My (perhaps controversial) thoughts as a "newbie" to CA.
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labscientistmom, Sophia's bee-you--ti-ful! Dig the play toy. Her markings are fantastic...her fur looks so soft...and I love her curling tail!
Yes, the leash can get snagged....loved to see Mr Tibbie dragging his around.....was so funny! t
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Not a great picture but here are my two girls . The black one is now about nearly 5. She is very tiny. The orange fluffy (long story behind that one) is 11. She had her femur shattered after being hit by a car when she was about 4. We call her our 6 million dollar kitty.
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Molly50--Awwwwwwww.....look at how sweetly they're sleeping together.....sometimes I wish I had another kitty....to play with Miss P etc. But my little apartment is only big enough for the three of us: me, Miss Panty, and her fur!
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JBeans, how cool that you are getting into beekeeping! Let us know how it goes.
Thanks, everyone, for the kitty pictures! They are all so cute!
Trill, sorry you are having to deal with the car accident scam. Hopefully, it will all just go away. it is very weird, though. I would try to call the police department and ask for a copy of the police report.
Best to you all on your upcoming surgeries! In all of your pockets! (There is enough of me to go around. LOL.)
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Hi DisneyGirl16--
I haven't heard anything from State Farm..the gal who came and took pictures said it would take about 5 days for things to get processed....am crossing my fingers I don't hear anything.....that SF puts the ka-bosh (sp?) (don't know what this means or if it's even a word but love the SOUND of it!) on things....thing is, the police didn't make a report...I think she said they were called but no report (but if the person who hit this gal did run a red light and hit her wouldn't that--because it's a violation--have necessitated at least the issuance of a ticket to the driver? And if this gal did suffer some personal injury--maybe that came to light after the accident--again, wouldn't that plus the red-light-run have caused at least some police involvement? There are so many questions..... the whole scenario is so bizarre.....
t
(ps. How are you liking your Tumbling Block?)
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Trill, that is very interesting that there is supposedly no police report. I would think there would have to be one. If not, how did they get your information (even if by mistake). As you said, I would think the offending person would have received a citation for the red light violation and/or the accident. I think I would call the police department and see what they say (is there really no report) and I would tell them what happened to you (in case there is a scam going on).
I love my tumbling block! I resist playing with it too much but it is on my shelf and I like to pick it up and move the blocks around to make it look different and put it back up.
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Glad you like my fuzzy ones! I have to put two cents in for State Farm, I had an accident where I hit the car in front of me while stopping at a signal because someone cut me off as I was changing lanes. so my front passenger quarter panel hit their back driver quarter panel. Not even a straight on rear end. 3 high school girls in car. mom of one worked for lawyer. They sued for terrible injuries. State Farm was pi^^ed at them, said they would take it to court cause these were the bogus cases that made insurance rates high. The jury found in my favor, State farm had expert witness from originial crash dummy scientists.
They specialize in putting the kabosh on bad juju in insurance claims. I bet you will be fine and you will have a great story to tell.
Molly50 love the napping kids. My two will rarely do that. usually there is too much poking and biting. We had a main coon that looked like your orange and white. His name was Copper. blessings, A
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DisneyGirl16--
Some years ago a fellow resident scratched my car as he was backing out of the space he had next to mine and I took some fill-in paint and did a self repair of it--sort of. But when he did the same thing the following week I did find out who he was and contacted him about it. He denied it. THEN I called the police. They came and looked at all my before and after photos--about fifty!--that I'd taken of both incidents. Via the man's (his car even bore white paint from my car, at the exact height of the scrape on mine...) license the policeman was able to find out his info--name, addy, insurance co. Then he went to the man's apartment and talked with him and the man admitted to hitting my car. The police said, "Well, if you hadn't admitted it to me here and now I would have cited you for hit-and-run." THEN I called the man's insurance company, feeling 100% assured this would all be cleared up soon, and found out the man DENIED IT TO THEM! Said he'd been at the food store when this happened.....blah blah. I sent all my photos to the insurance company and I think I recorded a statement over the phone regarding all details. After this I did get $$$ from them for the repair but of course this meant a trip to Annapolis to meet with their damage adjuster etc--and lots of palaver until it finally ended.
I write all this because the police DID come and gathered info on the striking car off the license plate, gave this to me, talked to the man, and then left--no report issued. So I guess it depends. He would have issued one had the man continued to lie.
So I wonder if that's what happened here--cop took down info, gave it to gal hit, and then left. But the clear violation of a red light run does I think make a difference....
Am so glad you like your cube! I do the same with mine--take it and spin and turn it awhile, then get a new side showing and put it back. It's just too tempting to keep playing with it...and I don't want to tempt fate!
labscientistmom, good to hear your State Farm story...wow, you really went through it! Glad SF handled it for you and all turned out fair and square... I just hope this does what a puddle of water will do so fast on a hot highway: dry up!
t
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P.S. A little addendum to add to the car saga: Today I spoke to Carrie, the gal handling this "claim"--and I really mean those quote marks--and she said that the woman I allegedly T-boned or that T-boned me (don't know which) said I was inebriated.
