January 2016 Chemo!
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Hey, guys! I've been trying to catch up on all the posts, but had to stop and offer a few tips to those of you planning to fly.
Use the antibacterial wipes and make sure you wipe off the seatbelt and its buckle! That has the highest bacterial count because everyone must touch it! No matter your destination, wear long pants, long sleeves, socks and shoes--and leave them on. You can always change on arrival. Nothing goes in the seat pocket and other reading the emergency card or the inflight magazine. If you can, take first flight of the day-the plane is cleanest then.
In the hotel room, clean remote control and the phones with your wipes. (Even better, put the remote in a Baggie.)
Don't bring an aerosol disinfectant unless it fits in your 3-1-1 bag--it will be confiscated.
If I think of anything else, I'll post it. I work for an airline and was a flight attendant for 10 years.
Planet
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LoveMyVizsla, I hear you on the dreading upcoming treatment...for sure. I try to look at it as one more down and four to go.
My hair started coming out by the hands full on day 14. I shaved it on day 15 because I couldn't take it anymore. It feels so much better now. Are you having it shaved at the salon or home?
I bought the Jon Renau Katherine and am pretty pleased with it, but it is very thick at the crown. I plan to take mine to my hairdresser for a little more trimming as soon as possible. It appears that I have just missed the Look Good Feel Better classes in my area. :-/ The next ones are on a day that I have to go into the office and then nothing until March.
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When will my hair go???. Day 14 (TC) and it's still here. Can't actually believe it will be gone soon
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I have a question for those who did the Look Good Feel Better program... I want to know if you went by yourself? Also, is it a support group feeling? I'm really not into groups that are sad and poor us. Just worried about going
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TC is on a 3 week schedule and I was day 17 I think when I lost it.
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Rockstarteach,
The LGFB program I went to had 6 ladies (we were all there by ourselves). They set us up at a table with individual stations. A makeup artist then used each of us as models to show different techniques and we put our make up on. Only a support group feeling in that it was fun and in between make up we'd ask each other what we were in for. So not a total support group vibe but supportive none the less. A volunteer (14 year BC survivor) came with our make up artist and was telling us stuff about when she lost her eyelashes and what she did with make up in the interim and how long they took to come back in.
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Cathytoo, mine went the most aggressively days 15 through 17. It mostly went in the shower while I was washing it.
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Saturday will be my day 15, which is when I plan to get it all cut off. I'm trying to look at it as a new and exciting chance to make a complete change ... as long as it grows back.
I have to admit I'm not sure what thrush is but it sounds like I don't want it
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I'm weekly Taxol but mine is going pretty fast and it's true your head is sore.
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Runny nose, watery eyes...cold or side effect? I don't feel like I have a cold. Starting Clariton again
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Brandysands I am on TCH and its every three weeks.
Cathytoo I'm on day 16 and haven't lost any hair yet but I'm using cold caps. I do have the watery eyes. It just started yesterday for me and I was wondering the same thing. I think it is the chemo and it is rather annoying.
Rockstarteach I heard the LGFB program is great. I don't have anything to offer yet because I haven't been but I plan on going. Looking forward to the makeup tips!
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Thank you so much for the warm welcome! My TC is every three weeks. My hair shed horribly, but I'm cold capping so I've still got hair after my second chemo. Cold capping is worth it, but it's bloody miserable.
I'm a teacher and have been alternating between a week and a half off for chemo with a week and a half at work.
My dilemma right now is whether to go to work tomorrow. I have it off for an IV iron infusion, but it has to be rescheduled because they're waiting for approval. Normally, I wouldn't hesitate to cancel my sub, but school is a walking cesspool of sick kids and teachers. My next chemo is in a week and even though my wbc are good, I'm a bit concerned about being at work right now. My school has been incredibly supportive and it's such a Personal job that I feel guilty not being there.
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I have a question for everyone. Has anyone had any problems with their skin breaking out? I think I remember Miss Bee that you might have had a problem when you were on TCHP. My skin started breaking out around 8 or so. Really fine bumps more like clogged pores. I also got a few pimples. My skin has also been pretty dry so I stopped using my normal skin care products because they may be drying my skin out and causing the irritation. I started using cetiphil to wash and DML as a moisturizer and it has gotten a lot better. What are you guys using?
