Lumpectomy Lounge....let's talk!
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Jclc83, if you don't mind me asking, was your skin reaction in areas that were directly exposed to rads? Right now, I am looking at only the breast being in the field and I am trying to get a handle on whether just the breast will get pink to burnt or if it spreads to other areas. Also did you use any specific cream for it and when did you start applying it.
My RO recommends miaderm and their site says to start applying a week before Tx starts. I'm trying to get a feel if this is a good strategy. If anyone else has anything to offer, I'm all ears.
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I have been trying to keep up with all of the posts on this thread. it is one of my favorites that I try to make sure I read every day.
Nancy, so sorry to hear about your positive nodes.
Jan, congratulations on finishing rads.
I am now 8 weeks post-surgery and just had my radiation mapping today, so I will be starting next week. i had hoped to start several weeks ago, but my insurance denied the doctor's request to use IMRT (intensity-modulated radiation therapy) so now I will be getting 3D conformal radiation therapy. The nurse today said that there really isn't much difference between the 2 but the side effects could be greater with the 3D. What type of radiation therapy did you ladies have?
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DisneyGirl, I had the standard 28 whole breast and 5 boosts. No issues with it. Good luck to you!
HUGS!
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Oncotype DX test for invasive IDC and Oncotype test for DCIS are two different beasts.
The Oncotype for IDC looks at 21 genes and predicts the risk of a distant recurrence at 10 years with 5 yr of tamoxifen alone & with tamoxifen + chemo. In this test, an algorithm is used that takes all 21 genes into account to calculate the risk score. Chemo becomes an issue because the possibility exists that a cell may have escaped the breast even with negative nodes to cause a recurrence at a distant site.
The Oncotype for DCIS looks at the 21 genes but only includes 12 of the gene results in the algorithm to determine the risk score. It is important to note that the DCIS risk score predicts the risk of a local ipsilateral event at 10 years and an invasive local ipsilateral event at 10 years.
Since the DCIS being tested has not broken out of the duct and has not spread to the nodes, predicting risk for a distant recurrence is a moot point.
If you have a DCIS and a recommendation comes down for chemo based on an oncotype test, you need to make sure the right test was done and ask a lot of questions with respect to how useful chemo will be since no cancer cells have spread outside of the duct.
Everyone is different and everyone needs to make a decision based on their specific cancer and their own personal comfort level. That being said, I just want to make sure everyone understands the differences between the two tests when they are making their decisions and are in a position to ask their MO's specific questions.
I apologize if I sound preachy or offended anyone. That was not my intention.
Note: When I was at the Oncotype DX site, I signed in as a health professional to see the actual data. If more info is needed to navigate to the inks I posted, let me know.
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njnancy, so sorry to hear your news. I agree with with Brutersmom, Molly50 and Peachy on getting a second opinion from an academic health center. If a trip to Sloan for that is doable for you, it is a good choice. They are cutting edge and have a critical mass of pathologists, BS, PS, and RO who only do breast cancer day in and out. They have each other to discuss cases with and they can also bring cases before the tumor board to solicit much discussion on treatment options.
I work at an academic health center with a cancer institute and breast center and I punted on them due to a lack of critical mass. I drive 1hr 45min down to Hopkins. At the very least, Sloan can make MO and RO recommendations to your local team.
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froggie, I had breast-only rads. I've got two more boosts to go and my skin is holding up very well. It is a little red under my arm and under my breast, but it does not hurt. The reason you might get red under the arm is because of the angle of the beam. They radiated my breast in two positions, called tangents. I am using Miaderm lotion as recommended by my RO. It is great stuff. Not greasy at all. It comes in regular and with lidocaine. I have only used the regular. I called my PT about my shoulder. He is retired now, but will still give me advice because we are hiking friends. He gave me some simple pendulum exercises to do which are helping, but I think they will really help once I'm done with the last 2 sessions.
Jan, congrats on finishing rads and here's hoping for quick recovery!!
DisneyGirl, I don't know what they call my standard type of radiation therapy. I think it is just called 25 whole-breast treatments plus five electron beam boosts to the tumor bed. Welcome!
Peggy, there is no bell at my place either. Boo.
Sloan, my RO said that many patients get second opinions at the Univ of San Francisco center.
njnancy, I'm sorry to hear that you had positive nodes. I don't remember - are you getting an oncotype score? With PR- cancer I would not be surprised if your cancer team recommended chemo just on that basis. PR- cancers tend to be a little more aggressive. But still very treatable. I had the same feeling as you when I first considered having chemo. All I could think of was no, no, no!! But now that six or seven weeks have passed I have come to terms with it and I'm ready to start chemo soon. It won't last forever is how I'm seeing it.
