Single Mastectomy or Double?

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KentRunner
KentRunner Member Posts: 25
edited August 2016 in Just Diagnosed

I was just diagnosed with breast cancer last month and will start with a mastectomy of my left breast at the end of August. So far I'm considered stage 1 with no spread to the lymph nodes. My MRI last week showed a little "something" in my right breast. They don't think it is anything to worry about, but I will have an MRI biopsy next week to check. If it turns out to be nothing, I could spare my right breast and just have a single mastectomy on the left. I'd like to know from others if they recommend a single mastectomy or if a double is better just to be safe. Do women who had a single mastectomy regret not taking both because now they look uneven? Is a single better because it's less invasive and could mean faster healing? Has anyone elected to have a double mastectomy and regretted it? I hope you can understand my questions. I just want to make the right decision. If that little "something" is cancer, then I know they are both going away. Thanks!

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  • Momine
    Momine Member Posts: 7,859
    edited August 2016

    This is a complicated question. According to medical statistics a prophylactic contralateral mastectomy confers no survival advantage, so the current recommendation is to leave the healthy breast (assuming it is healthy) in place.

    However ...

    1. When I was DXed, I was told that the surveillance on the supposedly healthy breast would be some sort of scan, alternating between mammos, US and MRI, every 3-6 months, and "if we see anything we can just biopsy it, don't worry!" I hate needles, serious needle phobia, and I detest scans. I just knew that this kind of schedule would cause me endless anxiety and misery. But that is me and my neuroses. Someone else might shrug it off.

    2. Esthetics - some people are totally good with one breast. For me I knew the asymmetry would bug me no end. Also having both gone, I can go flat or wear fakes of whatever size shape I want.

    3. Lobular cancer. When they assured me lefty had no cancer, they had done mammo, US, MRI and CT on it. Lobular is sneaky and often evades detection for a long time. I chose BMX, supposedly prophylactic on the left, except that the pathology report found LCIS and various othe pre-cancer.

    Downside:

    1. Boobs are sex organs. No boobs at all definitely changes your sexual functioning.

    I miss the breasts sometimes, but I have no regrets

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited August 2016

    Kentrunner, This is a difficult decision for sure, even without the medical concerns (which momine covers well). I chose a BMX without hesitation simply because I wanted to give myself the best possible prognosis. (I'm only 47 now.) It was recommended to me that if I wanted reconstruction, I delay it, which I did. I have lived flat, with a prosthesis, and am now undergoing reconstruction. I do not regret anything I've done in terms of my course of treatment. IF you think you will want reconstruction, consider the fact that it is harder to match an existing breast, rather than creating two new ones. But, I don't have sensation, so you have to weigh if leaving one breast with sensation is important to you.

    Best wishes to you and good luck with the upcoming biopsy and all that you have ahead of you. Hugs!

  • dtad
    dtad Member Posts: 2,323
    edited August 2016

    Hi there. So many difficult decisions while navigating this disease! I had a BMX with one being prophylactic. My reasons were symmetry and difficulty in screening. My breasts are very dense and my ILC was missed on both the 3D mammo and U/S. It was only picked up on a preoperative MRI. Also although the survival rates are the same, the local recurrence rates are obviously lower with a BMX. I have no regrets. Hope this helps and good luck...

  • NancyHB
    NancyHB Member Posts: 1,512
    edited August 2016

    KentRunner - as others have said this is a difficult and highly personal decision. I chose to have a unilateral mastectomy a couple weeks ago with immediate DIEP reconstruction. Having IDC meant I had little chance of contralateral disease, unlike ILC where it's much more likely. All tests and scans show my right breast is clear and healthy. I thought about a double mx for the sake of symmetry but couldn't justify (to myself) removing a healthy breast that had little risk. Additionally, as Momine points out, I wanted a breast with sexual sensation if it wasn't a risk to keep it.

    I was originally dx four years ago and had lumpectomy, chemo and radiation. I had a local recurrence several months ago that required chemo again. I had to do the mastectomy because I couldn't do radiation again. I am acutely aware of the risks of recurrence, and I'm still 100% confident in my choice.

    Good luck to you, and I hope your other breast turns out to be clear if any disease.

  • Moderators
    Moderators Member Posts: 25,912
    edited August 2016

    KentRunner, we just want to welcome you here, and second everything that the others have already said. We're all here for you.