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Char1110 -- Seen the NP today. It's called acneiform. I starting use cetiphil. she said I could also use the clyndimicn I had been using for adult cystic acne.
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Thanks Mltdd. I have an appointment with my internist tomorrow so I will talk to her more about it as well. Hopefully she will prescribe the clyndimicin for me
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I posted this on another board. Hope it can be helpful to some of you.
I've a accepted that I'm vain. If I look good, I feel good. So I've bought some new clothes and makeup to help. Massage therapy has been wonderful, and I have a counselor who does meditation with me. Even with all of that, I still have days when it's all just too damn much to process and I breakdown and sob. It's hard to come to terms with it. Be patient and go easy on yourself....that's what my doctor told me
Below are things that have been shared with me. I've found that having info has helped with the overwhelming potential side effects. These are just some ideas to help you navigate your journey since each one is very individual.
I ended up getting a port because my large and obvious veins would not cooperate resulting in needle anxiety, which I had never had. The port is a Godsend for me. No pain, and my blood can be drawn from it, too.
Chemo causes emotions and that's ok.
Books: Anti Cancer,A New Way of Life and Cancer as aTurning Point. I've read half of the first and just got the second.
Exercise, which I'm not doing enough of. It's hard for me.
I've coated my nails with tea tree oil and vitamin e each day in hoped of preventing breakage or loss. I read on the Susan G Komen site to paint your nails with a dark water based polish, so that's what I have on my toes. So far, so good.
I'm using cold caps, CCC, for my hair and I still have hair albeit a lot less. I use Toppik for my bald spot, and Nioxin for shampoo as it is safe and promotes hair growth.
Lotions and shampoos without sulfates and parabens. There are products out there without chemicals that are excellent to use.
Neuropathy. My dr. Suggested alpha lipoic acid 300 mg. It has worked. Glutamine is another supplement people have used. Some people ice their fingers and toes during the infusion of the drug that causes it. I haven't done that, but I chew ice and drink cold drinks during the taxotere infusion to help alleviate metallic taste. I also drink ginger tea. Acupuncture and massage therapy with essential oils help. My cancer center supports and offers both.
Get your teeth cleaned. My dentist gave me a RX fluoride toothpaste and rinse to use.
Systane ultra eye drops for dry eyes.
Someone I know had a bad experience with tampons because of vaginal dryness, so I switched to pads I'm not sure what other people have experienced. Use silicone based lubricant for...you know.
Biotene is good for dry mouth. Use it after every meal.
Claritin and Advil for Neulasta pain
Drink a gallon of water a day. That's 8 water bottles. I did the first round, but supplemented other fluids during the second round, and I didn't rebound as fast.
Lunesta or melatonin for sleep.
I've gone off caffeine and have limited alcohol, but it's hard. I never knew alcohol consumption was connected to breast cancer.
I have nausea after each round and use peppermint oil under my nose. GI issues can arise, so talk to your doctor immediately if they do. Constipation is the worst! Dulcolax is good as is Senokot. Eat light meals and be prepared to like something one day and hate it the next. I'll gag if someone brings me chicken noodle soup now. LOL
Laugh as much as possible and get fresh air for a little bit each day.
Hope this can be of some help.
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FLBuckeye93...Thanks so much for your really great posts. Love all the suggestions. We are all so lucky to be part of this supportive group
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There were only two of us in my LGFB class, and the other lady brought her sister. There was a volunteer there, and the presenter was a volunteer survivor who is a hair stylist.
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Myra I just don't know? My understanding is her2+ has a higher recurrence rate but Herceptin is a game changer...very effective. So for sure I think you'd want that. As for chemo I don't know enough...but certainly it is good news that you have only one lump (who would've though "1 cancer lump" would be good news?!?). Your mri results would've gone to your surgeon and oncologist, so if they thought it warranted a change in treatment plan youdprobably hear about it, but you should definitely chase down their opinion!
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Myra - They still might opt for chemo to catch any cancer cells that are circulating in the blood stream.
