different biopsies, lumpectomy, centinal node removed in Feb. day before I was to start radiation mapping, onco surgeon called and said they now think it was never cancer. Path said malignant, cancer hospital moved forward with that finding (they were not same company). In march had the sux. In may, they said uh it was never cancer. So, now I am left with 2 different size breasts, pain with numbness and tingling. They removed a perfectly healthy lymphnode, I have a permanent sponge in one breast as a filler to the area they removed. Most of all I am having severe anxiety issues. I know that I am very lucky for the fact it was NOT cancer, but I am still dealing with issues of what ifs, about my future and I haven't slept well since. I have been going back and forth as to whether or not I should seek legal consultation and file a claim against the pathologist. I have heard of being misdiagnosed with negative results when in fact it was cancer. Mine is just the opposite. I amstill having emotional, mentaland physical issues from the entire experience. Anyone gone thru this?

  • Moderators
    Moderators Member Posts: 25,912
    edited January 2017

    Hi Luvmybengal,

    Welcome to the BCO community.

    Sorry that your circumstances of a misdiagnosis has brought you to us but we're really glad that you found us and decided to join.

    Just letting you know that you may not receive any responses to your post here as this thread has been inactive since February of last year.

    Wishing you a peaceful and happy 2017,

    The moderators.

  • BarredOwl
    BarredOwl Member Posts: 2,433
    edited January 2017

    Hi Luvmybengal:

    If you have not already done so, I would immediately seek an independent second (or third) opinion pathology review. Actual physical slides prepared from all biopsies and surgeries, and copies of all associated written reports, should be provided to an independent institution for review. For this purpose, many choose an NCI-designated cancer center (confirm insurance coverage and in-network):

    https://www.cancer.gov/research/nci-role/cancer-centers/find

    Here is some information about seeking a second opinion from the main site (see index at upper left, for multiple additional sections regarding the process):

    http://www.breastcancer.org/treatment/second_opinion/why

    Best,

    BarredOwl

  • farmerlucy
    farmerlucy Member Posts: 3,985
    edited January 2017

    I wonder if your sample showed any atypical hyperplasia, which is sometimes a hard call between it and DCIS. My onc did say IDC was easy to identify because of the staining the pathologists do. I'm sorry this happened to you.

  • Luvmybengal
    Luvmybengal Member Posts: 2
    edited January 2017

    Thanks for all the responses. I have had a 2nd and 3rd opinion and just had my 6 month mammo, everything was clear. The slides were sent to md cancer center in Houston (the best of the best I was told) and their breast pathologist cleared it. I'm very thankful I'm am okay but still having pscycological issue with it. I'm angry, worried that I still could actually have cancer, scarring, disfigurement and severe anxiety because of everything I went thru. 😔

  • BarredOwl
    BarredOwl Member Posts: 2,433
    edited January 2017

    I am sorry you had to go through all this.

    Whether any particular case may be actionable or not in a court of law on its facts and/or is worth pursuing would be a question for an expert medical malpractice attorney, as well as related questions of theory of the case, local time limits for filing suit, proper venue, defendants (named or added by third parties), matters of proof, potential damages, chances of success, etcetera. The applicable time limit for filing suit varies from state to state and by the nature of the case, and you should probably seek an initial consultation with an attorney to find out what it is in your case and how much time you have to decide.

    BarredOwl

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