Of course!
It can be no less!
Carrie feels they have no case.
Right:
no evidence!
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Well of course that would explain why you don't remember hitting her or getting your car repaired (emphasis on SARCASM)
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Molly50-- Hah-Hah! Exactly---so THAT'S why that whole day is a blank! I even have it marked on my calendar:
May 30: "Day shot--complete blank! Forgot everything that happened! Forgot the booze, the red light, the T-bone, the police, the repair shop!"
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Well, we are getting older and the less we drink the more we forget! Good thing you made note of it on your calendar Trill or you would have lost all recollection ofthe fun you had! 😜
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Mama raccoon brought all her kits out to visit us tonight. They are so stinking cute! Hubby wants to make a coat out of all of them for me. They ate to cute for that!
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WenchLori--This has got to be one of the neatest things i've seen in ages! Wow! Look at those fluffy boys and girls! Aren't they the healthiest and happiest looking creatures you've ever seen??? Thanks so much for sharing this....you've made my day, week, month.
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Hello everyone! Lots of luck and love to all. Especially all those lovely cats.
And, a BIG hug, no wait, scratch, okay now a BIG BiG hug to Miss Pantaloon.
Thanks for the encouragement with the bees - I checked yesterday and saw the queen out and laying eggs. Yay
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Hi JBeans---
Congratulations on your queen bee!!!
Miss Pantaloon just said she'd love to give her a hug!
Wait.
Um, now that I've explained to her just what a queen bee IS, and added that she's laying eggs, she took that back.
"No, no, no..." she said. "Don't interrupt her....she's busy laying her eggs..."
Never one to admit her limitations, she then strolled off....
Oh, Pantaloon. I can just see you hugging a bee....
Here below is Miss P in one of her favorite spots. I'd just stripped my bed to put on clean sheets, letting the one headed for the wash fall on the floor. Miss P was right on it. She loves any fluffy thing to settle into....I tell her it's her nesting instinct, that she's always on the lookout for a place to have her kittens.
She says she doesn't want kittens, she wants bees.
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Oh my goodness Trill! Miss Panty is a character just like her Mama! You make me laugh every time!
JBeans, I'm glad your bees are proliferating! This world needs more bees! This was the first spring I'd seen any bees near our fruit trees. The peach tree was covered in bees and now the tree is covered in peaches. There were no bees near our apple or pear trees and none of them produced this year??? Very strange.
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Bahahahahahahaha!
Miss P - you can have bees. Tell your mom Trill I said so. :-)
Tell Miss Pantaloon that I think she is quite clever to nest in the fluffy pile of sheets. Far more clever than my dog Zaky who always manages to hop on the bed and "ghost" himself as I put the top sheet on. He laughs at me every time and thinks it's funny that I have to start again.
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Lori and JBeans---Between bees and kitties and Zanky and raccoons--we have ourselves a menagerie!
That's so good to hear, Lori, that you had more bees in your peaches--and can't understand why no pears or apples! What goes???
One day Pantaloon let me make the bed with her in it. She was on the new sheet and just let me over-lay the top sheet and the blankets--it was winter--including the electric blanket...it was so funny...I was just wanting to see how far she'd let me go--and she let me do the whole thing without moving. I had to lift things and eventually get her out. She's such a rascal.
Here she is in her favorite spot, my now-rotting shorts.....and those big ole paws with their claws held on tight...
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This spring I’ve seen more bees than in the past couple of years--and consequently, our tomato plants are already beginning to bear! We might be able to pick one from the Early Girl by next week, if the squirrels don’t get it first--anyone else driven to rage when the one perfect tomato you were gonna pick ends up instead on the ground with ONE bite taken out of it, left to rot? Hopefully, the little marauders won’t come up onto the deck, where we’re growing them this year because it gets more sun than the usual patch. And our raspberry canes (mostly black, some red) are already fruiting, though still green. Gonna have to go out there with gloves and long sleeves to pick them (those thorns mean lymphedema flares waiting to happen). Might get a couple of gallons this year!
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ChiSandy-- You're making me hungry talking about all those goodies erupting in your world! Wow....
I know the feeling of that favored tomato that goes plop! and ends up bitten on the ground....
Remember ads on TV selling those upside-down tomato planting devices? Aren't they in bags and the vines come out of holes--or am I thinking of a nightmare I had last week?
I remember standing in my uncle's field eating tomatoes right off the vine--hot and sweet! What a treat.
The other day I bought a hothouse tomato at Safeway--a good-sized one to cut and slap onto a bun with some Hellman's--and it was over $2.00! For one tomato!
We finally had a garden out in our field--my dad even got asparagus going!--but early on it was my uncle who was the garden champion. Almost every week he'd cross the road and set down paper bags full of corn and tomatoes and squash....Sometimes after one of these treats came our way my parents would load us into the car and we'd go off to a creek off the Severn where a family named Haas caught and sold hard crabs. We'd get a bushel and come home and my father netted and tonged the crabs into the steam pot (I never liked watching this too closely....) (once a crab eluded his net and tongs and took off for the woods....poor thing didn't stand a chance out there but did at least have a fleeting glimpse of illusory freedom and safety...)
