Am I to hopeful ?

I am not triple negative, but I do believe that we can get through this and still have good lives. We can come out of this and get back our fitness and some of our health. You will come out on the other side changed in some way most likely, not just physically but mentally as well. Everyone is different, but you will find out things about yourself and others. Your outlook about life in general may change. The way you look at things may change.

So, YES, it is great to be optimistic because there are a great number of women that get through to NED and stay there. No matter, what happens, keep your optimism, but allow yourself to be changed for the better!

When you have a BC diagnosis so often hope heads out of the window. But you have no reason not to feel hopeful, and whilst time can seem to pass so slowly, it will pass and your life will return to your new normal and as littleblueflowers says, it can even be better.

I got though chemo by making sure I respected and took the side effect drugs. (Amend, Zofran) My only nausea was when I stooped one of these, Zofran, early - didnt do that again! Also - the company and help from friends and family was invaluable. I had my sister and also a number of friends come to stay for a week at a time from the UK (I'm an British expat living in California)

Channel offers of help to tasks which you want and feel comfortable with. That way you will keep some control in a time when you don't feel you can control much. I had a lovely neighbour who cooked for us most weeks - so helpful on those chemo days. Others gave lifts to my sone when I was unable. Head over to the chemo boards where there will be lots of practical advice and support from others going through the same.

Also - you can still do normal things through chemo - I even went on a small ski holiday just before my last dose of AC. Whilst I was never very fit before, and I did rest every other day, I was able to have a couple of days on the slopes and had a brilliant time with family.

I am now 2 1/2 years from diagnosis, thought chemo, surgery, radiation and reconstruction. Now back to normal and loving that my hair is back!

You can do this!

Sarah

I have TNBC and I did a lumpectomy, followed by chemo and radiation. I just finished radiation and have an appt with my oncologist on March 9th. I am very hopeful, thankful mine was caught early and just pray for the best. I am back in the gym and getting better every day. Yes, you can live and happy, full and fun-life. Surround yourself with positive friends and a great support group! Good Luck-I'm here if you have any questions that I could possibly help with.