Peachy, I chuckled when I read that you had to drive 50+ miles to a better center, because I drive 50+ miles to get to my "local" center! I'm used to it because I've worked in that town for 28 years.
Welcome to Amhess, April and anyone new I missed. I don't have enough time tonight to respond properly because I after rads tomorrow I'll be camping at the Carrizo Plains, and I'm getting ready! I think there will still be some spectacular displays of wildflowers out there.
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My planning session with the RO is tomorrow, When I saw her 3 wks ago, she called the health physicist while I was with her and put him on notice she had a bilateral case coming up and to start discussing and eliciting opinions from his colleagues on how best to calculate the fields.
I also met with her before deciding on LXs. At that time, I thought I asked all the right questions but now I am hearing from other bilateral ladies that their ROs weren't able to adequately protect their sternum area where the breast fields overlap so their ROs chose the more aggressive side to treat and hung the other breast out to dry. Well that is not acceptable. That will be one of the first questions that I ask tomorrow.
Since I need to have both sides done, that will be double the area so I am also worried about nausea. RO also thinks low blood counts may be a possibility and fatigue has the potential to be a lot worse.
She recommends miaderm and their website recommends applying it a full week before rads begins. Has anyone here done that and if you did, do you think it helped.
I take relafen for chronic pericarditis and it has a sun sensitivity warning on it. A lady in the forums here posted several years ago asking if anyone had taken that particular NSAID during rads. No one responded. I sent her a PM and asked if she changed to another NSAID during rads. She was kind enough to respons - she didn't but she burned badly but as she pointed out so do a lot of women who do not take the drug. I asked the pharmacist at my local drug store and he didn't know. I actually walked over to the hospital pharmacy and asked there but they didn't know either. Well I can't blow up my pericardium to TX cancer so I guess I will stay on the relafen. I failed on 4 other NSAIDS before I got to this one so I don't have a lot of options.
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Thanks, Moondust. Did your breast swell a lot? I found a cotton bra on line but it is pricey. I hate to lay out that amount if the boobs are going to swell and I can't fit into it after a session or two. Last time I saw the RO, she was going with the short protocol of 15 reg rads and 4 boosts. Since I'm doing both sides that will be 38 total. Based on my pathology, everyone was expecting my Oncotype scores to be low. Now that they are both in the intermediate range, I don't know if she will stick with the short protocol or switch to the traditional one. Guess I will find out tomorrow.
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froggie, I hope your RO will be able to advise you about what to take for your chronic pericarditis. Mine asked for a list of every single medication and supplement I was taking and reviewed them with me. I wonder if they could just do one breast, let you take a break, and then do the other one.
I did not start the miaderm until the day before rads. Good luck tomorrow!
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Froggie, lots of unknowns for you
Where are you located? That doesn't show for you. Hopefully whatever protocol is used, you'll sail through with no problems.
HUGS!
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Dear Iammags, LovingGrouches, and April1964: Happy Birthday to all of you. (coming up). I will now get back to reading pages of lumpy posts.
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Dear Amhess: Yay for benign. The seroma (?) will go away. Other people will address seromas. I did not have one so I can't comment.
Dear Nancy: I am so sorry for the positive nodes. I will say a prayer for you.
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Dear Balding, Disney, and anyone else who is new: Welcome and I am glad that you found us. Good luck, hugs, and prayers to you.
Dear JCLC: Yay for completing rads and getting on with your life.
Dear Froggie: You are a wealth of information. I would do radiation to both breasts at the same time rather than staggering rads tx. I would spend a lot of time talking to your RO prior to rads. It is important that you trust your RO. You must have a competent RO so that rads is done correctly. That is the reason that I did rads in Texas. I was planning to do rads in FL. Long story short: I broke down in tears at work due to radically conflicting tx plans from 2 RO's whom I went to in FL. Extraordinarily stressful. I ended up going to M.D. Anderson Cancer Center for rads and it was the best decision that I ever made. It turned out that I had breast tissue that wrapped around my sides. My RO at M.D. Anderson Cancer Center had never seen this before. He did a lecture to his colleagues on my case. You need to make sure that your RO knows how to treat your bc.
My skin was beet red after rads, same color as JCLC. Now, there is absolutely no discoloration at all. I healed 100%. My skin was extremely red but it was not very painful.
Hello to the numerous people whom I missed responding to. Sorry.
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Congrats on finishing your rads Jan! Welcome Nancy. Sorry to hear about your positive nodes but as you can see you will have lots of support from this group. Night all!
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On a different note: I walked 15,000 steps today! Yay.
