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  • Positive_spirit
    Positive_spirit Member Posts: 218
    edited May 2015

    Thinking about Stephmoen, lemonadehk, Rockerwife, Marla, and Andrea - sending you all a big hug!! Being sick beyond the SE is awful. Hydrate and rest up.

    I am inspired by the support and love in this group. Gosh, I am lucky to be among you wonderful sisters from across the world. Each time I learn something new and navigate through a chemo/cancer hurdle ...I feel victorious.

    My baldness is patchy but I like my scarves and was told I look cool!! I also have soreness in my palms which got better when iced - does not sting as much as yesterday. Thanks for the tips on this which allowed me to read up some more.

    Happy Mother's Day all around. I will be heading for AC Chemo #3 on Monday morning in Boston. My brother is coming in for a few days to help out. DH is going in with me as per the norm. Kids pick up and drop off is arranged. Phew...one more chemo after Monday.

  • thsizit7
    thsizit7 Member Posts: 35
    edited May 2015

    SueH58 - PHT is Perjeta, Herceptin, Taxotere

    It's my understanding that this combination has had a much greater success rate against HER2 coming back than some of the other regimens.

    The oncologist in my group conferred with other Drs throughout the country and they decided this would be the best regimen for my situation. I did a little research on my own and was excited with the statistics.

    As we all do, I just want to be cancer free and be able to go on with my life. I will do whatever it takes to reach that goal.

    Hope you have a great weekend!


  • ksusan
    ksusan Member Posts: 4,505
    edited May 2015

    Rockerwife, thinking of you and hoping you're back home soon.

  • slv58
    slv58 Member Posts: 1,216
    edited May 2015

    Rockerwife I hope your resting comfortably, positive thoughts your way.

    Ladies I'm getting a power port put in on the 20th - I have a picc line now and hate showering with it plus I want to go swimming this summer. Is there any leeway to where they place it so it won't be so noticeable or is it governed by anatomy? Any tips?

    I hope everyone has a wonderful Mothers Day filled with love!

  • Stephmoen
    Stephmoen Member Posts: 563
    edited May 2015

    I HATE CANCER that's how I'm feeling today

  • Alibeths
    Alibeths Member Posts: 656
    edited May 2015

    rockermom, so sorry your in the hospital!!!! What happened?! Ugh. Hope u r home soon. Xo

  • Rockerwife
    Rockerwife Member Posts: 63
    edited May 2015

    I wrote a postwith the pic and IDK where it went ? Sorry. There is a funny spelling mistake in the pic. Can you see it? They decided to keep me over night because they ran three Tropopnin tests and 1/3 had elevated levels that meant possibly something wrong with my heart. The other two were perfect. I am on a heart monitor, had an echo done. I still think it was a reaction to the massive rise in WBC counts from 7 days worth of Neupogen that caused my heart to race and me to get dizzy and lightheaded . I doubt my Onc will buy that. I track everything and I know that after shot four I had heart palpitations . It continued with each shot and then the lightheadness kicked it. Neupogen can cause heart racing in rare cases. I will see what the dr on duty today says about my theory. Oh and the want me to do a treadmill stress test. It is the weekend and they don't do that until Monday . I hope they let me go home and then do out patient for that. I don't wan to stay here until Monday

  • gkodad
    gkodad Member Posts: 188
    edited May 2015

    slv58 - Power port.  My doctor said right side at clavicle is preferable, as it's a shorter route to artery.  That suited me, as I'm left-handed, and I do notice it when I move my arm to the left.  But when I signed the release, I also signed for left side if right was not possible.  No explanation as to what constituted "not possible" . 

  • lovlilynne
    lovlilynne Member Posts: 405
    edited May 2015

    Lisa - Treadmeal? Is that a new hot breakfast cereal??? LOL. Sorry, not funny that you are in the hospital. I'm glad tests are ok so far.