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Char1110 I think you and I are on the same regimen except I get Herceptin with the Taxotere and Carboplatin every third week. Total of six chemo treatments and then just Herceptin every three weeks following chemo for a year. The two weeks in between chemo I get Herceptin only (plus steroids and benedryl) each week. My face broke out horribly between the first chemo and second Herceptin. Also lower back. Mix of small and large red bumps and not really pimples but more like pus filled bumps. Gross I know. I did use rubbing alcohol and Dial soap per the MO's advice and although it helped, the bumps are gone, but my face is constantly peeling. Using coconut oil which helps but it is an ongoing battle. Tomorrow is my second chemo and Herceptin and I'm really hoping I don't follow the same schedule of that particular SE. I've actually been feeling pretty good this last week except for a couple of rogue nausea episodes. Like an idiot I suffered through the first one and the next day it dawned on me perhaps some compazine would help and it did. Duh!
I do have a question for any of you out there. I haven't seen my primary doctor since the diagnosis in October and my MO seems to have taken over all of my care. I had to sign a form agreeing not to request pain med from any other doctor except him which was fine. However when I did ask for a refill (the first, only and trust me the last time I'll ask) as I do get migraines I got a ten minute lecture about not contacting anyone else for refills and the threat to cut me off at some point. WTH? My husband and I were completely baffled by his attitude given my lengthy history with him (prior hematology issue) and pain med was never needed. When we got the Rx filled he gave me 90 which is way more than I'll need for months and months but we thought it bizarre after the lecture and threat. My question is, is it appropriate for me to contact my primary doctor for other needs? For instance a sleep aid. I was taking generic zzzquil but stopped because I read it interferes with Herceptin. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated
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Myra:
i had successful surgery first, and thought I was just gonna have Herceptin and radiation, but then my MO prescribed TC to go with the H. I was shocked-but I want this to be " one and done"! Something like 70% are cured by surgery alone (and they are probably all the stage zeros), but stage one with chemo, survival goes up to nearly 100%.
Get a second opinion if you think the treatment is excessive, but don't opt out without finding out.
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FLBuckeye93:
My new motto is "no vino during chemo," and my brother has joined me. I created my own "Faux Bordeaux" by putting Concord grape juice (I mix in a little unsweetened cranberry juice and some grenadine, too) into wine bottles and pour into wine glasses. You have to refrigerate it but I let it come to celler temp before drinking. It's cheaper than Frē wine, and I think it smells better. If you are a beer drinker, there are a few decent alcohol-free brands, and my soda stream helps me make "mocktails".
So unfair--now when we really need a drink, we can't have it! Well, liver and kidneys are busy with the chemo cleansing! -
Your list is much appreciated! I tried to weasel my way out of chemo today since my biopsies showed only 1 invasive tumor but no luck... Apparently the HER2 positive and elevated Hi67 are enough cause for alarm that my surgeon said I don't have much choice if I want to make sure I'm doing the best thing to eradicate it. I was willing to go the surgical route first but no dice since it could spread beyond the breasts.
So my port gets installed tomorrow and then we're off to the races.
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Thanks. I talked at length with the surgeon tonight. She explained the situation. I feel better about going forward with the chemo now that I understand the HER2+ status better. I really don't want to take any chances. I asked if I did the surgery couldn't we just test regularly to see if it crops up again? She explained that it may show up or already be somewhere else and surgery alone could miss it entirely. She also reminded me, I already test positive....I gave it my best shot.
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Hi delight. Yes, we are on the same schedule almost (I go for round 2 next Tuesday). My MO doesn't have a problem with me seeing any other doctors she really didn't mention it. She referred me to a nutritionist and she said continue with any other appointments with other doctors I may have. I just have a regular checkup with my internist and I am sure that she will want to know all that is going on with me. I do plan to check with the PA or my MO before taking anything additional. Every time I see my MO they ask me if my medications have changed so I think that is how their office tracks what is going on. I think it is odd that your MO got so upset. I understand the concern about the pain medications and anything that may interact with chemo. I guess he wants to make sure that you don't have any interactions and the best way to do that is to be the only one treating you. But it seems like an over reaction to forbid you from seeing anyone else. With that being said, I would continue to check with him for anything that you need.
Good luck with treatment today!