  • Momine
    Momine Member Posts: 7,859
    edited August 2016

    Wildtulip, the question of age is also relevant. There is some evidence emerging that in younger women, CPM may confer longterm survival advantage: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/24606434

  • msphil
    msphil Member Posts: 1,536
    edited August 2016

    hello sweetie i had L mast reconstruction didnt work my body rejected expander ive been wearing prothesis but have no complaints Praise God i am. 22yr Survivor my Faith got me thru and plenty Hope. Positive thoughts like 'i Will get thru this'. msphil idc stage2 0\3 nodes Lmast chemo n rads and 5 yrs on Tamoxifen God Bless Us All

  • leftduetostupidmods
    leftduetostupidmods Member Posts: 620
    edited August 2016

    I also had very dense breasts and diagnostic mamogram showed areas of suspected DCIS. My pre-surgery diagnosis was stage 0 (DCIS) as shown by stereotactic biopsy. Due to the large area affected (shown by breast MRI), I chose mastectomy, and as I didn't want to deal with this later again if it came back in the other breast, I chose bilateral with the left one prophylactic and went the skin-sparing way.

    You can see in my signature what was the final pathology - I was NOT a stage 0 but a stage IIB with a 3 mm tumor in the sentinel node. And the left breast had large areas of tissue in the pre-DCIS and pre-LCIS stages.

    Don't get me wrong, I am not saying "do this" or "don't do this". All I'm saying is that you never know what is in there until it's all out. And sometimes not even then, you may get surprises later. It's all luck or lack thereof.

  • Trvler
    Trvler Member Posts: 3,159
    edited August 2016

    May I ask why you opted for a mx instead of lx?

  • KentRunner
    KentRunner Member Posts: 25
    edited August 2016

    I have six small cancer sites that are not close together. They spread out over two quadrants. My surgeon said that due to the distance between them, it would be best to have a mastectomy.

  • KentRunner
    KentRunner Member Posts: 25
    edited August 2016

    Thanks everyone for your input. I should find out the results of my second biopsy tomorrow. I think I need to take a class in cancer terminology and abbreviations since I don't always know what everything means. I don't even know officially what my diagnosis is. I know I'm ER+/PR+ Her2-, but that's about it. So much to learn!

  • Momine
    Momine Member Posts: 7,859
    edited August 2016

    Kent, fingers crossed for good results. Let us know what you decide and how you are doing with it all.

    The learning curve is STEEP! I read and research for a living, but trying to learn everything about breast cancer in a few short months was pretty daunting. These boards can help. Also think about friends or acquaintances with some medical background perhaps, just to have someone knowledgable to bounce things off. Finally do watch out for the piles upon piles of misinformation on the interwebz. If it sounds too good to be true, assume that it isn't true. I wasted a lot of time digging through info on supplements, Gerson therapy and baking soda concoctions.

  • LM070917
    LM070917 Member Posts: 323
    edited August 2016

    I was 34 yrs old at dx and opted for single mastectomy. I'm now nearly one year out and although I do think about potentially getting the other breast removed, part of me thinks why would I undergo more invasive surgeryand stress on my body when I have a perfectly healthy breast. Sure I'd like to eventually look symmetrical, but as I get older wonder if it's really worth it. As long as I reduce my BC risks, (which I didn't before), maybe just maybe it won't happen again...

  • KentRunner
    KentRunner Member Posts: 25
    edited August 2016

    Thank you Lottemarine. That is where my thoughts have gone as well. To update everyone, the biopsy on my right side indicated no cancer, and my BRCA testing came back negative. It was about time I received some good news! After giving it a lot of thought, I decided I just didn't want to remove a healthy breast when, according to my surgeon, it wouldn't decrease my chance of getting breast cancer again. I was really struggling with the idea of not having any feeling in my breasts, and at least for now I will have one that "works." I know the symmetry will be a bit off, but hopefully I can get things to at least have a balanced appearance under my clothes. Maybe after I experience a mastectomy and the healing process afterwards I will wish I had had it done, but I'm choosing to think positive and hope that I can put this all behind me sooner rather than later. My tentative surgery date is September 7.

  • Momine
    Momine Member Posts: 7,859
    edited August 2016

    Kentrunner, I am so glad about your good news and that you have been able to reach a decision. I wish you a quick and easy recovery.

  • Suzanne50
    Suzanne50 Member Posts: 280
    edited August 2016

    I had a single one year ago. My oncologist wanted me to have a double, my breast surgeon didn't feel it was necessary. It is a very personal decision! I made the decision to have a single quickly and then had many discussions with my BS and MO about the second one. In the end I decided to not have another mastectomy. I couldn't see putting myself through all that again. I am monitored very closely. I am on tamoxifen. My BS told me I had a .05% of getting cancer in the other breast a year. This would be a 20% chance over 40 years. I know statistics don't mean much if cancer returns but the odds are in your favor. Again - very personal choice but I do not regret my decision.

  • Trvler
    Trvler Member Posts: 3,159
    edited August 2016

    Best of luck to you!

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