    Shari, my PP is at about arm pit height above right breast. The incision scar is starting to fade, and you cannot see the port at all. The other incision at my neck has taken longer to heal (because they forgot to take out my stitches), so it is red, but you cannot see the other end. I have on a v neck t shirt right now, and the port is almost completely covered.

    Kristy, I feel like you do, but I get a little sad/depressed when I realize that I will now *always* have this with me - "survivor" or not, I have now had cancer and a life-threatening illness, and that has changed my health forever. It won't define me, but it will always be part of who I am, and I wish that I could change that.

    Lynne


  • allicat1214
    allicat1214 Member Posts: 84
    edited May 2015

    Hi Ladies!

    Happy Mother's Day weekend to all of us! So sorry to hear about those in hospital and having major SEs. Praying that you recover quickly!

    I have made it 8 days past TC #2. First time I ended up in ER & hospital from days 4-6 due to high fever. I stayed well hydrated and kept track on my Fitbit this time around. So far so good.

    But I am having a few common side effects this time around (brittle nails, tender fingertips and toes,) but also a few weird symptoms that I wanted to share with others:

    -mouth pain/sores plus SORE TEETH: I knew about mouth issues and have been rinsing with salt water, but hadn't heard about sore teeth. It hurts to eat crunchy things. Anybody else?

    -rash on head: I shaved my head (or rather my DD20 ;-) ) on day 15 after TC#1 because hair was falling out in chunks. But there's still a stubble there and it ITCHES. Looked in mirror and there's a rash of small red bumps... I only wear wigs on occasion and am mostly home going commando. Anybody else with an itchy head?

    Anyway, just wanted to check with ya'll.... have a great weekend and take care!!

    Allison

  • Rpayton
    Rpayton Member Posts: 235
    edited May 2015

    Allison: I got the itchy red scalp after chemo one. I had shaved my head a few days before. Chemo cocktail gave me folliculitis. I had to see my MO who put me on antibiotic. I would definitely call your Dr.as you don't want to risk infection developing. I hope it all gets better fast! It is a pretty miserable symptom.

  • greenae
    greenae Member Posts: 540
    edited May 2015

    allicat

    Wash your scalp with Dove Liquid Soap. I use extra moisture. Scrub and it will feel so good and loosen hairs that need to go. Dont buzz or shave too short. I just finished TC #3 and the little hair I have is about 3/4", and no more itching or tingling. If ur scalp is red and bumpy, def call MO.

    My teeth felt weird, too. I was afraid to wear my nightguard, thought it might pull my teeth out. Put a water bottle in bathroom with 1tsp baking soda and 1 tsp salt. Rinse every time u go in There. It really helps. Use Biotene toothpaste and mouthwash. And Brachs Lemon drops will make the metal taste go away.

    Good luck and hugs to all!

    SEs SUCK!

    Love

    Arlene

  • ksusan
    ksusan Member Posts: 4,505
    edited May 2015

    My jaw and teeth hurt, starting when I get Neulasta, and recurring for unknown reasons a few times between each chemo.

    My scalp is sensitive and I get some red spots (I went very short but not buzzed bald). Using a tea tree cleansing wipe seems to clear it up.

  • gkodad
    gkodad Member Posts: 188
    edited May 2015

    Same on the head...just a short hair cut, but I have a couple of super sensitive spots.  My hair hasn't started to fall out, but it hurts to brush, so I'm thinking it's about to start shedding. 

    Also scratched the roof of my mouth with a piece of toast [seriously...toast?? Potato chips I would understand] and now my whole mouth seems to be very sensitive.  I'm swishing salt and baking soda water every time I go to the bathroom, so hopefully things will settle down.

  • slv58
    slv58 Member Posts: 1,216
    edited May 2015

    Thank you gkodad and Lovlilynne, I had immediate diep on my right side and know that the tissue goes pretty high up- can they put the port on the left side?


  • littleblueflowers
    littleblueflowers Member Posts: 2,000
    edited May 2015

    How are you doing Rocker? Hope they let you go home...praying for you right now!