I also had a co-worker ask me if I was gaining weight. She said, "Your hips are spreading." THANKS! She did not say it to be mean or nasty. She actually meant it as a compliment so I can't be mad at her. However, I have been gaining weight since my bc dx and I am so bummed. I used to be thin and in shape. Now, not. Sucks. Thanks to medically induced menopause, arimidex/anastrazole, and bc, I am now fat. My picture is from when I rang the bell when I finished rads. I looked much better at that time - 1 and 1/2 years ago (exactly). Sigh
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Froggie- It's my understanding that instead of swelling with rads, boobs actually shrink. I had a lumpectomy on my right side and the BS had to remove so much tissue that my PS suggested a reduction of both breasts after clear margins were found. She made the right (BC) side bigger so that when I have rads and it shrinks the left side will match better. I guess that's pretty standard. Just my experience. Good luck tomorrow with the RO.
614- Thanks for the early bday wishes! I'm sorry about the back handed compliment. At least she didn't ask if you were pregnant. tee hee. I know it sounds vain but I really, really, don't want to gain. I was just getting back in shape after foot surgery. Then, BC.
I'm getting one more (!) stitch out then meeting with my MO tomorrow. I'm getting oncotype dx score. Chemo or no? We'll see.
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Thanks so much for the welcome and for sharing. I'm soaking up all the information. I'm going 1-1/2 hours to a hospital with a breast center in Indianapolis recommended by GP for surgery. Was hoping to do rads closer to home so I don't have to miss much work.
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All of you . You have no idea how much you inspire me. I was pregnant with my first son when my mom was diagnosed with BC. She wouldn't talk to people or tellanyone about it. I think because she was embarrassed. I helped her to be proud of who she was no matter if her boobs were real or not! No matter the weight she gained from medicines and depression. Just last month she celebrated 5 years cancer free! And she is almost at her goal weight. And her lifelong dream of not always having to wear a bra came true. 😉. I can't say it was easy for either of us. But that time in her life made us best friends.
Although mine came back benign and we now live 18 hours apart from each other she was my every phone call. Still my best friend!
You ladies come here and talk to each other. People you may never meet or see and you share your deepest thoughts and your wisdom with each other. I know that just my short experience, I will strive to be better after meeting and chatting with you all. If the world were as easy as this .... Age, race, sexuality... None of it matters here. You are all 1 holding each other up. I wish my Mom had known about y'all. She would have been so filled with life.
Anyways I'm sorry I know that didn't have much to do with my lumpectomy I just had to share.
My results came back completely benign! YAY. However she did not get a clear 2cm margin that is required with a Phyllodes tumor. So by next Thursday I guess I have to decide if I want to wait it out and see if it grows back or if I want another surgery. I know these are rare tumors but what would you do?
BTW my follow up with Dr. B was awesome. We had a picture of the tumor and she went over the shape, size, color and all aspects of the surgery. Amazing! I am a very curious individual and told her I wanted details.
The sloshing is normal she said and has no way to cover the sound of the ocean waves in my chest. But she did say it should help me to not have a dent and as long as there is no infection I am doing great and good to go back to work. (Who wants to go back to work on a Friday). Goodnight ladies!!!! Much love to you all
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amhess, congratulations on your benign status!! Personally,I would go back in and get those clean margins. You don't want to look back with regret. I am happy your mom is 5 years cancer free!!
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amhess, I agree with Molly. Even though it is a total pain in the ass, I would get the clean margins now instead of waiting for it to grow. I think it is very typical of that kind of tumor to grow, and you'd end up having an even bigger chunk needing to be removed. It's great that your mom is 5 years out with no recurrence! I think this is the most fabulous community I've ever been involved with, online or otherwise!
Froggie, I missed your earlier question. I don't think my breast swelled. It's fairly large so it might be hard to tell, but it has never felt swollen and it looks about the same as before rads.
614, I do not understand how the comment from your co-worker could be meant as a compliment. I thought the same things as iammags - at least she didn't ask you if you were pregnant
Congrats on the 15K steps! I need to get a few more tonight to reach my goal.
iammags, I'm hoping you will get a low score tomorrow!!!
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OK I think i am done crying. I got the news yesterday afternoon that chemo is required. Caught off guard because both surgeons i had gone to said i was a text book case and most likely wouldn't need it. Well guess they were wrong. Needed to cry, needed to get it out now time to move on and get this shit over with.
I also heard that i as "grade 3" what does that mean?
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NJNancy, you're entitled to cry, rant, and be pissed off at life because chemo is now on the table. We're here to listen and comfort you. Don't forget to check the excellent articles on breastcancer.org on most anything you want to know. Here is one on Tumor Stages. I think we tend to forget how much more there is here than our wonderful boards. And the search box actually works like it should (unlike some websites where searches are terrible).
