36 yr old with stage 3, high grade, DCIS, 3 margins postive

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noni458
noni458 Member Posts: 18
edited September 2015 in DCIS (Ductal Carcinoma In Situ)

After lumpectomy & removal of an 8x5x2 cm area, my daughter was diagnosed with stage 3, high grade DCIS, with 3 of 6 margins positive (he took 2 extra, deeper margins at the 12-3 & 9-12 positions because he didn't like the look of it, & both A & B came back positive at the 12-3 position), DCIS was also found in extra tissue he took under the nipple & cells were found to be ER+ & PR + >95%. The report did not mention any evidence of invasion or micro invasion & he did not take lymph nodes because needle biopsy came back benign & frozen section during surgery came back low grade. Also found comedo necrosis...all of which is scary to me. This was done Wed, 8/19/15. Doctor is out of town until next Thursday, she has an appt on Friday, 9/4. Onco testing is being done but no results back yet. She is thinking bilateral mastectomy because she has a 4 & 5 year old & I am in complete agreement with her. She's not at all vain & her/my first priority is preservation of her life with as few worries about reoccurence as possible. Questions: how fast is "fast" growing, since my understanding of high grade means "fast" growing? If she wants mastectomy, does she need to do this, first, at all & second, if so, how soon? Are we over reacting with thinking bilateral mastectomy? Family history on father's side is paternal grfather colon cancer & both of my husband's sisters had cancer in their mid to late 50s, 1 breast, the other uterine. Dr. has mentioned BRCA testing, but don't know if that has been ordered yet. My daughter is the sole financial support of her family (husband is stay-at-home dad), so how long would one generally be out of work from a double mastectomy? I am an obsessive mother when it comes to her health & am taking this much worse than her. I trust her doctor very much...he removed a benign cystosarcoma phyloydes (sp?) tumor the size of a baseball from me in '99 & I've been fine since. Any information, links etc anyone could give would be a great help. Thanks

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  • clarrn
    clarrn Member Posts: 557
    edited August 2015

    Hi noni,

    Sorry you find your daughter and self in this situation. It is all very scary at first but it will get better! I think my parents took my diagnosis harder than me too. I had high grade comedo necrosis in 96% of the sections of my breast so I know what is like to have a huge amount of DCIS. (And I had invasive also) The great news for her is that no invasive cancer was found! Pure DCIS cannot spread :) The doctors will probably advise that a double mx does not increase survival rates, but the decision is a lot more complicated than that. I ended up doing a double personally and reconstruction is tough and not necessarily successful. It is a deeply personal decision with great reasons on all sides of the issue.

    The great news is that there is no rush. She could also have one now and then get the other done later if she is BRCA+ve.

    My plastic surgeon says 6-8 weeks recovery for bilateral with immediate reconstruction. Without reconstruction she cuts the recovery time in half. With a single mastectomy, she has one good arm. My surgeon had lists of women willing to speak with others who had different surgeries so I was able to talk to people who had been there too, which I found very help.

    Good luck and head on over to the DCIS forum. Beesie had a great list of info and is super helpful!

  • RosieMjdtrt
    RosieMjdtrt Member Posts: 30
    edited August 2015

    Hi Noni,

    I had DCIS with a small invasive tumor and I'm 46. To be stage 0 or stage 1 is a very good place to be. My personal choice was the BMX. I am 3 weeks post op and its not been easy. It is typically 6-8 weeks off work with reconstruction. I chose reconstruction so I have very uncomfortable tissue expanders in. I still can't do much physically and my surgical drains are still in. Hopefully they will come out Monday and recovery will speed up.

    Please know that she will be fine but nay need MX just because margins were not clear. BMX would be more a personal choice. I strictly chose BMX because I want symmetry. Good luck to your daughter, she has plenty of time to educate herself and make the right choice for her.

  • noni458
    noni458 Member Posts: 18
    edited August 2015

    Clarrn,

    I'm so sorry you have had such a hard time & for the diagnosis you received; I hope you are doing well now. I was not aware of the possible unsuccessful reconstruction component of this, so definitely more to consider here. But thank you so much for your reply... my first reaction to all this was "get them out of there tomorrow", so I just took a deep breath! Few more questions: did you have to have chemo & radiation because yours was invasive? My understanding was that if you had mx, no other treatment was necessary, but I realize every instance is probably different. As to recovery, she is the head of marketing for a rapidly growing chain of restaurants, with a fairly stressful, "needs to be there" job, so I was wondering how soon she could reasonably return to her desk job...no lifting, just lots of computer work at her desk? She's pretty resilient & recovered remarkably fast from her 2 C-sections. Again...thank you so much for your reply...this is really scary & the picture seems to get more so with each report we get back, dashing each time what we previously had been expecting, ie, initial: benign, frozen: low grade, lumpectomy pathology: now high grade. I'm dreading the onco & BRCA reports now. Take care & my best wishes for your future with this ordeal.