  • sheshe3
    sheshe3 Member Posts: 70
    edited May 2015

    Happy Mothers Day to all you lovely ladies. I'm sorry to hear so many not doing well.

    Rockerwife, wow! Scary stuff! Fearing heart damage. I pray they find everything is good and no damage done!

    Fran, lucky you with such a sweet son! I hope your eye problem resolves soon. That just sounds awful with all the other SEs we have to deal with!

    I'm in my good week right now and will visit the chemo bar on Thursday. Mostly just having a bit of fatigue if I over do...

    Let's all have a great day tomorrow and soak up the lovin'. It's our day!

  • littleblueflowers
    littleblueflowers Member Posts: 2,000
    edited May 2015

    To all the moms out there, enjoy your day tomorrow! I don't know what I'd do without my wonderful mother and mother in law taking care of me through this, I love them so much! I hope some day I can have children to love and raise as well. Thank you, mothers, for all you do.

  • AnewBeginning
    AnewBeginning Member Posts: 536
    edited May 2015

    HAPPY MOTHERS DAY TO ALL YOU WONDERFUL MOMS

    Hope everyone feels good enough to enjoy Mothers Day with family and friends.

    (((hugs)))

  • mamajencoz
    mamajencoz Member Posts: 52
    edited May 2015

    hi all. I haven't been here for a while so I figured I'd stop in to say hello and update on me. I had ac#3 on Monday and it's been a rough week for me. I felt like I had a bad hangover that night and slept a lot. Tuesday morning wasn't too bad but sunk into the headache yuck by evening. Got my shot then came home to bed. I had broken sleep for the next 3 days. Sleeping about 2 hours then up for 2. Body pain for the first 24 hours was horrible! And I even took Claritin! Then it was icky stomach, heartburn, unable to eat much or sleep despite my feeling of exhaustion. It's now Sunday morning and I'm just now feeling ok. At this point I have no idea how I can go through this again even if it is ONLY 1 more time before moving onto weekly Taxol. I'm petrified about getting Taxol, and the though of more side effects. It's hard to remember that cancer is the enemy and not the Chemotherapy at this point. I know I really shouldn't complain compared to some of your SE but this sucks! Today is Mother's Day and I should be in a great mood (5 kids and a granddaughter I'm blessed with) but I'm all weepy today. (Sigh)

  • slv58
    slv58 Member Posts: 1,216
    edited May 2015

    Wishing much love and health to all the Moms! My "babies" are my life and am so grateful to them for bringing me such joy through my life!

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  • gkodad
    gkodad Member Posts: 188
    edited May 2015

    Port placement, slv58.  Talk to your doctor about the placement.  Obviously it can go on the left, although that requires a little more surgical effort to get where they want it to go.  Things I've learned since my port installation 3 weeks ago.   No one really discussed these prior to the installation, but if you have time to think about it....

    1.  Depending the side of your port and your seat in the car, your seatbelt almost always falls over it just enough to be annoying.   If you drive a lot, the left side port will be more of annoyance.  If you are mostly in the passenger seat, the right side port is more of an annoyance.   Maybe that eases with time.  I'm planning to concoct a "seatbelt pillow" to cushion my port.  Here's a video

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JHp3ZJUMQxE 

    2.  Placement is high and right on my chest, close to my shoulder, so it isn't visible under t-shirts, even V-necks.   Side shouldn't make a difference.  My bra strap doesn't bother it, but my bathing suit strap drives it crazy.  Right now, I skip the bathing suit and just wear an spf50 long-sleeved swim tee and swim shorts in the pool.

    3.  My port is on the same side as my current mastectomy, BUT I'm left handed and I've had a double mx.  I was concerned that anything could add to my risk of lymphedema, and I want to do everything I can to keep the issue on the non-dominant side.  Maybe an unnecessary concern.  However, the tender flesh made the port installation a little more painful. 