Sounds like you have come to terms (mostly) with chemo coming your way. Remember, it is KILLING CANCER.
HUGS!
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welcome to all the new warriors!
Jan- congrats on finishing rads!!!
Moondust- enjoy your camping trip;)
Nancy- you need to let yourself cry every now and then. We all take off our Wonder Woman capes every now n then;) I'm 3/4 way through chemo with one more to go! I'm also a grade 3. You will get through it!
Froggie- I'm not sure if it's the acupuncture, but something helped this round because I feel much better than the last two. I'll definitely do it again for sure;)
Sorry if I missed anyone. I've been pretty tired this round and trying to catch up here. Heading to NY again for more lacrosse, then driving straight to Maine Sunday for a visit day on Monday at my sons new school. I'll sleep until next Thursday after all of this!
We had temps in the 60's yesterday and my nurses(pictured below) were happy to get outside! I sat out there for two hours and just enjoyed the breezes while my dogs played like teenage boys;)
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iammags , hoping for a low score for you today!
mlp your pups are beautiful
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Sloan, I am from PA. Is there a teaching hospital with a cancer center near you like StanfordUniversity. My choices were Penn Medicine or Fox Chase which is run by Temple. They are both well established teaching hospitals with very good reputations.
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Nancy, grade 3 is a more aggressive cancer so chemo is a given generally. Crying is good for you to do to get the emotions out. I understand the shock. I was told small tumor blah blah blah and ended up with two positive nodes and extensive LVI. It's only because my oncotype came back as 13 that I managed to skip chemo.
Mags, in your pocket for a low oncotype. I went with DD 23 yesterday to her genetic counselor to get her results. She's positive for Chek2 like me. Because my sister had breast cancer in her 20's they want to do annual MRI and physical examination until she's 30 and then annual mammogram.
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Thanks again everyone. You are all so sweet. TGIF!!
Molly, I am glad your DD had genetic counseling and will be closely monitored. Better safe than sorry. Are you done with rads Alice? Congrats if you are, I know it's close. MLP and LTF you are such chemo troopers. Your energy levels amaze me.
Froggie to answer your earlier radiation question. My breast did swell and felt heavy for a short time. The swelling didn't last long. And It wasn't humongous lol. The radiation redness doesn't spread. The linear accelerator is very precise. That's what all the measurements are for. I'm not sure they do this everywhere but they made a mold of my torso so I would lay in the same position The whole breast is treated from two sides so it can get the entire breast. My axilla was done from the side and my supraclavicular fossa(neck and clavicle) was actually treated from the rear. That was treated because that is where the highest lymph nodes are located. They did that because all my excised lymph nodes were positive. I did get red on my back which they called an "exit" area from treating the clavicle. Then my boosts and everyone else's I assume zone in on the tumor bed itself. I now have one brownish/red breast and one lily white one. Oh and I did NOT wear a bra (D cup) during the treatment period. I am after all a child of the 60's. At least I didn't burn them. Treatment is quick and easy. I had a ceiling in the room with a colored LED light show and awesome music playing. All the techs and the nurses were so nice. I told them that I've never exposed myself to nicer people!
Nancy it's ok to cry. There are times when emotions ebb and flow. Some days are easy, some days are hard. But no days are impossible. Just take one day at a time. (My tumor was a Grade 2 but all my lymph nodes were positive and a lot of people with Grade 3 have no lymph node involvement. It's hard to make sense of it all).
My hair has started growing yay, kind of salt and pepper color. Yesterday I noticed I had a whisker on my chin....great...some hairs could have stayed away forever. I won't go into anymore detail lol. I noticed now most of my eyelashes are gone...I guess they've finally vacated the area to allow the new ones to move in. I think my mascara is dried up...Time to go shopping!
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LTF, I just read the following article and thought of you. Ashkenazi Lethal Gene. You had mentioned you are Ashkenazi. I hope it does not produce anymore anxiety. What I found interesting is how there are groups of peoples who have no idea they have a Jewish lineage and could be carriers of Jewish-specific genes. I can't remember: did you have genetic testing done? I am thinking you did. Hope your chemo goes smoothly and you feel good!
HUGS!
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nancy - I'm sorry. You go ahead and cry because it can be a shocker to hear news you're not expecting. Grade 3 is a fast-duplicating cancer, and that is why chemo works best on Grade 3. There are several people on this site, like MLP, who didn't think they would need chemo either at first, but the pathology helps the docs make a decision on what is the best way to fight it. You can do this! Look at MLP's posts: she's out skiing, going to New York, playing with her beautiful dogs. And, when she needs a rest day she takes it. You can do this. We're all here for you.
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MLP - You are an inspiration (and your dogs are beautiful!)
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