  • noni458
    noni458 Member Posts: 18
    edited August 2015

    Kayb,

    Thank you too...you ladies are so great! Yes, she is very strong & otherwise in perfect health. Does want reconstruction, but we have no idea about anything related to that, as to which type or anything...totally uneducated about that subject. The whole mx issue is going to be a hard decision, mainly because of her children. As a working mom, she only sees them 2-3 hours a day & they are very large & love to hug, sit on her lap & generally maul her excessively, so not being able to do that is going to be very hard for them all. :( You've given her lots to think about...so many decisions, so thank you for your reply, so much. And being supportive is just what we moms do, right? She is my everything...an amazingly accomplished professional, an extremely loving mom, who has a lot of responsibilities on her...I am in awe of her daily in how she handles so much, so well. Thank you again

  • noni458
    noni458 Member Posts: 18
    edited August 2015

    Rosie,

    Thank you too...she wants reconstruction, given her age & she is 5'10" with a D cup now, so to go from that to nothing would be a bit much. The nurse practitioner she saw Tuesday said if you just have MX w/o having the other done, it can cause back problems later. But her (& my) main concern is re-occurrence; nobody wants this hanging over her head, worrying if this is coming back. And her focus is being here to see her children grow up...some of the statistics on invasive re-occurrence are pretty scary. And the margins not being clear was NOT wanted we wanted to hear. Thank you so much for replying...being the obsessive, worrying, slightly OCD (when it comes to researching a topic) mother that I am, I think I'll be spending a lot of time here!

  • clarrn
    clarrn Member Posts: 557
    edited August 2015

    Noni-Yes my chemo and radiation were due to having node positive cancer. It is not required for DCIS (sometimes rads if it is super close to the chest wall). My daughter was 2.5 when I was diagnosed so I understand the hugging thing. I showed my daughter where my 'owies' were and we figured out she could hug and snuggle into my back. She was very careful for the most part. Also grandma and grandpa came and stayed for the first 3 weeks so she got lots of extra hugs from them! I am well now and hoping to return to work (finally!! but time off was due to chemo/rads/recon issues) within a few weeks!

    Just FYI, my PS said because my pecs were so strong it was more difficult to expand, so sometimes fit is not a guaranteed easy road! And just to be aware that the implants do make working upper body weird for me now, and my back is sore now that I am a uni-boober due to implant failure. But I am well, and getting stronger every day! Scary stats, of course, but the stats are all at least 5-10 years behind due to study length so I am optimistic.

    Layman's Guide to DCIS

  • noni458
    noni458 Member Posts: 18
    edited August 2015

    Clarrn,

    Thank you for taking the time to respond. I am so sorry you have had such a lengthy, difficult ordeal with this & I do hope and pray that all your issues are over. I will pass along your information to my daughter after she has met with her doctor. She is doing well emotionally & is aware of some of the possibilities on some level, but her job requires her to be focused and I don't want her to be worrying about anything until we have talked to him, as it serves no purpose right now. I think she thinks bilateral MX is going to be easier than what I've read on here & perhaps it will go fine for her, but she doesn't really need to dwell on this (I do enough of that for BOTH of us) until she actually has all the facts from her doctor. My very best wishes to you & your family for a cancer free life from here on out, and again, thank you for all your thoughts & experiences.

  • sunshinegal
    sunshinegal Member Posts: 209
    edited August 2015

    Hi Noni,

    Sorry for what you're going through! Your daughter definitely has some quite personal decisions to make. I'll share my background, since it's similar.

    I was diagnosed at age 36 with a 9cm+ high grade DCIS tumor with comedo necrosis. I had no choice but to have mx, though at the time I decided to do uni only -- I saw no reason to lose an otherwise healthy other breast. Final pathology showed pure DCIS, 100% ER+/100% PR+. 4 removed nodes were clear. I chose immediate reconstruction with a tissue expander, and eventually a silicone implant. I did not have enough donor tissue elsewhere in my body to do any other kind of reconstruction.

    I took a long while off of work - about 6 weeks if I remember right, and then didn't travel for work for another 4 weeks after that. I probably could have handled going back to work sooner, though.