    4.  I can't sleep on the port side as it's uncomfortable.  I still can't sleep on the mx side.  For me that's the same side, but if the surgery is on one side and the port on the other, you may be sleeping on your back for a while...my least favorite way to sleep.

    Hope this helps.  I'm sure others who have had ports longer have some additional thoughts.

  • lovlilynne
    lovlilynne Member Posts: 405
    edited May 2015

    Shari, your family is beautiful. Enjoy your day. As gkodad says, yes, you can have it on the left, they will probably advise you of the best choice.

    mamajancoz, thanks for checking in. I have to say that Prilosec has been a lifesaver for me with #2. I have some indigestion - probably about the same as what I had before chemo, but almost no nausea, and about a 95% reduction in burping.

    I keep meaning to recommend to you all the Outshine no sugar added frozen fruit bars: http://www.outshinesnacks.com/products/bars/strawb...

    I wanted to try the "Popsicle" during chemo thing, but I am not an ice person at all (not even in beverages unless they would be totally warm without it). I also didn't want to consume 100s of calories in sugar water for the Popsicles, and I wanted to avoid artificial sweetener if possible. These are only 25 calories each. I have only been able to find the strawberry, raspberry, tangerine variety pack, but they are all good.

    Lynne



  • littleblueflowers
    littleblueflowers Member Posts: 2,000
    edited May 2015

    Mamajen, I am right there with you sister. Its getting to me as well, all the side effects, exaustion, tummy upset, being bald....ugh. I hate cancer so much! I love my sisters here though....thank you all....

  • littleblueflowers
    littleblueflowers Member Posts: 2,000
    edited May 2015

    who would have thought that a cover of I won't back down by Kris Kristofferson would be the theme for today. Well, I won't back down. And I will stand my ground. Who is with me?

  • slv58
    slv58 Member Posts: 1,216
    edited May 2015

    Thank you ladies, last time I had a picc with no problems but had it during the winter mo the. After finding out I could swim with a port ( I didn't know) I was quickly granted one. I'm a bit nervous of the possibility of it being constantly uncomfortable but the thought of loosing another summer because of cancer bugs me more. I guess I'm a bit worried of them putting it on the right dude because I just had diep there and font want yo compromise my flap. I'm going to ask on wed. when I'm there for chemo

  • Beachbum1023
    Beachbum1023 Member Posts: 1,417
    edited May 2015

    slv58, I have a power port and I lost all last summer to chemo. I am very happy to go swimming this year so worth it! I do keep a little stuffed puppy in my car, he rides under my seat belt to keep the strap off my chest. Other than that, I do not have issues with my port. Ask for a script for lidocaine to cover the port with 1 hour before they access it. It numbs it and you won't feel a thing! Huge bonus!


    There is a light at the end of this tunnel, you got this! Hugs, Cheryl

  • gkodad
    gkodad Member Posts: 188
    edited May 2015

    Shari, I didn't mean to imply the port is uncomfortable all the time, because it isn't.  Just in specific situations.  For me, minor annoyance is worth being able to swim [more like paddle, but still relaxing].   I was able to get in the pool two weeks after installation.  That's just a ten days ago, but that was "BC" [before chemo], so everything before that seems like it happened in the distant past. 

    Beachbum 1023, I like the "port puppy" for the car.  Maybe that's a better solution than pulling out the sewing machine.

    Also want to say the baking soda/salt solution seems to do the trick for sore/tender mouth.  I woke up this morning with a normal mouth.  So I'll continue swishing and spitting every trip through the bathroom.

  • Rockerwife
    Rockerwife Member Posts: 63
    edited May 2015

    The doctor agreed to discharge me even though the Echocardiogram results were not in yet. I still have to go back for a treadmill stress test this week. I have a sneaky suspicion that the Neupogen is still the cause. Making my bone marrow work overtime to produce those 23,000 Neutrophils had to have put strain on my heart making it work harder. I certainly do not want to go through that again. So, no one knows anything or why this happened. Glad to be home and thank you for all the prayers. Happy Mother's Day Ladies.💜😘

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