Lumpectomy Lounge....let's talk!

RMLulu, Thank you. I will NOT be having DH in our home. Hiring the help needed is not feasible and I am not able to care for him 24/7. Did that for 4 years and exhausted myself to the point I was ready to breakdown. He will be in the hospital for awhile. He is the one who is making the decision. His doctor talked with him this morning and the hospice nurse this afternoon. He wasn't quite ready to make the decision. His brother and I are gently encouraging him to accept hospice. I am going to have the boys fly in this coming week. I'd rather they come while their father is alive than later. They need to be able to say goodbye, too. Talking with them shortly although they knew what I was doing today. Awfully weepy right now. Thanks for the encouraging words. DH is ready to transition.

HUGS!!

Peggy, (HUGS!!).

Sending you strength and hugs. Glad DH was able to decide for himself what he wanted, and hope that brings you and your boys some small comfort.

Hugs back to you Peggy. You have supported so many here and now it is your turn to be supported. Thinking and praying for you and your whole family

Dearest Friends, DH is all signed into hospice and all medications except for his Parkinson's and any comfort drugs are being stopped. I thought they would continue with the antibiotics since they are contributing to his QOL. Need for him to hold on for a couple more days until I can get the kids here from out West. Life sucks.

HUGS!

I'm trying, Maggie, but it's awfully hard. I'm so weepy.

HUGS!

with you here also Peggy. We all are...

Thank you...every single one of you!

HUGS!

Peggy, with you in Maryland. 💕

So sorry Peggy! Constant prayers & many hugs! You're such a strong woman. Hang in there!

I remember racing home to get to my brother before he passed. I didn't make it. The airlines will sometimes offer discounted fares if u call to book and tell them of the situation. Praying your children make it home in time Peggy..

Prayers and support across the miles to you, your DH, and your whole family at this trying time dear Peggy.

I'm still here with everyone else holding your hand and praying. You are not alone, Peggy.

Thank you! Boys are coming in tomorrow and Tuesday. Just need for DH to hold on until Wednesday. The boys and DH need to be able to say goodbye.

Your support means the world to me.

HUGS!!

Compassion fares basically don't exist. But when I had to send DH to his mom even faster than our planned visit during her decline. (BC went to her liver). Then kids and I went on original tix but had to extend for the funeral. South West did give us tixs for the original price instead of fare we would have paid buy that day.

I'll be thinking of you Peggy.