    Because of narrow margins (<1mm), my case went before 2 tumor boards to determine whether radiation was appropriate. One board was split on their opinion, the other board (Dana Farber in Boston) agreed it was NOT indicated. Both boards, however, said that either decision could be justified. I chose not to do radiation. I also chose not to take tamoxifen, because we wanted to have kids and it is contra-indicated with pregnancy.

    That was almost 5 years ago. I have since had 2 kids and breastfed both of them with my good side. I spent a long time noodling on what I ultimately wanted to do on my remaining good side - for symmetry reasons I would either need a reduction/lift or a prophylactic mastectomy.

    Because of my two little kiddos, I decided on the mastectomy, and just had that surgery last week. It has been emotionally tough to lose my other breast, but on the other hand I would not be able to live with myself if I had kept the breast and then had a problem later on.

    I wish you well and am happy to answer any questions you or your daughter might have

  • noni458
    noni458 Member Posts: 18
    edited August 2015

    Sunshinegal,

    Thank you for your input & I am so happy for you & your young family that this has turned out so well. I can certainly understand your reason for doing the mastectomy...it is the same for our daughter. Yours' does sound very similar to our daughter's, with the exception of the margins, that were positive for DCIS in her, which I don't understand. If you or someone else reading this could explain that to me, it would be helpful. If she has in situ (completely within the milk duct, correct?), non invasive cancer, how does it get in the margins? I know little about breast anatomy, but I thought the margins were just fatty breast tissue, not ducts, so if it's non-invasive & contained within the ducts, what's it doing in the fatty breast tissue? This is all so confusing & we all want to understand as much as a layperson can, to make the right decision. Any help would be appreciated, because from all I've read on here, the DCIS being in the margins is a pretty bad thing.

    Best of luck with your reconstruction and your health in general going forward; having had a phyllodes scare myself & having watched the fear & pain in my daughter's face, especially for the future of her family, I can fully empathize with all you've had to deal with. Thanks again

  • sunshinegal
    sunshinegal Member Posts: 209
    edited August 2015

    Noni,

    A surgical margin is not related to the type of tissue. The margin refers to how far from the edge of the excised tissue any cancerous cells are found. A positive margin means that cancer cells were found at the edge of the excised tumor, and the reason that's bad is because it could mean there are remaining cancer cells within the breast. In other words they can't be confident they "got it all."

    So your daughter had a lumpectomy. Pathologists studied the excised tissue and found cancer cells at the edge of it - hence the positive margin.

    Thanks for the well wishes, and good luck to you and your daughter!

  • noni458
    noni458 Member Posts: 18
    edited August 2015

    Thanks sunshinegal...I need to find some anatomical drawings online. The way our doctor drew things, it looked like the lobe of the breast he said he was going to take was encapsulated or something, with milk ducts going from the lobe to the nipple, so I couldn't understand how it got out of the lobe & into what I supposed was just fatty tissue if it was in situ & non invasive. He took 2 margins at the 12-3 & 9-12 areas & both layers of margins were positive at the 12-3 area & in the extra area he took under the nipple...that can't be good. :( More stuff to look up. Thanks again...to bed with me...all I can deal with for one day. :(

  • CAMommy
    CAMommy Member Posts: 437
    edited August 2015

    with extensive DCIS a mastectomy is often warranted mostly because it is hard to maintain a good cosmetic result when a large amount of breast tissue is removed. I had 6x5x2 chunk removed but I have plenty of remaining tissue that you can hardly tell.

    That being said, DCIS is not life threatening. DCIS is not invasive. However negative margins are needed because they believe 30-40% of untreated DCIS will develop at some point in the future into invasive cancer.

    Many people, particularly younger women have comedo necrosis. My doctors all told me that comedo necrosis means much more to the pathologists than to anyone else. I had grade 3 with comedo necrosis.

    Getting a mastectomy does not mean that you will never recur. I've read that the chance of recurrence with mastectomy is between 1 and 8%. Lumpectomy with radiation and tamoxifen is between 5-15%. But and here is the important thing, survival is the same with either route.

    As for double mastectomy, there is no proven increase in survival by doing this. There have been no studies done to show any kind of benefit. The risk of cancer in an opposite breast is not very high.

    People often choose bilateral mastectomy for cosmetic reasons (although reconstruction is not without its issues) or for peace of mind. But in reality, there is no evidence to support the peace of mind thing.

    My advice would be to slow down and not make a decision until she has thought about all the options and talked to several doctors. DCIS can afford to take a little time.

    I talked to my surgeon about this in detail. I told him I am going to make a bmx (I have string family history) decision on my time, not cancers. I need to take the time to really think it through and in the middle of treatment isn't that time. He agreed 100% with me.