While the crabs steamed and the corn cooked, we'd open newspaper on the kitchen table while mom sliced those big fat tomatoes and filled glasses with iced tea...
We didn't have air conditioning but I think even if my parents could have afforded it they would have said "No." We loved the windows being wide open and gentle fans running (the exhaust fan in the attic blasting away like a hurricane--although downstairs you couldn't hear it, thank God) and the smell of new-cut-gras wafting in the windows as we cracked crabs and picked out the meat, smiling at each other with our eyes, our teeth too full of crab to smile the regular way! It was messy and smelly and wonderful and when it was over it was just a matter of scooping up the mess in those newspapers and stuffing the whole thing in the trash cans....
I remember my aunt making garden lima beans, cooked til they were nice and soft...my aunt added milk and pepper and somehow--didn't watch what she was doing--made it creamy...sounds weird but it was so good!
JBeans--Tell me, are you planning on having honey? ( I would imagine so--dumb question, Trill). How does that work--when will you see honey, etc? And pass on an apology to Zaky that I misspelled his name.....
t
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I had a dog who loved tomatoes. When I had them growing in pots, every time a nice big one would be almost ripe I would look out the window after letting him out and he would be sprawled out in the grass blissfully eating my tomato. I tried bargaining with him. I told him he could eat all the cherry and yellow pear his little heart desired if he would please leave the slicers. If I gave up and picked them pink the cat would get up on the counter while I was at work and roll them off the counter to the dogs.
The Southern thing I miss is fresh black-eyed peas being available at the grocery store. They used to put them out in huge heaps on a table and put paper grocery bags by them to fill up. It took a lot of peas in pods to make a pot. I spent a lot of time shelling them with Mom and Sis, or often sitting on the porch with my Granny helping her. She liked shelling peas. The only place you can get them now is the farmers market and they are always in pint bags, already shelled.
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MelissaDallas--I love your story of your cats rolling tomatoes off the counter...I've never heard of a dog loving tomatoes--that's a new one.
Speaking of summer delectables, we used to pick poke salad out in the woods and mom would cook it like spinach...I loved it and ate not just mine but my brothers' helpings--they weren't such keen fans (I only recall my older brother eating one thing and that was tuna fish sandwiches.....and maybe now and then when the tuna ran out just plain mayonnaise sandwiches...). This would "make" dinner for me but I'd pay the price with a couple of bouts of diarrhea (Mom would warn when she saw me sneaking forkfuls off my brothers' plates, "Hon,that's going to go right through you..." And it did).
I loved shelling peas.....
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My granny picked poke salad and I know I have had it ar her house, but don't remember what it tasted like. I liovecollards, mustard & turnip.
I had a cat that I got as a kitten from the pound where I lived which was next to a town that was predominantly Seventh Day Adventist. His favorite things were french cut green beans and canteloupe. I awakened to weird noises one night and thought someone had gotten in the house. The cat had gotten on the counter and was dragging a pullman sized loaf of bread down the hall. I swore the cat was SDA, because most of them are vegetarians
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MelissaDallas--
What's SDA? I'm acronym challenged!
Your funny tale of the bread hauler reminded me of my first cat, a Maine Coon I named Doggie. He was an outdoor-indoor cat and to keep some kind of track of him I took a metal milk jug cap and punched a hole in it and put it on his collar, so it made this loud clunk-clunk sound as he walked. One day I heard the distinctive clunk-clunk. It was a delightful summer early evening and I had the front door open. The house had about a dozen wide front steps and his clunking had a pattern to it--something was hitting each step, a rhythmic thud-thud-thud. In a minute or so here came Doggie, lugging this paper bag, which he dragged into the living room and plunked down in front of me. Inside was an empty amber fifth of whiskey bottle...
I asked my vet one day what was going on with Doggie bringing me things and he said, well, this is what they do--go out and hunt for prey and bring it back to the tribe.
After that whenever Doggie did this I'd make a big deal out of appreciating and thanking and ooo-ing and aaah-ing over his gift...
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SDA-Seventh Day Adventist
I'd rather have the whiskey bottle (too funny) than unhurt live baby bunnies. He brought me those too...
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Wow...baby bunnies..that would have been something else...and unhurt! What a cat!!
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The first one was "uh oh" and let's find a shoebox. The second was "oh crap, he's found a nest." Followed him and put them back and kitty got locked in the house for a while
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That must have been hairy...I mean furry...so clever of you to suss it out and then lock the boy up....
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One day last week I found a dead mouse just outside the front door. I asked my DH if he put it out there from one of our mouse traps? He said "No, why? Where was it?" I told him and his reply was "Great it must be from one of your feral cats! I was hoping they wouldn't start liking you that much!" I spit soda out my nose!! Boy did that hurt!!!
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