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Aww miss bee sorry she made a thoughtless comment. I have gained like 6 pounds since starting chemo , well and since the stress of being diagnosed too! I thought i would lose some to gain but my onc said with steroids and the taxtotere itself sometimes doing that it happens.I thought like really? Leave it to me to gain during treatment! I figure lets all get through this first then can worry about getting in shape. I would say back in shape but i wasn't to begin with.
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I have been told you contnye to see my primary care physician as needed. I was never given any issues about it but obviously I have to check any drugs with my oncologist. I actually have a physical in a couple weeks. That said, I think if it is anything to do with my chemo, for example medications to deal with side effects, I am supposed to deal with the Chemo Clinic and oncologist and not my pcp.
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Ladies that thrush is not something to ignore trust me! I had coating on my tongue , rash on body, then felt that something was in my throat and could only swallow sips of water. Nothing else would go down. Severe stomach tightness with constant green diarrhea. On the second ER visit was diagnosed with esophageal thrush. Within an hour of getting IV diflucan my symptoms started to resolve!!! I did not have neulasta or neupogen and my white cells had dropped to 1. So if you see coating on tongue or cheeks call doc right away!!!! I started the Diflucan on Saturday and by today I am feeling great!
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Hi, all. I'm going back tomorrow for round two of Taxol after the Battle of the Rash. I dyed my hair ash blonde yesterday, after dying blonde a couple of weeks ago. I figured why not, if I don't like it, how much longer will I be looking at it? I keep trying to add a picture - stupid mac.
Anyway, the rash is long gone, other than being tired and itchy the first weekend, which I had to work anyway, so I just had to suck it up. I really wish I wouldn't have skipped a week. I'd rather be getting this done than not.
I was jelly with all y'alls wigs, so I bought some less expensive ones on ebay. I really wanted one that looked like Uma Thurman in Pulp Fiction, lol. Found that finally. Ha ha ha!
I'll be curious to see what they have in store for me. I see my regular dr today because I have a cough that I haven't been able to shake since November. I've been to my doctor twice in Louisiana and no luck getting rid of it. I'm going to see my regular Houston doctor - hopefully she'll fix it because I'm sick of the coughing. And then there's something in the back of my mind that keeps thinking, great, I have lung cancer.
Maybe the tests results will be back and I can at least have that nagging fear taken care of.
I guess a lot of us are Jon Renau wig girls!!!! I got the Zara wig - I had seen a review on youtube from a girl in chemo and she just looked great, so that was an easy sell. I figure I'll have some less expensive ones for work, but for feeling good, I was willing to shell out some extra.
Planet I have not started the no alcohol thing yet - they haven't told me I should, but I REALLY need to cut back. One thing that is doing it is I'm counting WW points and well, 20% of your points on one glass of wine sort of brings it home. I REALLY REALLY like your idea of mocktails and even putting it in a wine bottle. I'm staying with my sister and her gf and they are drinkers so it's doubly hard. At home, the bf watches me like a hawk so it's easy. Your idea ..... I'm liking that. I've noticed it really it the act of drinking, I mean, I can take a Xanax and drink water. I've tried drinking a glass of wine then a glass of water and it cuts me way down. Yeah. My boss got in trouble with his wife because he took me out drinking scotch the other night - when he was on chemo (throat cancer) they specifically said NO DRINKING. I was like - no one told me that.
FLBuckeye You have some new tips I haven't read. I am getting some Alpha Lipoeic acid. I heard Magnesium helps with neuropathy, too, but I'm willing to add whatever to the mix of approved stuff. I'm thinking of just bringing my bag of herbs that I bought on diagnosis and see what will pass muster. Most of it immunity stuff, so I'm thinking no go during chemo.
Robyn I had this secret YAY moment of I'LL GET TO LOSE WEIGHT with this stupid diagnosis and then I found out, I DON'T EVEN FREAKING GET THAT?!???????? Where is my bonus?!? I'm still looking. I THOUGHT it might be fabulous new boobs, but no, I'm fighting with the PS the whole way, but that's a different story lol. If there is a way for me to gain weight on something, my body will find it. I have to get back on my weight fighting regime or I am going to blow up even more. That's why I started back with the WW.
Someone commented - I think it was on the previous page about their great no sugar, no processed foods diet and how it is helping them through treatment with fewer SEs. I wanted to be at that point before I started. I'm at no soda, no caffeine, no fake sweeteners.
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