  • noni458
    noni458 Member Posts: 18
    edited August 2015

    CAMommy,

    Thank you very much for your input. So much information out there, conflicting data, volumes of reading...it's all very confusing & extremely hard to decipher in the throes of emotional turmoil. I'm beginning to understand that pure DCIS is not life threatening, but my understanding is that recurrence increases the chances that the cancer can be an invasive form, so minimization of the chances of recurrence is the primary objective here; cosmetic is much further down the list. Also, I've read that while the pathology from the lumpectomy can show pure DCIS, there have been more than a few cases where invasive cancer showed up in the pathology after mx. We know nothing about the lymph nodes because they weren't taken.

    I don't know if this is an impossible question to answer, but what source have you (or anyone else out there) found to have the most reliable information? There's so much to wade through & I don't want to waste time reading the wrong things.

    I know I'm overreacting...I'm the more negative, emotional one...she's doing much better than I & I'm keeping this all to myself until we know more. But to me as her mother, 1-8% recurrence (I've read 1-2% with mx) sounds a lot better than 5-15%, especially with the black cloud that has been hanging over our family & extended families for the past 15 years, details of which I won't bore you with, but several people have told me I should write a book because there's been so much trauma, cancer, death & upheaval. We want peace of mind above all else, especially since she's the sole supporter of her family & because of the age of her children.

    Your very last statement makes a lot of sense & I will certainly try to calm down & keep that in mind. But from my experience with him in my walk, I trust her doctor very much, so I will have to take whatever he says next Friday very seriously. He is in his sixties, the father of 4 girls, very knowledgeable about breast oncology (that's all he does), conservative in his approach towards mx, but the safety of his patients is his priority & his practice is his ministry...a unique doctor these days who isn't after the money.

    Thank you again for your input; having all these different experiences & perspectives to learn from is so very helpful. My very best wishes for you in your journey with this in the months & years ahead.



  • queenmomcat
    queenmomcat Member Posts: 3,039
    edited August 2015

    Nothing to add in regards treatment--just a sympathetic ear. All my best wishes to your daughter! There's not always a right choice, just one we can live with.

  • noni458
    noni458 Member Posts: 18
    edited August 2015

    Thanks Queenmomcat....can't ever have too many of those. Best wishes to you too as you deal with this. :)

  • ballet12
    ballet12 Member Posts: 981
    edited August 2015

    Hi Noni, with regard to reliable information on the internet on DCIS, I would trust the National Cancer Institute's information. You can get the more technical version by stating that you are a medical professional. The other most reliable source for diagnosis and treatment of DCIS is the National Comprehensive Cancer Network (NCCN) guidelines for treatment. These materials are produced by the top MD's from NCI-affiliated institutions and teaching hospitals.

    After my initial lumpectomy, I had no clean margins in any direction. I proceeded to have two more lumpectomies to achieve the clean margins and was successful with that. I also had the high grade DCIS with comedonecrosis.

    Your daughter's situation is higher risk than most, in that she is only 36 years old. That is one of the risk factors for recurrence. If you want to get a very very general idea of her recurrence risk, you could go to the Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center DCIS nomogram, and plug in her numbers. You might not be able to do that yet, because she hasn't yet achieved clean margins, but you could play with it--pretending that the margins would be achieved with one or two additional re-excisions, adding on radiation and hormonal therapy and see what numbers you get--you would also plug in her age, etc. This works for lumpectomies only, not for recurrence risk post mastectomy. My recurrence risk is estimated to be 12 percent (50 percent of which would still be DCIS recurrence), which doesn't seem too high to me, actually, but risk tolerance is a very personal thing.

    Finally, I would absolutely trust her surgeon, and you are right, with large amounts of DCIS, IDC can show up in the pathology from a mastectomy. Of course, IDC can unknowingly be present after a lumpectomy, but that's the purpose of doing radiation.

    Is she having an MRI before you make these decisions? I would think that would be important.

  • CAMommy
    CAMommy Member Posts: 437
    edited August 2015

    Recurrence is not the same as survival. Keep that in mind. The risk or dying is the same from lumpectomy plus rads or mastectomy.

  • noni458
    noni458 Member Posts: 18
    edited August 2015

    ballet12,

    Thank you so much for the information on reliable sources; I will definitely check it & the nomogram out, post haste. No one has mentioned MRI yet, but we haven't had her post op meeting with the oncologist yet. I will certainly ask him when we do & thank you for mentioning it. As to risk tolerance...mine, at this point (being still in the "just go away, this can't be real phase") is a big fat ZERO! All I care about is my daughter being here, with no recurrence & not consumed with cancer fears; enjoying life with her family until she's a very old lady.

    Thanks again for the help; I hope you are well & enjoying life. :)

  • noni458
    noni458 Member Posts: 18
    edited August 2015

    Thanks CAMommy...I will TRY to keep that in mind, in my hysterical mom state of mind. But survival & dying are terms I can't even begin to wrap my head around about at this early phase...I'm shooting for no chance of recurrence (as unrealistic as that may be) & hoping she will do whatever it takes to come as close to achieving that as possible. And if that means saying goodbye to a sagging boob...I hope she says good-bye, whether it's overkill or not ! This is a strictly terror stricken, 100% emotional response of course...hopefully I will regain something that passes for rational thought in the next few weeks.

    Thanks again for your feedback...I need people to attempt to calm me down.


  • ballet12
    ballet12 Member Posts: 981
    edited August 2015

    Hi noni, the NY Times opinion page (don't still have the reference) had a follow up opinion piece after the larger DCIS article (Narod study). The opinion piece said that anxiety and fear of recurrence are actually relevant and important in considering treatment decisions for DCIS. Of course, as I'm sure you have gleaned from all of the material you have read, there are real pros and cons to the move to mastectomy and reconstruction. Although I opted for lumpectomy (three of them), I was more fearful of reconstruction than mastectomy, itself, as I came close to needing an mx (after three lumpies). One of the things your daughter should do, is to have a consultation with a plastic surgeon, prior to making any decisions. She'll get an idea of what is involved. I was also fortunate to be able to see implants and to actually palpate the breasts of two individuals who had had the implants. That was very helpful in my decision-making process.

  • noni458
    noni458 Member Posts: 18
    edited August 2015

    Hi ballet12...thanks for the input again. Good to know our fears are relevant & that was a good suggestion about talking with a plastic surgeon before she makes a decision. It does appear to be more complicated than I first thought, based on experiences from friends who have gone through it, who said it was a piece of cake. Just as everything in life, there is no way of knowing how the procedure will turn out for each individual, so she needs to gain all the information she can & consider all her options carefully. So many things to consider...it is a bit overwhelming & this has happened so fast. Only 2 weeks ago she innocently went to have a baseline mammogram, just as a precaution because of her paternal family history, & wham...here we are facing mastectomies, reconstruction, worries about recurrence & all of it. Life...you just never know what's going to hit you next!

    Thank you & all the others for taking the time to help educate me in this experience...you've all been very helpful & caring & I do so appreciate it.

  • LAstar
    LAstar Member Posts: 1,574
    edited August 2015

    noni458, I had to have MX due to two unsuccessful lumpectomies with involved margins. Because I had large breasts, I chose BMX for symmetry and I had flap reconstruction. Reconstruction is a big undertaking and finding the right plastic surgeon is key (my local PS had injured several women in my hometown so I chose to travel for reconstructive surgery). One option is to get the MX and have reconstruction later when her children are a little older. She can see if reconstruction is important to her and have a much faster recovery now. Also, I had a complication with my flap reconstruction that required more surgery. I thought of my breasts as a "matched set" and if one had to go, they both had to go. However, that doubles the risk of complications. Having a unilateral MX means that one arm is still strong and recovery is much easier. Out of all my difficult decisions, I think that the only one I would do differently is the bilateral MX. Best wishes to your daughter with these difficult decisions! She is lucky to have such an engaged caregiver.

  • Nocalmom
    Nocalmom Member Posts: 21
    edited August 2015

    Hi there-

    One resource that has been invaluable to me in terms of calming me down about my DCIS is Dr. Laura Esserman at UCSF. Google her and read everything she has to say. I cut and pasted quotes from her into my phone and referred to it often before my surgery and will continue to as I heal and begin putting all of this behind me. Keep in mind she is THE leading expert in this field. She wrote an excellent op-ed on the DCIS study that came out recently that also helped soothe my nerves. Dr. Robert Laggios (google him too) is another resource who provides a consulting service to women with DCIS because there is so much variation in opinion among the medical community about how to best diagnose and treat this 'disease'. Best wishes to you and your daughter.


  • noni458
    noni458 Member Posts: 18
    edited September 2015

    LAstar,

    Thank you for sharing your experience. I have been thinking she is being too quick to automatically want bilateral with her financial situation & her children being so young too. I will share this with her when the appropriate time comes, after we have met with her doctor Friday. Thank you again...I hope this finds you totally healed & well.


  • noni458
    noni458 Member Posts: 18
    edited September 2015

    Nocalmom,

    Thank you too for sharing these resources...I will definitely check them out. So much to learn & such important decisions to be made. I hope you are doing well too. Thank you again, so much.

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